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I was raped in july of 2015. Since then me and my husband have had our ups and downs. My report was never finished by the police officer and I can only assume becuase of that, the states attorney dropped the case.
The rapist let's call him jim.
I have recently found out that jim is being accused of raping another girl.
Since finding this information out, I've reached out and talked to her.
She said that there are atleast 4 others jim raped.
I never got justice I learned to live my life without it.
My husband however can't sleep knowing this information. He's trying to reach out and get information about these four other girls in hopes that they can also come forward and possibly get jim on a list that he's dangerous. My husband and I have been brought back into this. The justice system failed me and now there is someone else who has to go through this.
How and what can we do.?
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>>18167371
>My report was never finished by the police officer
why
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Not sure rumor had it his nephew was in a sexual assult case and he was bias to the situation
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where do you live?
I have no future so I can do anything and go to jail.
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Is it possible to make someone fall for you despite sexuality?
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>despite sexually
what?
what does that even mean?
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>>18167458
basically I'm asking if you can turn someone gay.
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Help an autistic /fit/izen lads. I was on tinder and matched with some girl I see in the gym all the time. I asked her if she was the girl from the gym and she laughed and said it was her. Where do I go from here? How do I tinder correctly?
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ask her out to drinks
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>how do I tinder correctly
>didn't open with something vulgar
You already tindr'd incorrectly.
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>>18167329
So just right now? I've done that before and went on terrible dates. We're at uni so should I ask her for food when she finished up at the gym or should I tell her when I finish at the gym and go from there?
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I've tried that and gotten blocked
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How to study a subject like history? 2017-03-28 03:17:28 Post No.18167317
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How to study a subject like history?
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Hi /adv/, how do I study for a test that includes non-math/science subjects? I find studying for math/science easier because I can actually practice it and see the relation between the theory and numbers but what do I do for a subject like history? just writing summaries isn't enough right? I feel completely lost, I also haven't taken a non-science class in years so I don't have an idea on what to do.
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>just writing summaries isn't enough right?
Fuck no, try to remember dates as well and try to summarize what happened that day to get the idea.
If you can't still memorize like this way I'm tellin you, the last way to learn is to enjoy it but I don't think you will enjoy this kind of shit since you're a STEM guy.
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im assuming that you have a set few topics the exam could be on
remembering dates isnt such a huge issue. i used to just write myself a practice essay on one or two of the topics so id have a set structure and information to use and then twist the information to suit the question once i was in the exam
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History has very little to do with dates. It is trends and the reasons for things happening. WW1 started in 194. The historical question is WHY>
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Just curious, what do you all think:
Is being fit but tiny and lean (pic related, featherweight fighter) better, or is being big and fit but not lean better?
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It's always better to be bigger in the evolutionary view, but you gotta rock with what life gave ya. I'm tiny but im thankfully blessed down where it matters. Make bitches scream and cream, but i do gotta work harder to attract them. Win some lose some.
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If anyone wants to know some context as to why I'm asking: I used to be a bit husky, but got really skinny in college. I've started lifting (been 6-7 months) but putting on weight is tough now, and smoking cigs doesn't help.
I just want to know if I should be happy enough being pretty strong and lean, in case I never do gain much more muscle. I enjoy the exercise, so there is that, but I want some of the visual aesthetic too.
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>>18167286
That's true, you can't change yourself, only make improvements.
Inb4 I meant tiny as skinnyfit, not short :p
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I'm an Army veteran. Honorable discharge. No combat experience. In my mid 30's.
I have a multi-facet medical issue that the VA doctors will acknowledge in person, but apparently will not create a medical record for outside their own specialty. It's an issue I've been pursuing for over a decade.
I was advised by a VA employee (who asked not to be quoted) that I should get Social Security to validate my compound issue, at which point they can use that as evidence to support my claim.
I just finished a Social Security hearing. My claim was rejected for lack of evidence. Specifically I need medical confirmation of my compound issue.
So I'm stuck in a catch 22.
I haven't worked in 4 years. I've lived off 40% service connection and my fiancee since then.
None of what follows will come to pass if my Social Security appeal works out. If it doesn't I will likely lose my housing, car, fiancee, and dog.
