ITT: ask the opposite gender anything you know the drill

Recieved an accident snap from my gf in bed with another guy.

So like any man with dignity, I'll off myself. The question is, literally where do I stick the blade?

My question to women: what do older women (upper 20s-30) prefer sexually older or younger men?

How many times would you let your partner hurt you emotionally before you stopped forgiving them.

My GF has hurt me 3 times now, one of which was quite badly. I know that she's a good person, and I understand the reasoning behind all of her decisions. However, when she gets stressed she's prone to making decisions that hurt the people around her. I'm really in love with her and want to believe that she'll learn from her mistakes but I'm starting to worry that she could be a lost cause.

>>18532497
Jap style across the abdomen

>>18532497

Shit that sucks.

Mate, just live your live as simply as you can. Don't let this drag you down and move on from that bitch.

If that doesn't work, find an escort who doesn't mind taking and sharing pics of happy clientele.
And do unto others as they did to you.
Shit, get three of them and some coke.

I don't want to your bullshit excuses, because if you're feeling suicidal, it's not like you have shit all to lose anyway.

>>18532487
Is there a surefire way to become less awkward? Doesn't matter how long it takes.

>>18532497
In her foot

>>18532497
That is, that is just awful. Like really really awful.

I would also kill myself if I ever got cucked like that.

Man of honour.

>>18532506
I'm in that age range. I like older men much more but a lot of my friends have younger boyfriends so the answer to that is people are people. Everyone has different tastes.

>>18532497
In her snatch

Not really to opposite gender, but screw it:

Guys, how do I let my mind at ease and go for a second round?

Even in my youth I was never able to move past the second orgasm, going for the third was a chore. Recently I realized that it mostly relates to how sensitive my foreskin gets, not the head, the foreskin. It gets sore easily and I get too conscious about it hurting, which takes me out of the act completly.

>inb4: jerk of to desensitize
Nope, my dick head is right on spot for sensitivity, I don't want to kill that
>inb4: doctor
Been there, used three tubes worth of cortico-steroid creams, still the same

It's mostly over a vein, and it doesn't seem to be an important one, can I remove it maybe?

>>18532497
That must be really painful. Have you tried talking to her?

>>18532543
Mine has gotten better. I have a shameful nervous twitch in social situations. Specifically when meeting new people. I went to therapy for anxiety for about 7 years as a teen through young adulthood. It helps you be mindful and positive and very logical ways, but if not practiced, it won't work.

A lot of it was taking the leap and attempting to remain cool-headed, improving confidence by taking care of myself and dressing better around people, making myself feel good before knowing I will meet new people, things like that.

I still do awkward stuff like knock things over, trip in front of people, stumble on my words and get knocked out of conversations, and I still twitch but less often. The only good thing is that I can recover from an awkward situation normally now, instead of spiraling into a complete spaz attack and almost throwing up and crying.

>>18532669
basically I went from anxious shut in, to the quirky friend. and I'll take the latter any day.

>>18532511
the timeframe is important here
my girlfriend hurt me a lot more than 3 times (although never really drastically) but it's a difference if that happened in a span of two weeks or two years

I'm willing to take any advice rn.

I'm clinically depressed I think, broke up in September.. Thought random sluts would fill the void but I still break down to this day and want her back in my life. No universities accepted me so I'm stuck as a neet in my parents house who have given up on me and people who I thought were friends havent contacted me in 3 months and went on a vacation without me. The only thing I do is play Arma with a clan who are nice to me but it feels purposeless also started working out.
I even feel like the guys on /sp/ are my friends so pathetic my life is turning.
What do /adv/ I feel like im fucking up my life hard.

Girls and guys

What do you think of someone who decides to live his life like a monk? Not in a religious point, but just choosing to not act on romantic and sexual instincts? I'm not joking about this. But I've noticed that when I don't fap for a long time, I feel like I can concentrate on everything. All I want to do is learn. I just feel so motivated to learn things now. I've also noticed since I quit fapping that food tastes better now too. It's incredible. It's like things seem so positive without thinking about girls and sex.

Guys, what do you think I should go for? I mainly want sex from dudes, but I don't just want him to use me ONLY for sex, y'know? I want to actually hang out and do shit together and if we so happen to be in the mood while doing shit, we fuck.
I don't really care about being romantic or getting emotionally involved with men, I just want to hang out like friends, play video games, and have sex.
My biggest conservation is that most dudes won't want to do the first two things with me, they'll only want to fuck which isn't what I want.

Girls. What do you mean when you call a guy cute? Am i interpreting to much in it?

>>18532668
>Talking to someone who's actively cheating on you
Unless he's telling her to kick rocks there's nothing else to be said.

>>18532782
For some girls, they can use it for like, "Awww, he's so cute, he's like a puppy!" But some girls, it's just another way of calling you attractive.

I personally use it for both and will be attracted to a guy who is cute in the puppy sense. But I also like traps, so I'm pretty weird.

>>18532782
I'm in love with someone and I tell them they're cute. I think everything they do is cute. That's just me though

>>18532780

Well, you want a friend with benefits. So, I guess you should just find a dude that you think is cool and that has common interests. Then, once you find him, you can ask him if he'd like to periodically have sex.

If he says no, then you have a new friend. And you can just repeat the process with another guy until you find one will to do FwB

>>18532782
Not a girl but it means you're attractive in a non-threatening sense, like a puppy.
No, it doesn't mean they want to fuck you. If anything they want to fuck you less than any other guy.
If you want to get laid/get a gf, you do not want to be cute.

>>18532780
Do they not have "friends with benefits" where you live?

>>18532806
>>18532804
Lemme give you a situation. If I fooled around with a dude, I'd want to say this, "Yo, wanna go to this thing? I'm not gonna fuck you, I just want to hang out with you"

And for him to go, "Okay, cool."
Not to go "We're not gonna fuck? Not interested.", ya feel?

I want to avoid dudes only wanting to hang out to fuck. I want a FRIEND who I occasionally fool around with, but I don't think I can find that if I put "Looking for FwB" on my dating profile.

>>18532823

That's why I said find a dude with common interests. Also, don't fuck every time you hang out.

But like I said. Just make a male friend who you have common interests with. Then ask him if he'd like to occasionally have sex.

>>18532835
How long do you think the probation period should be? I'm thinking 9 months, but I'm not too sure many guys will stick around that long.

>>18532842

Really? I mean, that shouldn't be an issue if you have a legit friend. But, you did say you want sex. So why even wait for 9 months?

>>18532845
How long does it take to make friends for you? 6 months?

>>18532848

I can consider someone a friend after a few weeks if I like hanging out and we have common interest. Although someone who I'd consider a close friend would take much longer

>>18532672
3 times in 2 years, but two of those times where within the span of a month.

How do i get a guy to talk more? And how do i know if a guy wants something long term with me?

>>18532955

Talk about things he likes. Show you know a bit about things he likes.

If he likes hockey. Read up about hockey and big events and players. It'll make his ears perk up if he hears you know what you're talking about.

>>18532955
Bring your goddamn opinions to the table.

Nothing pisses off more in a girl who can't keep a conversation and who doesn't have their own opinions.

I can talk all day about stupid shit but where's the fun in that. Engage and bring your own thoughts and no, if you disagree it's not the end of the fucking world, people differ learn to accept it.

Simplest way to know is to ask and see if his actions prove it.

Facials are a porn myth, right?

Just curious.

>>18533147
Not at all

>>18532635
More lube ;)

>>18532497
if you kill yourself, hes not only cucking you out of your girlfriend, hes cucking you out of life

For girls,

>meet a qt out one weekend and get her number
>text each other over the following week
>we go on a date the following weekend that goes well
>she leaves the next day to go travelling for a month
>we keep messaging for the first week but eventually the convo ends
>i dont restart the convo as i fifure shes travelling and probably wouldnt want to chat, the last message was from her saying to talk soon
>i see on snapchat she has just gotten home yesterday

If you were her would you be waiting for me to message you or would you message me when you were ready?

Is it normal for men to flirt with women out of boredom at work?

>>18533426
Just message her. What the fuck

>>18533431
Yeah everyone does

>>18532511
Don't stay with a cheater

>>18532543
Practice. Talk to people a lot. Be awkward for a while. You will improve.

>>18532681
>clinically depressed
>I think
That's not how it works.
Go see a psychiatrist if you think you're depressed.

So i know this girl...sexy as hell and fucks like an animal..problem is that she prefers like he/him pronouns. Doesn't dress like a dude or act masculine in any way but prefers to be called he/him. I find it a little weird and i was wondering if its something she might get over eventually?

>>18533147
Facial every time with everyone is a myth.

>>18533450
Sounds like she's got mental health issues. Fuck her but don't get attached.

>>18533458
Man i need to get back to dating girls my age...all the young ones seem to have problems.

>>18532497
>literally where do I stick the blade?
In her obviously, you're just gonna let her (and the guy) win by killing yourself right away? Take vengeance.

>>18532497
Don't say anything continue dating for a few weeks and gather all the revenge material you can...and then destroy her.

>>18532497
Do you really want to die as a cuck, is this your legacy?

>>18533431
It's normal for people in general to flirt out of boredom no matter what they're doing I reckon.

