Guys, I need your advice.
Last year I did a lot of drugs - shrooms, LSD, weed, Ecstasy, MDMA, DXM, saliva etc., didn't get addicted to any of them, but one: Meth.
I've been addicted last year, and I've got over it by myslef, but recently a friend offered me one line and I just coudln't resist.
I'm currently crashing down, feel like shit and want to kill myself for being so stupid to get into this shit again, but I can "feel" something in the back of my head telling me to get more.
Please, share your experience and ways to cope with craving the drug, I'm not sure I can do it by myself. I've kept this secret from my family, and I'd like to keep it that way.
Also general drug addiction thread, feel free to post anything related.
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>>18165586
I'm addicted to Cannabis when my mother is in the shower I will go to her purse and take money I feel so fucking shit and guilty
Idk how I could do this sorry mom
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Accept what you did and then don't worry about it. Just like everything in life, you have to accept what you can't do, to be able to do it. It's an absurd illusion of life that after so much effort of trying, it's when you don't try at all that make it work. If you want more information on how this works, check out this video
https://youtu.be/SM-0XEOGTvc
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>>18166338
she knows youre taking the money. she is protecting your feelings. come clean & seek help. she is waiting for you to own up & be an adult.
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What is the cheapest flight from ireland to a mainland european country. (i.e. which country is cheapest to fly into)
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>>18165581
Look up flights and find out yourself.
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>>18165594
How about you not post?
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>>18165581
Google can answer this. Best part is you don't have to wait for replies or deal with trolls too much either.
What's the best dating apo that can hook me up with girls? I'm 19 and a virgin and I'd like to at least touch a girl for once.
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>>18165556
Fellow 19 year old here.
Masturbate and get a hobby before you drive yourself insane. It's not worth the effort.
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>>18165556
Try them all. Google should help you with that. Evade paid ones.
Take your photo including your pet / friends, make short bio and message as many girls as you can.
Once they reply, say something original like
>i think you are really cutie
keep text to minimum and set up meeting in person asap.
Or try horny teens aproach. Go to parties, get drunken silly and have fun.
There is thread about it from female perspective
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From my experience it's at least one hundred times more difficult to pick up girls online compared to real life
IRL a lot of people are scared to approach girls while online every coward is able to send dozens of messages to different girls in the space of 10 minutes, so every girl, even the 3/10, are floaded with messages
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How to get my virgin gf to have sex.
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We are both 20 yo and going to the same uni. I lost my virginity at 17 and am to be her first. We have been dating for maybe a month now and still nothing. What do I do? Outside of sex things are good. She is engaging in kisses and hugs, which is a good sign. She doesnt appear to be a prude like my last girlfriend.
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>>18165534
While kissing, try putting your hand on her tit/vag and see what happens.
Are you sure you've had sex before?
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>>18165534
She is testing you to see if you are
>cum and dump
type of boy. You can keep doing what are you doing and hope she will eventually get horny herself (which should happen because 20 something is still very young), try to comunicate about your primal needs with her, arouse her by inappropriate touching at "wrong" places, break up or buy some rohypnol.
At least you know she isnt easy girl.
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>>18165582
If you do this it might freak her out. Ask her first if she is comfortable with taking things further, tell her you want to make sure you're taking it at the right pace for her but you want to try taking things further. While making out you could try moving your hands to her boobs or pelvis and see how she reacts...if she jerks and looks terrified stop and talk to her about it.
Hello /adv/,
since I am a dumbass in terms of social skills, I am not able to interpret signs properly. I either don't pick up on signs of attraction or I misinterpret signs of friendliness for being attracted to me.
So basically, here's what happened. I was visiting a 10-day-training in a different city for my job. During this time, I was living in an apartment from the company with 7 other people who are also colleagues but which I haven't met before and took this training.
There was this one particular half-German, half-Filipina girl. We got along very well and it seemed to me as if she was into me, but I want to know your guys opinions before I ask her out.
