Please, I am desperate for reassurance. Has anybody had experience with their family not liking a partner? I mean not just thinking they are a bit off, like absolutely hating and refusing to condone the relationship, and pushing you to end it. Can it ever be ok? Has anyone ever had to push their own family away because they chose to stick with a partner? Please, this is tearing me apart. Be honest, be brutal, be inspiring.
>>18167242
Bump.
Have you asked your family why they are opposed the him/her? What about close friends, how do they feel? There is usually always a reason.
>>18167320
Yes, my family thinks he is emotionally abusing me, taking me for granted, brainwashing me. But I can honestly say that is not the case. They never even took the time to get to know him. I will provide a bit of back story; I am female, 21 years of age, I have a secure job which I love and doesn't pay too badly at all, and I have a number of mental illnesses which play a huge role.
>>18167427
Why do they think he's emotionally abusing you?
>>18167461
Because I am very unhealthy at the moment so they automatically assume he is causing my deterioration.
>>18167427
Listen to your parents broz they are usually right. Had the same, once my parents noticed how do I act and what my relationship with my ex did to me, they were repeatedly telling me to quit thia relation. I was so crazy about her, that I could not accept this idea of leaving her. At some point she broke up with me, telling me there is too bog characters difference between us... I was devastated... I still somete miss her, however I can see I am more calm, confident, less self-pity and worried about many stuff. So listen to your parenta they know what is good for you.
>>18167794
But I love him so much and I truly am better with him, it fucks me so bad that nobody sees.