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Girls, legitimate question: how much licence do I have to ask my girlfriend to shave/remove her pubes? She's a bit conservative by her own choice, is involved in her church community, but isn't necessarily uninterested in sex or being sexy. I /think/ she'd be open to it but I don't really know for sure because she doesn't seem to even trim it.

We've been together 2 months now, having sex for 1 month. It's not casual. Both mid twenties.

>pic related is my dick any time I feel that crotch carpet

Is a romantic relationship really a beneficial thing in your life? Am i missing out? I'm at a crossroads and I got this urge to just fuck off to new zealand and live in a hut by myself, hunting and being a wild manly man who answers to no one. I like people but i couldnt imagine living with someone 24/7. i just need space by myself. And i feel like a lot of problems arise when you're stuck with someone for that long. You start bickering about stupid crap and who has time for that?

I finally met someone i could see myself dating, and it's all lovy dovey and nice, but the urge to be by myself is still there. So i don't know if i'd throw away a good thing or if i haven't met the right person still yet. Of course i've never been in a relationship yet so maybe i'm totally wrong about everything. I'm 23 if that helps

>>18533527
>Is a romantic relationship really a beneficial thing in your life? Am i missing out?
Yes, it is - a romantic relationship with the right person is perhaps the best thing you can ever experience.

It is normal to want to spend time alone or to not be attached by the hip with someone, but loving someone and being loved back in the same way is probably the best feeling ever.

>>18533527
Being in mutual love is an incredible high and when it's good, it's really good. As you say there are problems in relationships but avoiding them because of the potential for little fights is ridiculous.

Always remember that humans are inherently social animals. The need to be alone exists but, as a 30 second google search can tell you, the science is in and we lead happier lives when we have people to share them with.

>>18533538
Yeah I guess i could be happy sharing life with someone but i get enough from social interaction with my friends. Maybe i am different because while it sounds nice it doesn't appeal to me a lot. Happy 'in love' me doesn't get stuff done and happy me daydreams all the time. Baseline me gets shit done and has a clear head which makes me content. Anyway this is probably a problem on me .

I've been daydreaming about that girl ever since we started hanging out and it is nice. But i'm sick of it because i'm not clearheaded and i just want to get off cloud nine already. I don't really know wtf is going on with me

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>>18532497
Be glad it ended this way.

My gf says she feels bad over she not "feeling feminine". I find her attractive an such but telling her that doesn't seem to help. I wanna help out

Girls what can a guy do to make you feel more feminine? Pick you up? Buying gifts?

>>18532681
One word: psycholog.

>>18532773
Since you are monk, nobody cares. It is not like you will try to have sex with anybody.

What have you described is combination of placebo and no fap has T spike around 7th day, then your body gets accustomed to no fap and eventually you wont even miss orgasms.

Porn is harmful, masturbation not.

>>18532780
It is called bf and you use phrase: i want sex now and relationship after 6 months if we develop feelings for each other.

Or friends with benefits.
>slut
>>18532823
>9 months
Scrach it, you want regular bf. No dude will wait for it for so long unless he loves you. Get a real bf.

>>18532955
Try to ask him.

>>18533426
>asking deer about hunting deer
Stop being dumb and ask her on date already.

>>18533431
Normies do it all the time.

>>18533450
>>>/lgbt/
Run away while you can.

>>18533504
>licence
Typo? If she cares about you, she can shave the bush fully. Tell her it would make her more sexy. Shave your pubes as well together in shower as foreplay. Get gillette and start.

Or find working compromise. Simply ask her and dont forget to marry her later.

>>18533527
You are just introvert. You dont need to be with her 24/7. It is all about communication. Tell her exactly what have you told us. She will either understand it or break up eventually. Dont bin the relationahip prematurely. Maybe in time you will get used to her presence.

>>18533614
>pro tip
Girls love to bitch about non issues like this for example. They dont want you to make up working solution. All they want you to do, is you to sit back, look at them AND PASSIVELY LISTEN. Maybe hug and cuddle them after.

Simply let her babble freely. If she wanted solution, she would ask you about it. Let her babble and just be supportive.

>>18533549
Romantic love is a very different kind of social fulfillment than the love you feel for your friends and family. If you're 23 and you've never been actually in love with someone then that's probably why you feel it's easy to dismiss. Give it a try and you'll understand.

Also what you're experiencing is just infatuation. You can be in love with a person and remain a highly functional member of society. I'd say your pent up loneliness is just making it hard to concentrate on anything other than this girl right now.

>>18533614
IS she feminine?

>>18533694
I find her pretty and very attractive.

>>18533720
That doesn't answer the question. Is she feminine?

>>18532487
Femanons, which would you find less attractive in men?
>high sex drive, masturbates a lot
>high sex drive, sleeps around a lot

>>18533732
The latter, but that doesn't mean the former is attractive or acceptable.

Girls in long term relationships. Do you like it when your boyfriend/husband brings you flowers or writes you love letters or something a bit corny like that completely out of the blue?

>>18533732
Forgot to add, they're single.

Girls, pretend I'm your boyfriend. How do I tell you you're fat and I'm losing attraction to you and you need to lose a few pounds?

I told my gf she was a little fat and that bothered me a little but reassured her that she was still attractive but she took it heavily.

>No guy has ever said that to me before.
>I shouldn't have to work out for you, I only do it for myself
>Why don't you accept me for who I am like I do to you?
>I don't feel comfortable being intimate with you anymore

Was just being honest with my feelings.

>>18533739
No, but I'm really not interested in romantic gestures at all. I'm sure some girls would love it though.

>>18533739
>girls in ltr
Guy here. Too bad.
Can confirm they like that kind of shit, even if they don't like flowers. And if they don't like sweet gestures from their SO, what business do they have being the gf/waifu?

>>18533564
What the fuck did I just read?

>>18533739
Score one billion times more brownie points by sending flowers to her workplace where she can gloat about it to her coworkers.

>>18533871
most people don't want to hear what you really think.

>>18533905
I only told her because I'm trying to gain weight because I'm skinny and I felt bad about eating a shit ton of food in front of her.

Why are white women perceived as more attractive by men?

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>>18533871
>telling girl that *insert any part of her body* isnt good enough for you and she needs to change
It is almost like you want to break up.

All girls get fat eventually. If not now, after 3rd pregnancy for sure. Only gym rats keep being slim. If you arent gym rat yourself, you cant expect her to count calories or do some mild cardio like swimming to stay in shape.

The meme
>girls age like milk
is true. Consider pic related. You need to motivate her and find out what could make her to prevent fat gain.
>>18533914
And if all you will do is shove garbage food into you, you will be soon all fat and flappy yourself too. You have to lift or do at least some bodyweight routine 3 times per week for muscle gains.

>>18533924
>fat people calling superior people for rats

>>18533914
You probably should have anticipated that it would hurt her. Literally everyone who is even a little chubby is aware of it and women tend to also be hyper sensitive to it. You took a good approach IMO but her being hurt is the reaction I'd expect.

If it's true then it's true and you shouldn't apologise for what you said or try to claim that it isn't affecting your attraction for her because that'll only hurt you in the long run.

The obvious response here is that she's right, she doesn't NEED to work out for anyone other than herself, but in a committed relationship there absolutely has to be a give and take where you are willing to change yourselves by increments to keep the other one happy.

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>>18533920
Because everybody wants to be white. Even niggers.

>and every girl wants white husband to take care of her and provide for her children

http://www.checkmyprivilege.com/

>>18533920
They are more likely to have a beautiful face. White skin also looks much more feminine (just not ghost-tier).

>>18533920

First of all, not all men.

Secondly, no idea why.

Seems like every white girl these days is just a couple years in university away from having purple hair and hating all men. Shit talking equality but stuffing the draft, workplace deaths and injuries statistics and circumcisions legality under the fucking rug.
Everything a man does with a white girl is "creepy" and they only stop being teenagers in their 40's - the same people who supposedly mature faster.

I don't care what the goddamn media says, I've met plenty of black, latina, Indian and asian women in my manual labour shitty job and I can honestly say, they all treat men better. Never saw a single one of them playing identity politics like a spoiled white girl does.

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>>18533924
holy shit. this HAS to be bait.
>telling girl that *insert any part of her body* isnt good enough for you and she needs to change
>All girls get fat eventually. If not now, after 3rd pregnancy for sure
literally meme-tier

>>18533920
The real question is, why are norwegian women so godly looking?

>>18533920
Because they exhibit features, facial and otherwise, commonly attributed as being attractive: narrow faces, small noses, large eyes, and inherently slim body structure at desirable proportions.

>>18533962
It's the air. Even 2nd generation immigrants looks way way better than their mom & dad.

>>18533920
Because when I see my tanned dick go in and our of her pale vagina, it makes me cum real fucking hard.

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>>18533955
Soon being fat will be percieved more normal than being fit. Also corporate loves fat people. They can sell them more pills, food, more expensive clothes, more fitness scam diets, pills, personal trainers and feeding them diabeetus and high blood pressure pills until they death before retirement happens so even gov save some money. Also they have to drive everywhere do more gas and scooters bought.

Fat people drive profit high. All we need is for media to push the fat acceptance more.

>>18533932
Maybe using word rat is too much, but in todays world if you dont want to be /fit/, you can spend your whole life fat and nothing will happen to you.

The gym has to be your hobby.

>>18533962
It's because or women are based. Looks, personality, IQ, they got the whole package.

