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Disabled anon looking for love 2017-03-14 08:28:29 Post No.18126508
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Disabled anon looking for love
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Hello /adv/,
I am a completely physically disabled twenty-six-year-old man who is housebound without assistance. I live with my dad and I have a very loving family that keeps me going, and two caregivers who help out for eight hours a day. I have a wheelchair which lets me go out onto the world but I pretty need help getting anywhere Because it's a manual chair (fuck dem cheap ass insurance companies).
Anyway, I have recently been thinking that I didn't want to die without knowing what it feels like to be in a relationship with a woman. Obviously I don't want to die a virgin, but it's also a factor of feeling lonely as well. My question is: is it realistic for me to expect the chance of actually meeting someone emotionally connect with online? Should I even bother? Or should I an hero? thanks for feedback.
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date another disabled person?
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Go to Nevada and hire a prostitute.
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Its always possible but doubtful. Especially if you are talking online. If you are going to find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you then you need them to be attracted to your personality which is not going to come across well on the internet.
How disabled are we talking here? Can't move anything below your neck or are you Stephen Hawking tier can only move one finger and can't speak?
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Soooo i have been thinking recently why i am still single. i came to a conclusion that it is due to me being "weak" in terms of all area. i get that girls like "strong" guys so i will just resign to fate that i will never be enough for anyone. The hardest part of being single is that my minds keep hoping that one day i will be able to find the "one" that will accept me but in reality it is not going to happen. I do fap which helps to relieve some of the stress but recently i have realized i am still hungry for more intimacy from the opposite sex and fapping doesnt help anymore. This is effecting my emotions, wasting my time thinking about the useless stuff which i will never have. I just want to get rid of this irritating feeling. I tried doing hobbies, activities but it would only last for that period of time before it strikes back again. I am 24 in some nerd course and hobby if that helps to support my situation.
tl;dr - guy whining about coping with being single.
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>>18125958
When you say "weak" guy do you mean like you are physically weak and small or do you mean you have a timid/submissive personality?
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>>18125968
Generally everything (studies/earning/gaming). I am skinny and mediocre height i guess in term of physical.
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>>18125977
You can fix the physical weakness by working out. Your career and hobby doesnt really determine whether you are weak or not. I used to play online games alot, RuneScape and League specifically. It felt like I was wasting my life away, I quit games entirely and started working out and focusing on my career. I made new friends and took up new less time consuming hobbies. Idk how you will feel but I feel 100x better than I did before I started to change things. Good luck OP
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why do guys stop talking to me when i start talking about my problems? even if its the first time i mention it, they just get annoyed instantly. is this with all guys or unlucky?
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Just keep on telling guys your problems until you find a guy that wants to talk about your problems
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>>18128336
yeah but i have like zero friends....i guess it doesnt matter as long as they dont waste my rtime...literally all of the guys on my fb friends list stopped talking to me after i talk about my problems...horrible human beings..
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>>18128329
how soon into meeting someone do you start talking about them?
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About to graduate in June with a BS in Biochemistry. What do I do now?
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>>18128149
Shitpost on >>>/sci/
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Alright OP, background first. Biochemistry is a broad field that can lead to many paths, the largest being the medical sciences.
What lead you to bio in the first place?
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>>18128154
technically school related
i dont know if i should get a job or go to grad school
>>18128155
I really like science. I'm more of a chemist by trade. I've had less than 20 units of actual biochem courses.
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23/m i am a virgin and would like to change that i have no problem talking to girls but do have a problem getting girlfriends or initiating sex could i get some advice it would be appreciated
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>>18128088
Shave the ultra beard for starters.
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lower your standards and train
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>>18128105
Train how
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My dick lately is usually very dry which is weird since I'm uncut and sometimes when I want to pee I can't pull back the foreskin because it is glued to the penis tip, although if I lube it with water it goes back smoothly. Why is this happening to me? I wash my dick with water everyday.
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>>18127871
Shameless self bump. Pls help
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>>18127871
drink water you dehydrated fuck
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>>18127909
I drink water every hour. It doesn't help. What the fuck is wrong with me?
