Hey 4chan, I am suffering from depression (noshit.jpeg) and am currently on Escitalopram 10mg and Clonazepam 0.5mg . I've been experiencing a few things since such as uncontrollable hiccups (muscle irritation), cold sweats and diarrhea. I wanted to know if such side-effects are normal and what other side-effects can I expect to have?
A good human bean from >>291228 told me that this was the place to go, so now I have turned to you. Help please.
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I'd recommend you call your doctor as soon as possible. Any side effects should be asked about and checked with him/her. Get well soon anon :)
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>>18190216
stop taking xanax you will get seizures from long term use...just take benadryl
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is penile elongation feasible?
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>>18190202
Pull on it hard for half an hour every day.
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>>18190206
Actually, this, desu.
Thanks to me getting my own place, this somehow happens all the time. And holy shit, it's grown by a centimeter since last month.
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I mean technicallyyyyy you'll get longer, there's just a very real chance that you'll completely loose control of your dong
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tldr
>in college
>best friend is female
>she gets bf
>he's annoying as fuck
>literally cannot stand to listen to his voice
>follows her around like a tumor
>one day tell him he cant enter my room anymore
Theres so much more to this story where shit hits the fan. But this is something that happened like 5 years ago and in the end things went terribly. Ive been trying to figure out why things went so badly before and was wondering if this is the first mistake I made.
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>>18190155
>not telling us the whole story
>expecting anyone to be able to tell you why with no details when you can't even figure it out knowing everything
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>>18190161
Well more of the story happens later where things spiral out of control. I just really want to know if I was wrong here though.
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You're probably like 26. Move on. Nothing good comes of living in the past.
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So me and my ex the girl on the right have been through a tremendous breakup and it hurts a lot. I dated her for a couple of months but I gave her my all. She is Arabic so that was a hard difference separating me and her. Another thing that was tough was that I didn't know her music well enough. Lastly, she had bipolar disorder.
Beginning of the relationship I may have fucked up and told her she was the one. I told her that because I was crazy about her ( in a good way)
The sex was phenomenal. Unprotected but she took birth control. Always took tests and wasn't pregnant. That was great.
The bipolar was hard and she would lose all feeling for me. She broke up with me the first time and then begged me for her back.
A little time goes by and then I get broken up again. This was recent. She said she had no feelings and couldn't show any sympathy for me. She literally is heartless. I know she hates that word but I think it's hard to have a heart and be bipolar.
My question/advice from you guys.
I still love her very much. She meant a lot to me. We fought after and I didn't want to get harassment charges back. We ended because of two reasons
1. She wanted to be with someone who spoke Arabic in the future which is asking me to do the impossible
2. She lost all feelings for me.
How do I win her back? I know some of you will tell me to move on but the connection I formed with her was incredible. It was a good relationship but I think her bipolar took over.
Flash forward to now. 3 days with no contact and I miss her. Ask any questions you want
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>>18190148
There's nothing to ask.
No offence bro but feelings cannot be "earned", even if they existed in the past, I've learned that from two relationships that lasted 2 years each.
Once feelings go - they're gone
also
> Lastly, she had bipolar disorder.
It seems like the end of the world now, I know, I was with a bipolar girl too, the highs are extremely high and the lows are crushingly devastating, that's not a way to live life. Go through the pain and the motions, eventually you'll thank yourself for moving on.
Good luck
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>>18190148
I've been in a similar situation.
What I've learned is that at that moment (after the breakup) I couldn't see clear, I thought I loved her, "she was the one", I felt bad, it hurt so much.
For months I've been in this state.
But then I understood, that I didn't like her anymore and I should've moved on way sooner.
>Right now you might think you love her (and believe she's the one, you need her and all) but in a while you'll realize you could find someone better.
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>>18190148
Why continue to keep drawing water from a poison well? You know it's going to end poorly for you, so why not find a different well?
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Only child. Female. Adopted.
Parents divorced at 15. Found out dad was and is having sex with tons of escorts. He is also overweight but has money. Talks about women in a gross way.
The other day at a dinner party he was talking to my husband about how the women in Italy are so hot, but also the Dutch give him a boner.
I think that is an absolutely disgusting topic of conversation to have with my husband and the father of my kids. who is definitely not that type of guy and never has been.
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>>18190124
Nice feminist blog
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you want advice about something or nah?
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>>18190124
It's normal guy talk and relatively inoffensive. Your husband has definitely had these conversations with guy friends when you weren't around, and thinks them for sure. If not he is most likely gay.
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Anyone regret having kids?
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I figure this is about the only place I'll get honest answers.
I'm 32 and I've never felt the desire to have children. I thought by now maybe I'd have made up my mind.
My girlfriend is 27 and we've been on/off for 8 years (mostly on). She decided she wants kids and will want to move on soon if I don't want to have kids, so it's not too late for her to meet someone.
I don't blame her for this at all but I'm also not sure what to do. I would marry her otherwise, we make each other really happy.