Our guys don't share like they do in merrycuck-land.

>>18533996
Yes, but he asked why.

>>18534004
Because they are blessed by Thor himself.

It's genetics. Someone has to have the most beautiful women in the world, and it just so happens us.

>>18533628
>>asking deer about hunting deer
>Stop being dumb and ask her on date already.

She has been away a month, wont it be weird if i ask her on a date the first few days she gets back when we have had no contact for almost as long?

>>18534011
It's because your forefathers literally took the best looking women from all over Europe, brought them back home to norway, and fucked all their holes numb.

Fucking snow nigger.

>>18534012
I personally would wait a couple days so it's not like right when she arrives
But just do it

>>18534012
>reestablish contact
>talk shit for a couple of days
>"so now that you're back, would you like to go [x]?"

>>18533992
>Soon being fat will be percieved more normal than being fit.
>Being unhealthy will be more normal than being healthy
And that's how we'll know Humanity is lost

>>18534021
Yeah and what the fuck are you gonna do about that? Huh? Skinny manlet. You're literally a textbook sample of a cuckold. We have the genes, we have the money and we have the bitches.

And there is nothing you can do about it.

>>18534012
No. Plus you can talk about her trip for hours. And then you can tell her what happened in society while she has been in a woods.

Then you can tell her you missed her and kiss her. Dont forget to smile like retard when you see her in person. Just go for it!

>>18534031
Survival of the fittest (fattest?) is still on. If all what it takes for you to give up is few morbidly obese people, your dna wasnt worth it in the first place.

>>18534021
The vikings dindu nothing wrong.

>>18534034
I'll literally go and convince a norwegian innocent qt to breed with me. How about that? What you gonna do? Tell her that she's not allowed?

>>18534044
It would be easier for you to land man on the moon.

>1. Getting in is hardcore
>2. They can pick whoever they want
>3. They expect you to make bank, because they don't want to go down in living standards

The NEET life won't cut it.

>>18533924
I gym 3x a week. I'm not gaining weight to look like a fat fuck.

>>18533933
I knew it would hurt her that's why I didn't tell her for so long. Plus she said she was dieting so I didn't think I needed to bring it up, but after a couple of months of no progress I had to tell her something because whatever she was doing wasn't working. She knows she's fat and is trying to get rid of it and I'm trying to support her, and yet she gets offended by it when I bring it up wtf.

I would try to do gym dates and would avoid talking about food but I felt that making subtle gestures about it is ruder than just telling her outright. I don't want her to gain more weight and think I'm okay with it. I don't want to lie to her and say she's the most beautiful thing ever when I don't think that. But now she thinks our attraction is unequal because she says that I'm the most attractive guy ever and I can't say the same back. I can't magically change my preferences to like fatter women.

>>18534044
I will murder you with an axe.

>>18534054
>>>/fit/ sticky
Calculate her tdee
https://tdeecalculator.net/
And make her install this and record ALL food she eats
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.myfitnesspal.android

No other way around it. Society is full of fad diets, when it doesnt matter WHAT you eat, but HOW MUCH of it you eat.

Thread full of fatasses
>>>/fit/42188766

>talks about norwegian qts
>no pictures
At least share a picture, you fucking oil-jews.

For girls,

Do you always expect the guy to keep reinitiating conversation over text?

Each time we talk she seems into me, and the few times we have caught up i get the same feeling, but she never messages first

Why?

>>18533943
>tfw asian male
Yes it's small.

>>18534072
>Implying she won't get super offended by dropping all that shit on her.

I'm a /fit/ fag myself, I linked her the sticky once and she said "wow that really motivated me to get my life in order" or something and then I never heard from it again.

I'm getting the feeling she doesn't want me to be any part of her weight loss. I thought it would be romantic to get in shape together and motivate each other but oh well. She already thinks I look perfect and is sad that I don't think the same back.

>>18534053
What does bank mean? $80k minimum?

>>18534104
Try $180k.

>>18534086
All girls do in dating game is existing. If you want anything with her, you start by asking her on date.
>be glad she isnt clingy, that is different type of hell
One theory is to do radio silence for two whole weeks. Then you can realize how little you mean to her when she wont even text you in that time.

>>18534089
I cant even imagine what it is like to be asian male when trying to court ladies. At least nobody gives a damn about your p length. Pleasing lady is about her clit and cuddling, not your dick size.

>>18534098
You have to ask her
>do you want to lose weight?
>do you trust me?
>let me be your personal trainer.
And then make her to do it. But we all know that such life change requires resolution and that is something most girls (or even fat people in general) simply never had.

>>18533920
I don't know actually...

It's just that when I see white women, I feel good. That right there is good. It is right. I want that. I want to be inside of that. I want to cuddle with that. I want to do nice things for that. I want offspring with that.

I don't know why. I just happen to be more attracted to them. I don't know why people want me to feel bad about it.

>>18534122
Is it the skin? Caucasian facial features? There has to be something more that just "it feels right".

>>18534127
>There has to be something more that just "it feels right".
No it doesn't. It absolutely doesn't.

Love/attraction is literally based on *it feels right*. It's the whole package. Harmony.

I want what I want, stop telling me what I want.

>>18533920
Because of caucasian facial features. Look at black chicks with caucasian facial features. Absolutely gorgeous.

>>18534144
There is like 3 in the world.

>>18534127
>There has to be something more that just "it feels right".
Do you really want the answer?

I basically concluded I don't like Japs, Chinese etc because their eyes remind me of those Grey aliens. Pretty sure it's better to say nothing than that.

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>>18534153

My girlfriend is jealous that I'm friends with a Japanese lady overseas

The thing is tho
>She's teaching me Japanese and I'm teaching her English
>She's in her 40s and is married and has kids while I'm in my early 20s
>We only talk like once a week max over Skype
>She's knows I have a gf and is happy for me
>More like an aunt than anything

What happened was I was bringing her up more and more because we do like a gift exchange thing twice a year and I thought it would be fun for me and gf to go out and pick out cool American gifts for her. But she interpreted it differently and thought I was prioritizing this overseas girl over her and buying her gifts instead of gf.

I don't even know what to say. I assured her that she's a language partner and there's zero things between us and I offered to introduce gf to her over skype. But I still feel like she has this suspicion when I legitimately never had any desire for a romantic relationship with this lady. It just boggles my mind.

>>18534184
It sounds like your gf just wants more attention from you, whether thats warranted or not, and shes projecting it through her hatred of your jap side chick

Dont try to fix it through something you van do with your nip m8, just start doing a little more for her

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>>18534262
are they models

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>>18534277
Nope.

>>18534262
>Norway's most popular blogger
>definitely not popular because her writing is so compelling

>>18534282
fug

Women how do you rationalize your desire/requirement for a man to provide you with the shiniest, most expensive rock he can possibly obtain before marrying him?

I mean I know why you actually do it, but what do you tell yourself is the reason?

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>>18534291
Naw man. Stop objectifying women.

>>18534295
I know.

>>18534277
are you joking lmao those are average white chicks on any uni campus

>>18534312
>average
Where do you live those girls would be 2/10s at best where I live. Must suck living in such an ugly place for you.

>>18534316
>2/10
nigga those hoes aren't attractive enough to be on the scale 0.4/10 at best

>>18534303
It feels good to have a man go out of his way to make you happy. Buy something precious, expensive, gorgeous to treat you well makes you feel like he'll take good care of you and will put you first.

I want to wear my grandma's engagement ring, so this doesn't really apply to me.

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>>18534323
Would not bang.

>>18534262
>>18534282
>>18534311
>>18534338
They need some Big Black Cock. Several.

Girls,
Do you care more about status than looks? It sounds like BS to me but I saw this thrown around in an another thread

>>18534262
I'm having such a hard time deciding. I think left is winning though.

>>18534353
Looks is an important part of status.

>>18534353
Personality...

>>18534363
That wasn't an option you ignoramus

>>18534363
Memes.

>>18534363
That is fucking horseshit.

>>18534358
This is a great answer. Don't really know why I didn't think about it

>>18534353
It's kind of a toss-up, but I think I'd choose status over looks. Better to have a guy who can help pay the bills.

>>18534353
Women don't actively think about choosing between the two. Most men who have one also tend to have the other. Not always. But most of the time.
High status also comes from good looks like another anon said.

Look at it this way: women aren't actively choosing to decide between a man who has no status but good looks and a man who has high status and bad looks.

That being said most women I know will select looks over status. The research and studies done on many cultures across the world also backs it up.

>>18533943
>feels good to be white

>>18534089
I will try to be objective. If you read the source carefully it doesn't say the same thing r9k says.
Firstly, most Ok Cupid users (especially males) on average aren’t as attractive compared to the other larger sample populations that do not need to use similar apps. So it might well be said the rating applies to less attractive people of all races.
Secondly, there was no information on the bias or standards of users that use the app compared to non online dating populations. For instance, who are the users using the apps? what is the general population looking forwards to in the app? (economy, looks, hook ups, chat), what is the culture supporting the difference in users? What are the low-level features preferred by most users? Actually this is most important: while it might be true that white women rate white guys higher than non-white guys, the variance of this rating might be large enough to render the rating-race correlation not very meaningful. But it does exactly what it's supposed to do, give less attractive white guys the idea that he should join Ok Cupid, which would be a big boost because they are the majority of the users base. As written in the last paragraph of the source article.
Thirdly, the meta data arrayed into the graph were unconfirmed information entered by human users. Is the human user self identifying as ‘white’ actually is ‘white’? Is the user real? etc.
If you read to this part, also note that the guy who made the graph is not a statistician or data scientist and he wrote a book called Dataclysm so I understand the article is more about marketing (i.e. promoting the usage of Ok cupid in places like US or Europe and promoting the belief of his book).
Still, most people here might be right about how Asians are perceived though, I have never seen a AMWF couple in my entire life, only ever saw them on 4chan.

