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I really dislike promiscuity. I don't know if it's a general gay thing or something that relates to the specific social circle I've fallen into, but this puts me at odds with most people I know. Sometimes I think my friends think my dislike for it is affected on some level, and I don't really know myself.
Whether you're promiscuous or not, what do you feel about promiscuity, what shapes these feelings, and how do you reconcile those feelings with others' when pursuing relationships, etc.?
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>>18410465
>Sometimes I think my friends think my dislike for it is affected on some level, and I don't really know myself.
what does this mean? what are you saying?
are you trying to say that your friends think that your dislike for promiscuity affects your friendships?
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>>18410472
nah, other definition of "affected," like I wonder if they think I just want to take moral high ground by being prudish. I can't think of any good "arguments" for not being slutty myself, but I think I just find it very distasteful. But if my friends and I talk about the issue, there I am with no good points and there they are all agreeing with the points they're making
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>>18410465
I had this a lot in high school, I find it disgusting and distasteful when people are generally too open about their sex lives, especially at that age. It's also annoying because they will also randomly hook up with people in/out of the social circle and make whatever comes after everyone else's burden.
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how to not be affected by the fact nobody talks me.
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You can't. Humans are designed to need socialization. You need to get people to talk to you. Isolation is the first thing that fucks over all these mass shooters.
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it's okay to be affected by it. i'd be lonely too if nobody talks to me. be honest about your feelings and seek help if necessary.
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>>18410449
yeah idk why but people at last act like they like me in person but the second it over the phone or online
>radio silence
op
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Last nite, I was working and shooting the shit with a co-worker.
Among the various topics we had, I brought upon one of our female co-workers and how my fellow co-worker wanted to date her but this would be unlikely as we suspect she has high standards (I also had a really really minor infatuation towards her).
Not only that, but I commented the even though she is very attractive, it looks as if she has slight fetal alcohol syndrome.
Now, my problem is that someone might have told her that we were talking about her in a rather condescending manner or that she might have overheard since she appeared quite stoic when I clocked out from work (which she usually isn't).
Am I to conceited to even think that she had that mind and that she was simply exhausted or could I have fucked up my work relations with her?
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>>18410429
Literally just forget about it, there's nothing you can do. If she did catch wind of what you said, she'll either get over it eventually or just be passive aggressive to you from now on. Addressing it with her will just exacerbate things.
Next time only shit talk somebody when another coworker initiates it and you guys are 100% alone. That's the golden rules with workplace gossip
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>>18410429
>it looks as if she has slight fetal alcohol syndrome.
why would you say this at all?
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>>18410463
kek
maybe cause it just might be true.
once you've seen the symptoms, it's kind of hard not to tag people, know what i'm saying
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I'm a (slightly more than a) minute man 2017-06-12 07:18:32 Post No.18410413
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I'm a (slightly more than a) minute man
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I'm not happy with how long I last in the sack.
I timed myself when my wife and I had sex yesterday - though hard to say exactly (since there was some time before and after penetration), I lasted maybe a minute and a half.
It's not really an issue with her - we do heaps of foreplay and she's soaked by then. She actually comes before I do. But I wish I could go longer when actually fucking, because, well, it feels good man.
I'm wondering if the root cause is my sex life. I was a virgin until I was in my 20s, so I got started late. And my wife and I have sex only around 1 a week (none if she's on her period). I hadn't had any sex or jacked off for a week before I last had sex with her.
Is this maybe a problem of me just not having enough sex? Or is there something more deeply wrong here with a less fun solution?
(Note: I'm aware of the stop-start method and all that baloney. I'd prefer to find a way to actually keep fucking for a while though without stopping every 60 seconds).
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>>18410413
It's not baloney because it's works on the root of your problem: you've trained yourself to cum very efficiently with your wife because you've become accustomed to blowing your load in 1.5 minutes.
Your only other option would be to watch a ton of porn and jack off all the time - but that won't necessarily lead to a more satisfying sex life, either.
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>>18410422
When I jack off I can go for an hour using the stop-start method, so it's not that I can't stop if I need/want to - it's just that if I'm stopping, I'm not pounding away.
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>>18410413
When your D is too sensitive, do this
1. Fap twice every day (morning + night?)
2. Fap for the longest time you manage (edging?)
3. Use death grip to desentize your dick a little
Report after month.
