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how do i sleep when i have a cough?

any recommendaitons? i already took some night time flu relief but it seems to be hit or miss. this cough is killing me. you guys helped me figure out how to deal wiht congestion, but how do i sleep with this cough?

i got a humidifier going, a hot cup of tea by the bed (though it cant stay hot all night as you can imagine) and even fall asleep with a cough drop in my mouth.

anything i can do to just not cough for a good 9 hours?
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Just gotta stay super hydrated. Eat some chicken noodle soup. Drink some powerade.
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>>17993705

will hydration stop me from coughing?
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Avoid milky drinks and milk in general as this can make the mucus in your throat thicker and more irritating. Drink plenty of water

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well ,my gf is overly attached to me .. and by overly , i mean : she explodes when i say i want space. she just dont understand.

she always want to be with me,every minutes and constantly want my attention.
shes overly jealous . (i cant TALK with the opposite sex) and if i do, she will go talk to some thirsty dudes on purposes.

and she also needs to feel that i NEED her.
if thats not the case , she respond to me : ''then whats the point if im the only one who needs you''
i tried to make her understand that its not supposed to be a question of needs but a question of choices and she dont understand either ..

she alway starts fights when theres no need to and when i decide to not play her game . she keeps saying that i dont give a fuck about her and us ect , and she become fucking histeric.

i dont know how to deal with that .
im scared of looking at my phone whenever shes near even if i have nothing to hide .
i feel suffocated and i dont feel like i belong to myself . i just need help .this is my first long term relation , and she is also my first time.

ps: pic related asf
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>>17993662

You need to break up with her.

You can't really change people in the first place and even when do start to change or improve it's usually at a slow pace. Often it never happens until something huge occurs to shake up their life.

If she's not even willing to give an inch, ever, then things are most definitely not going to get better. It's not just a matter of being ruled by one's emotions - she just plain outright cannot think beyond herself.

She might grow out of it one day, but sad to say it's extremely unlikely to be while she is still with you.
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she said , that she knew all that , that she will try ect , but i dont see any amelioration.. i tought of breaking up more than one , but in the end i always tell myself that this is because she loves me .
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>>17993722
its not because she loves you, its because she's possessive over you and sees you as her property. Thats the opposite of love. I love my partner and because of that I am most happy when they are free to flourish be their self.

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Yesterday I went to sleep and a bigass spider was in my sheets and bit my back

Tonight I tried to sleep and a goddamn house centipede was in my hair

Now whenever I get an itch I assume it's a bug of some kind

Is there some way to get rid of these fuckers? Do bed curtains work?
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>>17993655
Is your bed in the ground or raised? Do you eat in your room? How clean is your room?
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>>17993724
My bed is raised, it's also in a corner

Yes

I vacuum and shit so I would assume so
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>>17993655
build the wall

So I met this freshmen girl at a party. I'm a senior :( We talked and then fucked. Then she started dating another guy a few weeks later cause we wouldn't workout because of the age. I think so too. I also want her to experience college and things. Let's just say a few months have passed and sometime in the last few weeks she confessed her love for me (marriage stuff) while still being with this other dude. It's killing me, i'm trying to be patient, and finish up school and work on making $$$$ but WTF should I do, cause I'm in love with this girl and I think she could be the one????
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How do betas like you get laid? You must be the pinnacle of attraction.
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It's not that im beta, It's cause I'm too busy working on making $$$$ (starting a business). I just don't have the time for a girl / at the same time its killing me. It's actually not being a pussy, its the opposite. How much can you take and keep going. How much emotional damage can you endure? you know. Hopefully this strategy will pay off
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It's not that im beta, It's cause I'm too busy working on making $$$$ (starting a business). I just don't have the time for a girl / at the same time its killing me.

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So in my CS class we have this textbook. Supposedly we're supposed to read it I think? I'm not sure. The assignment simply says "read chapter 1". However the professor has already made a power point presentation of the notes for the chapter. I'm basically trying to figure out what the best way to go about it is. Chapters are kind of long. Anyway I have 3 options:

1. Read chapter and take personal notes
2. Read chapter and use professors notes
3. Don't read chapter and only read and use professor's notes

I mean obviously the 1st sounds best but I'm thinking it might be overkill. Stupid question I know but I'm trying to figure out how to study best. Want to get all A's.
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>>17993598
Why can't you do all of them? Read the chapter, take notes, take notes on the professor's notes, study all of your notes. Then make practice tests to quiz yourself.
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>>17993598
Read chapter, take personal notes, compare to professor's notes.
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>>17993604
These. Professors don't get you to do all of it for no reason.