>>18534376
hehe

>>18534420
Pretty sure that is a guy who didn't even read the question

Is it important for a first date to be "fun"?

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>>18534363
PERSONALITY is way important in grills

So i suck i know. Me and my gf rarely ever have sex, once every few months and its not great when we do. But yet i love her more than anyone. When i try to talk to her about it she just says shd has no sex drive, no desire for anyone sexually, sex makes her feel gross, doesnt want sex cause she thiks shes gross and ugly etc. I support her the best i can, its been 11 months like this. I dont have a super high sex drive, if like sex once a weekish but when i dont have sex lr any sexu contact or sexts whatever my self esteem plummets, i feel unattractive to even my own gf, and i get irritable. So with all this ive resorted to sexting a girl, shes married and sexless in her relationship to. Neither of us want to leave our partners cause were building a life with them. But like what the fuck can i do just fix sex with my gf and stop looking for it elsewhere so i dont physically cheat

>>18534303
I don't, I think that's retarded. It must be a burgerland thing because I've never seen it here.

>>18534433
First learn what are paragraphs.
Second realize you arent sexually compatible.

She is either on hormonal bc which kills libido, is insecure about her own body, was abused as kid or simply sex was always only tool to hook boys up with.

Break up. If you ever marry her, you will be that husband who will tell jokes like
>what is sex? Dont ask me, i am married.
Dont wait for miracle, she wont repair herself for your own sake, simoly tell her you need sex and she doesnt and you simply cant be together.

Maybe after this break up she will solve her personal problems with that, but it can take years and you wont be with her if that ever happens.

Tldr break up. You are cheating with her anymore. No reason to prolong the pain and inveitable.

BREAK UP! She wont ever change unless forced to. And you cant force her.

>>18534515
Typing on my phone at work, sorry for the shit formatting. Shes trying to lose weight, changed birth control last month, and started an anti depressant. So shes trying. Breaking up is the last thing i want, but fuck.

I have very little sexual experience. How do I ask my bf to teach me how to give a bj without sounding fucking retarded?

>>18534490
So what does a man need to do in your culture?
kill a boar in the forest? beat other males in your tribe at combat?

>>18534529
"teach me master" while trying to sound actually stupid. Guys are used to porn actresses sounding silly anyway.

>>18534529
You don't ask, you zip down his pants whenever you want to and just go at it.

If he says no, he's not attracted to you anymore.

100% serious, non-meme, no troll.

Girls, what do you consider a nice cock? Not just size wise but look wise too.

>>18534529
Ask him, tell him what he likes, pay attention to his moans. We are quite straightforward and any man will find amazing that a girl wants to learn how to suck him off better.

As general tips enthusiasm trumps everything. I also personally love handless bjs, they just feel much more intimate.

>>18534538
This, no joke.

>>18534529
Like how everyone else learns these things. Just ask him to give some other guy head and watch and learn.

>>18534529
don't forget to make eye contact every once in a while or during the whole thing while sucking him

>>18534525
>lose weight
>changed birth controll
>anti depressant
Every single thing if these can kill libido hard. Losing weight means trying to eat less = body stops hormones production. Anti depresion pills are ssri, they kill libido almost always without fail for months to come. And birth controls can mess hormones to.

I bet she wont want to have sex for years to come. All sex you will get will be her forcing herself to do it, so it will be like fucking corpse.

Are you absolutely sure you cant find non damaged girl?

>>18534529
Ask him? >>18533521

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>>18534529
Was getting (you)s part of your plan!?

>>18534529
best grill ITT

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guy ere, britbong
i smoke weed a lot, theres a girl i drove home like more than 2 years ago and she probs doesnt remember but i think shes fit now and shes like 16 an im 20, idgaf about age bs, england is a messed up place but what the fuk do i do, im such a pussy, if i talk to her and fuck it up which i will, ill just be pissed off and depressed for ages, opposed to just thinking about the idea of doing all that fun boy/girl jazz,
anyone got any advice for me here, some of the worst experiences of my life are because of females and my faulty amygdala causing me to be emotionally distraught over small things like being rejected by a girl who doesnt even know me

>>18534540
In terms of looks: even skin color (can be different than the rest of the body but not blotchy, or the head being very red compared to the rest), no extreme curve. I vastly prefer foreskin with a nice dewy (moisturized) head with soft skin.

To be fair though, I don't find penises the best looking part of the body ever, so it's not a huge priority to me that it looks 'nice'. Warts or big protruding birth marks or something would throw me off, otherwise looks are a bonus and not something I focus on.

I do have a very strong preference for a man who can go multiple rounds in a row. I don't expect it because I know most need to relax for a while, but it'll excite me to no end if he doesn't.
It is also quite exciting if he easily gets and stays hard. Eg not being soft within moments if he is going down on me. I understand that it has nothing to do with attraction but it's still nicer.

As for size, I prefer 5-6" with at least average thickness, thickness being more important than extra length.

Girls do you mind if your partner kisses you after oral?

>>18534562
Fucking love it. Tasting myself on his mouth turns me on so much. Besides looking down on a man between my legs makes me squirm with desire to give affection/appreciation back to begin with.

>>18534561
>I do have a very strong preference for a man who can go multiple rounds in a row

I don't usually do this because I typically have to go to class later but I have a few friends who can help us. We can figure out a rotation, while one guy fucks other guys do their thing, studying, sleep, eat, taking shower etc.

>>18534568
I meant physically being able to, obviously life can get in the way. That's no issue.

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>>18534561
>thickness being more important than extra length

>>18534561
Do men get soft while eating out? I always have a raging hardon doing it. Just the smell is enough.

>>18534557
>dumb frogposter
>drugs abuser
>putting so much value into dating some girl
With this mindset you failed even before you began the dating game. I bet you are that type of boy who tells girls he loves them first and freak out when they dont respond to his texts.

Pathetic.

Age of consent in uk is 16, so all you need to do is to contact her, chat her up and ask her for netflix and chill / hangibg out with you. Treat her as person (no putting vagina on pedastal) and you will be fine.

And even if she refuses like like dirty frogposter, you can check her off from your life and find new girl.

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Ladies: Would you date a frogposter?

>>18534549
Yeah theres many factors in her life that reduce libido. In january when she finished semester 1 but before she decided to drop out we had sex alot. And not because i initiated or brought it up. She came on to me for it. Then she dropped out, and wasnt as happy and that went away again. As selfish as it is i wish shed just do it to please me every now and again. When i started takig my ssri two years ago i couldnt cum, took forever to get hard, and sex didnt feel like anything but i still had sex with my ex like twice a week because she wanted it. I did it to make her happy.

I could certainly find a non damaged skinny girl. But i love her too much already.

>>18534575
Depends on the man but yes, for some they remain mentally turned on but they need active dick touching to stay hard. As soon as they move to something that doesn't offer direct physical stimulation they lose their erection (even though they typically still feel horny).

>>18534587
>love her too much
Well, you know what to do in the meantime until she gets better: nonsexual cuddling and
https://bad-dragon.com/products/janine

>>18534582
no. im the sort of guy to never let anyone find out about my terrible woman skills. and i will carry this on till im fucking dead and gone if i have to, no one will do much, people will take the piss a little bit, but im way too paranoid and fucked up, thinking about girls is nice, but for me, they are impossible to understand, and its not my fault i want these girls this much, i hate them in a way because of that

>>18534602
>and its not my fault i want these girls this much

That's where you are wrong. You are a person, you can work on your feeling, understand them and try to change your world view. Saying "I can't" means you don't even try.

>>18534593
Had a pocket pussy. Albeit not from.bad dragon and it didnt feel god enough for the effort. Also doesng this one feel like sandpaper?

>>18534572
can my friends still have their way with you though? you sound like the kind of girl who can handle them.

>>18534610
i know my feelings and i wish i was less of a faggot sometimes, i cant change this tho

>>18534589
I see. Well I guess I am a horny beast because I legit can't get it down as soon as I see clothes starting to fly.

>>18534618

Yes you can. Interacting more with women will help you see they are people just like you. Breaking away from the masturbatory thought patterns (I assume you fa thinking about girls you know or using their pictures, but even imagining confessing and dating them is masturbatory), and things like that.

There's nothing wrong with what you feel, but you have to learn to channel and direct it to feelings that don't make you so miserable.

>>18534602
>impossible to understand
You dont need to understand them. All you need is to listen to their troubles, smile like idiot, spamming invitations on dates, handholding them in public, cuddling them and from time to time doing them various favors. Basically treating them like ladies in public and like whores in bedroom.

>>18534616
>sandpaper
With lube it feels like 3x more intensive pussy. And you cant go in without lube. And it is build very solid. I cant imagine tearing it up. But yes, it is expensive and hand is hand. Maybe you can ask your gf to simply give you handjob?