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>Be 21
>Living with parents, they're helping me with college
>Live with 2 brothers (27, and 16) and 1 sister (11)
>Finished my first college semester with a solid 3.0 GPA (Best I've ever done in school in my life because before college I was an edgelord that said fuck school)
>Just recently began to hear my mom talking to my grandmother (Who lives with us) and her other friends about divorcing my dad
>NotThisShiteAgain.jpg
>I'm kinda worried that she's serious, and that if she does we might get fucked financially
>HOWEVER I'm not going to get involved and make my mom suffer out of financial need. Because it is their relationship.
So here's my dilemma...
>Might need to get a job to help family out along with brother
>I REALLY don't do well when both work AND school are involved. I have tried and is impossible since I place more importance on one thing than the other.
Should I get a job and just forget school for the time being?
Or should I proceed to enlist in the air force so that way...
1.) I can't be a burden to my family financially with college
2.) Get help with college
3.) Become financially independent
I know things would be heavy for my mom and older brother if the divorce goes through. So I just want them to have the least amount of weight possible.
What do?
>Inb4 "You shouldn't be living with your mom blah blah blah"
I know I shouldn't but I really want to get my degree, and my parents offered me free rent housing, AND college.
What would you do /adv/?
I'm heavily considering going air force at this point.
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If you have zero work experience, you're going to find it very difficult to get a job when you finish uni, especially if the best you can do is a 3.0 GPA. Getting a job will help you in more ways than one. If you can't cope with both, take a lighter workload of classes and take an extra semester or two to finish. No shame in that.
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Well congrats because this post shows you're already mature enough to handle the situation by yourself. Just some thoughts:
1. Don't worry about the divorce until it actually happens. My mom used to talk about divorcing dad when he wasn't around. Well they're still together now.
2. There's no shame in taking breaks from school to make money. Talk to your advisor to see if this is possible. You might also be able to take a much lighter course load.
3. If you think your mother is serious about getting a divorce, talk to her about it. Ask her if she plans on supporting you.
4. Airforce is a great idea and would actually open up a lot of job opportunities after you graduate if you're doing engineering. Look into this on the side.
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Welcome to the real world. Going to school and working is hard, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
Look for something that's manageable if working is too hard to juggle. Sometimes less pay is worth an easier job.
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I have been hanging out with a girl for the past few days that I used to talk to.
The original time we were going out on dates until one night this douche shows up uninvited and has history with this girl. I friendzone her, and she attempts a buzzer beater to say that she was going to say the same to me. They date for months only for her to contact me just before they break up. We hang out again. She says she is just trying to reconnect with friends.
Enter Douche number two. Its beginning to feel like a repeat. Hes head over heels but she said she would never fuck him to her friend in front of me.
Hes an oversized fairy. Fat guy pussy. So I come over today thinking we are going to go to an amusement park together, alone, but D2 tags along. So I am stuck. I want to just get in my car and drive away without them but I pussy out and go with. She hits on me a bit but seems to do the same with the other fuck. I cockblocked him getting in some rides with her, but she mostly had no preference.
I am clearly a beta orbiter here and I need to cleanly evacuate from this situation. She is grooming him to be a better one as she siphons off his cash.
Any hope for me to become the Alpha and flip the script on this dude?
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There's no alpha or beta here. There's a girl who's clearly using guys and idiots who are willing to let her do it.
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>>18410377
So I should just cut her off because shes parasitic?
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>>18410366
Whooaaa dude that is some pretty rude fucking behavior
Just ghost her. Don't answer any more texts. She is a nasty bitch
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Alright /b/ros. I need some /b/rilliance. GF is opening a salon it's going to be animal-friendly products only. Obviously haircuts, colouring. They're also gonna have an esthetician.
NAME THAT SALON!
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Clean Cut
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Doggone Good Cuts
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Name it...
Natural Beauty
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How do I convince her 2017-06-12 05:17:23 Post No.18410208
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My best girl friend is dating a fucking idiot. Like its pathetic how stupid he is. Not only is he an idiot but he is extremely annoying, clingy and guilt trips her about everything. Not to mention how he gets angry when situations don't turn into sex and when she talks about her feelings to him. Hes capable of not being a cunt but chooses not to try to fix himself. How the fuck do i get her away from him? He stresses her out and treats her like an object and pities her into dating him but she wont let go.so how do i convince her that shes better off without him? Actual advice please.
