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I've give up smoking weed after a big session and the withdrawal symptoms are fucking me, I can't think at the minute, there's no voice in my head, I can't picture or imagine things and I'm stuck being depressed and down as fuck no matter how hard I try to think positive things. I'm not at work at the minute as I've just recovered from an injury but I'm currently looking for vacancies online and applying, so at the minute I'm just isolating myself at home. All of my friends smoke weed so I don't really want to be around them at the minute. But anyway I keep going through phases like this in my life where I'll recover from the depression and anxiety and try real hard with my life and make progress, but then I revert back to this. It's getting really tiring and I'm on the verge of ending it all, I've been depressed on and off now for about 4-5 years since I was 15 or 16, I'm now 20. What should I do?
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I feel as though feeling like this is really gonna impact me physically and age me before my years and make me go bald or grey and possibly brain damage me
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How long has it been since you quit? I've quit smoking weed twice and the worst of it is always the 4th week, then I go back to having a clear mind and being able to sleep without a toke.
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>>17996861
6 days, Saturday night was the last time I smoked.
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Is it possible to just pick up and leave without having a lot? I really fucking hate living with my parents and they're alcoholics that don't give a fuck about a single thing
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>>17996841
If you have a backup plan, yes. You can leave with relatively little money as long as you either have a place to crach (a friends couch) or a plan how to get money quickly (a job). If you have a roof over your head, it gives you time to find a job. If you have a job, it's a promise of future money which gives you leeway when negotiating with possible landlords about renting a place. If you just up and leave without any beforehand plans, the chances are you'll end up homeless and bounching back from that if harder.
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>>17996844
Obviously I don't have any of that or I wouldn't of posted doood
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>>17996845
Then make the plans. Even if your parents are shit, you can probably hang on for a few more weeks/months to arrange it. Just start setting up your escape now, so you'll be out sooner rather than later. Do you have other relatives you could approach for help or for a place to stay? Do you have savings or a way to save up some emergency cash? Could you seek a job elsewhere and then ask your shit parents do the one last helpful thing and give you enough cash to make it happen?
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So, I've been chatting with this girl, we hang out rarely, but we hookup, we ended up having sex yesterday, but she says that shes to busy for everything. I try to hang with her but she just says shes busy ( shes not ) So im not sure what to do, Shes being extra quiet and sort of pushing me away even though, she had sex with me? I really like her and i tryed to talk to her but it just annoyed her, I dont want to keep asking her to hang out because she just blows me off, Its starting to fuck with my head and its confusing because now im starting to feel like she hates me for some reason, she told me when shes ready for things she would let me know, but then she told me not to wait.
Tbh im just getting alot of mixed signals and i dont know what do to about it, Im starting to get abit down from it all, Just need some advice about what to do, Or has anyone been in a similar experiance and have any idea about what could possibly be going on. I just feel like a weak turd.
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Also, I feel like im pushing her away when i just try to ask her to hang out. What do "sigh"
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>>17996812
Stop asking her to hang out, she will come to you soon or later, if you keep talking to her and she ignores you she will think that you are a weak man and you don't have other options.
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>>17996815
Do you mean I should just stop talking to her altogether until shes comes to me, If she does.
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i work with disabled kids (11-15yo).
once a week we go swim with them.
we have one boy with down syndrome that is a real troublemaker. he always annoys the people in the wardrobe. problem is it's only me and another women watching the kids (i'm female too), so we can't go in there and take care that he doesn't talk to the other guests (he never does anything else than talk to them...).
now the guests have complained to our school and my biss decided that from now on i will have to go with him inside the male wardrobe...
is this even legal? i feel VERY uncomfortable doing that. can i tell them i won't go in there or am i obliged to go because we have to make sure the kids don't bother others?
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Bring him into the female wardrobes
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Down tards are hipersexual, you probably now that. I had a female downer try to show me her boobs once.
So yeah, not the most brilliant idea at all
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>>17996807
It's okay to go into the male bathroom. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you remove all your clothing, knead your breasts until your nipples are erect, your chest has a healthy glow and play with your vagina until it's covered by a sheen of your female majesty. Then no one will mind the downie.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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>>17996760
why does women ruin everything ?