And if you will try to pressure your gf into sex, she will dislike it even more. If you truly love her, you will stop cheating her and simply start fapping more. Or really, find non broken girl.

>>18534625
its not that bad jesus, i dont wank over pictures of people i know, but i do see what you mean, and i am miserable a lot, but the way i see it, im no match for these scumbags who give 0 fucks. the way i see it, im basically made to feel like this, at least the only person who knows this is me, im not the sort of guy to talk to loads of girls, talking to girls is pretty emotionally draining and i cannot control that no matter you say. even if i speak to this girl itll only end in my misery so whats the point?

>>18534639

Well, if you don't believe you can change, then I can't convince you here. It's up to you, man. No one will take more care of you than yourself. If you don't learn to trust yourself, well, I don't see much improvement in your life.

>>18533564
Everyone possessing this kind of mentality should be killed more than once.

>>18533564
You know that post is satire though, right?

How do I communicate to a woman I just want to be friends?

She's not interested in me and neither am I. She's really fun to be around but also happens to be quite cute so, even though we have a good relation I feel she's going to end up thinking I'm interested in more.

>>18534651
i dont see it this way, me trying to help myself will only end badly like everything else, most of the time i was it was like 1890 and youd just go to war and no one understands anything and then id just die and thatd be it. but everythings fucked up now, everyone has emotional attachments and you cant just go and kill yourself nowadays because of this, its like im too far deep into life to take it away now yet its not worth living, girls are not my only problem. now im just moaning like a faggot, maybe ill inherit a big sum of money someday and thats all i can hope for, until then, ill just abuse drugs and feel like shit

>>18534617
Being with one person is complicated enough for me.

>>18534665
>me trying to help myself will only end badly like everything else

You don't have to do it alone. But you have to want help. You've been saying you can't change on every reply to me. Sorry, but no one can help you if you just shut down what they have to say.

Go to a psychologist. Get proffesional help. We are not qualified here to help you. Ask for help.

Girls, what things make you go "he's a keeper"?

>>18534634
Just want to feel desired yknow?

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>>18534660
Yeah, because cheating never happens, back up man term is fable same as gold diggers and trophy wives, your children are always yours and people are together always because their love is stronger than disney movies can represent.

>the fact something is hyperbole doesnt mean it cant happen to you

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>>18534667
We'll make it simple, they will wear masks, you don't have to see them any other time.

>>18534668
look bro, i live in a shithole in england near london and i have asperger syndrome whether you think its real or not, it very obviously is if youve met someone with it. ive got no job too, society basically makes me feel like i dont deserve female company, and even if they made me feel welcome to it then id still be shit at it because i have aspergers, people cant tell i have it anymore because im 20 now and spent years and years hiding it to be normal, my family dont deserve to have to deal with my death but if they were all gone, id just do the kill myself bs, i really dont value my life at all, maybe thinking about girls gives me more hope or value or whatever, i would say im a faggot but i have gone through a lot of stuff

>>18534670
>he just doesn't treat me well, but treats his friends, family, pets etc well (obviously excluding extreme situations like narcissist parents)
>he is able to care about things to an extent, simply because I care about them (like my family and friends, hobbies of mine he doesn't share with me)
>he is expressive and clear about what he wants out of me and the relationship, what he does and doesn't appreciate
>related: he's able to discuss instead of argue, he doesn't yell or call me names when angry, he's able to spontaneously admit to being wrong about something or feeling embarrassed of how he handled a situation
>he has my back, I don't have to worry about him treating me more coldly around his friends, or throwing me under the bus by using me as an excuse to not attend social events he doesn't feel like going to, he will give me the benefit of the doubt and hear me out when hearing someone else's account of how I dealt badly with a situation, but
>he will also constructively call me out on shit I have to work on

These are to me the most important ones.

>>18534683
>masks
Well this took a disturbing turn. Take another look at that picture you posted. Masks are creepy as fuck.

>>18534675

I'm not the bad dragon guy, but I see two things here:

>When i started takig my ssri two years ago i couldnt cum, took forever to get hard, and sex didnt feel like anything but i still had sex with my ex like twice a week because she wanted it. I did it to make her happy.

Awesome, but your current GF doesn't owe you for what you did with another girl.

>Then she dropped out, and wasnt as happy and that went away again.

Maybe, instead of focusing on your needs, you should see how to help her get her groove back. Be happy again.

Your partner is suffering and you bitch about your lack of sex?

>>18534685
>just doesn't
Heh, *doesn't just

Also realized I forgot to mention but this is talking about what would actually make me feel like it could work out for marriage. There's more obvious stuff like being honest and reliable, respecting my boundaries etc, but that would break the relationship up long before long term prospects.

>>18534684

Get. HELP. Self loathing and suicidal thoughts are a big deal. Open up to someone. There are non-profits that offer assitance cheap or even free. Start somewhere.

>>18534680
Truu it's a hyperbole and something else happened to many

>>18534688
Ok. No masks. What's your opinion on consensual slave? are you into BDSM?

>>18534695
i dont feel bad when im high, and its good enough, at least im not dying in a war slowly with no medication, mustve been harder times back then

>>18534690
She is the star of my life. I giver her everything i have, but as she has said to me on the topic is that love cant fix depression.

>>18534705
Nah I'm afraid not. I haven't had enough experience to really rule it out but it never quite appealed to me. Like with the consensual slave thing, sure the idea of being nothing but a sexual being for a day is hot, but I just know I'd get sick of it at some point and be in a different mindset and just want to go read a book already. I also don't like the amount of preparation and planning many less standard BDSM acts take, not really into costumes or toys etc.

I like playing around with orgasm denial, acting bratty, being rougher, but more as loose elements incorporated in the general mess. Also to me the part where one moment one person is in control and the next moment the tables are turned is a huge part of the fun to me. I want to be able to go with the flow and not go into it being a dominatrix or a submissive for the night or anything.

Then again I have also never been with anyone with a passion for it so I am open to liking the reality more than I like the idea/porn of it.

If this is your thing you are lucky though, lots of people interested in some level of BDSM.

>>18534713

So you expect her to "take one for the team!" and let you bone her even if she doesn't want to?

>>18534726
That doesn't sound so bad.

>>18533628
>>18533093
>>18532995
Ok. Will bring my opinions to the table and also i will ask him where he stands with me. I will sometimes ask him things but he usually responds with "yea lol" or if i try to act funny he will say "u dumb lol" Stuff like that. But i'll try harder to get conversation going.

>>18534728

Well, it seems we have found your bare minimum. Sex is not an obligation, neither is staying with her. If you can't ride this rough patch with a person that's ill, then maybe you need to move on from her. (I assume her depression was diagnosed, don't self diagnose! If she hasn't, then suggest she does.)

How do I find a female FWB?

>>18534774
Tinder or shitposting here.

Choose carefully!

>>18534774
Either through apps like tinder, state you are looking for anything from one night stands to longer casual flings. (And make sure to treat them well in bed so they'll be wanting more.) Or because you hook up with someone (a stranger, a friend) and the next morning you both agree that you don't want to date and hold on to each other's contact info. Then it just takes some drunk sexy texts.

It happens all the time but is not something you can really actively seek out. Also because cute women who are willing to have sex casually have a lot of potential partners and can afford to only keep the ones they have the best chemistry/sex with. The upside for you is that many guys (or girls for that matter) are not great lovers and if you treat her with respect outside of sex and like a delicious piece of meat during, that's something precious.

>>18534739
That wasnt me.

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>>18534774
Start by watching Hollywood movies. But I guess you already did.

>>18534791

Well, what do you have to say for yourself, then?

>So you expect her to "take one for the team!" and let you bone her even if she doesn't want to?

>>18534795
No but she could seek out why shes feeling this way and how to fix it. And yes she is diagnosed with bpd and anxiety. Intimacy isnt just sex

>>18534803
>she could seek out why shes feeling this way and how to fix it.

What I said above applies to you, too. You don't have to stay by her side if she is dragging you down, too. You have the right to say "Enough is enough!" and move on if she can't do anything for herself.

Men do you ever change your mind about how you feel overnight if it's going somewhere?
And is it a turnoff if the girl you're interested in is practically throwing herself at you?

>>18534816
>And is it a turnoff if the girl you're interested in is practically throwing herself at you?
Not really, no. I'm normie, though.

>>18534816
>Men do you ever change your mind about how you feel overnight if it's going somewhere?

You mean like getting cold feet when things get serious?

>And is it a turnoff if the girl you're interested in is practically throwing herself at you?

Depends on the girl. To me, it happened twice. Once I was into her, so my self esteem skyrocketed. Once i wasn't, so it was kinda weird because I didn't want to be rude but I also didn't want to lead her on.

>>18534816
>change your mind about how you feel overnight

Yes.

>is it a turnoff if the girl you're interested in is practically throwing herself at you

Depends on the girl, some girls can be aggressive and sexy, others, not so much.

Guys: Are there any dangerous side effects of not masturbating for a week or so? My body shakes and I'm nervous but Idk if it's just because it's cold and I'm fucked in the head.

>>18534850
No. If it becomes a problem then you will cum in your sleep.

You'll probably be horny as shit tho.

>>18534826
>cold feet
He told me he wouldn't lose interest in me but he is acting super casual all of a sudden
He reassured me a lot the other day about it

>>18534850

I don't think there are. As Anon said, >>18534862,
you get night ejaculations and you might get hard easier, with more precum and with more cum on an orgasm.

