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Why do I feel abnormally unhappy with the thought of being alone?
If I see an attractive girl, I'll get that tinge of pain knowing that I'll never be with them.
Why can't I get out of this shell of anxiety?
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It's like being a kid looking through the window of a toy store and being told "You can't have that." All day. Every day.
I know that feel.
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>>18219557
It's part of being human. Most people are unhappy being alone. What's keeping you from finding someone?
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>>18219562
Anxiety mostly.
Self-esteem too, I've lifting a while but I still compare myself to people who look better than me.
I've been feeling generally unattractive lately, mild acne, I always look tired or angry, and no matter how much I try, I can't seem to fix it.
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I seem to have injured my back.
I'm trying to run a mile every morning. This was day four. When I came back the area behind my left kidney hurt and I chalked it up to just being out of shape. But now it hurts like shit to just lie here and even worse to change positions. It feels like a cramp. All I did was (mostly) run a mile 6 hours ago. What the hell did I do?
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>>18219512
You might have a hernia, see a dr
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>>18219512
Go to a doctor, ask to check spinal discs. Could be a herniated disc.
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Order a new back on amazon
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My partner has some ketamine and wants me to do some tonight.
I have some experience with drugs, namely weed, cocaine and mdma. However, I am not a regular drug user. I have never done psychedelics.
I've read about the effects and I think by doing this, I've put myself off trying it. I'm definitely an overthinker and a worrier.
I don't really want my boyfriend to do this without me because I'll sit here worrying, but he has a tonne of experience doing drugs in general and really wants to experience it again. I don't want to stop him.
Can anybody give me some first hand experiences of ketamine that might stop me worrying as much? I'd only be looking at one bump if I did choose to do it.
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You've already done mdma, what do you worry about now?
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>>18219504
I dunno, on mdma I felt really happy but I was in control and in my own head. By the sounds of it, ketamine is more of a dissociative feeling which I don't think I've experienced before.
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set and setting are important if you're already being a turd about it you won't have a good time (mindset) and you won't make a good environment for ur bf (setting)
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So adv/ this is my situation, a few hours before going into my girlfriends house I masturbated various times(ive heard that its an effective way to stop Precum) I then proceeded to to take a shower(hot and cold) an hour before going to her house, after an hour or so things got pretty stramy between us and I started to do manual sex on her, for a little while, my question is, is there a risk of her getting pregnant? Im freaking out over here to be honest and I really dont know what to do.
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What the hell is manual sex
Also unless you're really fucking awfull at taking baths, no, you can't get your girlfriend pregnant by fingering her with the hand you used to jack off
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>>18219450
>manual sex
You mean manual as in like, finger-banging? If so, then no.
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OP here!
Yes I meant manual sex as in finger banging her.
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I am having a serious problem with my "friends".
Long story short, I like a girl, friend doesn't like girl, girl likes friend. My friend plays into it even though he knows I like her. All my friends are taking his side even though he has stated he is a dick for doing it.
Where do I go from this point? What should my next course of action be?
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>>18219436
Throw yourself at her, if she says no you move on to the next girl
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Forget about the girl
Find better friends
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>>18219436
Find a different girl.
She probably likes him not you.
And he doesn't sound like a good friend.
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Any ideas to shake my stale distant relationship?
Anything helps, even some random multiplayer game.
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>>18219418
Distant and is LDR(oleplayong)?
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>>18219430
As in*
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>>18219430
As what?
Distant as in we live too fucking away, we talk everyday but we see each other once in a month.
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Moved out lastnight on random urge was it a good idea? I have a job. No car currentley it got stolen a month ago.
>be me 21 Fighting off and on with family
They are Nigerian imagrants lived in Berlin most of my life
>move to Texas 3 ears ago with dad
Meet girl fall in love 10/10 happy, started college not really knowing what I want to do. Finish my basics parents think I'm a failure and I'm not reaching my potential. Constant arguments and abuse from other family also about my life. Urge me to dump gf and current friends because they are all "pothead losers".
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If you can provide for yourself and are not just being reckless then no. Good for you actually.
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>>18219380
I work as a wedding photographer currentley. My girlfriend has been driving me to work and letting me use her car. Our relationship is pretty rocky due to my reacurring indecision on how I let my family treat me and Shit like that.