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>>17996760
Both genders
I asked a girl on a date, but got absolutely no response yet.
What the fuck is going on?
Keep in mind, she uses an iPhone, so I KNOW she already got it.
Even a no would be an answer, as it doesn't make me suffer waiting.
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>>17996764
she is most likely toying with you
Hey, I am sick of cartrige shaving and want to try out DE shaving.
Are these a good buy for a beginner?
https://www.amazon.com/Merkur-HD-34C-Chrome-Plated/dp/B001LYAQ9E/ref=sr_1_11_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1485374218&sr=8-11&keywords=DE+razor
https://www.amazon.com/Superior-Premium-Platinum-Personal-Healthcare/dp/B00EXPTR0W/ref=pd_bxgy_194_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=V8RAS2PX4PS30JF1MDW9
https://www.amazon.com/Proraso-Shaving-Cream-Sensitive-Skin/dp/B00TKOK5KC/ref=sr_1_7_s_it?s=beauty&ie=UTF8&qid=1485376047&sr=1-7&keywords=proraso+shaving+cream
I don't want to go full on grandpa, I've read that you can use the proraso cream with your hands without needing a badger brush.
(I cannot buy this locally, probably not even the proraso, I've been to 3 pharmacies and only found gillete, and shick cartrige mainstream razors, it was hard to even find the 3 bladed ones...)
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Congrats for switching. I've switched to safety razors for over a year now and I don't regret it. While it takes more time, it's much cheaper and satisfying. I'd get a brush though.
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Yes they are great, been shaving with a DE for like 3 years. Way cheaper, way more control. Be SUPER careful the first time you try and get the small hairs round the base of your nose. If you put any pressure on you are in for a bad time, there is a reason it's called the fool's pass
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>>17996804
I mean specifically when you are going against the grain around your nose
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please advise, free university but with lots of catches 2017-01-27 09:58:07 Post No.17996750
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please advise, free university but with lots of catches
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my stepdad is offering to pay for my university (can't be community college) but it has to be under 20K per year and my grades were shit(3.0 with GED and average SAT).
The only places in my state that fulfill this are SHIT-tier.. not even ranked on college ranking sites, don't have engineering programs unless you count (3-years-of-physics + 2-years-at-a-real-university transfer-program) thing where they give you a physics and engineering bachelors after 5 years... should I just do it anyway even if the colleges are absolute shit since it's free? Should I just go for an associates and then transfer somewhere else and gtfo out of dodge that way?
I feel like I have a really good opportunity here but with a huge catch and I don't know what the best option is.
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Studying always beats not studying, you will have a better chance in life even if it's at a shit-tier college.
Also the earth is round no matter where you study, in the end it all comes down to your own effort, what would you rather do than go to university, anyway?
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>>17996753
i just don't want him to waste this money on a shit-tier school but he will just 100% not let me go to community college first. there aren't any close anyway. i think the cheapest university I can go to is like 13K per year after everything and it's in the middle of nowhere with shit rankings. it has a fucking C+ on college niche and it accepts 99% of people with a 45% graduation rate and 3.5 stars. It's a bit of a joke.
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>>17996761
My school has a C+ also and I'm interviewing with big companies and have plans for grad school. Undergrad institution literally doesn't matter. Just study and get a degree.
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I want to die /adv/.
I've tried being positive, I've tried so fucking hard and every time I'm still thrown back into a depression. It starts with the racing thoughts and sleepless nights and it ends with me hating myself. I really don't know what else to do. I know I sound fucking pathetic but I can't a reason to live anymore.
I'm scared to try anymore, anxiety holds me back at times but sometimes I get a hold of myself and fight it. I fight the sadness too. But this time I don't think I have the strength to continue on.
I feel like there's literally no one I can talk to about this because they truly don't care far enough to give a damn about me or my problems.
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>>17996703
What else have you tried OP?