But getting the shakes is not a normal symptom, as far as I know.

How does being penetrated feel like?

>>18534863
>He told me he wouldn't lose interest in me

And at that moment, that might have been the truth. Let's not assume he was lying.

Maybe he is stressed out right now, maybe something happened and he is busy, or maybe he did indeed change his mind.

>>18534870

You have a boipussy, don't you? Give it a try.

>>18534878
with what? what's your recommendation?

How much can I joke around with girls over text? My texting is usually extremely dry and all I usually can muster is basic questions about their lives, like sports, daily life, life goals and plans, etc... In person I'm completely fine and can usually talk to women perfectly but over text I can't gauge reactions to figure out what to say or do like in person.

>>18534885

Finger is the best for couple reasons:

It's small enough to avoid hurting yourself, and it's impossible to lose your grip on it and find it inside your rectum.

Don't forget the lube, and you might want to do it in the shower to keep things clean.

>>18534897
I tried it and it's really nothing special. If that's how sex feels like for girls I don't really understand how they can enjoy it. Or maybe they don't?

>>18534898
It has to be some other guy's dick to truly know how it feels.

>>18534898

To be fair, your ass is not made for sex. There are no nerve endings designed to transmit pleasure, it doesn't self lubricate, etc. etc.

So it's like that, but better.

>>18534902
>it's like that, but better

Have you had anal sex

>>18534911

Nope, to be honest. Just experimenting by myself.

Does the enjoyment of anal sex for the person receiving come purely from the fact that you are basically... having anal sex, rather than any actual body stimulation?
Is it enjoyable for women or mostly just a thing guys like?

>>18534902
But is it really pleasurable or more like a numb, enjoyable pleasure?

For example for me at least rubbing my head is so stupidly pleasurable my knees get weak and i have to stop because it's too sensitive. But stroking is just enjoyable.

Women why are your thighs so retardedly soft and nice

I and my new (two weeks) gf were on the bus. We met this girl who used to be my childhood best friend and she seemed happy to see me. A bit too happy. I haven't had the chance to introduce my gf who was talking on the phone, the old friend started hugging me and whispering she still remembers how we used to shower together and how we had sex one day straight and her mom complained the room smelled disgusting and how I refused to let her get dressed (we were like 15). She laughed but that was quite awkward and I think my gf heard. In the end I tried to clear things up and she apologized quickly but she was still very flirty (which is not my fault), at least she wasn't touching me so much like earlier, and we exchanged numbers, she told us she's working in a building nearby and she got off.
My gf is upset, she stopped replying to my text. Is it over? what could I do? worst thing is, I am also attracted to the old friend, she was an outgoing pretty girl, I noticed her body grows quite nicely, we never talked since my family moved away 8 years ago. I think she wrote me a letter but I was kinda lazy so I didn't reply. Of course the priority is fixing the current relationship, if possible, but the other girl is also an exciting possibility if I got dumped.

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I'm infamous for writing things off as a coincidence and having apparently something like a self-image disorder. So, yeah, I need a second opinion on this.
>cute tall and well built Asian boy in class
>moves to sit next to me; even seems to push the chair back so it's next to me
>think nothing of it
>sigh look down--only to notice the both of us have our legs in the same neat position...no one else does
>think "what the fuck is the twilight zone" while I put my legs down
>he follows the exact motion though he seems wholeheartedly invested in what he's doing

What is that?

>>18535040
Oh damn he must be totally in love with you and surely wants to fuck your brains out!!!!

>>18534918
For men it is the physical act. Prostate is a powerful thing.

For women it differs. There's still sensitive tissue there but it's more hit or miss. To some women it feels like reverse pooping, period. To others fingering themselves during makes the difference between reverse pooping and pleasure. For some it is inherently a good sensation.

Women who love anal with nothing else exist, but the idea that women who hate anal just haven't had it the right way or something is false. It just depends.

Hey ladies so I'm fucking this pregnant chick and idk where to put my hands

>>18535068
Jealous as fuck.

Unless she indicated otherwise, it's fine to keep one or both on her stomach (like when you're doing the spooning position or she's on top). Unless she has a pregnancy kink it's weird to go out of your way to touch it all the time, but if she's fine fucking in her position then apparently she's not too much in the mom mindset to feel like a sexual being, and it's still her own body.

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>>18535068
use them to hold her baby's tiny hand

Hooked up with a girl I met at a bar a couple of weeks ago. Asked her out and she said she was too busy atm, but would love to when things are less hectic. Is that a nice way of saying no, or is she genuinely yoo busy?

>>18535089
Sounds like she's too busy hooking up with other guys.

>>18535089
Can be both. If she meant to blow you off, she did a poor job, the token thing to do is go "oh I'd love to BUT I'm pretty busy..." [unspoken conclusion being that it's not going to happen]. The most important part comes last, that's what you want to stick. Still she might just be doing a poor job trying to blow you off.

If you have her number just wait a week or two then shoot her a message reminding her of who you are and asking if things settled down somewhat. It doesn't hurt to try. But try not to put too much hopes on it for the time being and just keep it in the back of your head as a thing that might turn into more.

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>>18535047
Nice memeing. Point taken, though.

>>18535040
do white girls actually learn anything in school being horny 24/7 like this

>>18535114
Girls do better in school than guys do.

Should I fap before going on a date? I mean will it make me less nervous or will it be counter productive? I mean a date from which I don't expect to get laid after it.
I have way more horniness and anxiety than when I was a teen, Idk if that's normal or bad.

>>18535116
Which grade are you talking about? I spent some time at the Berkeley math circle and the brightest kids are usually boys. Like 7th graders comfortable with category theory.

>>18535134
I'm talking about how many complete high school (and with what grades) and how many continue to follow a university education.

>>18535142
oh I have no idea about that statistic.
I know a girl who is smarter than me though, but she actually scored lower than me in the only contest we both participated and trained together, also she looks rather plain.

>>18535151
It's arguable whether it really means anything as there's plenty of pointers that the way education is structured now in general suits women better than men. Especially if you're talking about primary school with boys needing to sit still and concentrate all the time.

But women absolutely do well in school.

>>18535161
Yeah, I totally had that problem when I was in primary school, also I never did my homework. I was always more comfortable reading books and creating my own curriculum, but enough about that lol.

>women absolutely do well in school
I don't disagree, I was only questioning the horny girls whether they learn much in class.

>>18535181
Fuck homework. Apparently it isn't even useful (http://www.bbc.com/news/education-37716005).

Well being horny doesn't really help with the focus but it's part of the whole coming of age experience, right?

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>>18535203
I laughed when I started the whole education discussion again...I swear I've seen several here. Anyway, I've always been top student in my regular and advanced classes without much effort. I'm pretty dumb, but also pretty unchallenged and my mind naturally wanders to what's around me or I'll go crazy with boredom. I.e., lovely boy that pulls back his chair next to mine.

Horny girls' mileage may vary. I know a hornier gal that fails classes usually.

Can men orgasm from prostate stimulation from the ass alone? (I mean not involving the dick at all) How does that feel? Does it last long?

>>18534816
Why dont you tell us whole story or at least more details? Maybe we could actually give you better advice than
>bee yourself

>>18535017
Your two weeks old gf is jealous as fuck and considering you know the other girl much longer, it is clear what to do: date your old gf and relive your past experiences. This is almost like story from some movie. You will marry her, i trust in you anon.

>>18535089
Just wait a week and try again. In the mean time try hit on other girls as well. You have nothing to lose.

>>18535132
No. Take a shower and find clean clothes instead. Shave?
>do you have condoms ready?

>>18535236
You have to train for that. So the answer is yes, but it is hard and doesnt even feel that great. One thing is clear though, it produces much more cum than other means.

Aka not worth it.

>>18535203
please don't follow my example, homework exercises are very important especially in higher study :) I know that now after doing TA for a linear algebra class where students can't even do LU factorization properly. You must do your hw with the purpose of trying to understand what's going on, not to get it done.

>Well being horny doesn't really help with the focus but it's part of the whole coming of age experience, right?

Right. I have never been able to learn much if there's a girl I'm attracted to in my class (flash back to measure theory class with this Dutch qt hmm)

Was talking to a girl, and I forget the context, but she was telling me how she has a one night stand one time and it was a mistake she'd never do again.

But why would she tell me this?

>>18535327
Women are retarded. NEVER TRY TO ANALYSE THEM.
You simply can't.

>>18535327
It means she intends to have plenty more 1 night stands but justifies and feels better about by pretending to regret it and swear them off.

For the girls:
In online dating, what kind of things do you like to see in a guys profile and what makes that first message response-worthy? I've talked to some people I know and they've told me I'm doing things wrong.

Guys: can you give yourself an erection on command? Like, can you just look at your dick and decide you want an erection without any sexual stimulation out of pure willpower?

>>18534868
>>18534862
other anon here but the only times i've had wet dreams, i fapped the day before
and the times i went weeks without fapping i never did

>>18535382
I can think about something sexy and give myself a stiffy but it's not like you can just will it from nothing.

>>18535382

No. Can you get wet on command?

>>18535382

If I have high testosterone levels, yes. After a nofap session for a week, I start to get huge erections only by thinking some sexual stuff.