So here are my 2 plans if it doesn't work out. I'd like advice on how to achieve them should the need arise. "Don't do it" isn't what I'm looking for. This being 4chan, I'll add that "Do it" isn't either.
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Option 1:
A. Apply for every credit card I can and max them out (won't be much).
B. Sell everything I own.
C. Buy a 1 way plane ticket to someplace I can stage entry into Syria from.
D. Spend every remaining penny on freely available drones with video cameras.
E. Hook up with a group the US Government is cool with, inside or outside the country. The US Government remains my master even if I've been spurned by it.
F. Ask the local commander to place me in the most dangerous location that makes sense. Use the drones for surveillance against ISIS before it collapses.
G. Repeat option F until heroically dead or the war ends.
H. If still alive, find another war in another land.
For this I need general advice, contact info for groups I can join, maybe buddies to come with me, and maybe someone to upload my videos for more general distribution.
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"Option 2" is a bit more extreme so I'll briefly explain. No BAAAWWW, no sob story, just facts as I see them.
A. The US Government is my master. I worked for it repeatedly after the Army and have pledged my allegiance to it multiple times. At one point I had a TS-SCI security clearance.
B. They will no longer employ me. My disability makes me more or less unemployable, so this applies to public sector civilian jobs as well as the military. I am a Ronin.
C. I am disgraced by this SS ruling and the VAs refusal to properly treat or compensate me. So in a left handed way they have called me a liar, and since they took my opiates away saying my pain didn't justify them they have also called me a "Coward". Again, it is my master who accuses me.
Other Veterans are suffering the same thing. I cannot think of another way to make a statement to help them.
Any guess what option #2 is?
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Option 2:
A. Buy a new-style Digi set of BDUs. Get tproper name tags and unit patch.
B. Have my K-Bar sharpened to a razor edge.
C. Find a Kaishuku. Preferably a former officer or fellow NCO.
D. Disembowel myself in the early morning hours, before much security arrives, on the steps of my nearest Federal Building.
For this I need general advice and a (likely remote controlled) Kaishuku, and again, a separate person to explain the matter after the fact to the press.
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Hey guys i need some help. I broke up with my girlfriend a month and a half ago. She is a devout christian.
>she snaps me
>we talk about videogames and stuff
We dont talk much
>notthatbad.jpg
She tells me she needs to talk about something
Oh boy.
>tells me about how she fucked some guy after we broke up
>tells me that she wants to be friends with benefits to explore her sexual side
We dated for two years and never had sex. At the time she told me she wanted to wait for mariage. Now shes coming to me telling me she fucked some rando and wants me to have sex with her this weekend. What do i do? How do i go about it without catching feels again? Sorry if this sounds like shit im pretty drunk
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Why would you ever want to fuck someone so unstable? She obviously no longer cares about even her own values. Dodged a bullet by leaving her before sticking your dick in crazy.
Don't be a fucking retard OP - tell her no.
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>>18167252
Accept that if you two were meant to be she would never have done this and you two would be together.
Once you've accepted that, you can choose to bone her or not.
If you're the kind to crave romantic attention, then I can imagine casually fucking her to be a bad idea, but otherwise, sex is sex yo, just be careful.
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>>18167252
She obviously neither cares about you NOR her own values. Stay as far away from her as you can.
And spread the news.
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What I will do for love. 2017-03-28 02:51:33 Post No.18167242
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Please, I am desperate for reassurance. Has anybody had experience with their family not liking a partner? I mean not just thinking they are a bit off, like absolutely hating and refusing to condone the relationship, and pushing you to end it. Can it ever be ok? Has anyone ever had to push their own family away because they chose to stick with a partner? Please, this is tearing me apart. Be honest, be brutal, be inspiring.
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Bump.
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Have you asked your family why they are opposed the him/her? What about close friends, how do they feel? There is usually always a reason.
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Yes, my family thinks he is emotionally abusing me, taking me for granted, brainwashing me. But I can honestly say that is not the case. They never even took the time to get to know him. I will provide a bit of back story; I am female, 21 years of age, I have a secure job which I love and doesn't pay too badly at all, and I have a number of mental illnesses which play a huge role.
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is safeway a good place to work
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>>18167208
took a fixing computers course in collage dident do so well.
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It's not bad for retail. Become a food clerk as fast as you can and your wage will be pretty good in a few years.
