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Eye contact. Never divert your eyes before she (or anyone else) does, unless you notice that it's actually making her uncomfortable. If she makes a point of it, just smile and say "goosebumps!"

why are u shy, op? what are u afraid of?

and dont do the goosebumps thing that would sound very weird if u tried to force that out or something

>>18554466

Go talk to attractive girls.

you're a fucking idiot. you just made her super insecure about something she has no control over. have fun not getting any sex.

>>18554404
Well, why did she become extremely skinny all of a sudden? Maybe you could say that you just want her to be healthy.

>>18554680

>>18554376
>6 month
>anniversary

>>18554376
What about a gift and a nice restaurant?

>celebrating your 6 months

are you 15?

>>18554315
Is there a question here or are you just bragging?

So the related picture is not revelant due to being in bed with my loved one at 4 in the morning

I don't know what to do and I feel extremely gross.

>>18554295
They're way easier to learn than manual. You just need to learn to start the engine with the brake pedal, and then control it gas/brake wise, like a gocart. Shouldn't be a problem.

>>18554295
>Do I simply put it in D and do nothing unless I stop the vehicle?


Essentially, yes. You start it in P and then the only thing to be careful about, as previous anon suggested, is that you have your foot on the brake when you shift to D. Then ease up on the brake, ease on the gas and go. (Some newer cars even do that for you - they won't let you shift to D unless you're on the brake.)

Borrow a friend's automatic car, drive it for 5 minutes, and you've got it

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>>18554295
Automatics are pretty much complicated go carts, d to drive and then p to park. Dunno what 2 is for t b h never touched a automatic in my life except from my grandmas suzuki vitara. Sounds like a comfy job at Asda though.

they help you with thinking, hand eye coordination, communication BUT ONLY if doing it without neglecting studying and socializing

relentlessly smashing buttons in the middle of the night is the exact opposite, competitive playing is a meme, less than 1% make it and they are vile, egoistic creatures and they bust themselfs for money you can easily earn with less effort if you have a normal job

>>18554189
Yep thanks. I just play competitive because its fun really. I have no desire to become a competitive gamer for a living. Just a hobby/ slight addiction. I'm pretty high though, proud of myself

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Video game characters / moscot do the same things that slut do. act like they are innocent and get your money

>>18554158
>rewind back to when OP asked for /adv/ about sex situation and hiring escorts
>/adv/ said don't do it
>OP does not heed our /adv/ and does it anyway
>Here asking for /adv/ again

>>18554158
> talking with this women
There, that's where you went wrong.

She wouldn't fuck you if she didn't want to. You don't have to spend money on women, my dude.

t. Women have spent more money on me, than I have on them

>>18554158
What kinds of things are you spending money on, like dinner and stuff? Why not start with a simple coffee date next time to keep it cheap and see where it goes from there my friend?

>>18554152
Gee OP you sure sound like a faggot.

>>18554163
Text doesn't bother me at all

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>>18554152
It's OK to be sensitive, OP.

Your problem seems to be that you take too many things personally. The guy telling you "fuck your mother bitch" on CS is lashing out because the kid got scolded by his mom for not taking out trash. That boss yelling at you is probably constantly stressed out and prone to yell at most people.

You need to learn that world is not all about you, OP. For example, I am into arts myself, 24 year old male, been to art schools, now a graphic designer, and I am also incredibly sensitive to people's words and prone to rumination and guilt, but I've been also digging into self-help material in the past years, which has helped me to overcome this, while not becoming an asshole.

Basically, I recommend you do deep breathing exercises and meditation, maybe even go for a walk outside occasionally. These have all been scientifically proven to work better than anti-depression medication (not kidding).

Imagine that it's Germany 1940 and some jew gets a knock at the door by SS officers who have an order to escort the jewish family to death camp. Is it likely that their family done something wrong, or maybe, just maybe, it's the case that same faith struck tens of thousands of jewish families in Germany, and it's not them at fault, but the whims of forces greater than them which they cannot control? That is how life can be sometimes, that you have to submit to a certain faith, and make the best of the circumstances you are given. Is Hitler mad at Goldstein family in particular, or all jewish families at once? The latter one, just like how boss yelling at you has an anger problem, not that you are a fuck up and they need to go out of their way to punish you.

>>18554128
Chess tactics
Sudoku's
Crossword puzzles

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Watch porn or like read a book

>>18554128
Take magnesium & fish oil supplements once/twice a day, both are really good for mental faculties and brain. Google about this, there is endless list of benefits.