>>18535413
Not her but sometimes yeah, especially if I'm antsy already (physically, not necessarily talking about being in the mood mentally). I really focus on how it feels to get wet and it's kind of like making your mouth salivate by thinking of saliva.

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>>18535382
Yes. Pretty sure it has to do with my mastery of kegel exercises
I can wield my dick as good as Geralt of Rivia wields his sword

>out of pure willpower
more like out of pure fantasy

How many women in university aren't fat, are virgins, and so not use alcohol/drugs?

Not trying to start an argument of morals or anything, I just desperately want a relationship with a girl I can relate to and want an idea of my odds and how I can improve them.

>>18535507
-5

>>18535507
They exist, but the chances that they are in the same place as you are very small. Realize that as a girl it takes more to still be a virgin at twenty+ than as a guy, given that women are approached much more often even if they are shy, passive and awkward. I was a virgin until a couple of years into college but it wasn't because of my conservative values or because it "just never happened". I was quite afraid of men and intimacy and guarded, had some pretty serious issues. I have a friend who fits your description more or less (she's skinnyfat but that's it), and she has much worse issues than I do, she cannot talk about it even to me (despite having known each other for close to fifteen years) but basically she doesn't know how to handle anything emotional/personal. Might be asexual, I have no clue.
It is also relatively common for older female virgins to be religious (and potentially actively saving themselves for marriage).

I cannot tell you how many girls in college are virgins because that's the kind of info that you only hear after getting close to someone. I know that it's not as much of a special snowflake situation as internet would have you believe - most older virgins, female or otherwise, just don't flaunt it and in fact try hard to be casual about sexual topics. But if you are assuming that if they meet these criteria, you will be on the same wavelength, then I have bad news for you.

>>18535507
Between the ages of 18-25,
> About 70% of people aren't fat
> About 12% of women are virgin
> About 30% of people don't drink

Obviously you're more likely to meet a 18 year old virgin who doesn't drink than a 24 year old virgin who doesn't drink.

>>18535533
>It is also relatively common for older female virgins to be religious (and potentially actively saving themselves for marriage).
I'm one of them and it kinda sucks. But i've taken some positives from that as well.

>>18535542
What sucks about it? Other people's responses or the choice itself?

>>18535533
I'm actually really reserved too though and want something REALLY slow. So that sort of stuff wouldn't be bad in the slightest.

>>18535507
Many. Just go to Ivy League schools :)

>>18535548
I'm not rich or extremely intelligent unfortunately, but I do go to a pretty good school.

>>18535537
>About 70% of people aren't fat
I would love to see the cutoff for being fat in America. Like 5'4 120kg for a chick?

>>18535547
Eh, I didn't mean to imply that there's a singular "explanation" for why those virgins are still virgins. Just trying to illustrate that if you are looking if the "symptoms" like being a virgin align, that doesn't necessarily mean that your deeper motives or life experience also lines up.

Unless you are talking about saving it for marriage. In that case you wanting to take it really slow would work out for most women I think. And then you can increase your odds by being involved in the religious community. I would highly recommend seeing if you can find it within yourself to convert then, because a girl to who religion is important enough to head down that path is likely not going to want to marry an atheist.

>>18535545
Sometimes people respond well but when it comes to dating it can go either way depending on the person. The choice is a promise i intend to keep but it's a hard battle to fight most times. It also sucks because i feel alone in all this.

>>18535553
I assume the cut-off is a 25 BMI.
I don't remember the stats exactly, but people with normal BMI in that age group were from 60% to 70% of the population.
I can be wrong tho.

>>18532497
>>18532497
Find out where the guy lives and beat the fuck out of him. You can kill him if you really want to, but the jail time ain't really worth it.
>>18533564
I know that post is satire, but anybody who genuinely thinks this way should actually kill themselves

>>18533720
That doesn't answer the question. Does she posses feminine traits? masculine? somewhere in the middle?

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Is it normal for girls to hold guy friend's hands?

My girlfriend does it but she says it's just joking around
It kinda bugs me. Am I just being a little bitch?

>>18535620
No it isn't. Only redemption I can offer is that if she's still VERY young (think 14-18) she probably doesn't have a very firmly developed sense of what does and doesn't constitute an appropriate boundary for a platonic friendship.

But definitely not normal.

>>18532497
You don't.

Thank her for giving you the heads up, and that you will be putting all her shit in the curb for her to take elsewhere.

>>18535382
Yes. If you will be looking at me and asking me why i cant get a boner, i will probably get even more nervous and then no boner will happen, but otherwise it is generaly no problem. I just imagine some boobs and boom, wild boner appears.
>but without kegels, imagination or additional stimulation it can be as easily lost as easily gained

>>18535620
Dirty hand holding in public is a sign they will marry soon. So no, it is not normal.
>>18535413
Maybe stop being fat or go to doc to get checked anon. If you are under 30, there should be no problem. Or fap like once per week.

>>18535623
She's 18.

So she can still be saved?

>>18535660
Sadly these girls typically learn because of situations imploding in their face (like the boyfriend leaving because she crosses lines, the guy friend being angry because he developed feelings and took her signs as reciprocation).

But that doesn't mean you can't try to talk to her about it.

>>18535660
>She's 18.
Then those are the same hands that stroke his dick. Too late.

Grills
Do you like green eyes?

>>18535708
Yeah they're neat. Striking and rare. Though to be honest there isn't any color of eyes that I inherently dislike.

Does anyone else get irrationally angry at romantic comedies? Like it's not that they're boring, but the whole pretense often pisses me off. An example would be some gal wanted to watch Adventureland, which was whatever. But then the main characters crush went off and banged some 30 something year old loser, then they met up a few years later and pretended everything was ok.

I thought the movie was fucking stupid but it was overwhelmingly well received. It's not just a one off experience either, it seems like that shit defines most of them from what I've seen.

>>18535760
They don't really anger me, they are not meant to portray reality. They are essentially (emotional) porn for women.

I can't stand to watch most, though, because they're so fucking corny and fake. A movie like When Harry Met Sally actually has some nice humor, decent acting and an amount of realism. Nowadays it's all rehashing the same boring old tropes.

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Is there any fucking way to shake off a mediocre "first" (I guess you could call it first, but it's the impression that she holds for me atm) impression?

We have extracurricular classes with this girl I like for so fucking long and all she does is fucking ignore me and now she's up to something with my best friend.

Am I just a fucking looser who should hang himself?

>>18535760
I'm a female and I used to think they were the dumbest thing ever, until I fell in love. I thought I'd been in love before but nope. Now all love songs make sense as do those stupid movies

>>18535770
>They don't really anger me, they are not meant to portray reality.
I suppose so, but there was this other one that I'm trying to remember the title of. Where the woman banged two guys and strung both of them along thinking they're the father, to the point they were both taken to see the ultrasound separately. It was meant to be portrayed as ~so crazy~ but I just felt someone should have gone biblical on her ass.

I just can't help but feel someone who finds this shit funny or endearing would potentially be willing to do the same crap. But I'll also admit that I also have to resist the urge to be preachy a lot of the time.

>>18535785
>Now all love songs make sense as do those stupid movies
I don't really see how banging a 30 year old loser instead of the guy you supposedly like is supposed to make sense.

>>18535760
No, I just don't watch them...

>>18535796
That's the thing man, it's a fantasy realm for women where they can act insane and still have the guy ready to understand and forgive them at the end of the day. Where it is unthinkable that their puppy love has moved on ten years after their relationship and still welcomes her with arms open wide. Where men have an extreme emotional sensitivity and are all crazily romantic deep down as long as they meet the right woman.

It's soothing. It portrays a version of love that doesn't sting as much as the real thing, that's less messy. That's why I compared it to porn, it's kind of the equivalent to the guy who has to swipe his thumb off on tinder to get a match to begin with imagining he's the stud that hot women with the sex drive of a sixteen year old male drop their panties for because he's so irresistable. And they of course love blowjobs and hard anal and don't care for foreplay or getting their pussy eaten.

It's escapism. It doesn't necessarily have to do much with what you expect from real life. If anything I would judge the way she talks about those movies to see whether she can acknowledge that it has little to do with real life. Or perhaps only in the sense that in real life, a much more "mediocre" version of those events feels as romantic and as spectacular as the movie version.

>>18535796
We'll, yeah that movie, in particular sucks, especially because Kristen Stewart is such a terrible actress.

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>>18535785
>until I fell in love

I haven't been in love since I was 15 and I still watch them to humor this girl I'm dating haha
But I really can't really tell what most of them are about. I do notice a pattern .

I met this super qt waitress at a restaurant, and she seemed to be somewhat interested in me, she glared a lot at me and we did minor chitchat, but I didn't try to make any move because I was with my family. So I'm planning to return next week to talk to her.

What I want to know is if it is a good idea to bring a buddy to be my wingman or if it is better to go alone?

>>18535822
I'd bring a friend, not as a wingman but just to make it more casual and for you to feel less awkward about where to keep your eyes when you aren't interacting with her. Give her your number when you leave.

Don't try to seduce her at her job, it's dickish. She's getting paid to be charming and engaging. Plus she cannot walk away or be as firm as she might be otherwise while at her place of employment. Try to make an impression on her with the little time you get, joke around or whatever, but don't put her on the spot.

