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>but the adrenaline took over me when we came close.

There ya go OP. Just get so full of rage and adrenaline that it won't hurt should it come to that.

>>18665295

Based adrenaline.
Is that all there is to it? I haven't had a fight in 8 years since school

>>18665289
>He's mentally ill and treats everyone like shit
>Gets angry over his obsessions and hobbies

>Ended up getting so worked I was ready to destroy him and frothing at the mouth as I was shouting
>Had to be held back

And in exactly what way are you any better than him?

Yes it is

17 Years old and still a fucking fag. Blaming your own father on your shitty life mistakes and even reporting him to the police instead of just talking with him.

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>>18665279
What is your problem exactly ?
your father hurt you or what ?

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>>18665272
for posting*
but like I said*

Been a long day

how 2 get


qt314 gf?

>>18665272
There's this dumb bitch I had a thing with and long story short we don't talk anymore. I'm tempted to just unfriend/ block from social media but I don't want to look like a loser who's immature.

Should I just ride this out until I completely stop thinking about her?

Bbbbbbbb

>>18665268

Cccccccc

>>18665268
Zzzzzzzz

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>>18665265
What did she say when she refused to have sex with you? Maybe she wanted your first experience to be with someone you love, special

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I think you are putting too much emphasis on whether or not you are a virgin. I just feel like life is so much more than just having sex or finding a relationship and yet our society relentlessly pushes this idea on to you that if you aren't doing this as soon as possible you are some kind of circus freak. People lose their virginity at different times, but just realize that your time will come sooner or later but that isn't a measure of your self worth. I'm sure there are a whole host of unique and impressive qualities that you have and that there are plenty of wonderful things about you, and if other people can't appreciate those things that is not your problem. Just keep improving yourself, go to the gym maybe, read more, realize that you are valuable and don't rely on other people to validate yourself.

>>18665323
She just said sorry I don't want to take your virginity then I said ok.

>>18665325
Thanks. Reading what you said made me feel a little better about all of it. Idk. I just want to have sex but I can't seem to get any.

>>18665254
I can't guarantee you will ever fully recover, however I do believe that you can become better.

First of all, I do think cutting contact with them would be the right thing to do. They're the source of your trauma and having to be reminded of it all the time prevents you from healing.

You need therapy. If a therapist doesn't work, I heard group sessions helps people with PTSD a lot. Having understanding, supportive and loving friends will mean the world for you.

Maybe that last point would be hard for you but I think if you can, you really should change your environment and how you cope with your problems.

>>18665254
You are only bound by your imagination Anon. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. Your parents suck. Hop on the next bus to "fuckyouville" and go start a new life. Once the people around you aren't abusive it's an uphill battle to find your self worth, but it's actually possible to love yourself.

I'm often the same as you. When people are kind or caring toward me I lose all respect for them an get a sick feeling in my stomach. Being able to remember in the moment that this emotional response is brought on by your years of abuse will help you get over this hurdle. It will NOT be easy, so don't fool yourself, but the sooner you move away from these people the better shot your have of success. Abusees are simply people that are trying to fit a square peg (you) into around hole (what they wish you were). Fuck that shit. It has no reflection on you. Get the fuck outta there brother. You will be better for it.

>>18665254
When you said your dad who's supposed to be the patriach and keep the shit together in family just did nothing. It's time for you to jump the ship. It's sinking anyways.

Change your environment, man. Cut contact with your family, but if it's possible for you leave a door to reconnecting later, blood is thicker than water in the end still.

Get help, get a group theraphy with positive people who could help you keep each others in check. Do not be afraid to jump from the sinking ship.

The Field Sobriety Test.

>>18665269
Thread over.

>>18665269
>>18665275
Should've added, we're Australian and no policing organization makes or would even consider the use of such a test. The breatho does it for us.

like using your tongue to play with a nipple except more vigorously and at the top of her vaginal opening

try different approaches for 30s at a time and see what she likes i.e. circles with your tongue, if she's not responding try up and down, or in and out while applying upward pressure

just make sure you're not too erratic, try different rhythmic things for short periods of time, try different frequencies and amounts of force and pay attention to her moans/body tensing

focus your mind on her responses and find a few things she seems to like and swap it up between them until orgasm

>>18665297
This was informative and will be certaintly helpful, but how do i find the illusive magic bean?

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you don't need to be on the clit the whole time tho

>>18665236
it's unrealistic to trust someone after that happens

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>>18665238
Lmao it looks like a joke to me. We go on 4chan for banter and post shit like "niggers and jews". What diffrence does talking to a trap make?

Unless you have other moments of him being weird I think it was a one time thing or something that feel'd fun at the time. If he does it again or anything like it confront him.

>>18665249
t. has a trap in his basement and doesn't want to be found out

In what world is flirting with a trap while being in a relationship a joke?

>>18665233
>I get really lonley not being able to see her. I want to ask for nudes.
Dude don't try to justify your horniness emotionally.

Sext, and while you're sexting ask her to show you her body.

>>18665240
We have never sexted before, how would I start? How do I even got on the topic with out spooking her off

>>18665191
Go eat .

Are you asking for suggestions? I'm just going to make a few suggestions.

Order a pizza. Keep several low-cost ingredients handy so you can make yourself a meal whenever you want. Have a friend bring you something. If all else fails, anything made from leather is edible - just make sure to boil any bacteria off of it before you eat it.

>>18665191
Noodles

Just look for a house or apartment in the low-income district of your city of choice. Moving to a ghetto is easy. Ghetto life on the other hand, slightly less so. Especially your first several months there, when your new neighbors will be sizing you up as they pass.

>>18665176
i've been around what crackers consider the "ghetto" before and i can tell you that people there are 12x nicer than the white cow fucking cousin rapers out here

>>18665182
Oh I know. I live in the Houston area, so I make that "who's nicer" comparison on a regular basis. It's gotten even worse in the last couple weeks. But that's neither here nor there. If you want to move to the ghetto, go for it. If you want to be a famous rapper, don't let anything stop you. Just remember that whatever you want, you have to bust your ass for it. Fame and respect don't come free to any of us.

I think a lot of people are on autopilot. That's why we regard working hard and being succesful as a hard thing. All it takes is doing it. But its easier to follow through on habits. Some people are lucky they were raised right, since thier habits give them sucess anyway. They still don't change the world though.

There are extraordinary people then there are ordinary people. Everybody chooses.

similar here, only 1 year older. my dad's death + long term gf leaving the country turned me into an escapist internet addict and it's almost been a decade since i've been on autopilot.
i know it's a meme but maybe start lifting? it's what i'm gonna do.

>>18665090
Usually, banging them anally does the trick.

she can control it
rip her panties off and gag her with them until she learns to shut the fuck up

>>18665090
Thing you should do
1. Bitch go get a job
2. Stop the shit you are doing
If she didn't stop step 3. Fuck her non-stop till she knows who is the captain
4. Bitch have a brain hard as a rock kick out

>>18665083
How you are you?

>>18665083
Nope abort. Work on yourself to the point that women come up to you so you don't have to ask us for help

>>18665091
I think it's worth noting that we used to talk in high school, which was last year. Even after she's curved me she's been liking all my IG pictures since I tried talking to her, which she never did before. Not sure if that's worth noting