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>>17996703
I love you. Don't die. Please. Don't hurt yourself. Don't demean and belittle yourself, it hurts to see you easily admit to doing that. I want to see you happy. I want you to fall in love with yourself and eventually find a reason to keep going forward. I don't want you to disappear when there must be, no there is, ways for you to gain a life worth living. Take my hand and let me pick you up from this hole you've fallen into, just this time, so you can then learn how to pick yourself back up all on your own. So you can take all the bad that's happened to you and use it to become stronger than that. I don't want you to die. I don't want you to just exist. I want you to find meaning and actually live.
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>>17996710
Meditation, exercise, yoga, patience and self control.
>>17996719
Thank you for that anon..but I still don't see the light right now. I want to keep trying but the depression keeps finding me. I can't do it anymore.
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Hello anons.
I feel like something is slightly off with me.
As a child, I enjoyed playing adventure video games, reading books, etc.
Now, as an adult, I avoid doing those activities for the most part. The only games that I can play are games like LoL, Smash, Overwatch, etc. Games that are short, repetitive, and offer little to no exploration. It's like I hate doing anything but going down that linear path to the finish.
I tried to replay games from my youth but I couldn't play them. I try to read for college, but I feel somewhat repelled from doing so. I'm getting by by winging it, but I feel like it's going to catch up to me.
I also feel like mentioning that my reading comprehension seems a bit poor currently. I'm missing little things on my exams and it's bothering me a lot. I know the subject and, had I received another shot at the question, would answer it correctly.
What could be my problem, anons? I don't know what's going on and I'm getting worried.
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Sounds like you might need something to spice up your life.
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your taste in entertainment just changed. chill the fuck out.
i can't play any of my childhood games for every long, and i feel like an impatient fuck on most new games too.
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It's what happens to most people eventually. Pewdiepie recently made a video stating basically the exact same things you said. As a child you're naturally much more imaginative, curious and excited.
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how hard is it to turn your life around?
i keep trying but i always get stuck too much in one area and i avoid other things.
last time i got a job and then i just went to my job and hung out with friends, but i wanted to go to school and study at too.
any tips to stick to the plan and not let other people or situations take advantage of you?
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>>17996651
Realize that this life is yours and therefore, you are the protagonist in this story and others merely the side characters; this applies to everyone and their own first-person points of view. Set a goal, and work to achieve it. Baby steps, mistakes, and hardships will happen if they can happen. What do you do? You keep going forward and learn from your experiences. Life is full of learning and gaining wisdom from knowledge you derive. We are constantly changing and capable of improving, it only takes a passionate heart to motivate.
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>>17996662
the only problem is now i'm a lot older and i'm afraid i'm going to 30 by the time i get to do what i want. I don't want to run myself into the ground to be able to do what i want. it's not worth it
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>>17996668
What you want, you say - if it is something that you really are yearning towards, then does the amount of time it takes to reach it - as long as you do reach it in the end - really matter? If you have your mind set on something and know surely it is more than just a craving, reach out and get it. Perhaps it'll take years and years; but at least all that hard work would pay off and you could finally gain what would be a fulfilling life. Sitting back and contemplating over the obstacles you'd have to pass over won't win you the race. Make yourself happy by doing what you want in life, anon.
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Girl wants to hook up after speaking on tinder been using the app for about a month now met one girl before but just for coffee this one just wants to fuck.
What steps should I do to ensure my safety? Plus I'm fucking shit when it comes to sex. Is this going to end badly?
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She might not call you back.
If will surely be better than my last tinder date though, my date raped me, and now I'm afraid to meet up with anyone else.
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>Is this going to end badly
From your OP, yes.
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>>17996631
>my date raped me
wtf
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So I'm getting an escort tonight.
Wat do?!
I'll manage the fucking, it's the before and after that I'm unsure about.
Never had any contact with prostitutes or women for that matter...
Just pay and go straight to dicking her?!
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>>17996598
It's business transaction.
How do you act in a grocery store? It's the same.
"Hello, how are you tonight?"
"Do you mind if I do this, or this? I want to try it." If she says no, then do something else to her.
