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>dream house for sale
>quiet, dead end street with a huge river that goes behind all the houses on the street
>$150k, about $1.1k monthly
>with my college loans + other expenses, probably pay about $1.6 monthly
>leave me with $400 for groceries/other expenses
Should I do it? The house and the river behind it are so damn beautiful. I've got a TV, sound system, computer, I don't need anything else...if poor people can live $200 a month for food, I should be able to get by with $400 a month right? Pic related, this would be my backyard
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>>18300561
For how long are you going to pay?
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>>18300568
Also, how much are you spending on groceries/extra?
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>>18300561
How much do you typically pay for gas?
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Is it normal for palms to be itchy after exercise? 2017-05-09 05:00:11 Post No.18300524
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Is it normal for palms to be itchy after exercise?
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I've been working out there and using the machines at my college gym for about a year now and this has now been occurring for a month after lifting dumbbells. Not only that, my feet have also been itchy as well (only on the inner sides of my feet near the edge of the arch). Could this be a fungal infection? I don't see any Indica of one, it only looks like my skin peeling off after scratching so much. Could this be an allergic reaction to maybe this gel often used at the gym as a substitute for chalk? Maybe having so much pressure on my palms causing it to feel itchy (considering how my left hand is the itchiest and the weakest)? What do you guys think?
(Picture is of my left palm)
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Self bump
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Self bump..
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>>18300524
Try posting this on /fit/ they will probably be able to answer this better.
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Do I have depression? 2017-05-09 04:51:28 Post No.18300506
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It's been about six months. I feel constantly empty and bad. At school I'm very sad because of a failed love relationship, but even when I manage to ward off the bad thoughts, I still feel miserable. I found my life to be pointless and gave up on many things such as working out, video games, and even roleplaying. I started sleeping in class & don't put any effort into passing my tests anymore. Even when I can clear my head on holidays I still feel empty.
But it's at different levels. I've thought about killing myself numerous times at school but sometimes at home I just stay in my room to avoid contact, and I feel a tad better. I tried to find reasons: I'm ugly, I got rejected by my love interest and I see her every day, or maybe the school? Or maybe I blame my depression for my laziness? Or I'm trying to get attention? Because I see no clear reason for that state of miserable-ness. I'm privileged and healthy.
I can't help but feel like sh!t. It's starting to really mess up my life.
Plz help, /adv/, is it gonna go away? No matter how much I try to get out of that state, I'm always back to square one. I'm giving up.
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>>18300506
Talk to your parents or friends. Dont be scared and talk to somebody. Force yourself to start some activities. It will eventually get better, but not overnight. Maybe adopot some sport? Endorphines and adrenaline helps with this too.
Try to talk to professional too.
Do not pretend that nothing is wrong. Cry if you must. Talk to somebody about your problems.
Cheers.
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>>18300519
I used to work out regularly & have hobbies. The thing is, I can't seem to bring myself to do it again for a sustained period of time. I end up giving up in the end.
I did try to talk, and it brought me some relief. But seeing a professional seems overblown and would make life hell with my family.
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Add a stressful job to your life. Im talking like elderly care or working at a daycare. That stress eases depression.
Laziness is a result of depression but heres the thing. You may feel and be depressed, but acting out on it and playing into the role of a depressed person will make you suffer a lot more. Do your schoolwork
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Hey /adv/, a girl I had been dating for a year broke up with me last year after she used me and I was blind to it. Now I've been trying to get back into the dating pool and keep getting led on or used, or at last it feels that way. Could just be that she skewed my reality. But anyhow it's been like this for a while. I mean hell, I was led on for five years by a girl. Is this just how girls are or am I unlucky or insane?
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>>18300492
>getting led on or used
How? Details?
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>>18300530
Girls flirting back and then when I make a move them saying they'd rather be friends, or having someone flirt with me to make another person jealous.
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>>18300567
We call it having bad luck. Keep trying boy (or lower your standards) and eventually you wil suceed.
And buy condoms.
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It's my birthday and I suddenly have a stronger urgelike feeling for suicide than a what if feeling.
When will I get to the point where I have the ovaries to actually attempt it?
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>>18300477
>ovaries
Get a bf. Maybe he will remember next time. Easy.
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If it makes you feel any better, Happy Birthday!
