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>tfw 27 y.o
>you're /fit/, decent looking, well dressed and socially well liked by other people.
>sometimes you think it would be nice to have a girl to make out with
>but your childhood/teen years were all fucked up and made you a total autist and confused person regarding the opposite sex


anyone else fit this category?

I feel as if I have a lot of conflicting thoughts. Just this past hour, I was thinking how maybe it would be nice to just have a good girl to hang out with, and make out in bed with. But a few moments later, I think "well it's probably for the best that I don't have this"
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What reason pops up in your head as the reason why it would be a bad idea?
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IMO you just need to get out there. Treat asking a girl out and going out on a date with her like a set of reps at the gym or something - you grit your teeth and get through it, afterwards you realize that it was no big thing after all and you get over the mental block.

Just be smart about it, of course - wear rubbers unless you can deal with wifing and a child and even then do it in case there's adult cooties (STD's).
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>>18300266

being alone has become so normal to me, that the thought of having someone is bothering in a way

The other thing, I have no desire to have a family. I grew up in a broken family, after living through that, I have absolutely no desire to ever get married or have kids. So, why even bother with girls outside of a platonic friendship?

>IMO you just need to get out there

My friends told me this as well, and I did end up deciding to give it a try. It ended up being a very bad experience for me, and actually caused me a lot of issues

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Hey, it's me, retarded tarot card anon.

Not saying anyone should remember me but if you do, i just wanted to write you back to say I took your advice and left my boyfriend for spitting on me, I feel better already.

I can't thank you enough for opening my eyes and I just want to say to others I an abusive situation that there is hope for you too.
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>>18300223
I wasn't there for the original thread, but I do want to say that it's pretty fucking cool that you actually took this board's advice and came back & told us about it afterwards. That almost never happens.

Good job, retarded tarot card anon.
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>>18300223
do you do read tarrots?
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>>18300243
There is always a thread on x if that is your thing

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i just noticed something, my left armpit smell weird but my right armpit smell just fine

is this normal?
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>>18300203
no. describe the smell.
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>>18300210
left armpit is unpleasent
right armpit is pretty good
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>>18300212
any skin abnormalities?

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I'm dating this extremely attractive 18 year old girl. She's very smart, has 3 jobs, and is going to college in the fall. We get along so well, and when we're together, it just feels perfect and so right.

I'm 26 though and her father caught us coming back from after I took her virginity. He went ballistic on her and threatened me. He knew I took her virginity. They are all Jewish. One day we just walked out of where we work and he was perched there in his car... he pulled up and blocked me getting out with my car and told me to stay away from her or else.

We can't even see eachother because of him and his crazy psychopath stalking. I really like her though. She feels special. I want this to work more than anything. She is by far the best girl I've ever been with physically, mentally, and our connection is so strong.

What do I do?
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you either gotta win over her family or get her to go against them
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>>18300164
Dude, your 8 years older than her, and shes only just become an adult. Why don't you stop being a creepo and fuck an older girl.
Imagine if you had an 18 year old daughter and discovered a 26 year old Man had been ploughing her. How would you feel?
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Tl;dr

Also rolling

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Friend has depression and the doctors told him to use drugs to make the bad feelings go away.

How do I convince him to stop taking it?
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What drugs and why do you think you have more authority than a psychiatrist to treat your friends depression?
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>>18300128
Why so he feels like shit/kills himself? Do you have something against depression meds?
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>>18300133
Beause my mom used them too and now she is addicted to this shit

>>18300134
lost all his friends. I met him somewhere coincidentally and he said that he is depressed as fuck

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Am I odd for not drinking coffee?
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Only subhumans with no willpower drink coffee.
Stay strong, anon.
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>>18300111
When society pressures you to drink coffe with them, put smug face on and say you do only black tea with lemon.
>i dont like coffe too.
If anything i have to pour cream and a lot of sugar and it still tastes awful.

Easy.
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>>18300111

No
You are odd for other reasons.

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I have a memories of two instances in my childhood of sexual abuse and molestation. I know the people involved and I visually remember what happened. I haven't told anyone. I'm 20 now. I had a lot of problems with anxiety in my childhood, but now they are pretty much gone.

Also I have had and still have problems with depression all my life. It comes in waves quite often and lasts for weeks or months. Every time I get depressed I get really close to killing myself, I don't know why, my life is really good now: I have tons of friends, a loving family, good health and am attractive.

Could these two instances of sexual abuse be the reason I get depressed so severely and often? I know I should go see a therapist or something, but I really don't want to talk about these memories with anyone.
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>>18300103
>dont want to talk about these memories
>talks about it on 4chan

I have a bold theory op. Ignoring problems never works. Solving them or talking about them with somebody is always better option.

>suicidal
If you enjoy your current life, you better solve this. Go to professional or at least talk about it with somebody.

Cheers.
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>>18300182
I talk about it here because it's anonymous. Talking about them in person would be embarrassing as hell.

While I am suicidal, I'm pretty sure I would never actually kill myself for the sake of my family and friends. I'm just tired of that horrible feeling of sadness and misery.