These are the following signs I perceived as signs of attraction, I will try to objectively represent them:
>she laughed at 99% of the shit I said even when it wasn't really funny
>I sometimes catched her looking at me during the class and when I did she smiled at me
>during conversation, we held eye contact for very long always (idk if that even counts as something out of the ordinary)
>she mentioned to someone else, while I was sitting next to her, that she is actually more into chubbier guys (I am kinda chubby but also built looking)
>she once told a story of guys who were very beta towards her and how she couldn't take them seriously because of it. She complimented me on my huge amount of self-confidence at my age (I'm 20)
>she commented on how "manly" I am and that she couldn't imagine that I'd ever cry
>we ate lunch together alone a couple of times
>we cooked once together and then ate
>often physical contact through touching my arm or whatever
I came back from the training today. Yesterday was the last day. I originally intended to ask her out yesterday but she left a few hours earlier than she planned so the goodbye was in the middle of me holding a course to students. We hugged (about 3-4 seconds) and said our goodbyes. She didn't mention anything about keeping in touch, me neither.
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She hasn't texted me yet, even though she has my number. I don't think she will either.
I plan on just sending her a text saying:
"Hey,
it's me Anon, you wanna hang out some time this week?"
So, what's your take on the entire situation and what's your advice?
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Oh and btw, she lives about 1 hour with train from my city.
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>>18165492
go ahead dude
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Hello,
I've recently started to live by myself, I have a dog, but you know, dogs can't talk, so, do you guys have any tips to cope with being alone?
Just for you to consider:
>I don't have gf
>I don't have any relation whatsoever
>The only people I talk to are my mother, sister and brother
>I do play instruments but I'm not into playing 24/7
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Bumping for OP. I live alone as well, but I don't even have a pet. I have study holidays now and I haven't spoken to another person for four days already. Slowly going insane, the longer it is the harder it feels to have a good talk to people, seems like I am not able to do that anymore. It's not even loneliness, it's a fucking hollow.
There'd be two months study break at summer, considering killing myself.
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>>18165478
Go to church.
Go out with their youth groups
Bonus if you find a gf there
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>>18165478
Listen podcasts and imagine you're there talking with the guest and host
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My hearing is not the greatest and my girlfriend hates repeating herself which she often has to do with me.
We're living in different places temporarily so we've been texting but now she's still complaining she has to repeat herself!
The conversation today in short:
Her:"I have a bump, it's like a pimple, it feels different from one though, it could be an old pimple"
Me: "It sounds like a sebaceous cyst, which is not too worrying"
Her[WORD FOR WORD]:
Did i not already say this
Why do you think it's a cyst
When i said it's not a pimple
Can you read
Are you okay today?
Is this shit normal? Do normal people do this shit? How do I deal with her? (breaking up is retarded, her qualities outshine her defects)
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Get a small, cute puppy and punch it in the face every time your girlfriend pisses you off
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She's just a bitch, you can't fix that. You just have to learn to live with it.
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>>18165393
>We're living in different places temporarily so we've been texting
2+2=potato
Speak to her. Her [text?] response was disproportionately angry compared to your previous text. Tell her (ideally verbally) that her tone was/is out of line and you won't put up with her being unnecessarily rude.
Then comes the hard bit: sticking by what you say and giving her the flick if she keeps being a bitch.
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I've been dating this wonderful guy for a year now. He's sweet and adorable, is dorky with an awful sense of humor. He treats me well and respects me. I fell for him in no time and I told him I love him on our third month of dating. He only said "I know".
In the 1 year we've been dating, never have I heard the word "I love you" come out of his mouth. I kept on telling him the phrase. At first I was patient and told myself that I'm telling him the "L" word because I want to anyway, that it doesn't matter whether he says it back or not because I wouldn't want him to lie to me. The thing is, I lied. It mattered to me. The wait felt more and more painful. There were nights when I fell asleep with tears running down my cheeks because it felt so painful. I know he loves me. He shows it in the things he does and the sacrifices he makes, but a selfish, bratty part of me wanted to hear that too. So I stopped saying it to him. I was too tired of feeling rejected. Eventually it doesn't hurt anymore and things were fine.
