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>>18568509
go outside and talk to people

Who is the qt

dont think of spiders all over your face

>>18568501
It is sadly true that looks matter a lot to teenagers. But that becomes progressively and rapidly less true in your 20s, when women and men begin paying more attention to personality and deeper character.

The problem is that your disappointments and bitterness may have affected your personality.

It will take some courage to do this, but try to forget your looks and focus on being a nice guy, and see what happens.

>>18568492
I never get why people who have medical problems come to /adv/ instead of going to the doctor. Is american healthcare system really this fucking bad that most people don't have any sort of coverage at all?

>>18568502
/adv/ is much cheaper than a doctor
that said, op should go to the doctor
and yes, its rough over here as far as healthcare goes

>>18568492
Gradual and when nail enters your flesh, it'll hurt and get infected. Nurse or health technicians (or local witch doctor) can cure it by simply pulling it off completely. New one hopefully won't bend inside.

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>>18568472
You did right, gratz OP, all organized religion is cancer and encourages stupid-ass bigotry.

I recommend you seek out communities on internet for ex-muslims for support or perspective. I don't recommend you go full fedora or political about your opposition to islam, but rather focus on getting your life in order and be thankful to your friend that lets you stay over. Try and look forward to getting a job/going to school and accept that you won't hear from your family for a long while. Good luck!

>>18568472
Get into a skilled trade as an apprentice. It pays "enough," and then, after you become a Journeyman, it pays more than "enough," and IF you can become a Master, you're looking at 6-digit income.

I began to think for yourself.

>>18568433
Don't be pathetic man. Watch your plebbit spacing. Have some self respect.

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>>18568433
You don't miss her, you miss the emotion. You can attain that level of emotion from any girl that meets your set of standards if you put in effort into building a relationship. It's OK to be sad, you just broke up, but you have to realize that the things you are feeling are what you need to work on, not the attachments to certain people in your life. If you feel sad, it's OK to cry and let it out, while it's not OK to contemplate on how to get her back or if you are a bad guy. You'll make it OP.

>t. spent 4 years crying about an ex-girl before getting over it

>>18568458
>>18568437

you missed the rub of the post. My fault.

I miss this girl I was cheating on my girlfriend with.

>>18568318
Check the catalog, and if you can't find it, look for an archive service (or, depending on the board, just click on "Archive.")

HOLY SHIT, I QUESTION IF THERE'S A DIETY THAT HATES MY GUTS, TOO! But for different reasons
>make promises that let's be honest, get broken (I can't nofap for my life unless said god proves to me that he'll ease my day after abstaining. Only a few times did this work,especially on Easter Sunday. I assumed Jesus was the diety of concern)
>Got some money, but it's dwindling because of some bullshit
>Job's slowly getting worse day by day
>Everyone's slowly becoming assholes towards me in spite of me just showing up and trying to get shit done for the day
>In turn, this makes me negative of course
>realize I blocked my social security card, which means no one will know my credit and shit
>tried calling social security offices to unblock my number but they keep telling me to call a credit bureau or it only applies to the social security site (bullshit)
>also lost birth certificate during a move

I sometimes feel some god out there hates my guts and wants to play trickster against me. Sadly, this god succeeds all the time in worsening my life.

>>18568239
I am sorry OP, it sounds like you do have some shit stuff going on. My life is slightly better than that, and I am single, but prior to that, I endured years of bullying in school. One time in crafts class, some retard threw sawdust into my eyes so I had to go to hospital to get it removed from my eyes, luckily I didn't get blind or anything.

Just saying that what helps, what helped me, is to find one thing in your life which you really like, and keep going just for the sake of that alone, even if the rest is falling apart. Things might improve over time, but fussing too much over your current circumstances does nothing but drive you more crazy.

>>18568239
>believing there's something in charge of reality
>believing that all powerful being gives a single tin-shit about you

Stop being so stupid.

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Yup.

>>18568224
That's an aces labtob compter

Thank

>>18568186
What the fuck is "monogamy meme", are you a muslim?

Jokes aside, I know what you mean, it just sounds like you shouldn't hurry so much to commit, just stay single and enjoy that side of life. I've even heard from one of my older cousins and such that you shouldn't marry until you are 30 or else you are going to make a series of dumb-ass decisions you must be dealing with for the rest of your life.