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>>18167208
>is safeway a good place to work
Yes, relatively. For an entry level position it's pretty good as Safeway employees are all unionized afaik. Usually gives pretty good benefits, has a retirement plan, and decent pay depending on your position. It's certainly a good company to get involved with, especially if you're looking to move up the ladder.
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Finally Came Out of My Shell Enough to Start Talking to Girls, but Insecure About Sex 2017-03-28 02:19:30 Post No.18167155
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>Be kissless holdhandless socially awkward virgin
>With the help of some meds, make effort to be more socially active and even start asking chicks for their numbers
>Not all chicks give their numbers, and not all that do respond to your text, but if you do this enough times, you still find enough girls who are interested enough to go on dates with you
>Have a couple dates lined up for the next week, and grabbed three more numbers just today and one last night
>Realize that part of being romantically active is the possibility of sex; I don't really expect it to happen soon, but if I keep up being a normal person who can actually get close enough to a woman to see her pores, it will probably happen eventually
>Even though having sex sounds fun, I'm too self-conscious about my body to be comfortable naked in front of anybody
>Got that gynecomastia (not just fatty manboobs, but legit gyno), a bit of a gut, and large hips + thighs
>Subtle enough that I can disguise my flaws under clothing (don't wear tight t-shirts without a jacket on top, make sure shirts cover hips, etc), but naked, I look all gross and malformed
>Even though I could probably stand to lose some weight, that does nothing for gyno or my fat distribution pattern, which is abnormally feminine
>tl;dr finally started dating women at age 22, but my body is too gross to have sex
How do I deal with this? Don't say shit like "if they really like you, they'll accept you as you are." If I hit these chicks up because they are hot, there's no reason for them to be any less shallow than I am.f
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>>18167155
looks dont matter as much to a woman. they just dont. your body is fine.
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>>18167200
On the one hand, I do see a lot of kinda chubby dudes with slender girls, so they might not mind. I'm not even really that chubby, I'm more skinnyfat than anything. It's more my fat distribution that I'm worried about than my total fat.
On the other hand, women, especially younger college-aged ones, are always talking about how they like abs and biceps and pecs and whatever. It seems like when they get older, they just resign themselves to the fact that most men aren't in shape and just stop caring, but when they're young...
I mean, I even creeped the Facebook of a girl I took out who I like the most, and her ex has abs and was a breakdancer or some shit. There will be comparisons in her head.
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If your body botjers you that much OP, seek surgery.
There are female-to-male trannies who have had all of your issues + lacking a dick and they get manage to get pussy/look masculine enough.
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I have some useless interests /adv/. Recently I have taken a liking to reading about precious metals and planetary compositions and what not. I love reading about metals and their qualities and the composition of planets.
However, these interests are.. useless. They don't help with anything practical. Knowing that iron rusts in these environmental conditions is worthless. Knowing the ductility of copper is useless. All these facts are useless.
Then you take something like "Knowing about cars" You can actually put that to use!
What the fuck can I do with knowing about metals and the kind of metals one might find on mars or some shit?
A lot of my interests are like that. Interesting, but worthless. This in turn leads me to feeling very stupid because when people ask me "What can you do?" and I have no real answer. Its depressing almost that all this knowledge I can read about is so useless.
Help me understand. I envy people with good practical and effective interests.
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if you really are interested in this shit then go to school for it. you can find a job in academia
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>>18167203
I could go to school for it but that would just lead to joblessness. No one would be looking for someone who knows about rocks..
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>>18167222
youre wrong. my guess is that you arent actually interested in the subject enough to rigorously study it for 5-6 years. its just a passing interest for you that youll forget in a few months, like all your other interests
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I dont know how to talk with normal people. Like I find myself just asking questions most of the time, idk if its because they dont contribute that much or what I have no idea. There was a girl I talk with and when its me and her irl we just have a good back and fourth only because we do inside jokes, and memes, since we used to text alot. I feel like I wont have something like I did with her for a long time with someone and all I can think of is asking questions or (Interviewing them) as people call it. I don't really know how to have a good conversation with someone unless its mainly things we bonded over like jokes, or hangouts, or experiences.
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bump
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>>18167109
meetup dot com
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>>18167180
what? I dont get it, just learn to talk with people on dating apps?