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Can someone be cured of narcissism? I recently had a budding relationship with a girl I liked crash and burn (dat passive voice lol) and in googling some of the things that happened between us I found that I exhibit a lot of behaviors associated with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I want to change this but 99% of sites don't offer any hope of treatment or recovery but just simply warn to steer clear of these people. I don't want to think I'm just human garbage or can never have a meaningful relationship with someone so I'd really like to fix this. What do?
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>>18300470
You want to change? Then work on it. Identify the thought patterns that lead you to be like this, and change or avoid them. Identify the things that make you be more like you want, and focus on doing them more.
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What are some of the narcissistic personality traits you think you posses?
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>>18300476
>huge fragile ego
>lack of empathy
>emotionally manipulative
>good at pretending to be interested and loving at first in order to get close to people (usually other needy people), then withdraw my affection in order to emotionally abuse them. I'll do this as long as I can get away with it before they finally walk away I go into full attack mode and tear them down as much as possible before trying to get them back into a relationship with me to start the cycle all over again
Also I'm not proud of any of this. It's quite disgusting behavior but when I'm in the mix it just feels like I'm acting out my feelings
Should I find a girl whose looks and style I like, or is it possible to find a girl I like for other reasons and ask her to change her style for me?
For example - I think the most attractive hairstyle is long with fringe bangs like in this photo, and I'm partial to redheads and blondes. I'm almost obsessed with the look - any girl who has this hair gets extra points on the scale.
Also, I'm very into the way a girl dresses - specific shoes, dresses, that kind of thing, just feminine stuff. I'd love to be able to tell a girlfriend what to wear (within reason) every day but I know that seems weird and controlling.
I guess I ask this because my last girlfriend was an extremely conservative dresser (think pantsuits, jeans and a baggy t-shirt, hair always up in a tight bun), because she didn't want anyone to think she was a slut, in her words. She thought "getting sexy" was basically just getting naked in the bedroom.
Meanwhile, my close friend has a girl he's been seeing that has slowly changed her wardrobe and hairstyle and overall look to completely match his interests in the span of a year.
Is it possible or smart to change someone? How do you go about it?
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>>18300469
Hope you are rich enough to find stupid girls and mold them to your stupid kinks. If not, then I see a very bad future for your dating life.
No, it's never ok to start a relationship planing to change someone. That should be pretty obvious.
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These are things that develop naturally, otherwise it's weird. Yes there are women who don't give two fucks about clothes and would be happy with a stylish boyfriend picking stuff out for them. Especially if they're into the whole being doted on and "groomed" thing and it's a bit sexually charged.
But you have to get lucky and this isn't a normal expectation in a relationship. Most women DO have strong opinions on the kind of look they're aiming to achieve. For most people the #1 purpose of dressing and grooming a certain way is to match as closely as possible with the person you want to be. I doubt that if you got with a girl who said she found nothing sexier than if you straightened your hair and dyed it red like an emo in 2009, and happily follow suit.
For example, the picture you post is quite traditionally girly and cutesy and not every woman feels comfortable with that.
So yeah if this is non-negotiable for you in a relationship then I would say, go after a woman who already looks like this. Making it clear that you have a fierce favorite hairstyle for a woman etc is fine. But nothing beyond that.
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>>18300472
Well why then do we talk about telling your partner about your kinks or doing things to please them? I mean, at least I'm presumably dating this person for who they are as a person, instead of trying to date a girl I'm just solely attracted to.
>>18300481
This makes sense to some degree, but the hairstyle you suggested is pretty extreme, where what I like isn't. If my girlfriend suggested I comb my hair differently, crop it short, grow it longer, or wear different clothes, like populous or button downs instead of logo tees, I just don't think I'd be mad.
hey /adv/
I really like chubby girls/bbw and they like me back, but after being with any for a while, I start to feel uncomfortable/embarrassed with myself about dating a fat girl. Any /adv/ice on how to deal with this situation?
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>>18300430
Why do you feel embarrassed about it?
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>>18300434
Has something to do with me and society I think
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>>18300440
Do you think people will perceive you as "less" because you are dating a fat girl?
Does it matter that much?
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I can't get a match on tinder. I even right swipe everyone. Is it because I'm ugly? Asian? Is it a rigged algorithm?
Please help.
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It's because you look dead inside. Were you born without facial muscles or something? Let's see an expression.
