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Renting from this white trash lady in a California. Been living here since January. There are a total of 6 adults and 3 kids living in the house. 2 of them are hers ages might be 5 and 8, the other kid is from her new boyfriend that is a toddler. How the fuck that shit works I don't know.

Anyway all I hear everyday is her cursing at the kids, doesn't matter what they do I hear her go off on them. It's "stop being a fucking asshole/bitch", "why are you being so fucking stupid today", "shut the fuck up" "fucking pussy" etc. basically no filter at all. I've only heard her hit one of them pretty hard, hard enough I could hear it from upstairs with the doors closed and the tv on. Damn shame she has kids and is trashy to the max because she's pretty fucking hot.

Never dealt with this shit before. Am I just being a pussy or is this something to tell the state?
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Hell yeah it is. But get recordings; and report those too. Try to make it anonymous if possible.
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its illegal to record someone without knowing in CA. But I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks she's way out of line for treating her kids like that
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>>18299156

Raising shitty kids isn't illegal, unfortunately. She was raised by shitty parents so were hers before that. If being shitty was illegal Trump wouldn't be president and everyone would drive a Porsche.

Maximum shrug.

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>be 24 year old
>meet 29 year old online
>develop feelings for her
>I'm like a girl in the sense I can't have sex with someone I don't love, just can't
>meet irl, stay in a $1400 a night room
>over 2 months change my whole life from being a filthy drug trafficker surrounded by negative influences to a normal person
>after the change starts to get "bored of my unintelligent conversation"
>at this stage I have cut out EVERYONE from my life and given her more money than most earn in a quater.
>decides I'm no longer worth it and cuts me out
>I then realise this is all my fucking fault, I told myself I'd never love again and let it happen and was of course only used emotionally, physically and financially.
>apparently I'm a narcissist despite one of her reasons for leaving me being that "I'm a 20 and she's a 100"
>I now have no family or friends, I have a phone with one fucking number in it, hers, Which Im fucking blocked on.
>I'm sitting alone in a room with 2 grams of ice, I've had 5 hours sleep in the last 96 hours
Convince me to eat it all, tell me to kill myself I'm scum who's seen ice sold to children as young as 11 and I didnt do a thing to stop it.
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>>18299153
You ever considered on leaving the us, in search of peace in a more simpler land?
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Kill yourself.
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>>18299169
Im from Australia. I have thought of moving to Canada. Im a nurse, but I have anxiety problems so bad I haven't been able to enter a shopping mall for over a year. My whole life is delivered I doubt I'd do well alone in a new Country.

>>18299170
Im still too much of a bitch.

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How do I start a conversation with my doc about getting an Adderall script, i've tried it before and it make me feel mentally balanced in terms of being able to focus on reading something and learning. I also have depression. What exactly to start saying to not make it seem like drug seeking behavior?
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How old are you
Are you enrolled in school
What are you grades like

im a uh..professional drug seeker, lmfao.
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If you ask for it they will not give it to you.

Not because it's not the medication you need but because doctors are egotistical fucktards that unless they thought of it, it means it's a bad idea.

It doesn't matter how much the medication improves your life or eases some of the symptoms... they won't listen.

I super fucking hate doctors so much.
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>>18299120
25, I stopped going like 4 years ago when my GPA dropped below 2.0, first my grades were good then I lost interest n started failing.

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I took LSD (125ug) at the weekend. I had a generally good time but found it impossible to focus during the peak and spent around three hours doing the same things over and over again. I forgot what LSD was and what I was doing until I finally regained my composure as it wore off.

I also was bombarded by intrusive thoughts (in the form of a witch) which made staying positive difficult.

How can I better control my trip?
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listen to those intrusive thoughts, it's the real reason people trip.

the thoughts are generally thoughts you know to be true, but when sober you lie to yourself and shrug them away.
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>>18299074
More experience is really the only way but some people just never manage to control it. I have no problems up until around 300ug but I know friends that are lost at 100. I've always been particularly good at talking / maintaining composure while high though.

There is no 100% effective method to control a psychedelic trip. The fact that you are recognising that you are caught in a loop is a good start. When you first notice it do something drasitcally different. Most of the panic comes from not being able to stop the loops or being caught in time. If you change your location ( could be as simple as a new room or just walk outside) usually that will snap you out of it. If you really start to lose it record the time or just take note if you can remember it. That way at least you're sure time is still passing and you aren't going in circles. It much easier at this point to assure yourself that it's just a drug, it will pass and you aren't going to die ( assuming real LSD).

Always remember
1. no one knows you're on a drug except for you. I'm sure an anon will disagree and think they can tell but they can't. The average person barely knows what psychedelics are let alone be able to identify someone tripping. Even an experience tripper would struggle.

