I'm not happy with how long I last in the sack.
I timed myself when my wife and I had sex yesterday - though hard to say exactly (since there was some time before and after penetration), I lasted maybe a minute and a half.
It's not really an issue with her - we do heaps of foreplay and she's soaked by then. She actually comes before I do. But I wish I could go longer when actually fucking, because, well, it feels good man.
I'm wondering if the root cause is my sex life. I was a virgin until I was in my 20s, so I got started late. And my wife and I have sex only around 1 a week (none if she's on her period). I hadn't had any sex or jacked off for a week before I last had sex with her.
Is this maybe a problem of me just not having enough sex? Or is there something more deeply wrong here with a less fun solution?
(Note: I'm aware of the stop-start method and all that baloney. I'd prefer to find a way to actually keep fucking for a while though without stopping every 60 seconds).
>>18410413
It's not baloney because it's works on the root of your problem: you've trained yourself to cum very efficiently with your wife because you've become accustomed to blowing your load in 1.5 minutes.
Your only other option would be to watch a ton of porn and jack off all the time - but that won't necessarily lead to a more satisfying sex life, either.
>>18410422
When I jack off I can go for an hour using the stop-start method, so it's not that I can't stop if I need/want to - it's just that if I'm stopping, I'm not pounding away.
>>18410413
When your D is too sensitive, do this
1. Fap twice every day (morning + night?)
2. Fap for the longest time you manage (edging?)
3. Use death grip to desentize your dick a little
Report after month.
I lost my virginity in my late 20's. when i jacked off by myself i'd rarely last more than a minute. when i finally had my first sex i couldnt cum because i was so used to my death grip.
>>18410443
yeap, that's a thing. makes you great at sex for the woman but it's frustrating as hell if you can't cum.
>>18410453
the girl was getting all sad because she thought i wasnt enjoying the bj too. no jessica.. it's not you, it's my hand...
>>18410455
>tfw bj still feels good
>in a whole like year long relationship probably only got like 3 and she hated doing it so they were short.
>>18410413
Here's some tips
>put lotion on your dick
Dry skin makes you more sensitive
>workout cardio/weights
Helps you get rid of that stress/nervousness you have before sex and gets you diamond hard.
>choose a good condom
One that fits well and has good lube
Thanks anons, will try some of these ideas. Hope they help!