Only child. Female. Adopted. Parents divorced at 15. Found out

>>18190124
Nice feminist blog

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you want advice about something or nah?

>>18190124
It's normal guy talk and relatively inoffensive. Your husband has definitely had these conversations with guy friends when you weren't around, and thinks them for sure. If not he is most likely gay.

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>>18190138
I would like to know male reactions.

Is this gross or am I just idiotic??
Why would he mention how hot other women are to my husband/father of 2 beautiful girls? Makes no sense to me.

>>18190141
It's impolite to talk about at the dinner table, but it's normal for men to think about and talk about hot women, with or without a desire to get with those hot women. It's just how the male sex drive works.

>>18190141
They were bonding over common interests you dummy

>>18190140
>normal
'normal' guys are wierd.
I might think that but I don't go sharing it like some fucking knuckle-dragging raghead.

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>>18190141
Yeah it's gross & inappropriate if you're present and have made it clear (politely, tumblretta) you don't want to hear it.
He might be trying to establish rapport with your husband (in a misguided kind of way, if you say your husband's never been like that).

If he's just talking with your husband alone, it's up to your husband to tactfully discourage it (if it's bothering him).
If he's just loudmouthing when he's out with the two of you, you've gotta do the tact thing and insist he keep it pg-13 if he wants to spend time with you.

>>18190124
>gets mad when someone talks about women who aren't her

that's your real problem

>>18190140
Well he told me it made him uncomfortable but he didn't know what to say.

He's not really the type that ever cared for women like that.
I know men are pigs and whatever but he was an only child raised by a divorced mom from the age of 1 and he never really fell for women at all. He honestly hates women.

But I dunno,
I always had guy friends and we had lightning amazing sex the first date and he got hooked on the sex and now we are together.

But I think that attitude is a bit gross and sexist, and I wouldn't go for someone who acted like that.

>>18190159
No. I wasn't there.

On the drive home he said to me. I just want to tell you about this really weird thing. He thought it was gross.

He asked me, "what should I have said??" He doesn't want to be offensive, but he personally thinks that is chump talk.

He told me he said, "okay. Excuse me." And avoided being alone with my dad for the rest of the night.

It's embarrassing for me.

>>18190181
Tell your husband to stop being such a beta.

He should tell your dad he likes him and all but he's not really into talking about pussies & boners next time he brings it up, have an explanation for why, and be ready with something to segway into, like politics!

>>18190181
I mean, you can't change your father.
smile and nod or distance yourself

personally doesn't seem like that big of a deal to me.

>>18190124
Nigga what. italian women are hot. You think your husband doesn't have preferences. That he lives in a fictional world where he equally is attracted to every single person. The exotic look is a form of attraction in pretty much every culture. Fuck off with your retardation.

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>>18190195
I guess so.

It just seems odd to me that my dad would want to talk with my husband about other women. I mean. We have 2 kids, I could never imagine my husband trying to shoot the shit with my daughter's husband about women........ it makes no sense on so many levels.

I told him, next time why don't you say, "that's great. I'm not really interested in talking about other women."

Unfortunately,
He does not like talking politics. Esp in Frump era.

>>18190207
Eh.
Every culture/nation has every type of look in their women.
Only real differences are well-defined racial attributes.

>>18190207
Not everyone is an idiot like that.

This is why men pay women for sex. Because they let women have power over them on that level. Pussy is pussy.

>>18190213
>frump
stop that, it's puerile.

But hey it'll certainly cement the transition away from the awkward 'I don't like locker-room talk' moment towards the inevitable 'FUCK YOU LIBSHIT' saga.

I recommend he specifically mention 'pussies and boners' though, to show he aint as much of a boyscout bitch as his position will make him out to be in your dad's eyes. (using the vulgarities shows he can stoop but prefers not to, and doesn't really hold it against your dad)

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It seems like people got the wrong idea. I just have 2 thoughts:

Mainly, as a father of a daughter, wouldn't you want to promote chastity in your daughter's spouse?

2. Not all men like this kind of talk, including my husband who already thinks my dad is gross for having sex with escorts.

We are both Christian.
Maybe that makes the difference?

>>18190232
Yes. But see my post, we are Christian.

>p.s.
I'm just typing in my phone not taking a political stance.

>>18190233
>>18190237

Sure, it's logical.
But your dad's a divorced sex-fiend. It's what he can talk about & relate with, what he knows.
A football fanatic will have more to say about the superbowl than about current NASA events, so guess what they talk about when they open their mouth?
The superbowl.
In your father's case: women.

>2.
Yeah, that's true & your husband's opinion there is valid (if not mainstream nowadays).

Christian makes no difference.
If your husband can't/won't use the vulgarities to tell your dad he doesn't want to use vulgarities, it could make the interaction go worse than it has to.
But eh whatever, things'll work out.

>>18190259
I guess. I just wondered people's opinons.

It seems like it is pretty mainstream to get star struck by women and fetishize them.

>>18190220
Yeah no, everyones dick likes the exotic look

>>18190268
Yeah pretty mainstream for a lot of guys.

What made you come to /adv/ btw? You don't seem like the typical demographic around here..