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Find movies/shows / examples of equally cringewoethy behabiour. Get her to recognize it and others and she will see it in him. Love blinds but truth illuminates.
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>>18410210
*behaviour
*in others
I really shouldn't type drunk
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>>18410208
I'm not going to help you, you know why? cause you are vague about everything and I've been on the receiving end of the jealous or jilted friend that slanders the bf to fuck up the relationship. unless you're going to actually detail how the guy is horrible rather than say things like "gets angry when she talks about her feelings" well what if her feelings are she wants to do coke like my ex?
nah mate, friends trying to break up relationships is always a red flag for me unless there's a clearly defined reason.
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For those of you who cannot say something to someone directly, but want that special someone to know it...
Put her name, the message, and give her the link to this thread.
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That's basically the same thing. If I can't tell them directly I can't tell them at all
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OP here,
Its a gesture. Over 4chan. What the hell were you expecting? Something logical?
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lol just text her dont link her to 4chan you moran
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So i met this girl on instagram talked for like 3 days and hungout last night. we were getting really close and eventually we started cuddling, then all of a sudden making out then, i ate her out and fingered her and then she blew me. We had a good time and it wasnt awkward but i havent had a relationship in years and i just thought it was odd this happened the first time i met her. I like her alot how do i keep this relationship successful?
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Just keep doing what you're doing and don't overthink it
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>>18410097
Just keep doing what you're doing
you're obviously doing something right if she just sucked your dick bro
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>>18410097
I'm really concerned why you went down on a chick you barely know. This is how you get STDs. Why aren't you the least bit concerned about that?
I feel sad.
Years have gone by and I feel so powerless. Wherever I go, I just ruin relationships with people, I can't make friends, and the ones I do make usually hate me in the end. And so I suffer, greatly. I try to mask my pain, try to forget who I am, but I can never forget my history and my life. Every decision I've made has not worked out for me. I'm cursed with terrible luck.
I was born to fail and I have no place. I just want to end the suffering, the irony is that I have so much, but it fills me with so little joy. Deep down, I'm just ungrateful and foolish, it is my birthright. And I don't know what to do with myself. Everything I've tried fails.
Street Fighter 5: Ultra Bronze after many months
League of Legends: Bronze 5 for four years, still struggling.
Art: /mlp draw thread hates me, /ic /beg thread hates me, LAS /ic/ thread banned me from discord. I always hear the same complaints. Never improve, never get better, I'm a troll.
Writing: My Fimfiction account is middling, of 50 stories and they all were meh at best.
Yu-gi-oh: Always spend money on cards, the meta decks always destroy every single deck I make. No matter how much thought I put into it.
I'm just a failure at everything.
As you can guess, I'm a fan of horses and
I'm basically Chris-chan tier and I'm always told that I was a troll. But, I don't know what to do, I don't know how to stop being a troll. I don't know how to not be called a troll. Everything I do is just wallowing in despair as I go forward, trying to find some kind of relevance in my existence. And as much as I work hard, I just never attain that satisfaction I need. The success I crave till my dying breath.
I just want it to end. I'm so tired of my existence. I guess this is a blog post, but I have nowhere else to turn to. And I literally don't know what to do.
I'm too scared to try other things because I feel like I'll just fail like all the other things.
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Sounds like you dont turn mistakes into lessons, op
You dont have the right to cry about failure until youve done everything you could to succeed
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>>18410034
>don't turn mistakes into lessons
I guess I'm physically incapable to do this. Either that or my brain is just incredibly stubborn. In all honesty, I don't know what to do. I have no idea on what course I should take.
Maybe I should take a class or something on how to change my life?
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>>18410034
Okay, I just got a click in my head. It all makes sense now. The reason I lose so much is because I'm not using the best tools for the job, I should be using the most strongest stuff to help me move forward. I used to think that using weaker tools would make you stronger against adversity, but maybe I just need to use better tools instead.
Maybe I really am not trying hard enough or maybe I'm just not using the proper things to win.
I must be banging my head against the wall without changing my strategy.
Right?
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How do I figure out what I should do in life?