"You were great. I look forward to the next time we meet." Then give her the money, and if she was especially good and a regular then tip a bit.
It's basically that.
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>>17996617
Good advice.
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>>17996617
>and if she was especially good and a regular then tip a bit.
wtf, he's already given her the tip. Hell he's given her the whole shaft.
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A text by a girl on attractiveness
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There's a somewhat famous text from a girl that basically says that what women really care about is looks and being "hot" and handsome rather than "confidence". I am trying to find it but I cannot. Do any of you have a clue?
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Let me add some information: the text also talked about how creepy not handsome guys are when approaching girls. Apparently some people got infuriated.
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I don't believe that sentiment.
I'm handsome and quite tall at 1.89cm and while I'm sure women find me attractive, my lack of likeable personality and confidence means they tend to not like me.
You have to have a balance.
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>>17996603
Asking for the text
:)
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Girl here, 20s.
Boyfriend and I met online. Boyfriend and I visited back and forth for weeks at a time. Eventually I moved to boyfriend's state. Then he moved to my state.
He has a pretty good job here, but now he wants to move back to his state (with me). Why? Because he wants to be with his friends.
Meanwhile, I have no friends here (actually, I used to but I cut them all off for various reasons).
However, I don't want to move to his state with him because:
1. I feel like he cares more about his friends than me. I'm pretty sure if I refused to live in his state indefinitely, that he would break up with me.
2. I don't even like socializing with his friends or his family, so I'm tired of being put in that position. (Meanwhile, he enjoys socializing with my family, which we do weekly).
3. If we ever have a kid/s, my parents would care a LOT more about being there for their grandkid/s than his parents would. So it seems better to live in my state for that reason. Although we are still unsure if we even want kids.
And so, I'm considering breaking up with this guy, and finding someone who's as introverted as me and would also easily place me above any theoretical friends or family.
Should I do it? Thoughts?
We get along really well btw, and have been together for more than 5 years. Perhaps an irrelevant fact, but our sex life is not all that active due to physical insecurities of mine (even though I have an alright face and am not fat).
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You made a thread about wanting to break up with your boyfriend. You already made up your mind that you probably will break up with him anyways. You just need validation from us by saying yes. You've been together for 5 years and willing to throw it all away for a dumb reason. Just break up so he won't have a cunt as a girlfriend.
>alright face
>not fat
Pick one.
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>>17996581
Let me guess...you're a californian.
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>>17996581
It sounds like you should break up with him. It's unhealthy to consider your partner your only friend, and if he hasn't found anyone he can commiserate with in your area, it's only going to get worse. People need to have some form of freedom. Points 1 and 2 seem the same on this. You want to be away from everyone but your immediate family for... reasons, and he misses having genuine people he can trust and enjoy being around.
You haven't made any decisions on kids, so point three is moot - especially since you should be focusing on how well you can raise them together, not how much you can pawn them off to grandma and grandpa.
Plus a poor sex life? I'm not sure what he's sticking around for, besides the fear of being alone.
You should break up with him. I don't necessarily fault you for wanting to have someone that never leaves your own little bubble, but that's not for most, and is a bad idea if he's not on board.
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Hello /adv/, I'm a 20 year KHV (male). I absolutely hate physical contact, every time I get somewhere with a girl, I back out of it because I suddenly get extremely anxious about the thought of me having to kiss her, and her touching my body. In the past 2 nights I've had dreams where I almost had sex with a girl, but asked her to stop because I'm scared.
How do I get over this? I'm not ugly or dumb, and I'm starting to want a gf.
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>>17996577
Actually kissing and holding hands is fucking easy
Lmao I still remember the first time I tried to have sex....good lord what a painful experience
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>>17996577
Is it just girl contact that bothers you or all contact?
Where does this anxiety comes from? Autism? Weird childhood? It just came out of nowhere?
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>>17996583
It's all physical contact really, the front of my body is very sensitive and my reflexes kick in when somebody touches me on the front of my body.
And yes, I've had this for as long as I can remember, it came out of nowhere.