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Myself.

>>18058450
Damn. i did not expect that.

>>18058450
Post pic

there's this page called fetlife or something like that

>>18058361
Fetlife is pure garbage don't go on it

>>18058377
Why?
What about alt.com?

For your sake. If you want to break the friendship. Do it. If it makes you feel better.

I can garuntee you wont feel happier.

Have you asked her why shes so happy all the time?

>>18058338
She said she realizes life is meaningless so it's best to cherish every moment.

I can't think that way.

>>18058347
Thats completely okay that you dont think that way.

But if you want to feel happy. Dont compare your life to hers. Your a completley different person with a set of understandings unique to you.

If you want to be happy, try to find a path your way.

Like I said. Break your friendship, if that makes you feel happy.

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>>18057692
what is C again? what country is it?

why would you go into a class and criticize a teacher? Are you actually fucking autistic? What the hell is wrong with you?

I don't get it. Why did you walk in some class you're not part of, sat through the class and then decide to criticize the teacher?

>>18057213
What even is so appealing?

it's an unusual part of the body to really like / have a fetish for, but each to their own. not the part I'd personally pick, but perfectly valid regardless.

in any case, I'm definitely not going to be judging you when I've masochistic fantasies myself that will never happen because I have such a gentle, loving partner that could never imagine tying me up and hurting me.

>>18057213
as a femanon, a foot guy is pretty gross

Ow, pic really fucking unrelated.

Travel the world

Buy a one way plane ticket to China dn then give the rest of your money and all your belonging away.

Become a monk.

>>18056842
I'd rape you instead. Everyone wins.

What do you want?
rough sex?
call you a slut?
slap you hard?
choke you?

>>18056851
He does rough sex, degradation and choking but the idea of setting up a rape scenario is off the table.

>>18056842
What are you asking him to do? To fuck you randomly during a time in which you aren't in the mood? Or to hide in your house and jump out from behind and "rape you"? The whole thing is pretty difficult for a guy to do, because if he just takes control of you when you legitimately don't want him to, it's actual rape and he could get into trouble for doing it if you end up not enjoying it as much as you think you will.

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>He gave me my clothes and said, sorry but youll have to make due with them until we get home.
>I then heard my dad go in the hallway and start freaking on the parents ''one of your kids is a bully and they put my kids clothes in the toilet. I am pretty sure one of you already know if your kid has that in him to do that'' - all i heard was one guy and woman say something like ''jesus christ, thats sad''. But no one fessed up.
>The boys that did it in the room started laughing ''he freaked!''
>I felt super ashamed and disconnected. I was ashamed that I didn't do something. I should have stood up for myself and fight. I just took it like a quiet little bitch.

This had an epic impact on my personality and I remember my dad not only being sad, but I think he was disapointed I didn't stand up for myself because he punched the dash of the car and yelled ''you got to kick the shit out of bullies like that. they are fucking losers''. Now that I am older, I understand his frustration.

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This is going to sound funny, but at the time and for me it was pretty horrific. It made me drop out of school actually.
9/11 terrorist attacks happened. I went to a very ARYAN, blonde - blue eyed school. Infact most people looked Swedish. I am white, but I look like an Italian guy, or a Serbian guy.
>HEYYYYY OSAMA
one kid yelled at me in the hall. i was literally confused.
>Hey man, you look like Osama Bin Laden.
for the record, I don't look anything like him.

Within 3 - 5 days my entire grade and the one above me was calling me a Terrorist, a paki, a muslim, Osama, Al Qada. Even my closest friends. It was a constant barrage. I ended up losing friends. I started avoidance behaviour. I would make a lunch and eat it in a small unused stair well. I would hide in the washroom. I would walk around the outside of the school to doorways closet to my classrooms as to avoid the main arterial hallways where the 'cool guys' hung out.
>a year or two passes and the name calling stops.
>somehow i am 'cool'. people want to know me.
>i think cuz i got taller, better looking and bought nicer clothes...
>but i was still scarred by the bullying and the betrayel of my friends. and the fact these people that bullied me wanted to be my friend made me feel ill...like...you cant do that and then think were cool. i viewed them as disgusting, hateful people.

i dropped out. got a job. moved 10 hours away. wasted about 3 - 4 years of my life. i didn't have 1 single friend. infact i barely have 5 or 6 friends now that i seldom see. i am generally a miserable, glass half empty depressive person. i constantly think of all the times i was bullied. Bullying is a huge problem that fucks your mind and mental capacity. i am totally scarred from it.

okay, first off, you're way too emotional about people giving you shit man. You gotta learn to shake things off. Stop being such a pussy.

But anyways, the best way to deal with these insults are to roll with them. Embrace them, and you will diffuse them. I understand your situation, it took me a while to learn to do this. But once I did it was honestly like the final key to knowing how to socialize properly.

also next time someone does some fuck boy shit like take your fucking clothes, you take his ass down nigga. No matter what the size of the guy or what size you are, you fucking hit that cunt.

>it's just ugly to me

you're going to have to come up with better reasoning than that if you're going to convince her not to do it. Either provide a better reason or examine your own prejudices

>>18056410
You can't. If this is what she wants to do she will ultimately do it. Either with you or behind your back.

>>18056410

there isn't soem secret conversation path that guarantees you win. this isn't a choose your own adventure video game where you know there's a particular outcome.

no matter how you approach it, this might upset her.

decide if the conversation is worth having. then ahve it.

i understand though. i have this desire to do certain drugs, mostly for bonding reasons. but i still havent even smoked pot because i find it ugly. i cant even enjoy beer out of certain scenarios.

Talk to a doctor not us you fucking retard

Aren't tingling sensations a sign of diabetes?

that's heart attack symptoms anon, get to the emergency room

>>18058766
also i'd like to clarify

my verbal iq was 88th percentile at 13, and still is 88th percentile, but my perceptual reasoning was 98th percentile at 13, and now it's 63rd percentile. wtf happened

You're not going to answer every question the same. You might be tired one day, or guess an answer and get it right one time and wrong another. If you want a truly accurate measurement of your IQ, take 100 different tests and work out the median result.

>>18058766
IQ tests literally don't matter at all

Join clubs.

Go to bars.

Go to an event.

It isn't easy.

at the IRL festival.

>>18057877
I have searched my house and concluded they aren't in here the very least. Can't help more than that

You can probably do an online GED today.

>>18059192
>Should I go back to hs to finish my last year or should I do the GED thing?

I dont know if they would even let you...

Probably best to get a GED, community college for two years, then you can transfer and finish a bachelors in like 2-3.

>>18059213
Do they have as much legitimacy as the ones where you have to show up physically?

My number one rule is always: Don't mix. Anything.

>>18058954
nah weed is okay to mix with anything
everything else? think about it before doing it

Aren't you never supposed to smoke anything after dental procedures? It can dry out your mouth and cause infection and/or tooth damage.

>fairly stranded for cash
>cheap gaming rig
If you knew what you were doing you could maybe pull it off. Really depends what you're looking to run. You could always cheap out on ram and graphics and upgrade them later. This could be ideal if all you want to do is play some mova shit or something.

Also >>>/g/ so they can laugh at you. It's an experience.

>>18058918
thanks for your input but I think you've missed the point of my thread. also, I'd seriously like to know what's so laughable about my question...

>>18058918
also stuff like GTA IV/V, battlefield 1, saints row iv, possibly the next halo. desu i'm off the gaming scene for a long time due to not having a computer in nearly three years so i'll probably find some other cool games to play when i actually have my desktop.