She's also been mourning the suicide of her first love. Dude blew his brains out 2 weeks after my bday so she's pretty no bullshit rn about everything and dosnt want me to hurt her with anymore of my family bs
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>>18219389
I'm living with her and we split rent. and I have a phone bill. And insurance I'll have to pay for when I get a car again. But defo need a better job. Or atleast to start a career of some sort I havea bunch of interests and in I'm actually good socially so it's really just on me to find my niche i feel like. Or do I just sound like a slacker
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I've been trying to take money out of the ATM and check my balance but all the ATMs (except for one, but you can't check your balance on it) rejects my debit card.
I heard the bank locks your card if you make sudden large purchases (I bought a $65 game but have only been spending $6 on lunch every day)
What's going on /adv/?
Thanks.
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Call the number on the back of the card.
The customer service number, not the fraud number.
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Obviously contacting 4chiz /adv/ support and not your financial institution it's the correct course of action in this situation
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>>18219362
Why are you here if you're just going to hurl abuse at the people who ask questions?
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I am a half white half asian dude. What does my dating game look like?
Unlike most hapa dudes I don't really give a shit about getting a white gf but I really have no idea what race of girls I would have the best chance with. I'm primarily attracted to other hapas but they are pretty much unicorns where I live. Advice?
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I hear shooting up places and just generally killing people is a good spot.
I figure, if you get arrested, you're gonna have a sizeable number of women wanting to fuck your brains out while you're in prison.
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>>18219345
Tl;dr you're fucked
You're about manlet-tier fucked
There's girls that like Asians, mixed people etc. but expect them to be into anime or K-pop and stupid shit like that.
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I'm not trying to be mean.
Half-Asian/Half-White men statistically have the hardest time finding a partner. Worse than being a manlet. Hope you're not a manlet, too, OP or you should really consider castration.
Hey adv, would you consider it a dealbreaker if you were talking to someone and they told you about how they just had sex, whilst they know you interested in them?
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Its a polite way of saying fuck off
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>>18219312
That's what I call unlucky OP.
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>>18219307
Depends on the girl.
The last girl I slept with asked when I last had sex to segue into actually doing the dirty.
But if she's just telling you she's having sex, not WITH you, while she KNOWS you like her - it sounds like you may not be getting any anytime.
Stop texting her frequently and see how she reacts.
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Nothing makes me truly happy. There's no meaning in anything.
I have a nice job, pays me decent enough and I truly love what I do.
I get lots of free time I use to read, watch videos and shows, google stuff online that I want to learn about. I do whatever I want to.
I still live with my parents as I'm saving up to live by myself one day. But this means I basically don't have to do chores unless it's the weekend.
On the weekend I usually drive some place that I fancy. It's nice.
But that's it. There's nothing else. Life is meaningless for me. I do everything I want to do but I'm still not happy.
When I was younger used to be in a band. I quit that band for two reasons: 1. the other people in the band didn't completely like the same kind of music as me, 2. I'm not a creative person, I realized this as I matured.
I sometimes have dreams of returning to my band. But I don't think that would really make me happy, it's just my brain telling me something's lacking.
How do I find meaning in life?
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>>18219282
>Nothing makes me truly happy. There's no meaning in anything.
>I have a nice job, pays me decent enough and I truly love what I do.
>I get lots of free time I use to read, watch videos and shows, google stuff online that I want to learn about. I do whatever I want to.
>My life is meaningless.
>I make enough money to support my empty meaningless spare time in which all I do is spend time on electronic devices.
Get some hobbies anon. And no, I don't mean watching netflix, vidya, or other shit you can do in your own house. Get a hobby you have to get out and do. You'll meet more people, and being more mobile in your day to day life will help your morale.
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Forgot to talk about friendships.
I don't have many friends I can talk to on a daily basis. I used to, and occasionally I can still talk to these people, but not in a regular basis. We all work in different places so I guess it's normal we don't hang out as much.
I recently broke up with my long term girlfriend but we both saw it coming for miles. We knew we were going to break up eventually. It was actually a nice break up and we're on good terms, just not regularly speaking to eachother obviously.
I used to have a pet cat. She died of euthanasia before the cancer got too big. I miss that cat.
Nothing currently makes me as happy as I once was.
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Like what? I'm already in a German class, to improve my skills. I like the people there but we don't really hang out much.
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I'm in a similar position although I have been living on my own for a few years but in my parents apartment who moved to the countryside.
I think the big problem is we've never truly left the nest to fend for ourselves and the comfort of that safety net is not where you want to be when trying to make significant changes to your life.
