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>8 years with the same girl, 2 years engaged. She cheated and I left her.
>Before we broke up she "promised on her life, everything she had or ever will have that she was telling the truth"
>After I broke up with her over lying about where she was/what she was doing, she then got back on contract with me, wrote me a letter explaining herself, that she was pregnant and scared. She said she lied about where she was because of doctor visits. And she ended up with a miscarriage.
>I being the loving/understanding and supportive boyfriend(blind-tard) that I am, I forgave her.
>Two weeks later, I invite her over, gonna try to rebuild things slowly after the broken trust.
>She can't, has to work.
>I get this sick feeling, drive down to her work, parking lot empty, it's closed on Sundays.
>I ask her what it must feel like lying to people who love and care for her? We break up again.
>I assume she aborted the child at this point, upset with her for that decision(I've always wanted a family), but whatever.jpg
>6 months later I'm still upset with her. Turns out she's still pregnant but doesn't know if it's mine. She's convinced it's not.
I've decided that if she promised me her life and future and then lied that I am completely validated in collecting on her promise.
I want to destroy her life and the lives of the people around her. I am thinking of spreading all the nudes to everyone she knows, and putting her mother in jail. She took photos of bruises her mother left on her and it's still within the statues of limitations to report it. Not to mention the abuse dates back to when she was underage and therefore qualifies as child abuse.
I need advice here. I'm so tired of her, I want her to suffer for everything she's put me and my family through.
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>>18164905
Went back to a cheater
Went bareback on a cheater
You're lucky you're just getting a child out of this. She cheated bareback, you could've gotten an STD.
Forget the nudes, just do the mother in
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> I am thinking of spreading all the nudes to everyone she knows
Revenge porn is a crime, don't do that
Just leave her you moron
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>>18164915
This
And don't bring her mother into it. I get that you're upset but you're not thinking rationally. After you confiemthe child isnt yours, cut her out of your.lifd entirely.
Living well is the best revenge
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Every day for the pass 4 months I've been cripplingly tired after about 5 hours of being awake and I need coffee to function. I can't sleep properly despite attempts of setting up a schedule. I'm so fucking sad all the time and there's this constant wave of sickness over me. I genuinely feel like I'm dying or something. I've lost all motivation in my life and to top it all off there's this large lump under a part of my skin and I've recently accumulated erectile dysfunction.
I've genuinely never felt so goddamn awful in my entire life. These past four months have been a living hell. Should I see a doctor or what?
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cancer?
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See a doctor, what part of your skin?
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>>18164902
>what part of your skin
it's a lump near my ass. might be a hemorrhoid.
I don't fucking understand why this is happening. I exercise and eat decently.
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So, how do I behave on my coffee date this friday? I don't want to just befriend her, but I am honestly clueless of how to act.
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How did you get the date? Because if it is an actual date, she won't mistake you for a friend.
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Act like yourself. If she doesn't like you for you then it will never work out.
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A girl who moved in to an open room in a female friend of mines appartment. Spoke to her 2-3 times when we were out drinking.
I think we really hit it off together at least on one of these occations, and so I invited her to a classical concert, from which I unfortunately had to leave immediately afterwards. Bad planning on my part.
Then I met her at a bar last friday and didn't really speak to her, as she was in another company, but just briefly touched on the idea of drinking coffe, and then I wrote her yesterday if she wanted to drink coffee....
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>25 years old
>kissless virgin
>never had a gf
>fat as fuck
>no friends since I was in middle school
>community college drop out
>couldn't even go back if I wanted to because I owe $1000 that I don't have
>lazy
>no motivation to do anything ever
>can't even think of the last time I was excited for anything
I know I'm a worthless piece of shit but I have no motivation to change it and am pretty content. I actually hate how content I am. How do I stop being a worthless piece of shit?
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Motivation begets motivation. Force yourself to achieve something small and then use that momentum to do more and more.
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>>18164837
The funny thing is you know exactly what you have to do to stop being a worthless piece of shit you are just too lazy to do any of it.
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>>18164858
losing weight? That solves my not dying before the age of 40 problem but not my no friends or no gf problem.
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So me and my gf are together for 3 yrs.