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>>18300400
How old are you? You look pretty young, barely out of your teens. People on Tinder are older, so that might be it.
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>>18300400
>No smile
>No phot with a suit or something "profesional"
>No photo with doggo or cute puppy
>No photo with other small chicks that makes you look taller.
>not lying and said you are over 6' tall.
Fix that
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I feel angry all the time. Like I just want to hurt something badly. I'm an unemotional guy, haven't cried in years, but these days i'm getting mad as hell at everything.
Where is fight club?
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>I am unemotional guy
>I feel angry all the time
I'm no psychology expert but it sounds like you bottle up your emotions and you're erupting now. It's probably time to face and work through (possibly with the help of counseling) your emotions so you don't end up doing something destructive to your future or suffering more than is necessary.
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When you're angry go for a run. If you're still angry, keep running.
You'll be too tired to be angry afterwards and you'll feel a lot better. Plus the added benefits of constant running will be yours.
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>>18300380
Time to pick up BJJ. There's nothing like physical challenge to release your frustration.
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i do my best at school and still fail. Probably gonna get an E 2017-05-09 03:36:21 Post No.18300364
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i do my best at school and still fail. Probably gonna get an E 2017-05-09 03:36:21 Post No.18300364
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i do my best at school and still fail. Probably gonna get an E
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while my friends smoke weed and get drunk every weekend and do fine. Im a dumb piece of shit. help.
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Study / work harder. If you don't want to do that than accept the fact that you're a retard.
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>>18300374
I already work extremely fucking hard. Know matter how hard a dog works at writing an essay he will still fail. This isn't because he doesn't work hard, its because he doesn't have the capacity to write an essay. I, like the dog, don't have the capacity to write an essay (that is any good) due to my memory deficit.
How do I come to terms with the fact that Im retarded?
I don't know if this place is going to very helpful right now...
I still have 8 days till my exam. I'm finding it really hard to study because I feel like failure is inevitable as I did bad in my mock (though it hasn't been marked yet).
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>>18300392
The difference is you're not a dog. Those are all excuses. Like I said you can keep making excuses or you can work harder and not be a retard. Choice is yours.
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It's been five god damn years and I still can't get over her.
I just saw a picture of her and her new boyfriend and I got jealous.
What the hell is wrong with me? How do I erase these feelings?
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>>18300355
Have you grieved and accepted that it's over?
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>>18300355
She isn't into you. Accept that. That's step one.
Step two is moving on and getting something else going in your life. Romantically or otherwise. If you have something important to think about, you won't get stuck on things from the past.
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>>18300355
Learn to do everything she did well better than her. Become more knowledgeable about all her favorite things, take over the parts of your mind that remind you of her.
Eventually, someone will love you for all the things you've learned to replace her. And then the whole thing won't feel like such a mistake.
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Does he sound immature 2017-05-09 03:24:01 Post No.18300348
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I'm in my 20's and talking to a guy who is 43 years old and these are screenshots of our conversation. He seems to put an emphasis on kissing a lot and his style of texting kind of comes across as what a teenage boy would reply. It is just me or does he sound like a teenager....?
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Second screenshot.
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Again with the kissing thing
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I honestly don't get what you're bitching about.
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Need To Watch Someone On Youtube. 2017-05-09 02:10:42 Post No.18300278
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Need To Watch Someone On Youtube.
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Hello internet. my subscriptions arent posting anything interesting lately and i want to watch someone new. is there any channels out there you recommend?
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ksfrecords
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>>18300278
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcRdUHUuBqU9uCsEuG39Nmg
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>>18300278
Well, what do you like?
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Should I contact my ex girlfriend or not?
So we broke up over a year ago. Few months later I started dating my current girlfriend. Ex girlfriend contacted me and just started chatting and wanted to be friends, my girlfriend didn't like it so I blocked my ex completely out of my life. I see she is also happy in a relationship now.
I feel like I'm over her. Like I absolutely love my current girlfriend, I just feel like I didn't really have any closure, ties were just severed with my ex and I feel like I haven't really explained to my ex why and I just wanted things to end on good terms, say a goodbye hope you are well type thing.
Is it even worth messaging her?
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Sure just make sure you tell your current gf first since you're basically a giant man vagina
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If you think it's worth it to disrespect your current gf and endanger your relationship for an old flame.