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Hello fellas, I'm having some recent trouble with my gf of 4 months.
First she doesn't act as sweet or affectionate as she used too. Like a month ago it was all normal, now she's kinda distant, and doesn't even want to hang out or see me as much.
Another thing is she tells me she's "uncomfortable" with me. I ask her and she "doesn't know", or "I'll get over it". I ask what "it" is, and she says she doesn't know. I ask her, and bring up all these things but she doesn't know(she won't tell me is my theory).
Info: she's a virgin, she loves working, and is pretty quiet, and is loyal. She did admit to me she purposefully sabatoged her last relationship because she didn't want to outright break up with him, so she used trickery to distance each other and find a good reason to break up.
Halp
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It's ogre, find another girl that doesn't pull dumbass mind games.
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>She did admit to me she purposefully sabatoged her last relationship because she didn't want to outright break up with him, so she used trickery to distance each other and find a good reason to break up.
You answered your own goddamn question
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>>18533092
>>18533099
That's what I'm afraid of. I think I'm in denial, despite actually recognizing I'm in denial. Idk guys
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>>18533092
>>18533099
She also has said that she still wants to be with me. Because I got a bit insecure and asked, and she said she still does, and gave me a nice goodnight message thing
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>>18533086
Break up with her. Just be polite about it. I'm going to be honest with you; by the way she's acting, she wants to break up with you but is uncomfortable with asking. So do it instead, your heart will hurt less, but you need to rip off the bandaid before she fucks up and hurts you.
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>>18533267
I get you but why would she tells me she still wants to be with me? I figured if she didn't, that'd be the perfect time yknow
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>>18533363
you'd think, but she's telling you what she thinks you want to hear to keep from hurting you.
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>>18533376
maybe so man. I'd told her that she's treating me badly, and I think she'd know she's hurting me right now
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>>18533400
Had a similar experience, it's just not worth it. Better to find someone who actually cares about your feelings and doesn't put you through this bullshit.
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>>18533451
I appreciate the help friendo
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ask her "do you still want to be with me? If not lets break up now so we dont waste our time. I want to be with you but if you dont feel the same way its fine."
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>>18533571
did this once. turns out she was into me and didn't want to end it but was scared off by that and decided to just let it go
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>>18533580
when i say "let it go" i meant out relationship
or should i say relationshit...
haha.. :(
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>>18533584
try to fuck her asap
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>>18533571
well I don't want >>18533580 to happen. I really don't want to out right break up either in case she finally opens up and tells me the problem, so we can fix it
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>>18533591
honestly sounds like either a lost cause or she is fucked at making decisions. id say give her an ultimatum but like i said there is always a possibility she's just dealing with some weird indecisive episode. if you want my advice, from one bro to the next, end it before you get hurt.
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>>18533589
that was quite a while ago, im no longer single, well as far away as autism can get from single..
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>>18533611
Giving ultimatums are childish. Relationships are already considered to be destroyed if ultimatums appear.
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>>18533623
hence why i said honestly at that point you should cut your losses and get out. ultimatums are childish, but you know what is more childish than ultimatums? stringing someone on because you're too afraid to hurt them, and in the long run causing more pain for the both of you.
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>>18533623
sorry, that sounded a bit aggressive ):
i didnt mean it like that, im just bad at phrasing things passively
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>>18533092
this guy gets it
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