Today on our anniversary date, he told me he loves me. He smiled that gorgeous smile of his that used to give me mad butterflies, his eyes tender and filled with so much love. The thing is /adv/, it just made me feel hollow inside. It made me realize that during all those time I spent crying over those words, my feelings for him had died and shriveled. I just feel it's such a pity since it would have given me so, so much joy had I heard it half a year before. I feel bad because he's a wonderful person and I do like him even now, but it is frankly a bit too late for this.
It has been a good 1 year with him, but I'm ending it now. I wish for the best for him, but frankly there's no longer anything left.
/adv/, if you have an important person in your life, tell them you love them once you feel it and don't wait. Time will never go back. Like feelings, grasses need to be watered to stay green. Love the people you love when the chance is still there.
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>>18165384
I love you is implied through embodied action. If you need the words for validation you should've stated it. Do you even relationship?
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You are affected only by the words, or lack thereof, spoken by those people you let affect you.
You should have mentioned much, much earlier than a full year into the relationship, that he was hurting you by failing to tell you that he loved you. If it wasn't a common phrase for him, how the fuck was he to know you gave a shit about him not uttering the phrase?
>Guy didn't read mind; guy is bad
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>>18165418
I did tell him. He told me that he can't say it back to me and doesn't know if he ever can.
>currently a computer science major
>enjoy learning different aspects of it
>was good at the computer architecture side of things
>but don't really enjoy programming in high level languages like java and kind of suck shit at it
>this semester am failing the java course pretty hard
what do i do with myself
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How serious are you taking your studies?
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Eat some pizza. Maybe pepperoni
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>>18165402
who is this
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I'm 22 years old and a girl. Not the most extroverted lady and only ever chill with one person because my bestfriend (who is also my boyfriend) lives 4 hours away. This one person is also my smoking session buddy. Have noticed that we only listen to her music when we smoke because she has this "black people music v white people music" mentality. Problem is that she only listens to trendy hip hop and trap love songs but listening to one genre for the duration of music sharing is super annoying to me. Also she gets easily irritated when high and makes her less receptive. How do I bring this up with her (as you can tell, I'm pretty non-confrontational)
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You don't... just be a nice floor mat and let her walk over you. While you're there, might as well get used to it because everyone will walk over you for the rest of your life. If you were a guy I'd call you a pussy
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Give it to her straight. Sometimes you just gotta let the other person know what you think. She'll listen.
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>>18165365
yeah, you're probably right.
but i really enjoy her and she does enjoy me too, but those two things are problems with me. how do i bring this up with her in the healthiest way?
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Help me /adv/
>She's 38, I'm 27
>She wants kids, I don't really (at least not now)
>In second year of medical school (where I am it is usually possible to succeed in med school with kids after year 2)
>Don't see myself having kids but also
>Almost physical pain when I think about breaking up with her
Yeah, we've talked about it. Repeatedly. Usually we just end up crying or fucking without coming closer to a solution.
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>>18165317
>She's 38
Can she even have kids anymore?
You need to break up with her fast. She is really runnjng out of time to pump out a kid
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>>18165317
you have to make a decision about whether you want kids with this woman really fast. I feel like a person in medical school would know that. She has like no time left and every day you're with her is a disservice to her.
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>>18165325
I don't know, but while 38 is late it's certainly not impossible
>>18165329
you basically just rephrased what I wrote
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I can't get over my ex.
It's been almost 5 fucking years since we broke up and I just can't movr forward. Whenever I feel like I'm forgetting her, I relapse and end up stalking her. To make things better, I just found out that she has a boyfriend and that he's a massive leftycuck.
If I knew breaking up with someone would be this awful i wouldn't bother trying for a relationship in the first place.