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Need to lose all sex drive, not sure how. Cigs seem like a good option, or so I've heard, though I'm not keen on cancer.
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Dude don't even start. cigs are no good.
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Cut your dick off.
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>>17993596
I quit but I'm thinking of going back just for this.

>>17993603
That isn't feasible. How would I pee?

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Just started Accutane. Can anyone tell me about their experiences with it?
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>>17993579
Can't say. I haven't had any since I was a fetus.
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My lips were dry and flakey all the time, so was my face.
The dry skin also reacted poorly to sun, so I had to always wear sun block and moisturize and stuff like that.

Other than that, 10/10 would recommend.
Got rid of acne that I had since I was 15.

It's been close to 5 years now and I never had any problems with acne.
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>>17993579
Pharmacist here. People have great success with it and have long term results even after stopping. As a pharmacist let me suggest that you make sure to give your pharmacy a couple days notice when you are due to get a refill. The paperwork, reporting, and ordering of the medication can be irksome.

Be aware that some people do have mood disturbances, anger, sadness, depression. Be aware of these and talk to your doctor immediately. Other than that, good luck anon.

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>tfw shaking like a chihuaha from massive anxiety
would any of you anons mind sharing tips on how to ease anxiety? or recommending a website, song, video, whatever that makes you feel calm/happy? i would really be thankful

haven't had anxiety in almost 2 years of handling it so it's just really hitting hard right now
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I took a long walk a couple nights ago. Was pretty calming.
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Controlling your breathing is a medically proven way.

Fast, gasping breaths and longer/harder inhales activate fight or flight response.

Slow breaths and longer exhales activate the opposing system, sometimes called "rest and digest"

Focus on your breathing, control it, and slow it down. In for five beats, hold for two, out for seven.
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I lay in bed with candle light and listen to something calming, like asmr videos on youtube.

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Girl I've been texting a lot and I were talking about what we're going to do when we hang out next (we've only actually hung out once before). I said "how about a movie?" she said "movies are cool, they're not good for getting to know someone. i like making out though, but idk if you like me like that". I told her I did, and that I'd be down for that. So that's a good start, but what does this mean? If a girl tells me she wants to make out, is sex implied? I mean I probably will do other stuff, I'm not a complete autist. But tl;dr do girls like JUST making out?
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>>17993553
>If a girl tells me she wants to make out, is sex implied?
absolutely not
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>>17993659
only reason i ask is because i once heard something like "a kiss is just a kiss, but making out leads to other things".
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>>17993676
Not in a movie theatre my man.

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Should I comment "你很可爱" ("You're very cute") on my Chinese crush's selfie?

Or will I just look like another white with yellow fever?
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>>17993520
Depends on the relationship you have with her
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Is she literally Chinese or of Chinese descent?

Either way it's kind of cringe desu, but much less so if she'd understand it.
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>>17993520
no you should text her and tell her you're interested in taking her out.
Stop being a fag.

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Hey /adv/,

Live with a few people and recently someone has been eating my food. I've gone to the landlords about it, but for the time being is there anything legal within my rights deal with this shit besides keeping non-refrigerated items within my own room?

I'm fairly positive I know who it is, but that said it isn't stopping them from helping themselves to my shit.
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I mean that's not really the landlords responsibility so I'm not sure why you did that.

Did you confront your roommates?
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>>17993498
This. Why would the landlord have anything to do with this? And fucking talk to your roommates.
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>>17993496
Get a mini fridge and put a lock on it? Get some food and throw it on the floor, throw shit on it, sprinkle dandruff on it...you know, fuck that shit up. Wait for them to eat it, then tell them what you did. Bet that'll stop them.

So I'm not directly asking for advice here, just kind of wondering what other people think about this/if anyone else is the same. I'm a man, and I enjoy gently strangling myself during masturbation, especially while I orgasm.

