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I have a job interview tomorrow, does /adv/ have any advice that Google doesn't give you? Thanks.
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Your personality is almost as important.
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>>18069537
At job interviews I usually pretend the interviewer(s) are old school mates I sorta remember knowing at some point and we're just catching up the last few years. It makes me feel more chill about the situation and bragging about my skills/experiences comes easier. Dunno if this is actually helpful, though.
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Negotiate your salary. I was desperate and accepted what I found out later was a lower amount than I could've gotten. Negotiate. Worst that can happen is you'll get a no.
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I want to fuck milfs. How do I get to it?
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>>18069505
Impossible normally. They always either want serious relationships or tell you you're too young.
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I'm curious as well.
Isn't there a cougar website?
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How to bang older women:
1: be hot enough to bang women in their early 20s
2: spend meaningful amounts of time on women in their 40s instead
Note: older women flip the fuck out if you spend time with anyone much younger than themselves.
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Hi! I have a big acne problem since a few years and I think that I've tried almost everything like some dermatologist antibiotics, changing my diet - no dairy, gluten free, paleo etc. I supply vitamin D3, use tee tree oil and zinc paste. I tried endless amount of face masks. Everything works but just for a while and than the acne is striking back with a vengeance -.- About a month ago I came across some [url=https://fiftyshadesofsnail.com/2015/10/08/curology-pocketderm-month-1-update-and-mini-review/]curology reviews[/url], it's some kind of acne therapy but I'm not fully convinced as I have never ever heard about that before. I found only 2 blogs with progress photos. Does anyone of you is using or used to use it or knows someone who does/did? I would like to know more about it because I don't want to waste my money on some 'noname' thing ;/
I became so insecure that I started to think about stupid stuff which is freaking me out and I feel like not getting rid of this problem my lead me to the psychiatrist or even grave.
HELP!
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>>18069464
See your dermatologist to and get on a prescription course of isotretinoin
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Get some sunlight its extremely important
Keep the affected area clean
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>>18069464
Best thing I did for mine was go to the doctor.
He will prescribed you with tablets and duac cream which is made of benzoyl peroxide. The cream cleared mine pretty fast. Try not to touch your face and wash it in cold water every morning. It worked for me.
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Started talking to hookers again
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>>18069425
best title
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I am considering saving money to have a stripper beat me up and step on me
I know your feel
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>>18069425
Are they interesting conversationalists?
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Give me reasons not to kill myself.
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So you can pay taxes
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Because you'll die eventually anyways.
Better to learn to just laugh at pain.
As much as the world will try to get you down, in the end, it can never stop you.
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>>18069321
Because then the normies will win anon. The roasties will laugh and will be jubilant a "creeper" has offed himself
In life we fall down, then we get up, then it repeats until the end. A foolish general mourns each casualty in the middle of a battle.
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After we watched some porn together my GF wanted me to recommend her some good sites because she liked it. I obvious know the common ones but I wanted to know if there are some especially targeted for woman. She didn't like the softcore porn typically targeted at woman but also didn't like the weird stuff normally found on porn sites (e.g. Xhamster). At best it should have a mix of amateur and production videos.
I know I have specific demands but maybe /adv has just the site I am looking for.
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Just go on pornhub or something. Plenty there for everyone.
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>>18069309
A surprising number of women like gay male porn, though you might not want to watch it with her.
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blacked.com
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ok guys, i think that i'm doing a boring thread about my situation. I know that this is kinda common, but i'd like to hear the opinions of anons like you.
i have a HUGE problem with my will. i can't stop procrastinating everything i'm supposed to do, like university tests, or sending curriculums to find at least a part-time job.
when i think stuff like "ok, let's try to study something and don't be anxious the day before the test", something rotten in my brain starts to take over, and the result is that i start to browse internet/play WoW/everything else, just because "it's too soon to worry about". And, every time, i start to get anxious when i hit the pillow, and can't sleep until physical exhaustion.
I just know that i'm not an idiot, because when i do something without procrastinating i'm a beast -exams, games, work... everything. it's "just" a matter of will.
on top of that, this continuos procrastination attitude make me lost a HUGE amount of time. and i'm not supposed to lose a single second of my life.
what do you guys suggest? suicide is NOT an option, just like everything not serious. this is about my entire life, not just a university exam.
ps: sorry about my english, i'm still not good.
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>>18069248
If you believe this is a problem and you are unable to do something about, sadly you are indeed an idiot.
However, time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.
I too delay anything I can if there's something else I'd rather do.
This hasn't given me issues in my life because I'm great at keeping track of what I need to have done when, and then doing it within the time limit is easy.
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>>18069248
OP are you me? I actually noticed that it's become such a problem that I got myself a psychologist appointment.
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>>18069267
enjoy wasting your money then.
Psychology today is in such a sorry state...