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>>18165312
Grow some balls and move on, whos the real cuck here you dumbfuck.
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Stop being a weird pussy and put yourself out there for other females.
She has CLEARLY moved on. I'd understand if she was still calling or texting to see you or because she's really unhappy with her current relationship but this is all on you.
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>>18165312
You'll never forget her but you will get over her if you allow yourself to truly move on. What I mean by that is, resist the urge to stalk her social media, date other girls and don't even allow her space in your thoughts. She's in the past and she's living her life. You've wasted enough time thinking about this. If the relationship ended, it doesn't matter what could've been and even if you don't feel it there is another woman who will suit you. Just let it go man.
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So my girlfriend who's in 12th grade just got excluded from school for missing 19 hours of elective classes ONE month before the end of school. She even passed one state exam already and her marks in general are very good (7-9 range). What the actual fuck. The schoo's principal and the board all sound like crazy people, suddenly blaming and accusing her of everything. Like her mom went to school to talk with the principal, got told that the principal is out of school and now she's getting blamed that she's on a high horse 'cause she went to school and didn't even go to see the principal. I literally called school myself and secretary told me that the principal was out, but now she was there. What the actual fuck. I mean, okay, she obviously did miss the 19h of lessons, but one month before the end of school they exclude her and notify of this during a week of holidays. Do I need to hire a lawyer to sue this school and take some sort of legal action on the incompetency of the staff there? Or can I just go there and talk with the principal myself and record our talk if she will start lying and bullshiting? Can I pretend to be a layer to scare her? Is this illegal? She literally told that highschool doesn't matter, fucking school principal told that it doesn't matter in life if you have finished highschool or not. Also, I'm from Northern Europe. Of course law is different from country to country, but what would be a good general course of action?
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Course of action would be to deal with the discrepancy between the principle and secretary.
Thats all you can do because she broke the rules and it sounds like she did willingly. Requirements are requirements, she didn't follow them, hence consequences.
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>>18165290
She did break rules, yeah. She's in the public school as well, so it should be managed by the state. But come on, she got permission to write state exams after she broke the rules and suddenly, during the week long holidays she gets called and informed that she's excluded and she should start looking for a new school. During holidays. And she only got official notification 3 days later. The procedure was obviously shitty and wasn't followed though correctly. Also her classroom teacher said a lot of horrible things to her I imagine no teach should be allowed to say to a student. But nothing of that is recorded, so anyone can say that it's just bullshit, that's why I want to go to school and asctually ask these people why they said such things and record their replies without them knowing. Is this legal?
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>>18165302
Are you seriously asking people to tell you the law in your unnamed country? If you're too fucking lazy to go look it up yourself, stop being an idiot and go talk to a lawyer if you want legal advice.
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Why do you people get so worked up over chicks and relationships? I just hire an escort twice a month. You're going to pay for pussy one way or another, so why not do it on your own terms? The money I pay is a drop in the bucket compared to what a long-term relationship would cost, let alone alimony and shit like that.
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Enjoy being old and alone
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Because companionship, affirmation and love are things people not on the autistic spectrum crave.
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>>18165276
Can't buy genuine companionship and a meaningful human connection from a whore.
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>sometimes randomly feel extremely driven and motivated to do things
>Most of the time I feel deflated and totally unmotivated to do anything. Lost all drive
How do I stay in that first mentality all the time, pls respond
This is normal and not depression right?
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Stay positive and fake a bit of motivation to get you started
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No. Almost sounds like BPD or something. Not completely sure. Ever try seeing a doctor?
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>>18165286
I'll try senpai
>>18165289
I've been thinking about seeing a doctor about OP and other things, mood swings included.
To be honest I have no idea how health insurance works, I'm currently riding off of my mother's insurance and I don't want to have it get jacked up because I went to the doc over something that could probably just be a small issue that I could have been avoided if I stopped being a little bitch. I don't think I can really afford it out of pocket either.