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>Jim Rustle
sage

>>18067788
I don't get it

>Jim rustle
Dat ass doe

>>18067735

are you a man or a woman? we need context to your issue here

I'm a man

>>18067743

>when im hanging out with chicks im having fun
>but if i hang out with a man i become suicidal

explain this in more detail.

>>18067579
it's always worth a shot.

just remember that the medication takes a month or two to take effect and even then you have to be trying your hardest to improve.

you should definitely pair it with therapy/counseling.

also you might have to go through 2-3 different medications until you find one that actually works for you. I had to go through 4 and even then they had to increase the dose a ton.

>>18067579
That image perfectly describes how I feel about antidepressants these days. Besides, they don't help unless you actively do something along side with it; like exercising, for instance.

Have you tried any other options than antidepressants? Exercising? What makes you say that you don't know what other options you have?

>>18067579
>I know everyone says they don't help but make you feel worse
If you fucking half ass the schedule. Almost everyone I heard talk like that quit it early or missed a bunch of pills.
As for you op:
This is not fix your depression. This will give you a chance to fight back, and make it easier for you to overcome it. YOU. You gotta be willing to put in the effort to taking it daily, don't miss, and don't expect it to fix it for you.
I would describe them as giving you a moment of clarity through the depression. Use that time to find your way to combat it

ditcht her sorry cunt

are you guys gonna have a threesome or is she into sharing you or something?

>>18067551
I won't for now, but u get me
>>18067567
No, she is ínto stupid jokes about how she isn't good enough for me and how I need to find someone else, more "artsy" (do be exact) to suite be. Except that those aren't jokes sometimes. Except they are sometimes else. I personally wouldn't want a threesome since I had way too much romantic poetry and high school and I'm monogamic as they come, but still,

we are going to go on a movie this sunday, that my gf knows her choice will attended (as far if attends on fb mean anything). If I get the chance, I'll try to blow the whole story up and be finished with it.

as funny as this is, it's kind of bothersome to keep on with.

>>18067528
I would personally choose computer engineering over computer science, you'll get more out of it.

but like all degrees you only get out of it what you put in. just having the degree wont be enough to make a career.

lots of people are rushing into it but at the same time the industry is growing.

eventually we'll create the tools that will render ourselves unnecessary but then again all of humanity will be unnecessary, so you might as well get yours while you can, I guess?

>>18067548
What makes computer engineering better than science, exactly?

>>18067393

Your mum sounds like a cunt so yes you definitely should blame her

>>18067399
Idk. It seems childish, and I have this sense that it's all my fault. I'm not sure if I'm right about that or not. Nurturing seems to have a significant outcome on people's lives, but at the end of the day, wasn't it their decision to do bad shit?

I'm mixed up about this one.

>>18067423
If you look at the rates of drug use among those who were abused as a child and those who weren't, you can see that drug use jumps significantly through childhood abuse. It still exists among the non-abused, so maybe you would've turned to drugs anyway. There's no way to know.

Because if you can't do the time, you shouldn't do the crime.

But if you can do the time, then it's fine to do the crime.

It's morally wrong. You're directly hurting people's lives for your own benefit. Also you'll eventually get caught, and your life is pretty much over, unless you enjoy digging ditches for eternity. Also God will smite u.

>>18067398
Smite is only effective if he's an undead type, though. Damage is sub-par, otherwise. Nothing to worry about.

>>18067346
You're not a dick for not wanting to listen to this constant stream of negativity. It gets old, fast.

She's a dick for taking advantage of your friendship to treat you like a dumping ground.

Occasional venting to a sympathetic ear as a catharsis that then lets you get on with life is fine. What she seems to be doing is just wallowing in misery, and talking about it just keeps her miserable. She's not doing anything to make her life better, or to find meaning.

She needs to find something to do that will occupy her time with something other than "woe is me, my life sucks, I'm so depressed". When my thinking goes along some fucked up track and I want it to stop, I go out running, and I run until I'm so fucking exhausted that all I can think about is forcing my body to keep moving.

She wants some meaning? Go volunteer to help people.

When my friends get like this, I usually just make them go out and do stuff.

If it's a constant thing, I tell them they need to go find a shrink to whine to, preferably someone who is going to help them either figure out some coping strategies to stop focusing on the negative or at least stop whining, or to actually come with with a real plan to try to deal with what's bothering them.

>>18067454
Why can't I have friends like you?

In the same boat. These types of people flock to me. They find me no matter where I go. I need to stop being such a good listener or stop feeling sorry for people so much. I swear I am always putting out other people's fires. Than when I have my own problems, I don't even get to talk about them bc I am always interrupted so they can talk about their problems. Sigh.

>>18067271
lmao, she isn't preggers, at least not with your babby

>>18067271
She's not pregnant. She'll probably get her period soon.

>>18067271
>a week before her period she has started bloating and having severe cramps.
Bloating and cramps are signs of getting your period. It's not even late, sounds like it'll be right on time.

>>18067223
at least youre not black

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>>18067223
Wtf is wrong with you? No one gives a fuck if you're a decent human being.

>3rd gen
>blonde pawg gf
>mfw

>>18067223
>t.califag

dump that shit in the dirt

>>18067161
add some orange juice, really gives vodka a nice taste.

I doubt anything will even happen.

>inb4 OP can't handle his lean

sizzurp, nigga.

>>18067142
Buy a disposable comp from a pawn shop or something then crack her wifi with linux then browse any board on krautchan that isn't /int/.

Those germans are freaks and she'll be in jail soon enough.

>>18067142
>Bitch stomps 24/7 and doesn't have a job, just sits at home and screams/gossips on her phone all day.
during the day just blast loud ass music over her
at night if she's still being an asshole file a noise complaint

>>18067145
kek thought about this, I use Linux daily and know a little bit about the aircrack-ng tool. Problem is I don't know which one's hers.

he's been reading /pol/

How the fuck should I know, he's your brother.

Untreated social anxiety, maybe?
Autism?
Depression he doesn't admit to?

Regardless, you should stay in contact.

Its not unethical.

Its just dumb because you're actually positioning yourself as a rebound.

>>18067099
Its not unethical, it's just common sense

If you pursue a relationship with somebody fresh out of a breakup, you're going to have to deal with all that drama and baggage

You already mentioned it yourself, taking advantage. No she's not drugged, but she's in a vulnerable emotional state and most people already have a hard time not rebounding without anyone offering spontaneously. Basically you are presenting yourself as an intimate presence in her life when likely, the thing she needs and wants most in the world is a shoulder to cry on. That makes it significantly harder to reject that offering of affection and company.
And it makes it a lot harder to distinguish between appreciating the consolation and attention and genuinely liking that person, which is why rebound relationships have such a bad reputation.

But I kind of agree with the other anon, it's known as a stupid move and perhaps kind of scummy in a specific scenario, but I've never really heard it being talked about as generally unethical. It's just messy, basically.

>>18067075
> hitler
> /b/
You're fucked kiddo.

>hello /b/
>picture of Hitler
>cuck
Just end it now

>>18067075
well, first you have to get the fuck over yourself. you need to stop seeing yourself as 'edgy' or a robot or whatever and realize you're no better than anybody else.

after you've done that, stop making offensive edgy jokes. its inappropriate in most adult settings unless you're with very close friends. read books, watch movies and improve your sense of humour beyond being an edgelord.

although this is cheesy, its true. you need to be open to friendship. if someone asks you to join them in doing something, say yes. build connections. go out, do shit.