While I'm not a virgin, I've only had sex a handful of very vanilla times, so I haven't gotten to explore this. I don't think I'd like to be strangled to the point of passing out, and I wouldn't be say using a rope or something would have the same effect on me. It's more of just a gentle to medium pressure. Enough that I feel lightheaded but not in danger of passing out. I am a bit of a switch submissiveness-wise. I definitely like one person being in control - whether that's me or my partner - so I guess it could stem from my submissiveness? Any other MEN interested in this?

I also find those chokers/collars hot as hell on girls so that could be relevant?
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>>17993486
>another other men interested in this
yes. plenty.
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>>17993486
this is fairly common
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my bf likes to be choked too. guess it's common in guys that like to be submissive sometimes

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I've been super adverse to drinking for a long time (even since it became legal for me to do so), but I'm finally getting a little interested.

What's the best way to get started? Anything specific? And how do I not break the bank or ruin my life doing so?
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Just drink a little, feel it out. As long as you moderate yourself, and by that I mean don't go out binge drinking on your first night trying alcohol, you'll be just fine.

Just be careful, and figure out what your limits are before pushing them. It seems like you have a fear of what it could do to you already, which is healthy, but honestly the worst thing that could happen is if you tear down your fear in one fell swoop.

Don't go out drinking, realize it isn't going to kill you to have a couple drinks, then lose any fear of overdoing it.

There, now you know what you need to know. Have fun!
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>>17993482
It is an expensive hobby. I'm not saying don't do it, I'm saying be aware of what you are getting yourself into. The average week for a light drinker means 2 bottles of wine a few beers and a quarter a bottle of hard liquor. Taking into consideration that some of this is consumed in bars and restaurants, that will mean that this little hobby of yours might well end up costing you five grand a year. if you are young that means a quarter of a million in a lifetime. If you invest that you'll easily end up with a retirement portfolio of up to a million. Your choice.
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>>17993621
> light drinker

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Well, I'm probably dumb for doing this, but I am rather curious.
I have some trouble getting with girls, is one of the reason because how I look?
I try to be a nice, genuine guy, but I need some help with that.
Also, am I attractive at least?
Be 100% honest, no flattery. If I'm a 1/10 or a -20, tell me. Granted, I am overweight and I am losing weight st-at the moment.
So let me know what you think.

Best regards,
Man on 4Chan.
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>>17993468
I am a dude, but I don't think you are that unattractive. Maybe like a 5. I would shave though.

It's probably a personality thing. That doesn't mean you have a bad personality, it could just be that you're shy and don't put yourself into situations where you talk with girls regularly or something. Basic psychology, man. People like the people they talk to and are around every single day. Why do you think so many people cheat with people they work with?
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>>17993468
You're not ugly, and you don't look fat honestly

You remind me of one of the metal kids haha. Your looks shouldn't be hindering you. Maybe you aren't coming off as confident? I know it sounds like bs but it really does make a difference.
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>>17993468
Unless you can grow a proper beard (which I don't see in the photo), shave it off. It looks like really bad sparse pubic hair. Start lifting--it will help to improve your rounded face.

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Hey /adv/. I need some help deciding what to tell my current employer when I'm giving them my 2 weeks.

My current job is kinda salty when they find out someone's leaving, and if you mention it's for another job that ended up offering you more money (basically my situation), then they could fire you before the 2 weeks or force you to be "off" for 2 weeks straight and work like 1 day like assholes (which is basically getting fired.)

The reason why I wanted to leave is because my job was paying me under minimum wage (we have under 26 employees. It's a thing apparently) and I just can't get by in life like that. I'm moving onto another job that'll pay me $11.25 so there's no way I'm turning them down. I've been with my current company for over 2 years and they're really immature about how they handle things like this. I just want there to be no drama and want a clean cut. I don't like making enemies or leaving anyone sour but I might not have a choice.

What can I make up that's a good reason to leave the job? Or should I just tell them the truth?

tl;dr Current job gets salty if I tell them I'm leaving for a different job. Should I lie or tell them the truth?
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Lie, who gives a fuck
Especially if they're going to be dicks about it
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>>17993478
If I lie, what should I say? School already started so I can't use college. Internship maybe? I'm moving? (they'll definitely see me at my new job since they go there for supplies sometimes)
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bump? Is that ok if I bump? Sorry if that's not the norm here.

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