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I am having a serious problem with my "friends". Long

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I am having a serious problem with my "friends".

Long story short, I like a girl, friend doesn't like girl, girl likes friend. My friend plays into it even though he knows I like her. All my friends are taking his side even though he has stated he is a dick for doing it.

Where do I go from this point? What should my next course of action be?
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>>18219436
Throw yourself at her, if she says no you move on to the next girl
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Forget about the girl
Find better friends
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>>18219436
Find a different girl.
She probably likes him not you.
And he doesn't sound like a good friend.
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>>18219467
>>18219469
It's hard to forget about her because we have so much in common, but she does like him, but he doesn't liker her.
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>>18219486

You'll have things in common with girls that like you if you go out of your way to meet new girls instead of dwelling on just one that rejected you. Assume you have 10% chance of not getting rejected. If you meet one girl a year it'll take you 10 years to have a 100% chance at a relationship. If you meet one girl a week it'll take you 2 months.
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>>18219467
>>18219469
>>18219496
Seriously, if there's one piece of advice that every guy should hold onto, it's "never focus too hard on any one female". Especially if she's not interested from the start; you're going to have plenty of options. There's nothing you can really do to make someone like you over another person aside from make that person look insecure about how much people like them, which is -your- current problem, not theirs.

Also yes, find new guy friends or associate more with the other ones you have because shitty wingmen and users are never going to help your social situations. They just "use" you as a social comparison in public to make themselves look better. Same thing for why girls usually have one fat friend.
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>>18219486
I've been in that situation before.
It's not a good place for you to be.
Slowly distance yourself from her, and build yourself up at the same time.
Read some books, pick up a new hobby, workout at the gym...etc.
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>>18219496
>>18219510
Thanks for replying to me. It's hard for me to make friends, I live in a rural area and only have a small pool to choose from. It just upsets me because I have let them be with girls they like because they make the first move, but they don't give me the same courtesy.
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