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Rate my new idea of a game
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I just came up with a base idea an hour ago
It'll be one of those first person 'floating hand' games, tentatively titled 'Mr Fix It', where you'll go around fixing household shit - broken toilet, etc.
Barely anybody knows how to fix shit, so if designed well it could be a hit out of curiosity, you know?
The game would have to have an endearing art style personality, with addictive gameplay mechanics.
But yeah, what do you guys think?
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OP here
And yeah, it could have a difficulty of tension where it'd be like:
if you break parts of what you're fixing you'll have to buy new pieces, and when you run out of money it's Game Over. Like a classic 1980s level of 'Game Over' reset type of a thing, maybe?
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What the fuck nobody wants to fix a goddamn toilet
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I imagine some mechanic where you can place everything together in the wrong fucking way, and the bathroom floods. Then you have to run through the house looking for a garden house or bucket to try clean up the mess before the owners notice. I imagine you can make something fun, just have to be creative with it.
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No real joy left in life despite having it good 2017-03-28 02:01:47 Post No.18167104
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No real joy left in life despite having it good
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42/m/fit/married/own a business and answer to nobody/have plenty of disposable income/blahblahblah so everyone thinks life should be great.
Problem is, I don't feel like the world has anything left to offer me, and me it. Have tons of freedom and could do whatever I want, but it has been years since I've really given a fuck. Dislike the industry I'm in (filled with extreme leftists, terrible people overall) but pay is great and I only have to deal with email and the occasional rare phone call so it could be worse, but I dread everything to do with being at work or being out dealing with others in day-to-day life. Politics has a great part in it because everyone is off the fucking rails these days, had plenty of shitty dealings with people who I tried to get to know but were unresponsive/acted like ADD-riddled teenagers despite being 35+, feeling like there's no real point in going on because this world seems completely fucked.
I've had depression during my younger years, but haven't felt like it in the same way, it just feels like a black wave of "Why bother, it's all going to shit anyway, don't waste your time" every day with nothing that makes me want to keep trying any longer.
Wife deals with this well enough, but god damn, I'd really like to know what it's like to have some faith in the fucking world again and to feel there's still something of value to work toward and that it's not just all in vain where efforts will just get pissed on by people as they tend to do.
Not sure if anyone can give advice, but if nothing, I just needed to vent. Even when you have a good life, this fucking world can still crush your soul every single day because people ruin everything and are making it a true hell on earth.
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welcome to life
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>>18167111
Yeah, sadly, the shit I got depressed about in theory as a 20 year old NEET way back in the 90s came to actually be a self-fulfilled prophecy, from the looks of it.
Though, back then I though I'd be dead by 40, not successful and miserable. Strange how things end up, eh?
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>>18167104
You ever considered selling your company and starting a new one in an industry you're curious about? Get your youth back by being a student of life again
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Am I with the wrong person? 2017-03-28 01:57:59 Post No.18167088
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Hi adv,
I'm a young-ish guy and I'm with a woman who is not really my type in terms of looks, but I decided we were a good match based on her personality. I convinced myself she was technically right for me gave in to pressure from friends/family to get engaged (I have a religious family).
The main problem is that even though we get along, our sex life is almost non-existent. I don't feel anywhere near as infatuated as I did with my ex's, so I'm not motivated for sex or activities in general. I find myself looking at other women (who are more my type) all the time and wondering what it would be like. I think my partner is OK, but the sex is so awkward and uncomfortable. I've tried to talk to her about it but nothing has changed.
If I left my partner she'd be absolutely crushed, I don't want to hurt her, and our lives would look like a joke. That's not even considering the money/time lost. But if our sex life never improves wont I just be miserable forever?
What do I do?
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>>18167088
stop being a pussy living your life for others is stupid. fuck who you want to fuck.
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>>18167088
>I've tried to talk to her about it but nothing has changed.
You need to be more upfront about the potential ramifications of shitty sex are to her. If you can't tell her that you're considering ending the relationship because of bad sex, you're not taking all the steps you should be.
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You first need to address one painful issue:
If you knew it was pointless:
> would you actually leave?
> would you wait for things to get worse?
> would you wait for things to get better ir onrder to justify staying?
This is the most important part because we both know that if you're not feeling OK, you should leave.
Here's a tip: things usually just get worse and the habits just grow.