She loves watching girl porn
Tries to make me watch it with her
Found out she watches lesbo porn alone time to time
Kind of vaguely told me she sexually attracted to woman
She has a female friend
They are suspicious friends
Her female friend buys her expensive stuff, sexy clothing
Me and gf smoke weed, our thing
She asks for her female friend to join our sessions
One time, ok.
She starts inviting her to join us almost daily
Wat the hek
She starts telling me how her friend's bf does not satisfy her sexually
I'm suspicious for some time that she will ask me for a threesome, I can almost guarantee it
Yesterday found out that she failed at deleting browsing history
Porn website- She loves to share her dick with friend.
Threesome porn
Even more convinced.
Wat to do.
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>>18164797
Be straight up with your gf. Tell her everything you told us and how it looks from your point of view.
Are you open to a threesome? Are you worried she will leave you for her friend?
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>>18164813
>Be straight up with your gf. Tell her everything you told us and how it looks from your point of view.
If i'd do she would tell her strait up i'd guarantee she would be mad no matter what
Forgot to tell, she superb jealous of me
>Are you open to a threesome?
I'm worried that it will kill our relationship
She wouldn't think about it I bet
>Are you worried she will leave you for her friend?
Leave me?
No
Cheat on me with her?
Might be..
I need to figure out way to make her tell me about it.
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>>18164824
>If i'd do she would tell her strait up i'd guarantee she would be mad no matter what
If I would tell her strait up i'd guarantee she would be mad no matter what
so. honestly
would i be better off as a selfish asshole as compared to "trying to do the right thing"
honestly.
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>>18164796
Depends on what the situation is
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>>18164804
it just seems that everyone in my life is just self absorbed. i try to be there for people, but it's exhausting. i'm honestly moments away from changing my number and dropping almost all these people from my life
not saying they're bad people. but i feel like i put a lot more effort into my relationships than i get out
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>>18164807
That's honestly just how life works :/
Be proud and happy that you are a good person and you are there for people, even though you don't get that back.
However, if you are friends with people who are not there for you when you need them, or you put in more than they do, those are toxic people who you shouldn't be friends with.
That's why you're exhuasted and that's completely understandable.
Try surround yourself with people who are willing to put in the effort for you.
It can be hard, but in the end its worth it, and you may find yourself with only a few good close friends, but this will be better than a dozen fake friends.
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I consider myself a 5/10 female. Nothing special.
No guy talks to me in real life in a romantic sense. In college i never got hit on except by an autistic guy who said "you look nerdy... but in a cute way!".
Why is that, when i joined this dating site, messages poured in about how "cute" i am? Are they just horny or are guys too shy to approach girls irl. Probably both.
Its just blowing my mind so many guys are messaging me when ive never been on a date or had a boyfriend in my life. ive never been hit on but i have 30 messages a day of guys saying "hey".
Thoughts welcome.
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>>18164784
Because you probably fall in the range of being not too intimidating, but still attractive enough to fuck.
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>>18164784
>5/10 female
Would need a pic to prove this.
Most of the time girls are very insecure and see themselves very differently to how they actually look.
And also, lots of average and attractive girls go through highschool and college without guys ever approaching them because they are just too shy or intimidated.
So it could very well be that you are attractive but you have just been unlucky.
As for online dating, guys tend to be a lot more desperate than in real life, because they think online dating is an easier way of getting laid so they will tend to go for anyone.
And also because there are more guys than girls on most dating sites and apps, girls tend to end up getting a lot more messages regardless of how attractive they are.
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>>18164793
Would guys really be that desperate online? There are messages from guys i know would never even give me a second look on the street. A lot of your points are valid though thank you.
>a pic i uploaded on there
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HELP, I get emotionally attached very quickly to any moderately attractive girl that gives me attention.
I had sex with this girl from my college (not same class) on Friday and i can't stop thinking about her, i was even thinking about dating her and we barely know each other.
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>>18164781
What advice are you asking for?
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>>18164785
If you can't figure it out you might be retarded
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>>18164781
Date the girl anon and before each date remind yourself that nothing last forever so enjoy it while you can.
Ask her to go dinner / cinema / bed with you.
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Tl;dr A girl I had a date and awkward sexual encounter I had months ago just randomy happens to be the roommate of a girl im starting to see this week and is basically suggesting their friendship can only continue if this new girl stops seeing me. New girl seems unable to make her mind up yet and I want to know how to approach this topic with her
So a few months ago, I went on a tinder date with a girl and we came home made out etc, she said she didnt want to fuck, so i asked her for a blowjob and she gave me one.