Any creative/technical hobby is good. Literally whatever you pick, it's going to sharpen your mind. It's although preferrable to pick one that you can cash in as you progressively get better.

Look into it, could definitely be good for your career. You could even manage to look for jobs in Germany after having worked there for a while, as an internal company transfer.

Both sound like great options, well done.
Research will be rather quiet, self-driven, at-your-own pace sort of thing. You'll learn how to ask the right questions and navigate research environment. It will be better if you want to stay in academia.
PM will be stressful, sink-or-swim kinda deal. You'll learn how to make things happen in a profit-driven environment. It will be better if you want to stay in industry.
After either one, your path is not set in stone. In the long run, there's still time to change the road you're on.

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>>18554123
>>18554131

I appreciate your valuable feedbacks. The thing is I don't want to spen my life in a small city like there and I probably leave there in maximum 2 years. Do you think it's worth to work there for that much time? I'm also not sure about the internal transfer chances.

I don't want to regret my decision after years...

>>18554109
>"So /adv/, I have this situation. I have done absolutely nothing in the past year to figure out a solution, but I am worried about the results. Is it possible that things could ever magically improve without me having to put in any effort?"

This is how you sound, seriously OP.

>>18554117
who said i am worried, it is just shit to exist like this and im ranting. "oh hi. im the wierdo who u probably noticed never speaking and always by himself for 2 years."

seems from my point of view the ship has already sailed. missed my chance 2 years ago before everyone else knew everyone else already. AKA before I was the weird as fuck outcast

>>18554124
Oh okay i thought this is /adv/ not /rant/

>>18554101
How ugly can you possibly be then? I've seen plenty of genuinely ugly people and I still find it hard to fathom that someone is this ugly that people can't stop being assholes about it.

>>18554101
those people. And I'm actually kind of good at it. It's boosted my confidence a bit, but I still had my dark thoughts. Anyway a little while ago this fat chick joined the sales team and she was hitting on me so I banged her 3 times before I got grossed out. not a very proud way to lose your virginity. but she told me I was cute, I didn't even ask, I'm not a bitch. and after the third night she was saying she loved me and asked if I ever see myself in a relationship with her. The whole situation got me thinking maybe I should value myself more.

And so lately I've been more confident, relaxed, happy, and women are being a lot nicer to me. The hot moms at the door want to stay and talk longer, I make eye contact and sometimes smiles that aren't uncomfortable with women everywhere. actually I was at the dmv and I asked this beautiful girl if my number had been called (i went out to smoke) and she said yeah and when I came back from getting a new number she was sitting right next to where I had been. I looked at her briefly on my way back but she looked at me more confidently so I looked away but I think she smiled. I wonder if she wanted me to talk to her. oh and this one occasion where a hot chick initiated a conversation with me in an elevator. This might sound normal to you but to me it's all really curious behavior.

So maybe I'm more attractive than I previously thought, or I read way too much into things. But I still have this loner mentality. I want people but I can't get attached to people. and everything I say is hella fake, like I just say the right things. I used to be pretty funny and clever, but it feels like that was a long time ago. I'm basically scared to talk to girls I think are good looking, and especially scared that I'm going to be judged for being a loser with no friends, even if I have opinions and shit and am pretty normal.

I will post pic if anybody cares.

>>18554145
Yeah, sure. Let's see it

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Fuck off back to >>>/pol/ you underage frogposting anime nazi

I actually got banned for shitposting on their board

>>18554106
then bring your ass to /bant/ and leave us alone, thank you

Why do you think that God is so obsessed with your dick?

>>18554048
Doesn't that null the whole point of grace and forgiveness if God was a vengeful god who punishes you whenever you sin?

I don't really like the Catholic theology because of that bases of "You must be perfect and CANNOT sin otherwise you will be punished and become unsaved again!"

Hello /x/

some might say what you're doing is dangerous, but only because you believe it is. When you have convinced yourself that releasing is and act of creativity, then use the power for something you want to achieve, rather than fearing the wrath of a demiurge

oh yeah he also is a habitual shoplifter and never seems to get caught. It's like a part-time job for him at this point, so much money saved

1. Why is he with you?
2. Why are you with him?

>>18554056
1. I think because of sexual attraction, we share sexual kinks, and he just likes spending time with me
2. The same as number one but i also like how he has dedication and never seems to give a shit, he just keeps the show going with minimal downtime.