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Restraining order trial coming up 2017-03-14 09:22:24 Post No.18127728
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Restraining order trial coming up
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Please forgive me for breaking any rules, I'm panicking right now and I need help
>have trial on Monday for restraining order from crazy ex
>during restraining order, she blackmailed me into talking to her saying that she would kill herself or call the police if I didn't talk to her
>have no proof of this
What can I do? Is there anything I can do? I live in Massachusetts if that helps any
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>>18127728
Bump, please fucking help me
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You're fucked if you don't have evidence, especially if she never actually attempted suicide
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>>18127742
Please
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Should I spend my twenties having fun adventures and travelling or building a high powered career? Which one should someone sacrifice?
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Since you said "high powered" go travel.
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>>18127627
Are you complaining about the lack of a hyphen?
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>>18127618
Fun and adventure. You never know when tragedy might hit and you've wasted away your prime years focusing on your bank account. When you turn 30, there will be less friends around, you might have kids, you just won't have the flexibility to leave your career behind for a couple of weeks to spend all of the money you've saved up.
My perspective is a little skewed because I've had a lot of death in my life lately, and one of the nicest guys I know is in critical condition in the hospital right now because someone was driving on the wrong side of the freeway. Life is short, and on your death bed, are you going to regret that you didn't experience more, or that you didn't spend enough time in the office filling up your bank account?
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What should I do with my hair?
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Looks good to me as is.
Maybe dye it a darker color.
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Why are you looking off in the distance? Going for the artsy look?
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>>18127475
Dye your hair and eyebrows (do not use hair dye on brows, use beard or brow dye). Shave peach fuzz off lip.
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I want to ask a girl out but I'm afraid I'm doing it wrong, I was going to just straight up ask her if she wanted to go to a restaurant but I've heard in the past people say you're supposed to do it another way and I'm not sure.
Here's roughly what I was gonna text:
>Hey I was thinking, on Friday I could head over to your place and we could catch an Uber to [restaurant a guy let us both sample] and get lunch, on like a date, how about it?
Is this good? Any suggestions?
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>>18127429
Don't make it so long winded, just say something like "Want to grab a drink on Saturday?", restaurants are a bit far on the first date imo.
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>>18127436
So
>Wanna get lunch on Friday?
and talk the logistics later?
>"Want to grab a drink on Saturday?", restaurants are a bit far on the first date imo.
She's 18 so not old enough to drink and that aside it's a casual place and just lunch but I haven't actually dated before so I can't really talk.
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>>18127450
Ok, well I've been on dates where we went to a cafe so maybe a casual place like that would work.
And yeah, you need her to say yes before talking logistics.
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Am I autistic or something /adv/? This will be largely about videogames so bear with me.
>can't play some games i used to enjoy anymore because of serious self insert issues, or something else
>won't play a female, because i'm not a female - this extends to games where classes are locked to genders, and the result is that i very very rarely even try out those classes
>will rarely/experimentally play with magic, because it doesn't exist in real life
>will avoid to use science-y things unless it's part of the core game, because i'm not intelligent in real life
>feel stuck playing as either "stealthy dexterity" or "raging strength" and i don't know which one "i am", because whichever i pick at the time is meant to "represent who i am in the game" or some shit, it's unexplainable but i'm high on antidepressants which is probably why i'm even here right now
>literally can't enjoy a game if i'm not currently in the mindset that fits it, and i will only play the specific characters that do fit at the moment
>say, team fortress 2
>if i feel like today i'm a "str" guy, i'll only play soldier, demo and heavy
>if it's the other, i only play scout, spy and sniper
>in WoW, i literally quit playing multiple times because i can't grasp a class that "is literally me"
just kill me
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>>18127404
No, that's normal, you are more likely to enjoy a game if it reflects yourself. Don't worry about it mang.