I know a lot of people say having kids is the best thing you'll ever do, etc. But I also feel like parenthood is a miserable club people try to drag each other into because they're jealous of the their childless counterparts.
Apart from financial issues, responsibilities, the possible drag on our relationship, I have never felt that spark or whatever that made me want to become a parent. I'm not saying it will never happen, but the clock seems to be ticking for me, at least with this relationship.
Any advice?
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>>18190119
I've heard that relationship satisfaction peaks for a short time after the baby is born, and then it significantly drops until 18 years later. I also have an aunt and uncle that never had kids and they have no regrets, their life is amazing
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>>18190119
The reason you don't hear people talking badly about being parents is that they'd be ostracized. Don't get me wrong, I love my children and regret is a big word, BUT I never wanted to be a parent.
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>>18190119
Jealous ??? Lol
I love having kids. I don't give a crap
About anyone else either way.
It's amazing.
But if it isn't for you don't do it. I didn't know I wanted kids for sure but my boyfriend at the time startled me saying he wanted to have kids with me. After 4 years, I knew it was what I wanted.
Never been happier.
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I am a misanthrope. After 35 years of life it's only gotten worse - despite financial and career success, family, etc. I hate that I feel this way and the consequent nihilism I feel, but the evidence hasn't swayed me towards a new position. I realize the irony of asking 4chan for help with this, but I guess my thought is who better to ask than those that are/were afflicted? Anyone here able to regain faith in themselves and others?
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I'm on the same path. 30 now. I was a very much a "love and be loved, live and let live, etc etc etc" kind of guy when I was younger, but I've grown more bitter every year. There's a lot to dislike about people and about the world.
You may think this is silly advice, but reading the Dhammapada (Buddhist wisdom) helped me put some things into perspective. http://www.buddhanet.net/pdf_file/scrndhamma.pdf
The world will never stop sucking, people will always be bastards, but you can change your mindset about it, and the Dhammapada even teaches solitude and non-attachment is what leads to ultimate happiness. Attachments make us bitter because everything always changes, so we inevitably lose everything we attach ourselves to. Severing attachment is hard, though. I struggle with it daily.
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>>18190095
Jordan Peterson will add meaning to your life old man.
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So you turn into a wolf under the full moon...?
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What's your advice on making women feel more comfortable. Women have told me I can be very intimidating. I think I'm giving off the wrong vibe, or maybe I'm scary looking. Any tips?
>inb4 post your picture
Not happening.
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Don't try it this hard, that could be the wired vibe your sending.
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Don't try to sound edgy or boastful for one. You should try showing off little bits of your talents and interests bit by bit but that does not mean talk less. Oh, look up how to smile correctly for your face and make sure to smile more.
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Try smiling.
i just visited a psychiatrist for my depression, and got prescribed effexor (venlafaxine). i don't know what i expected to happen, but now that i actually have the bottle in my hands i really don't think i want to go through with this.
i've been struggling for something like 8 years at this point and things haven't gotten any better. i had a short span of like 6 months in the middle of all that where i started pulling myself together, making video games, and felt happy again. i did this all without antidepressants. but then i went back to university, lost all my momentum, and crashed hard basically immediately and haven't been able to get back to normal since.
this has been going on so long i just don't know what to do. i know i got out of this once but i was way younger then, and on top of that anything i can think about pursuing at this point just seems either impossible or pointless (video games seem really pointless at my age now). i was 20 when i was doing that, now i'm 25. back then nobody i knew had accomplished anything and i had my whole life ahead of me. now i know people who are successful in life and my life has basically stood still since 5 years ago. it just seems completely hopeless.
antidepressants will probably help with my mood i guess, but i feel like there's always a rational reason for me to feel the way i do. why would i be happy? my life sucks. i'd really like to get out of this, but i also don't want to be happy doing things i know i don't like. i really would like to have a life where i can be happy without drugs but i have no idea how to make that happen at this point.
i've tried therapy but it hasn't helped at all. should i just kill myself?
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OP have you considered the possibility that happiness is not so much a feeling but a moral obligation?
I want to encourage you to help others while you're trying to figure ourself out. Maybe volunteer at an elderly home or hospital. Doing some good in the world to make others happy might just help
But please don't kill yourself
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I went through a crash and burn type scenario also. SSRIs and SNRIs made me lose my motivation, and I stopped taking them eventually. I do regret taking them because they didn't help me. Sadly nothing helped me besides hitting rock bottom and discovering where my issues probably come from (with the help of marijuana which helps me think deeply and sort through my thoughts), slowly building myself back up and finding myself again. I'm still in that process but feel better than I've felt in a long time. Try to get to the bottom of why you feel like you feel would be my advice. It's easy to just say, life sucks, but that doesn't help and your feelings probably come from something very specific. There is light at the end of the tunnel and you will eventually be better off than you were before you felt this way, no bullshit.
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SSRIs have been extremely effective for me. Sometimes they do the opposite though. Only one way to find out.
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Hey guys.
So I'm what everyone would call a loser. I have no friends. No job (not for lack of trying). No girlfriend.