>>18535832
>I'd bring a friend, not as a wingman but just to make it more casual
I used to be that friend, shit was actually more awkward. And borderline painful. Not the same anon.

>>18535841
To be fair you don't know how badly they would've fucked up without you there.

Also imagining myself in her position, if the guy I locked eyes with a couple of times returns by himself and starts chatting me up... I'll know that he wants to fuck me and that that's the only reason he's there in under a minute. I might suspect it with a friend but it's still different.

Girls, what is the best way i can approach you in a class?

Hey Anons, i tend to fall for girls pretty easily and tend to read whats not their and take it the wrong way, so i either mess up our friendship or just completely shut down and try to avoid them, how do i fix this to where i can just be friends with them and when i do find a girl i like to not mess it up

>>18535875
Make it organic. First opportunity that we happen to sit or stand near each other, ask a plausible question about the course requirements, an assignment, a lecture you missed, whatever. Then branch out to a little small talk. If there's a click you can easily jump from two or three comments on the course to life in general, if not stick with the topic you have in common and joke about the professor or compare the workload to other courses.
If all goes well she should reciprocate and there's now a feeling that you know each other beyond just being classmates. If she just gives the shortest answers she can get away with, she's not interested period, and it's not because you had the wrong strategy.

If this went successfully you can now greet her whenever you run into her and just ask her and initiate other kinds of small talk ("how was your weekend?").
I'm personally also a big fan of sitting down next to her if you don't have a seating arrangement. It breaks the ice to spend a lot of time near each other even if hardly anything is said, and I find that "high school" level playing around like making faces in response to something said, doodling, bracing stern glances together after a whispered comment or trying to hold in laughter is a great bonding experience.

>>18535854
Without me there at least the girl wouldn't constantly glance at me and not noticing him, she had to ask him repeat his order ffs.

I should not have been polite to her, I should have acted like I was retarded or something.

>>18535904
If she behaved like that then it wasn't you being present that caused it to not work out.

>>18535907
I wish you are right.
I haven't talked to him in 3 years. He's a manager of a big company now :)

>>18535914
I'm almost certain. Assuming this is a similar scenario and they already met beforehand... there's a lot going on in the first interactions. I used to work a service job where I saw lots of people on a daily basis and the guys that stood out to me absolutely weren't the best looking ones but the ones who were the nicest to interact with. If he made so little of an impression on her earlier that a random guy she never saw before had her interest more, even if you are quite good looking, that says a lot about his chances.

That's nice!

>>18535930
Thanks. I'm proud of him.
On topic, this is my question >>18535017

>>18535832
>I'd bring a friend, not as a wingman but just to make it more casual
That's what I was thinking when I said wingman. I don't need my buddy to help me out, talk good about me or anything like that, just for him to be there and make things more casual.

>>18535904
So you mean that she didn't like your friend and evaded him by paying more attention to you? Or was she more into you?

>>18535854
Genuinely good Insight.
I really don't want to brush this off and forget about it; which is why I'm planning to return and try my luck.
But I can see how this could be awkward for someone in her position if things go wrong or if she simply doesn't dig me. So I'll keep that in mind.

Although the restaurant is genuinely good and I would return there anyway. I haven't had such a good burger in a long time, lol.

>>18535017
>>18535963
Dude put yourself in her shoes. You're out with your brand new girl and a guy who has known her for much much longer and shared bonding with her that you can't conceive of, pulls her in closely and starts whispering about the sex they've had. Then they exchange numbers.

Any given guy (or girl!) would feel humiliated to the bone. Yeah I think your relationship is over because you showed that you have no idea what appropriate boundaries look like. You should've cut her off as soon as the talk got sexual and told her that you were there with your girlfriend. Even if everything went too quickly for that, you shouldn't have exchanged contact info after she just made it blatantly clear that she takes a sexual interest in you.

Having said that you go way back and you have been dating this girl for two weeks. It's probably over already. Just apologize for being a dick then break up and see where this takes you. For future notice, you cannot play the "she's only a childhood friend" card after you fucked. So you better make it work or be prepared to have a cordial but distant relationship with her in the future.

>>18532487
Question for the ladies. I'm a 23 year old male, and I don't really want one night stands or anything, I actually want my next girlfriend to be my last and get married. Is this a turn off for girls this age? Should I keep that to myself?

>>18536005
A man who knows what he wants and is more interested in the real deal than meaningless hook ups is a huge turn on. However personally I could not deal with the pressure of knowing that if we got together, you'd actually want to get married. For me that's an option that arises if after an amount of dating, things go amazingly well. So that part I would never want to know (unless you are 100% adamant of course, because then that would be a dealbreaker).

>>18532497
Dude don't do it. I came home one day to find out my gf had literally become a prostitute and had slept with a bunch of my friends. I wanted to kill myself then but now you dont know how glad I am that I didn't. Channel your negative energy bro, become a better you, make yourself too good for her and one day you'll realise that its actually true.

>>18535978
But I apologized and admitted my mistake? mind you we started dating two weeks ago but I've known her since new year's eve. I believe she's wife material. This turned out to be probably my shortest "relationship", it's depressing. She replied to my text few hours ago, (I forgot to check my phone), basically she said she isn't sure about "us". I just asked her if this is the end, no reply yet.

The other girl, I "knew" her, that is true, ages ago, but I have no idea who she is now, the only thing between us is fleeting sexual interest. Also I feel there's something promiscuous about her.

>>18535974
That was the last time we went there, so I honestly don't know, it could be either, or both. But other anon is right, my friend perhaps isn't her type to begin with.

>>18536015
Well I dont mean I just want to marry the very next person, I would want to be together a few years atleast before considering marriage. I just want to find the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. So its not something I should bring up in conversation?

>>18535778
Nah. Everybody has preferences. All you can do is to ask her out, get rejected and then move on with your life.

>>18535894
Honestly dont understand your post. Try again in new thread. Maybe make more than 1 big nonsence sentence.

>>18536005
Dont babble about marriage on 1st date. Just tell her you are done with casual hook ups and that you are looking for serious long term relationship. Everything else will come itself eventually.

>>18536050
You both are in a very tricky situation. And it seems like there's not much you can do to fix it, so you will have to hope for the best, and of course, asure her that you won't fool around with this other girl because you want to make things work between you and her.

But she honestly has some right to feel hesitant, jealous and even upset. So try not to get too worked up if she does ditch you.

>>18536128
Ok, she sent me a wall of text saying something but it seems the gist of it is she is still up for our date
Why do girls do this? just half an hour ago she sounds like she's about to break up with me over SMS

Also my female friend actually called, but I didn't pick up.
But she texted and apologized, she said she was super embarrassed since she didn't know I had a gf, right next to me, too, and we have been texting the last 30 minutes, mostly about old memories and how other kids in our street turned out (we used to live next to each other). Oh right, she has a bf. Haha. If I let my gf know this we can all be friends I assume?

>>18536209
Hopefully, in fact it could be for the best, so she can see that your friend has a bf. But she will still have this lingering thought that you could call your friend at any moment to hook up or that she could be replaced by her, which will certainly keep her anxious for a while.

She could eventually forget about it, she could aim to be the best gf she can so you forget about this girl, or she could keep feeling the same way I mentioned above. That is up to her, and this could actually teach you a lot about what kind of person she is.

But the best you can do is to stay chill, don't shove in her face the fact that you might keep in touch with your friend, and be a loving boyfriend.

How do i respond to someone who says "yea" all the time?

>>18536358
I absolutely hate this. Why do guys text in the most uninspired way? It sucks so hard when they open with "hey" or reply with "yea." I'd rather talk in person too but at least I'm trying here

I think I'm a pretty average guy looks wise and I seem to be socially ok, yet I don't think I come off as attractive to women, and I'm not exactly sure why.

I've got a few ideas, I'm still not super healthy weight wise, I'm about 6'1 210 pounds but hold it on my back and stomach because I'm coming from being 350+ lbs, so I still look obese (BMI is less than 30 however) even though other people at this weight/height would simply have a big belly and look relatively normal. My voice is nasally and higher pitched with a slight lisp, I don't really sound like a 26 year old man. I think my humor is hit or miss, sometimes I'm on it and people are laughing their asses off, other times I just come across as weird. My biggest issue is sometimes I'm at a complete loss for words, even around people I'm really comfortable with. I don't know what to talk about or keep a conversation flowing at times, and again this is hit or miss. I can feel totally relaxed and in the moment and other times I feel like I have absolutely nothing worth saying and feel awkward.

Altogether, I don't think any of this is particularly strange or uncommon, but there's just something about me where the women I tend to interact with don't see me as a sexual being in anyway. For example, I went out with three girls the other night, just me and them. We drank at my house then went out to the bars late night. One of them is my friend, one of them is a friend of hers who I've met a couple times, and the other is her sister who I had only met the night before. We were having a lot of fun the entire night, all of us pretty drunk, and we were laughing and listening to music, yet I didn't get the sense from any of them that they saw me as anything other than a random dude, not that they're supposed to ofc, but I felt like I was really charming, I was dressed well and felt confident, I felt attractive but they never really showed any interest in me the entire night.

I want to fix this but I dont know how

>>18536566
Hey is fine with me. But "yea" is just...annoying if used a lot. I was talking about a video game and he texts "Nerd!!". I made a joke and hes like "u dumb lol". wtf