It wasnt until recently I learned this kinda behavior is shitty do.
None the less, next day she texted me and said she didnt want to see me again.....
Ok so this week I go on a tinder datw with another girl. This date goes just as well, but when we come back to my house and take off our clothes she says she didnt want to have sex. I was fine just making out, but a few minutes later she told me one of the reasons she wasnt down right then is because her roommate is the girl from the beginning of the post. This new girl (fake name "Sarah") kinda understands my side of what happened in the incident and we got pretty close.
The next day we hung out again but while walking around the town i live in and we were near her place and I wanted to pee. So she let me in to use the restroom. I had known her roommate didnt want me in their place yet but we literaly just came in for a second and left. Somehow somebody saw this and told her I was there.
Now Sarah says her roommates saying she doesnt want her to see me any more and is like giving Sarah an ultimatum like "be cool with me , or be cool with him and we arent tight as roomates anymore" (she told Sarah she was gonna sleep somewhere else for a while)
What the fuck should I do? Sarah told me all this today and its sounds like she's wavering in making a decision - I can tell she likes me (we had sex) but she also feels close to her roommate and doesnt want to disregard her feelings.
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Not much you can really do. A pretty sucky situation OP.
Maybe try talk to the roommate and ask her why she doesnt want you dating Sarah, and try resolve things.
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>>18164808
I mean its because I made this girl uncomfortable months ago and i guess now because i went into their shared space to use the restroom
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>>18164849
Thats pretty immature from her in my opinion.
why not confront her and say something like,
"hey i really like your roommate sarah and things are going great between us, but I dont want to cause any issues between you two"
and try sort it out?
Or then can Sarah just move out lol
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Got dumped because of communication?
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Do you guys believe this? Girl dumped me for another guy because she said I didn't talk to her enough. But she never said "hey I feel like we're not talking enough", or "what's wrong?". We talked a few weeks earlier(I went to her) and told her that I felt I was becoming a little quiet and that I was struggling with some depression. She said it was fine and that she still loved me. So I felt secure that she understood why I was like that at the time and took time for myself. But then when I came back, she said "you didn't talk to me for three weeks". Which is true, but only in the sense that we didn't talk or hang out as often as we used too. I've been feeling very guilty about this, but learned that she found a new guy only a week after we'd last talked. Did she just like this guy now and try to guilt me to get out? Or as I wrong in taking time for myself, even though I told her I needed it?
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>>18164755
I know you want closure anon, but honestly its not worth trying to decode why she broke up with you.
And knowing the reason won't probably make you feel better either.
So just try move on from it, because anyone who breaks up with you is not good enough for you anyway!
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>>18164763
Fair counter point. It's just a fucking baffling situation though. I've never liked a girl, wanted to be with her or was with her and never said "Hey, are you and I okay?" or lost my composure when she wanted her space. Maybe I'm just not "clingy" or something? I don't know. The reason I'm trying to figure it out is so I can learn if what I did was okay or not for the next girl.
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>>18164790
Well i dont think not talking to your girlfriend for 3 weeks is very good...
Even if you need your own space and time, at least texting them asking how they are once a week is a good idea.
However it sucks that she couldn't just give you a few weeks and wait it out, but some girls are just more clingy and need more attention.
Probably don't do the same thing to the next girl though :/
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How do I stop getting hippie losers recommended to me? 2017-03-27 06:28:56 Post No.18164675
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I keep getting "people" like this recommended to me on dating sites. And I can't seem to figure out a way to make them stop getting recommended to me.
Any ideas /adv/?
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Move as far away from Portland, Oregon as possible.
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>>18164675
I dunno about you, but I'd be okay sticking some dick into crazy.
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>>18164682
Makes sense. But I live in a red county a good drive north of Portland. Why am I still effected by this shit?
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Childish question
How do i fix my toliet?
So my family is asleep st it's about 2am here.
I put way too much toliet paper in and flushed, it got clogged and started to overflow and luckily I turned the water off just in time so noone woke up. So the water is off and I'm assuming there is still paper blocking it. Will plunging it make the water overflow more or will it all go down the drain and go back to normal? Sorry for being so retarded.