2. Go with the flow

3. If you didn't want to be on drugs you wouldn't have taken them

4. If you're taking real LSD you're in no physical danger so what's the worst that can happen?

5. Set and setting makes or breaks a trip

6. Having someone you can trust nearby who is sober is always a good choice.

7. Abusing psycs is the worst thing you can do.

I've done a bit of L in my time and if you combine all of these tips I think it would be very hard to have a horrible trip. That being said I've being stupid and ignored these before and learnt my lesson. Above all else GO WITH THE FLOW. It got me through Tokyo on 200ug
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>>18299117
Fuck, sorry for the lecture. I was bored on a train.

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21 yo virgin here
suppose I make a tinder account or I get flirty with a stalking female. where am I supposed to give them the fucc? I live with my parents
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"I really need to get in your pussy tonight, let's get a motel room, now."
God hates a coward, son.
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>>18299073
A fucking hotel, how dumb are you?
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>>18299073
Shouldnt be too hard... Unless you're fat

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Ok, so about 3 years ago I found that my girlfriend of 6 years was heavily flirting and sexting lots of other guys. Even had two sugar daddies. She openly admitted that she'd had sex with three guys during the relationship as they happened, saying she was forced into it (which I kinda believe) but I found out that she was frequently meeting and fucking multiple other guys for money and drugs (I had no idea she did drugs either).
Ever since then my trust issues have skyrocketed. Not just relationship wise, like if my friends say they are/are going/have been somewhere, I'll automatically assume they're lying and off having fun together somewhere else. I've also not been able to get close to a girl. Idk why, it's not like I don't trust them, I just get to a point where I back down and assume they're not interested, and if they were they'd just cheat on me or they'll get bored of me and leave. I kick myself every time, I don't mean to do it. Even at work, I have to go over my colleagues' stations because I don't trust that they're competent enough (which, tbf, they aren't)
>work in a kitchen
>make sure its clean
>no out of date food etc
I also find myself thinking about the girl constantly, and I really miss her (like, a hell of a lot, I was and probably still am, deeply in love with her)
She's always at the back of my mind and when I get drunk I often message her asking if she's up and wants to talk
My request for advice is as follows:
How do I overcome these really bad trust issues. Should I seek professional help for it, like could it be some kinda treatable disorder?
How d0 I talk 2 girlz lolz?
How do people get over being cheated on?
Advice on what I could say to her to become good friends again? (We talk rarely and its very awkward. I don't want to get back with her as such, I just miss having a good time and talking with her)
Is being good friends with her again a good idea?
Advice on dealing with an MDMA come up whilst at home in bed?
ty in advance x
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I had extremely bad trust issues because of being cheated on too, and explained that to a new girl who I fell for, and then she did the exact same thing. Don't show your weeknessess to women. They will use them to hurt you undoubtedly.

I haven't really gotten over it so much as I just think all women are pieces of shit, and child-like.
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If you just need some stability, you could find someone that you know you can trust, and let yourself trust them with what you couldn't before. Doesn't have to be romantic, can be a friend, can be a therapist. (A therapist would be someone who you could definitely trust; not only do they want to help but they have severe repercussions if they break that trust.)
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I can't really give much advice for this other than it's clearly tough and understandable that you're having these issues, and what you need to slowly convince yourself of is not everyone is the same. The easiest question to answer is the being good friends with her again - fuck no. That is toxic and you need to start leaving that chapter of your life behind.

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If no one ever takes the initiative to message me first, then does that mean I am unnattractive? Particularly when it comes to women - if no women ever message me through text or whatever, am I just repulsive? Any input would help
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>>18299064
If your self image is determined by things like that you're gonna have a bad time.
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>>18299137
Why do you think I'm on here? I have no awareness of how I appear to other people.
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>>18299064
That isn't a good way of looking at things. Just because people don't take initiative to text you, doesn't mean they dislike you or find you repulsive.

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I masturbate something like 10-12 times a week. Seems like a lot but I honestly have to do it. I am too bored otherwise. Like what else can you do while laying in bed besides jerking off and sleeping?

I jerk off A LOT. But primarily because I like seeing nude women and the motions of sex. Its funny because I am actually weirded out by the thought of having real sex. Real sex scares me significantly and I am not sure why. Maybe its too dangeorus.

I think I fear the intimacy mostly. I just can't fathom the thought of a woman actually liking me. Its a brutal feeling. I don't think a woman has ever liked me now that I have thought about it.

Anyway, is over masturbation fucking me up? I also think "Today is the day! I am going to go on okcupid and find a girlfriend or at least a date!" Then I jerk off and all the women I was going to message now do not look appealing.