I've never had any of these things either.
Everyone I know, which is only 3 people, dislike me and treat me like shit.
How can I go about feeling better + fixing these things?
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First, have you seen a psychologist?
Do you have any idea why people would dislike you and treat you like shit? You have to know yourself and understand yourself before you can change anything.
If you can share some more info about you we could try to help you better :)
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>>18190056
first step buddy: let those people go
and dont argue with me.
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>>18190115
As this anon says. Sometimes the toxic people spread toxicity to you. You want to surround yourself with better people.
Short story from my experience. I was a loser, no real life friends, and I did most of socializing on stuff like Teamspeak. I got banned from my usual server and it kinda forced me to start meeting new people since I couldn't talk to the ones I used to. Eventually, I was able to fix my personality and learned how to socialize with people. Having an office job helped me out a lot also. It taught me proper professional etiquette such as to limit swearing, just avoiding bad topics, and really getting to know people.
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Hey /adv/, what were your experiences in age-gap relaionships like?
I've been seeing a woman for over 2 months now who is 13 years older than me. I love how well we get along but I worry what my family will think if it gets serious since she's just 6 years younger than my mother.
Anyways, I'm hoping to get an idea of how our culure feels about it compared to the older cultures. Any stories are appreciated
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>>18190040
I have dated several women older than me. Piece of advice for you - don't do it long term. They start losing their looks and leave their prime while you are entering yours.
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>>18190047
I don't mind fading beauty as long as the personalty is golden. Do you think if these women you dated were perfect in that area then it would have lasted?
I guess what I want to know mostly is what happened when the relationship went long term (or what you think would happen)
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>>18190040
I was once in a 9 year age gap. Illegal too (I was the underage one). Was pretty great.
How likely it is that a Snapchat screenshot notification is false? I received a notification that a guy screenshot our chat but he says he didn't.
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>>18190019
>I received a notification that a guy screenshot our chat but he says he didn't.
Well, he said he didn't. Obviously the word of a human man is more reliable than the cold, hard certainty of computer code.
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>>18190019
I'm not exactly sure how it works, but I think if someone uses the system screenshot method (clicking the home+lock button on iphone for example) while snapchat is open, the alert is sent.
If you received a notification saying it was screen capped it most likely was. Remember that even with snapchat, anything you send out can be kept. I know some of my friends have taken pictures of nudes with other friends phones so that the alert trigger wouldn't get set off.
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>>18190026
Wow modern life is lame
I work in a company with many employees. Three years ago I started a relationship with one of my co-workers, who still continues, she is an excellent woman, a good and faithful mother. Everyone in the company loves her and they are very happy with our relantionship. Her family and her son love me so everything became very serious. The problem is that our work demands a lot of time from us and also she having a child ocupies most of the short free time. she needs to be with him, so cause that our intimacy and time together is little, even I know that she is one girl in a million and the Woman with whom I want to spend the rest of my life with, but this to see us little out of work unconsciously has moved me away from her to the point of starting to have feelings for another girl who works in the same place we are just friends for now . Although I suppress what I feel I think more in this girl than in my girlfriend now .and I feel that she feels the same but I do not know if I take a step, out of fear that someone in the company will find out and tell my girlfriend and this would hurt her a lot and she doesnt deserves it And I would see myself as a demon at the eyes of all coworkers and family alike. I can not stop repressing my feelings for the other girl, the only thing we both do is look at each other at work.
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>>18190007
You sound like a sleeze
No offense
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Talk to your GF , if she really is the girl you want to spend the Rest if your life with , you both will overcome this Situation. I she get angry there is your Motivation to geh the other girl.
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>>18190007
>And I would see myself as a demon at the eyes of all coworkers and family alike.
Don't try to paint yourself as a tragic anti-hero
You're just a run-of-the-mill asshole
Let that fucking woman be free and rebuild her life with her kid and without you as soon as possible
full offense, of course
I'm planning fighting a friend that I'm very close with, because he's been coming onto my little sister when I've told him not to. It's cool to be a whore, but when you try to do things to my YOUNGER sister it's an issue. Never fought a friend before but I feel like it has to be done this way because words aren't working. Any advice?
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How old is your sister? How old is your friend?
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>>18190002
Dude, just let your friend fuck your sister. What are friends for?
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>>18190002
How old?
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Can any native english speakers help me out here?
A girl messaged me
>Gahhh, I really want to reply to this, but I'm about to go to a friends house for a movie marathon. Of course I could just wait until tonight to reply...but I want a golden egg nnooowww!! I'm about to drive for an hour...uh...can I...call you?
what does golden egg mean? Is that an idiom or something?
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Amerifat here, without any other context this doesn't mean anything to me either.
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It is a reference to the movie "The Wizard of Oz." In the movie, there is a little girl who is very mean and impatient. At one point in the movie, she demands a golden egg even though it would be very inconvenient to give her one.
So in this case, the girl means "I want to talk to you right now even though it's a little inconvenient." She is saying it playfully.
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>>18189988
thanks for your help :^ )