Willpower, motivation etc. actually is just discipline, and it has to come from within. If you don't want to be disciplined you are not going to be. If you truly want to be, it will be easy
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I cant study
I dont want to and its hard and it makes me want to throw a tantrum and cry like a baby
I need study partners but first I need to catch up and get better social skills but even then I dont like studying with people, I have a different "rhythm"
I can only do it efficiently if I drink coffee but then I need to smoke to calm my anxiety and its very taxing and hard on my gut and lungs
I have ADHD (the predominantly inattentive type, Im always sleepy during the day) and my shrink is a fucking dumbass who thinks its because I dont get enough sleep, like holy shit what the fuck
and meanwhile I try these retarded pills that almost made me lose the year due to not being woken up by the alarm, I keep wasting my time
this is my last chance, if I fail medicine again ill be moving back home and I wont be able to get out of that depression
I can get my hands on coke, im desperate here. im scared and panicking while nobody seems to notice the urgency of the situation
the anxiety that I feel is the only thing that makes me sit down and study and it only kicks in at 6 am in the morning one hour before my class starts
>inb4 add is not reel
im retarded, whatever. I need help either way
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>>18069199
ive shifted my sleep patterns in the past
I used to sleep during the day and stay up all night
it was definetely easier to study but I solved the sleepy problem before with just coffee and its actually better with coffee
im on atomoxetine right now from some pills that I had before the change in meds, the doc said not to take them but fuck him im not risking the rest of my fucking life on a (mindbogglinly retarded) hunch
im sticking with him because I dont have time to lose, he is cheaper than the last one (money is a big factor here) and he said we were going to try another pills cus these werent working (they arent but they cant hurt so (and if they did, at this point I dont even care)
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I'm sort of in the same boat.
This is what I suggest
1) actually try getting sufficient sleep
2) try and work through your anxiety
3)Try using a pomodoro timer
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>>18069209
>pomodoro timer
Ive set up a timer before, I can barely stick to it
and If I do all I want to do is cry, watch the ceiling or I spend like a fucking hour drawing a scapula
>2) try and work through your anxiety
it doesnt work, I study on short bursts or I dont at all
the anxiety just makes the time between those bursts smaller
>1) actually try getting sufficient sleep
I literally cant, doesnt matter what I do im sleepy during the day
ive slept 12 hours and still felt like taking a nap
I cant sleept past 10 pm, and If I go to bed before I wake up in the middle of the night, that works but I get sleepy during the day regardless
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Girl I love said she can't be with me anymore because she handle a relationship at this point in her life. I want her to stay with me but odds are it won't happen. How do I stop feeling?
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She is testing you Anon.
You fight for her and you fight like hell. Absolutely DO NOT take no for an answer. She wants you to prove how much she means to you.
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>>18069185
I wish that was the case, but I've been trying to fight for her and she's adamant being in a relationship isn't healthy. I love her but I'm not going to weigh her down. It just fucking hurts.
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>>18069165
If you don't mind me asking does she suffer from any mental illnesses anon?
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Should I snitch on this hooker I saw at motel 6? Snitch her out to the cops?
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>>18069045
Why?
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I don't see the point but you may as well.
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>>18069045
Quit spying on me you fucking creep.
Relationships and dating come so easy for most other people, theyve been dating since they were teenagers
Im in my twenties and dont even know how to get into dating, I mean I asked a few guys out (rejected) and tried okcupid (only found people interested in casual sex)
I feel inferior to people who have had relationships, they are loveable and Im not
How do I stop feeling so shitty about myself whenever people talk about their relationships?
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>>18069018
Are you a male or female?
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Why do you feel bad? Are you jealous?
Relationships from the outside seem nice, but it requires work and has its fair share of shitty days.
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my dick is only 14cm long and 13cm thick, but I think I have a really NICE dick, so full and juicy, girls love it
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How can I make her understand?
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Over the past about 2 months, I have been verbally abusive to my girlfriend on random uncalled for occasions. Maybe once a week or less. The second last time it happened i went completely overboard- threatening suicide and saying a whole bunch of insane shit. I woke up the next morning reflecting on my thoughts and realized, that wasnt me, I have some sort of mental illness, and I need to seek help. I explained this to her the best that i could. She mostly thought of it as an excuse
Problem was, we were in thailand on a busy schedule for our last few days and had no time to visit the hospital.
So when we got home a few days later, I outburst again, being a verbally abusive maniac. I scared the shit out of her. I dont blame her being scared and angry with me. She has since packed her things and left. We were together for 2 years. I love her and she is (was) my best friend and soul mate.
Ive been seeking help as fast as I can, but the medical system only goes so fast. I have seen a clinic doctor and been prescribed zoloft, and filled out a mental evaluation form. Will be checking back next week. Im seeing a psychiatrist nurse tomorrow and a psychiatrist for an hour next Monday. I also have some counselling services coming but they arent available for 3 weeks.