Masturbation seems like a issue to me but honestly, its one of those issues that must remain otherwise you perish.
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Get a hobby. Even though you are trying to think outside of masturbation, you are still thinking about sex. That's like thinking about roller skates to get your mind off of roller blades.
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>>18299060

I see. but how can a hobby take the place of sex or urges similar to sex. I find that it is impossible? Its kind of like urination. The only way to get rid of the "needing to urinate" feeling is to... urinate.
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>>18299036
The sex drive is a powerful motor that makes you strive for status, work hard to earn to attain wealth and/or status, get in fights or competitions, impress women and prove your value to them and thereby the world.
Masturbation is a convenient release from tension but if you've short circuited the whole process: sexual tension → masturbation → no problem! then you've cut yourself off from life and it's rewards.
The libido isn't just about sex, it drives you to go out, meet strangers, go new places, do new things. A depressed person sees everything outside their door as "meh".
TLDR you're depressing yourself.

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I need help /adv/

There's this girl that I like who I'm forced to interact with everyday, and recently I've been thinking about just manipulating her to do make her do what I want.

Should I?
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There are many types of manipulation bub. Specify. Like blackmail? Or seduction? Or a silver tongue?
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>>18299023
Silver tongue
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Go for it. life needs to have games for it to be fun

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Is it pathetic to make up stories about being an asshole just to ruffle people's feathers and laughing at their rage?
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>>18298924
I read that as "Is it wrong to..." and I thought to myself "No, but it's pretty pathetic."
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>>18298924
Yes...?
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>>18299000
checked

and also yes

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This cunt keeps fucking snoring. Any ways to silence that guy without killing him? Legit 4 am right now, no sleep.
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kill him
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>>18298913
pick him up and carry him outside
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>>18298913
Roll him on his side and stack pillows behind him so he can't roll into his back again.

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Need some help guys.

My son has a pretty bad case of "nintenditis" where he would rather game or watch movies than eat. I tried yelling, taking games away, even rewarding him for eating. None of this has worked. Any help would be appreciated.

Would I be a bad parent if his games were to "accidentally" disappear/break?
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Why did you get him the games in the first place? If he would rather play basketball than be in the house, you'd pop his ball?
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>>18298879
Is he Auschwitz mode, then? If not, why are you forcing him to eat?
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Yes. The games and movies are probably separate issues from his unwillingness to eat. By eat do you mean not eating at a family dinner or is he literally starving himself?

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my gf parents are putting her in a mental institution for burning herself. no idea how long shes gonna be in there. i'm a mixture of depressed and rampage right now. would fucking murder those pieces of shit. they never did like me since i'm 24 and shes 16 but it's legal where i'm at. but fuck they never even talked to her about it they just dropped her off down there. literally raging right now
i just wanted to vent and maybe get some posivibes from you guys
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>>18298871
Didn't really read your post OP, but anybody who does this to a mascot guy should be shamed. This is why we can't have nice things anymore. Being a dick is glorified now.
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>>18298887
well yeah but maybe he deserved it
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>>18298871
positive vibes for what? It sounds like she needs help.

Putting her in a mental institution has nothing to do with you. Are you that fucking narcissistic?

Or maybe she and her parents are a complete mental shitshow just like you are. You seem to raging for no fucking reason. Maybe you should get some therapy.

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would converting to islam actually make me happier? because im not happy at all right now?
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Religion in general won't make you happy. It'll just make you pretend that you're happy.
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>>18298799
Delusion can be a good thing sometimes
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>>18298773
Yes, Allah will grant you peace and happiness. We rely on him alone. Mashallah, this is a mercy that you considered this option :)
Free-will is an amazing thing isnt it?

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>22 socially akward, in a relationship
>start texting this girl that cuts herself on an app
>She is 23, short and skinny and is emo
>Kinkiest person I've ever talked to
>She claims she fucked the gearshift on her car
>Into every masochistic kink in the book
>Was raped several times
>She claims she's the type of crazy that she can contain without ruining people's lives
>She has a bf who used to be a meth head
>She lives 20 miles away
>She wants to sext and send me videos, but she wants to know what I look like first

How dumb is it to send her a face pic? Even platonically this girl is interesting to talk to. What are the chances I could get negatively harmed by doing this?
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>>18298702
>How dumb is it to send her a face pic
Let me put it this way: nature deals harshly with those ignorant of her laws. Remember the law of dicks and crazy. The closer you get to violation. The worse your life will be.
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>>18298702
did you really need to make a thread for this
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>>18298702
Why would it be dumb? Is just your face. Do you have a really good career going that you could lose because your boss sees you naked?

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