You think maybe I could go to a therapist but not mention these sexual abuse memories? Maybe I'd get "fixed" without needing to talk about that stuff?
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>>18300190
Part of being balanced responsible adult with no mental issues is to not be afraid talk about yourself.

Going to therapist and lie is contraproductive. Also some therapists are shit. Your best bet is to tell somebody you trust from family/friends circle. And dont ever pretend that you are happy when you feel dead inside. That is also reception for disaster.

Seriously, go and tell somebody your worries. It should help you in the long run. Dont be scared, try to trust somebody with it.

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I constantly stare at people with no emotion, and i often ask people pretentious, exsistential questions. Do I have autism?
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Go downtown at night, find a gang and do it to them.
You'll either become a gang member or get cured from acting like that.
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>>18300119
But i dont live in nig land
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>>18300122
Gangs don't have to be black ya poof.

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I've been recently engaging in some discussions on 'The Straight Dope' message boards and well, my opinions have angered quite a lot of users.

I believe that 9/11 was justified but they obviously don't. They told me that rather than being a 'coward' on the internet, I can post my real information and they'll put me in touch with family members of Flight 93.

Should I do it? I live outside the US but I am concerned about being put on a list afterwards by intelligence agencies.
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>posting about 9/11 on a forum dedicated to teaching idiots how to properly take fentanyl

Why do they need your real information? Give them an email address.
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Dude grow up. Put your ego aside and stop caring so much about being right all the time
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>>18300087
lol mate...don't get so triggered.

This is once in a lifetime opportunity. why waste it?

Can I ask what's your problem?

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Tried to write a lot of descriptive information about the story, but I'm worried that someone I know might be reading this, so I cut a lot of it out. This story my sound funny to some, but it is a serious situation.

A boss (female), I'm pretty certain was hitting on me. My emotions reacted pretty strongly, hormones running high, but fortunately my logical brain was able to resist over my urges. The problem is, I'm not sure if I can next time. Also, what do if she tries to blackmail me?
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>>18300040
Any suggestions/advice?
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>>18300040
Just fuck your boss? Where is the problem? Marry later with her and be rich and happy?
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Dude you're the one in the position to blackmail her, not her since she's the boss

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Paid $40 for this. Did i get ripped off?
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Why did you pay top dollar for lawn grass?
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LMFAO are u fuckin stupid
don't answer that we already know the answer
go smoke it with the cows at your grandpa's farm u hillbilly
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Dude is this a troll thread? A gram of medical is $15 at most in the US

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>sitting on bus
>old dude sits next to me
>starts rubbing the edges of my pockets
>feel uncomfortable and get off early, walk to my destination
i'm male
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>I'm male

Not with that attitude you ain't
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>>18300007
Tell that old shit to fuck off. Crazy people ride buses, time for you to be crazy as well.
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>>18300007
Um, not really. Though that guy was being a creepy fuck. Next time someone touches you, tell them to stop. If they get an attitude just move to another seat.

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I'd really like to enjoy frosted wheat squares. But every time I have a bowl, the next day I have serious gas and enormous shits. I can easily produce enough shit to produce two separate very large sized logs, often enough to touch my own ass while I'm still sitting and haven't moved.

Is there something I can do to enjoy frosted wheat squares without this happening?
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You have to eat smaller bowls, you may also be lactose intolerant
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>>18300000
Witnessed.
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>>18300000
>that get

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My boyfriend used to follow a bunch of IG models with big booties or just hotties. I never said anything about it because I follow hot models too. When I was sitting next to him he was scrolling on IG and we saw sommerray (we both follow her because I am into fitness and he likes her booty) and suddenly he said 'this girl has nothing to offer except for hee butt...why do I even follow her?' And he unfollowed her. I thought he did it to look good in front of me. Few days later I looked at his follow list (i do that with everyone to find new IG to follow) and saw he erased almost every IG model?? Very hot chicks he loved to drool over. I wonder what came over him? Does it mean he is taking our relationship more serious or if he just trying to look like a white knight for me? I never told him to stop looking at other girls.
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Try and hack his pc and see if he has made a tumblr account.
He may be turning gay.
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There comes an age when every boy becomes a man and he realises the definitive truth of the universe: 2d>3d
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probably just decided to finally go through and clear out all those impulse follows

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>meet a girl who i like, find attractive and compatible with personality wise
>she likes my personality but i'm not her "type" physically

this always happens. every girl that has been attracted to me has never "clicked" with me personality wise and it bothers me

i have strong, "masculine" facial characteristics, but i can't pull off the masculine angle because my personality is so "feminine" and i'm also not tall (5'7"). every girl that i meet that doesn't care about "masculine" characteristics aren't attracted to me because i'm physically not androgynous enough

am I just fucked forever because of the disconnect with my face and my personality? every girl that was physically attracted to me thought there was something wrong with me personality-wise or was turned off by it
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>>18299978
>every girl
5? 20? 50? 100?

Either keep trying, lower your criteria and give chance to girls you havent clicked yet with or die alone.

Your choice now.
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move to south asia
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I have no better advice to give than
meditate daily.

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