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>>18127419
What he Said, I also do some things on that list. Don't worry OP
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>>18127421
It doesn't feel normal at all. How is any of it normal? If I were to ask pretty much anyone I know the same thing, they'd roll their eyes and talk about another subject right away over how fucking stupid I sound.
I've posted this 3 times on different sites and told this at least 10 times before so tell me if anything doesn't make sense.
>22
>have masters in cs
>got a good job
>bought a house
>had a relationship 3 years ago, don't feel like I'm missing out on too much
>felt empty
>got a therapist
>"find something to do you enjoy"
>built a gaming pc to play videogames like when I was in highschool
>empty
>learned to play piano like I've always wanted to
>empty
>therapist said I had issues with content, I dropped her in disbelief and according to reddit she was a bad therapist anyway.
>reddit said I was probably lonely
>watched a movie with coworker and 3 friends from highschool
>was great but the thrill wore off as soon as I drove home
>other forum board showed me a speech by john ortberg "what matters"
>Goto church for 3 weeks
>got a strong sense of motivation and happiness
>later I decide the concept of believing without reason isnt for me
Now what? I'm considering that I have a mental condition but does no one else feel emptiness? Outside of the greed for materialistic things, is there something you know you're missing?
I strongly feel that going to a modern church was a step in the right direction, but I can't bring myself to believe in a god. (given the current theories of the universe, theres a solid coinflip that a superior being could exist, but whose to say it even recognizes our existence?)
I've posted this so many times I don't even have a single question anymore. I'm missing something.
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start to drink
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>>18127329
Find a hobby that you like. You don't like piano or video games, try drawing or playing another instrument or learning a foreign language, etc. Personally, the only thing that keeps me going is my love of learning.
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>>18127329
Try LSD.
It'll probably help you figure out how your mind/ego works and what's missing.
how can i become a feminine girl if i dont have the genes for it .
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Are you male or female?
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You have dsl what's more feminine than that?
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>>18127234
female
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Computer science student, 3rd year. Pretty successful too, working a job while studying and got a lot of friends and great social life and i always feel that something's missing. I feel so lazy even tho im pretty successful and that's on my mind all the time. For example, attending lectures on my uny is not mandatory and i never go because im too lazy to sit there and listen to professor since i'll have to go through that same shit myself and i always pass all of my exams even tho i dont go to a single lecture whole semestar.
It's hard to explain what's on my mind but pretty much i think its laziness since i know im really smart and will be able to pull out successfuly no matter what if you know what i mean.. Anyone with a similar situation?
tldr; pretty successful but have unused potential to be great, how do i use that potential in full scale
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>>18127175
how do you define success? what do your friends say about you? how about your work ethic?
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>>18127193
Id say im the same as most of my friends when it comes to studying, mostly before exams but they arent so lazy as me with attending lectures at uny i think.
I have the same problem with my job. I got great conditions, flexible work time, can study anything i want and get paid for it but I, basically cant appreciate it and cant find motivation to force myself to go to work everyday.. I really cant define the real reason for this but i suspect its laziness. Its like i cant find motivation to do something through and through and tend to procastinate instead due to inability to focus and get stuff done
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How hard does comp sci get? I'm going back as an older student to study it, but I'm just in intro courses now. I'm a bit afraid of what lies ahead.
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How do I get over my ex? It's been almost two months since she dumped me and i'm still crying every few days. I never used to be this emotional. Tried PoF, Tinder, and OKC but I live in a small town and got no responses. I don't even think I should be looking for someone yet and should be working on improving myself anyways. I want to be strong and I want to move on but I can't stop thinking about the future we lost and getting back in contact with her. I don't have many close friends and I put almost all my time into the relationship so I think this has really shown me how empty my life is.
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You ever smoke pot and jack off thinking about her?
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>>18127117
If you're not going to try contacting her, move on.
>>18127138
Lol. I don't recommend this.
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>>18127155
I think contacting her would be a bad idea. I told her I never wanted to talk to her again and this would take away any impact that had. I also feel very guilty for things I did wrong during the relationship and want to apologize for them. Thinking of writing a letter but I know if I contact her it'll only prolong the pain.