She will barely even talk to me now.. wouldnt talk when she came to grab more stuff. Barely responds online... is there any way to fix this? I feel like its such bad luck to have a mental illness arrise from seemingly nowhere and completely destroy my life and relationship.
Do I deserve this? Or can I somehow make her have empathy for the fact that I was mentally ill? I have tried explaining myself to her clearly but she is probably still truamatized from me being a screaming asshole, which I dont blame her.
What can I do to win her back... I am not a mean person and I cant believe I acted that way. I am totally ashamed and depressed.
How do I fix this??
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Fix yourself and give her some space? Just keep her updated about your progress maybe.
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>Do I deserve this?
absolutely
>Or can I somehow make her have empathy for the fact that I was mentally ill?
being an asshole isn't a mental illness desu
You may have a mental illness, but your illness does not make you do anything. You were the one being abusive, not your illness. To blame it on anything else is an excuse. Get some perspective dude.
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Take responsibility for your fucking actions.
You're just making excuses for lacking self control and being abusive. If she asked for advice I'd tell her to stay away from you because you've already proven you'd just do it again.
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Guys, I need help.
>was with a girl for 1,5 year
>turns out she has anorexia
>she got a therapist
>6 months later she broke up with me (i took it pretty badly)
year later
>somehow we started to hang out (not as a couple)
>she is still struggling with it
I want to help her, wat do?
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Help as in clinically or help as in being there for her?
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>>18068991
As being there for her
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>>18068992
It's really simple, just be present in her life and support her like you would anyone who needed help.
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I'm slowly losing feelings for my current gf, things haven't been going well and don't seem to be getting better, she's slowly being a pushover, and kind of a bitch. Simultaneously, I'm developing feelings for this girl at work. I'm not a cheating piece of shit, I'd leave her before moving on to the other girl, but that got me thinking.
What if I end this relationship, get with the other girl, and then after some time I also find someone else more interesting? I don't just want this girl just to bang, she is cute as hell, very interesting and fun, however I fear that that is how I felt when I met my gf years ago. Does it become an endless cycle or if I move on will I find someone irreplaceable?
TLDR: Slowly getting tired of gf, fear that if I leave her for someone else I'd get tired of her and cycle goes on.
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>>18068980
Initials?
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>>18068980
If you have feelings for a different girl it's already over with your current girlfriend.
A lot of people come to feel the way you do. How old are you? I'm assuming between the ages of 20 to 25. Don't worry, you'll eventually meet someone who you feel differently about and want to spend the rest of your life with, and think "Wow, I'll never love someone more than I love this person." And chances are that person will break your heart, and you'll be upset, and then before you know it you'll meet someone you feel even more strongly about.
But if you're truly falling out of love and it's not just a rough patch, then it's time to make the break before it gets even harder.
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>>18068980
Dump the bitch, Anon.
Do it.
Stop being a push-over.
Be a man.
Do what must be done.
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If I've really tried hard to do something for the last couple of years is to get rid of that destructive ego that fills some part of my soul.
Anything that feeds the ego, I avoid it at all costs so I can continue to fight for a tempered state of being.
But I have this problem.
Tomorrow I have to do this presentation (I haven't even prepared it) on some Aerodynamics topics.
The thought of doing it has made me pursue all sorts of knowledge in the maths required to explain it.
Part of me really wanted to do give it right. I despise people who stand up and read from a power point and call it a day. I hate that. If I want to educate others on something I want to do a careful thorough presentation on everything that needs to be said in order to understand it.
But the other part of me just wants to show off.
Am I trying to show off to the others? Is it correct to try to give a class properly? Or am I trying to inflate my own ego?
I honestly don't care much about the topics. I couldn't care less about aerodynamics but I have to do the presentation. Why not do it right?
However that other part says that I just want to do it right so I can get some sort of ego boost in front of the others for memorizing trivial stuff about the topics and some maths I probably don't even fully understand.
And this makes me really really uncomfortable.
What do I do?
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This obsessive rumination sounds like self-absorption and in itself fuels ego. All you must do is forget yourself and love others, and you will be calm, happy, and beautiful.
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>>18068963
>and love others
But I do sometimes. Not fully.
One of my main thoughts for doing this is because I wanted to teach others so they don't remain in the same obscurity of not really knowing what things are really about.
However I am not naive and I also see this for what it is. A probable attempt for me to put myself on top of others. To feel superior. And I despise this.
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You only have the tiniest grasp of the reality around you. Societal feedback can clue you in on what all those people and experiences consider worthwhile and admirable, so seeking admiration is not inherently wrong.
You shouldn't, of course, become a puppet of public opinion, but you've already got a defense system for that. Love it, but give it a healthy dose of skepsis as well. It's a common superstition that harmful thoughts are planted by malevolent spirits, but it's a pragmatic one.