Even just the fact that you're on this board asking something like this makes you pretty privileged. If you don't have any real struggles and challenges in your life, faced with difficult decisions and hurdles to overcome you get complacent. It's too comfortable and easy and you don't feel rewarded when overcoming a challenge. Because you practically have none.
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During my time with the ex gf, she was never really confident in herself to do normal life stuff compared to no problem with the professional workplace. One thing was always wanting to move out of her crappy apartment. Always complained, looked for new places but never pulled the trigger or chickened out last minute.
Now she finally did it and I feel abut proud of her with actually doing it.
Is it ok to tell her so? Just being genuine and not seeking anything else out of it
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Yes.
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of course as long as you ended things properly like adults
something tells me that's not the case tho...
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>>18219252
Things ended ok. Wasn't sunshine and rainbows for sure
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Redpill me on being a doctor
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You won't be one.
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>>18219201
Sorry man but it is not possible for you to put in the effort and dedication to become a doctor if you need to be redpilled. You can probably be a LPN or something though.
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>>18219201
Like in a hospital? Or like a peaditrition?
Well doctor hospital wisez It's a lot of educational work (minimum 7 years of undergrad, grad, and post grad work), hours are awful when starting out and you're on call 24/7, it can get very depressing, hours are long as fuck, you rack up a lot of debt, the slightest wrong thing you do can end your career.
But it pays a lot, if you don't mind death it can be extremely rewarding, you can retire early if you choose to, the co-workers are great and like-minded, and you get to save lives.
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Reformed weeb getting hit on by hot chicks
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Long story short, I spent almost all of my formative years watching anime and playing video games. I was a fat, ugly nerd who had bad hygiene and didn't groom himself. I had very few friends, and even they bullied me. About a year or so ago I decided to put all that shit behind me, started living on my own, started buying nicer clothes, started grooming myself carefully, start lifting, lost fat, gained muscle, started forcing myself to talk to girls and stuff, grew a beard and started trimming it.
I feel like I'm suddenly becoming a man and it's weird getting used to the idea that women find me desirable. Inside I still feel like that ugly nerd who couldn't wait to go home from school where I felt ostracized and alone and watch Code Geass.
I've mostly just hooked up with girls who are to put it politely, below average. And I'm ok with this, I just assumed this is what the food chain had in store for me. It's like, I either settle for the mediocre chicks who show interest in me, or just never get laid.
Now it's getting weird because I'm getting swiped right, approached and messaged by girls I used to think were way the fuck out of my league. Chicks high school me would start shaking his knees around. Now they'll message me out of nowhere like "wow I like you're beard, you're cute what's up?" and I'm like, "Holy shit this girl is actually talking to me?"
I just honestly don't know how to approach women like this without transforming into a giant mass of spaghetti and hitting the pavement in hot weather. Any tips for dating chicks who are a lot hotter than what you're used to?
And yes even though I'm "reformed" I still play games and watch anime OCCASIONALLY but not in the way I did as a youngin when it was my entire existence.
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If you are getting swarmed by chicks, just be yourself. The nice ones will like you, and the jerks will be turned off by your spaghetti.
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>>18219164
You're now at a position where you can hurt them the same way they hurt you, anon. Don't let them get away with it.
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>>18219173
This
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I fucked up
Years ago I 'borrowed' money from a non-profit organization that's run by a small amount of people. Since then I've managed to continue running the organization with few problems, other than people wondering about abnormal practices. E.g. Giving cash payments instead of checks, or writing checks from my personal account instead of from the organizations.
Now everything has hit the fucking fan. There's a lot of documents missing, people are demanding to see the books, and I don't know what the fuck to do anymore. Killing myself isn't an option, and I've already put more than the amount I originally borrowed back into the organization. It would take at least a week to collect/forge all the documents I need, and my deadline is looking like today.
How do I cover my ass, and more importantly, how do I make it look like I'm just an incompetent idiot instead of a thief?
Side note. I also fucked up when it comes to the State level of the same organization, the previous treasurer closed out the account and I've hit nothing but resistance trying to re-open it, while telling everyone that everything is going fine.
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>embezzlement
You're retarded AND fucked.
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Surely in this case 4chan is the best place for advice and not an attorney.
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>>18219163
You don't. Just accept you fucked up big time and go to jail/pay the fines depending on the severity of the crime.