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>best friend and boyfriend both live abroad
>they are a couple of hours apart by train
>best friend says that she'll go see my boyfriend sometimes next month
>says she wants to stay over for the weekend and visit the town where he lives

I feel really uncomfortable with them being alone together for days and sleeping in the same bed.
Should I tell him to either invite her a weekend when I'm also in town, or not invite her at all? Would I come off as crazy jealous?

Boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. They get along well.

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So uh
My ex is intruding on my life on levels unknown to man
She won't stop trying to get in my pants or date or whatever she can do to be around me but the fact is she's hurt me too much.
I don't want to be around her, not even as an acquaintance but she threatened suicide becasue she has nobody else to go to
She's done anything she can, she has the exact model camera I want, she's trying to be friend my best friends and is starting to mention cars, which is my biggest passion and I know for a fact she doesn't like them
What do I do about her? I can't hurt her and I have to leave her but with support.
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Can anyone give me some advice about which credit card I should apply to? I need one for a trip to nyc and to build credit in general but I dont want the interest rates to eat me up. Wat do?

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>gf broke up with me after 5 year relationship
>spend 2 months depressed
>start hitting the town again every weekend
>have a lot of fun, flirt with a ton of girls
>the moment we are about to make out I pull back
>this happens about 4-5 times each night

wtf is wrong with me? how come all of these girls want me but all I can think of is that she doesn't want me? how the fuck do I move on?

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I FEEL SAD AND LOW, DEPRESSED AND SUICIDAL. I NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO. CALL ME ON +44.07713665541 PLEASE JUST NEED TO HEAR A VOICE!

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So to start off with, this is all completely online and I'm painfully aware of how stupid this all sounds so I mean if you wanna tell me what I already know, sure go ahead I guess.

So about 4 (?) years ago I made this friend (let's call them Friend A) online. She and I were both on tumblr and we were both those fucking losers who laughed at sjw's and whatnot so we got along. We became friends over similar interests. We had an extremely minor falling out after a mutual friend (Friend B) decided to break off their friendship with Friend A, but after we established some ground rules (The standard 'don't go telling Friend B about what Friend A is doing' and vice versa etc), we began talking again.

So to the present about... a month ago now? Friend A has blocked me over a misunderstanding over something I said that which I now realise could easily be misconstrued into something I DEFINITELY did not intend to say.

I've never met this person, but I mean we'd skype called and stuff, and I knew a lot about their family and stuff just from talking regularly in the 4 years we've known each other so we were basically long distance friends.

Tbh, I considered them almost like a best friend of mine. Anyway after being completely misunderstood, I've been blocked pretty much on all media so there's 100% no way to explain or apologise or anything like that.

It's been a month since this falling out and I've been having anxiety problems the entire time. It got so bad one night that I could barely breathe. I'm so paranoid now over just talking to people because I'm the kind of person that tends to get easily misunderstood. I'm not really good at communicating, some mental disorder shit I don't want to go into.

I don't know what to do, I'm at a bit of a loss. I guess I just feel lonely and feel like my years of trying to get better at communicating just went down the tube, so I'm a bit depressed at myself too.

So any advice?

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So I'm seeing this girl that I'm not overly emotionally attached to, she has feeling for me but I have been very vocal about how confused I am emotionally and how I don't form attachment easily. That being said, my best friend (who I've had a MASSIVE crush on for the past year) recently broke up with her boyfriend. I initially thought I would be able to resist making any romantic advancements in order to preserve our great friendship, but then the other day we were on the train after a night out and she leaned her head on my shoulder and was perfectly comfortable with me putting my arm around her (which honestly just that little thing... I genuinely cant describe the butterflies I was feeling). so I guess my question is what should I do? Compromise everything I've built with the girl I'm with currently and pursue my BEST friend, or maintain both relationships accordingly and be left wondering what could've been?

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I am young and I want to make a lot of money. What career should I study?

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I'm dating a guy who says he has an extremely average penis. What's that mean?What do guys consider average? I havn't seen it yet.

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Is there any way to remove paranoia? I just spooked my Uncle with going into the back and grabbing the machete when we heard a knock on the door.

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She loves hitchhiking, hippies and beatnik literature. I love business stuff and money.

She is 100% loyal, caring, easy going and has a crazy spark that keeps everything fresh, but we have completely different outlooks on life. If not for her perfect qualities and a magical aura around her, this wouldn't last long.
We are both in college, and she is obviously not planning to stop adventuring anytime soon. I feel like all her deep spirited traveling friends are lazy hippies, but it seems to me like the only way to keep this relationship is folding and embracing this lifestyle.
What is my way out of this? I really love her.

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I parted ways with my only female friend a week ago, we got on great together. We skyped almost every week, shared some fandoms and she even gave me a watch on my birthday. What fucked it up is the fact that I caught feelings for her, and of course she didn't feel the same way.

I was disheartened but decided to continue the friendship, but even though I tried my best to bury my feelings for her, they kept coming back and eventually I just had to let her go for my own sanity. It was hard, but the fact she lives in a different county made it somewhat easier.

The whole thing has left me with the mentality that being just friends with a girl is impossible, as eventually one person's eventual feelings will fuck up the friendship.

My question is, is it ever possible for men and women to be just friends, and if so, how can I prevent romantic feelings from developing should I find myself in a friendship with a girl again?

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Hey guys

While I was meditating I had a sudden enlightment. Something told me I need to leave all things behind and have a clean start. So I'm asking you that if any of you have done something like that before. I need to disapear completely. Any recomendations where to get a new identity. I will thank you for any advice I get.

Thanks

OP

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My life is pretty much nuked at this point. I'm 27 and pretty much have nothing. I'm broke and semi unemployed, same goes for the family that I live in.

The most crushing is that I don't have anybody to talk to anymore. Sure I can sometimes talk to family members but I would like to have some "friends" online again. I had to beat a nasty deal of anxiety and other issues in the last few years and it pretty much killed of my online presence and whatever self confidence I had.

So I would like to ask, how could I make online friends again?
I am too poor for video games, nor I have any specialized skill or knowlage and I can't go back to the place I used to hang out.

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Is it racist that I'm turned off by white women who have been in relationships with black men? To me I feel that black male white female couples seem very hostile and racist towards white men. I fear that if I was in a relationship with a white women who is sexually attracted to black men she'd only be in the relationship to betray me.