>>18568186
>[why] am I supposed to pick one person and stick to them forever
for raising offspring and having someone to fuck in times that you are unattractive. take it or leave it. I would recommend having affairs if you don't want to commit, rather than being one of those sluts going on about their sex rings. I think that's what the French do - they just have affairs until they intend to get old with someone and/or have children.

If you use women for mere stimulation, as you use music and books, then you're correct. But, just as music and books will never provide you companionship, neither will a woman used for stimulation. I'm the same way though, OP, I could care less about companionship, but it's not monogamy that's the problem, it's pepper like us who see women as a form of entertainment.

>>18568178
in a contraceptive study done by the CDC, pulling out had a 74% success rate over the course of two years. I would only recommend it to someone who would be happy with a pregnancy.

>>18568178
>my main deal is I’m worried about causing an unwanted pregnancy
If you don't want to make a baby, use condoms. There is a chance that a woman will get pregnant any time that sperm cells get near her ova. This includes pre-cum, which has sperm cells in it. I haven't a clue why you put the word doctors in quotation marks other than to make yourself feel better about disregarding general reproductive knowledge for the sake of justifying letting your penis skin touch vagina skin, but it's probably related to your TL;DR being five sentences premature and then finishing with "to sum it up."

>>18568178
It's possible, albeit rare. I would just get her on the pill. They are dirt cheap.

>>18568151
at least you realize your personality could use work. it's those who don't realize, that I have little hope for.

some of the traits (not all) you consider negative might also be good, and just aren't being expressed in a positive way. don't let your low self esteem distort your world.

You buy them from a life coach.

>>18568151
why do you want to buy a new personality, what's wrong OP?

>>18568150
Sounds like you are in high school still, OP.

I am 24 and it always kind of sucks in HS, I for example was somewhat bullied by several people in my class. People were really mean for no reason and shit like that, which stopped only in the middle of 12th grade when I got a gf and I managed to gain enough respect that they didn't bully me so much anymore, but still treated me like shit.

My advice is that even though it seems like everything is shit, the good thing about HS is that the future seems brighter when you are in HS than upon graduation. Use that optimism and plan for a good plan for what to do when you get out of HS. Don't go "ummm I really dunno what to do", just pick something you kind of like, then STICK to it, really. I recommend a college or something.

As of right now, just navigate carefully, don't get into any huge shit and just try to survive. After HS, you'll have a chance to improve your life a bit and get out of the mess like parents restricting you or friends being mean and such.

>>18568051
get the fuck off tumblr and see a doctor

do you want to have sex with me?

To everyone here! (Slight errors in grammar ahead. Please excuse me :D)

How do I properly convey to a girl that I like her?

I started liking this girl ever since she came into the same college I'm in and I have never been in an actual relationship(it was a disaster, the first one) even though I'm 20.

So my question is, do I tell like
>Hey, i just wanna say that I like you.
or
>Hey, I have a confession to make. I like you. I know I'm pretty quick on everything. You can take your time to think and if your opinion is no, I'm fine with that either. Have a nice day.

Is the second one okay? Because after my first catastrophic relationship, I've learned to accept rejections almost everywhere because it put me into several mental breakdowns and I learned to move on.

Telling about this girl; from what I have learned, she's a quiet type but extremely talented in so many art activities. She shelved up several prizes in the first 3 months she came in. She's always in that friends circle where most of em are the popular ones but I've seen her to be pretty nice.

I don't know what exactly made me like her but I like her. I have talked to her previously when I was the captain for a group and she was my group member. I really liked the way she talked to me and the way she was supporting me in activities which were needed for the group. A really nice girl in whole. From then, we have only exchanged smiles and hi-byes.

>I could tell even more and more about her hehe

We are currently having a vacation of 2 months and have a month remaining. So I think I have enough time to prepare.

Help me guys.

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>my mom has a meetup with one of her old college friends
>I have to go with her
>her friend's daughter is going to be there
>mom tells me, "I'm letting you know ahead of time that she's really pretty so you won't be surprised, she's around your age" (I'm 21)
>yeah, I've seen pretty girls before
>the day comes
>she reminds me that this girl is really hot
>she shows me a picture of her in a bikini
>mom, what the hell
>we finally meet them
>yeah, she's pretty
>mom asks "what grade are you in?"
>"I'm going into 10th"
>mfw

What did she mean by this?