I'm 25, I have a math degree from a good university, and I currently teach at an international school.
I thought I would go back to university to do a PhD but honestly I'm not sure I have enough interest or drive to really spend 4 years studying some problem that no one really cares about anyway.
I keep having dreams that I want to be a composer, or a pilot, but both seem unrealistic goals for the future.
I just get bored very easily, and I know work isn't supposed to be all fun and games, but I don't feel stimulated right now.
Also I'm an introvert and just want a job where I can be left alone to do my thing, without meetings, talking to clients all the time, and all that other shit.
I'm not motivated by money so much, I don't spend what I earn already and that's not due to concious saving efforts, I just can't spend it all.
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>I just get bored very easily, and I know work isn't supposed to be all fun and games, but I don't feel stimulated right now.
>Also I'm an introvert and just want a job where I can be left alone to do my thing, without meetings, talking to clients all the time, and all that other shit.
Literally me. I went self employed, earn shit money but no commute no bullshit.
Other than that you need to go for something that interests you as the only priority. What do you choose to do with your spare time?
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>>18409933
In my spare time I learn the local language, play piano and try to make music (badly)
I also go to the gym in the mornings
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what happen if i give someone information in 4chan
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i just want to know what could be the worst thing the could happen
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Worst case scenario: they are unhinged, and make a game of hunting you down and killing you
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what happen is something happen OP
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i hate one of my friends i want die
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So here's the juice. She's always been a flake. I don't really mind when I get some warning, but sometimes she'd tell me she was coming over and just not show up. For what it's worth, she's ditched plans with other people to hang out with me, too. But, she's straight up bailed like the last 6 times we were supposed to hang, no notice whatsoever. She'd actually call to say how excited she was to see me, and then just not show up and give me some excuse the next day (sometimes later). I haven't seen her in like two months. She used to call me when she woke up just to talk. Last time I called her to see about plans, she hung up after a minute or two, and bitch buttoned me when I called again.
I recognize when a girl is trying to avoid someone, I've lived with women my whole life. I not to assume what other people are thinking, but the patterns are there. So, enamored as I am, I've stopped talking to her beyond some short responses when she calls or texts, which is becoming more infrequently. But, she still does. She still asks when I'm free for her to visit. It's like she wants to stop taking to me, but is too polite to. But, I never initiate conversation anymore, so if that's the case, why not just let it die?
Like I said, I just want opinions on whether dropping most contact with this girl is me being dramatic or reasonable. Sorry for the blog post
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Woah, first half of my post disappeared.
Well, it was short enough anyway. Met a girl, seemed to like me, maybe not as much as I thought.
I want to know if I'm behaving appropriately, because I have a flare for the dramatic and I'm actively trying to correct it by letting smaller things go. So, I can't always tell if my righteous indignation is valid.
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>>18409858
>not seen in 2 months
>not talking much anymore
>has bailed the last 6 times plans have been made
Sounds like dropping contact is more than reasonable. That's a long time to go without seeing someone whom you're friends with who loves in the same area, let alone for someone you're romantically interested in.
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>>18409858
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bueuGw47IG0
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Hi guys, looking for some quick advice... Sorry if this place is to general for this type of topic
I got this PC offer and am thinking about it... But probably better to buy brand new.
CPU - i5 6500
GPU - R9 280X 3GB 256 bit
RAM - 8GB DDR3
MB - Gigabyte H110M-S2H DDR3-CF
PS - Raidmax RX-1200AE
Tower - Cooler Master Silencio (352 I think)
(I already have 500GB and am planning on buying 120GB SSD)
3 year old, in good condition. Trustworthy seller.
Offer: 405 euros (~450$)
I tried to find those same parts for cheap online: 605 euros (~670$)
Good? Bad? Mediocre?
Can I build something better in that Price Range?
Thanks
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>>18409849
I'd buy it. Just make sure everything works well first and you'll be golden.
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>>18409849
I don't know enough to help you, but I would point you to /g/ and explain your situation
They could help you out
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>>18409849
Make sure everything works before you buy OP. Run userbenchmark, AIDA64 and the like to ensure that the CPU/RAM/GPU or whatever aren't cooked. Otherwise it seems pretty solid as a build, you might want to upgrade the GPU later down the line.