Help an autistic /fit/izen lads. I was on tinder and matched with some girl I see in the gym all the time. I asked her if she was the girl from the gym and she laughed and said it was her. Where do I go from here? How do I tinder correctly?
>>18167319
ask her out to drinks
>how do I tinder correctly
>didn't open with something vulgar
You already tindr'd incorrectly.
>>18167329
So just right now? I've done that before and went on terrible dates. We're at uni so should I ask her for food when she finished up at the gym or should I tell her when I finish at the gym and go from there?
>>18167331
I've tried that and gotten blocked
Bump plz
Criticize her form
Bitches love that
>>18167426
Haha, like the pottery scene from Ghost
>>18167352
Well, I don't think being sweaty after the gym is good for a date. Just ask her out
>>18167505
I did, no responde but it's 1 AM. Do the cycle repeats itself... This is why I lift
op on suicide watch
Decide that she'll reject you no matter what and then ask her out anyway. You'll probably be less likely to overthink what you say and you won't be worrying and imagining what your kids will look like
>>18167641
I've been trying that recently and it has at least gotten me more confidence, still getting constantly rejected though. She just rejected me saying someone else asked her to this dance I am invited to so she doesn't know who to say yes to. I want to fucking die but I'll just do more reps out of anger now
>>18168010
kek, what a pathetic manchild. No amount of lifting or reps will ever change your shitty beta nature. Have fun.
>>18168015
Not everyone was blessed with charisma okay? I lift for me and me only. My feels will always be the heaviest however
>I'm autistic
>How do I keep being autistic by not socialising with a girl and instead talking to her on tindr
Ask her out and stop being retarded
>>18168019
>Not everyone was blessed with charisma okay?
Nobody is blessed with charisma, everyone developed it through social interaction, except you because you pretend you're a special snowflake
>>18167319
Talk to her a bit, when the conversation dies down, tell her you will talk to her in person tomorrow, do that, test waters, if the stars are right ask to hang out. The rest falls in the realm of a different thread