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>>18164657
do other people have to use it? sometimes the paper will just dissolve if you can let it sit for a day.
if you have a disposable cup or something you could scoop the water out then plunge
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>>18164657
If the toilet is THAT clogged, it won't do shit (harhar). Plunging would only make it worse.
If you have a chemical thing specifically built for toilets, like an enzyme dissolver or some shit, liquid snake...then that works well.
Only once did I try this: Use dish soap (half a cup) and hot, not boilling, water (full cup).
I let the soap do its thing for a half hour, then since the toilet was not even full, I poured the water in. THEN I plunged again, just to make sure. I didn't flush, though. Either way, it went straight back to flushing.
Never tried it any other time, though. This was just under desperation.
If you're in REALLY DEEP SHIT and need it done quickly, run to the store and buy a 2-1 liter of soda. Then cut it so the bottle can fit into the hole (1 liter coke/fanta bottles recommended). shove into the toiled then GRAB ALL THE WATER until the shit pops up.
If THAT doesn't work...well, shit, I dunno how to help you buddy.
t. a guy who takes massive dumps.
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get a plunger
plunge it
the plunger will push the blockage through
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My long term boyfriend is starting to talk about kids but I'm not ready
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Pretty much just that- I've tried telling him that I don't want children particularly, and certainly not right now (I'm 22), but he tells me that it's a natural thing for a woman to want, and simply won't take no for an answer.
I'm not opposed to the idea somewhere in the future, maybe. But we don't have everything else in order yet (we're still at uni). I'm also worried he's the type to dump any and all childrearing responsibilities on me, because he seems to think "it's natural".
We've been together since we were 16, were each other's firsts etc. but this is starting to seriously drive a wedge between us. What do I do?
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>simply won't take no for an answer.
Break up with him. This isn't something he alone decides. The fact that he doesn't understand this is a huge red flag especially when combined with something like
>I'm also worried he's the type to dump any and all childrearing responsibilities on me, because he seems to think "it's natural".
because that's exactly what he'll do.
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>>18164672
So you think it's not worth it?
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>>18164681
I do not. Just because you've been together since you were 16 does not mean that you have to stay together forever.
He does not respect you and your desires, plain and simple. Is that the sort of guy you want to be with, raise kids with (or rather, you raise the kids while he's out doing whatever), and have those values passed on to? Or would you rather be with a guy who respected your own wants, would parent alongside you and would raise respectful children?
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Is it disrespectful or wrong to stay with your parents during college, but asking if your gf could stay as well?
I'm currently attending community college, while she is finishing her degree as well. We both plan on getting our own place, but it seems illogical to add the cost of an apt plus other expenses when we both have student loan debt. I brought up the idea to my parents but they say it's disrespectful, even if we offer to pay rent. I fully intend on marrying this girl in the future. It seems like a logical idea. How would you react if your child asked you this question?
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If you're paying rent and space isn't an issue I don't see the problem
High potential for awkward scenarios to play out though
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If you both are willing to pay rent, and bills then your parents should be happy. I know my Dad would.
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>>18164636
Personally i wouldn't mind but you have to acknowledge that your parents are a couple too and they like their privacy as much as anyone else. Dont judge them if they say no, its ubderstandable
Alright so in my current living situation, things aren't going well. I'll leave it at that. I need to move out as quickly as I can and the area I live in has one of the highest rents in the US (Portland) I need some help with was to make me your quickly. I'm willing to do quite a bit for this also but keep in. Mind the skechier is sounds, the more likely I won't even listen. I trust people's (I shouldn't on 4chan) and I just need anther voice for some help.
A bit about me, I have no problem working and have always been considered a hard worker. Don't mind the hours except for graveyard and swing shift. As said before willing to do basically anything at this point even illegal unfortunately. I have previous experience with small business, fast food, and warehouse (I could go into no problem). And I know the last request is a stretch but it's not completely necessary but I want a job that could potentially teach me something.
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Get a job, suck dicks, rob a bank
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>>18164588
I don't know what I expected
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>>18164592
"Oh anon, here, have some money for your unspecified predicament!"
Is that what you were expecting? Because what I said is literally the extent of advice you're doing to get. Earn it, or steal it.