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>>18440755
WTF why are u matched with a deformed 11 yo

>>18440755
>Not starting up by saying ''Oy vey, show me your titties''
You're already done.

pump and dump

>>18440742
>not an attractive male
well you're already bad

>>18440742
it's going to be almost a requirement if you want to get laid before the stacys hop off the cock carousel and onto the nearest beta-provider.

>>18440766
Robot 9001

you either lied or were desperate and women didnt want to let you down but turned out you are worse IRL than they imagined

its unpopular nowadays to say but the fault is usually in us, you already have the excuse of apps and bad luck, its not, its you, do something differently

>>18440731
>you either lied or were desperate

Except I've done neither of those things. I played it cool, worked the charm, everything.

The day before she was super excited and the next day come time to pick her up she cancels. I fucking refuse to believe I'm doing shit wrong. I've gotten plenty of dates using the same attitude I used now, that's why I say it could just be bad luck.

>>18440727
It's pretty normal, even my chad friend gets stood up all the time

>make a goal
>achieve it
>look for another

as you fail and succeed youll learn alot about yourself, eventually ending up doing what you really like

most depressed ppl are depressed because they dont know themselfs and keep wanting what others have, they cant obtain it because they arent motivated enough to do so since its not their destiny, children and young adults are especially vulnerable to this if their parents ignored them or forced them into something they dont like

Bump for interest

>>18440713
Think better thoughts. What do you think happy people think about? Make the best out of every situation.

Air force
Study hard for the ASVAB, secure a good technical job (cyber security/comms etc)

>>18440646
I dont know why people think joining the millitary is basically the nights watch, it really isn't. But that will be the general opinion on 4chan, your joining to die etc etc. I did the same thing as you i left my engineering program because i was taking out too many loans and i was miserable. Joined the infantry after that and havent looked back since. I joined when i was 19 and im 20 now and I am having a blast. You will make bonds with people for the rest of your life and when the job gets shitty,because it does sometimes im not going to lie, you can atleast justify it with a sense of pride in what you are doing. Will this be a lifelong career for me? Maybe, probably not my body might break before then. But atleast i get the experience and the financial support from the service when i decide to finish. It's really not as bad as people make it out to be, and this is coming from someone in one of the harder positions. The branches your looking at sound like a great option for a reset, i can almost guarantee you won't look back.

>>18441760
FINALLY, SOMEONE FROM THE MILITARY WITH INPUT!
Thank you, I was deeply wondering if this would be the choice for me. I'd like to ask what branch you're in, because you sound like it's been a hell of a breeze.
I dunno about you, but I'm a man who could take a LOT of shit before falling down. I just need to physically train as hard as I can for the next year or so, that way my body will be even more impervious. I can deal with a lot of shit if it means I get not only an amazing cover letter and pay...but also respect for serving my motherland and getting lifelong friends.

My job sucks so hard, it's as if I actually died internally and I need to replace my dead self for something new. Needless to say...Military was pretty obviously a good choice in my options as there are a lot of VERY good, but very bad things I've heard on it. I will stay in for at least 4 years so I can be rebirthed into someone much better than how I am currently. I don't ever want to work in the kitchen again, and it would be my dream to get the fuck out and not look back.

Anyway, people think it's that way because of not only Vietnam, but also Pearl Harbor, and the ongoing Iraq/Iran/Afghan wars. Especially shit going with Korea, as my cousin just came back from there, in worse shape than when he went in. I couldn't care less, though. I just wish to get my life in order so I can be the man I was always intended to be.

Just go. It's not for you, it's for them. You'll only be up on stage for like, 10 seconds anyway, who gives a fuck?

>>18440567
>on stage for ten seconds
>after waiting for like three hours

Wow, what payoff.

>>18440568
What part of "it's not for you, it's for them" is so hard to understand?

>i hate myself so i wont change i can but instead kill myself, but actually i wont because yaddayadda

grow up

What a shit psychiatrist

>>18440559
But he is right, desu.

Guess I'll have to leave this overnight.

>wanting to leave the best state in the union

Your goal is a fantasy and unobtainable. Rethink it. You don't seem to know anything about IT or the industry.
Quick and cheap is not the way to go at life and it's not how you will succeed

>>18440523
Ask yourself better questions and you'll get better answers. When it comes to what your thinking in your head.

yeah, quit the charlie, take to coffee as an acceptable substitute then get fit instead.

believe me, those big guys have bigger skeletons in their closets, that's how they got to be big guys in the first place. just so you know.

>>18440526
>bigger skellingtones in their closets, that's how they got to be big guys in the first place

What did he mean by this?

>>18440533
you need to start researching more on the people who lead you, corruption and a line of coke is pretty harmless as it goes.
>inb4 pizzagate
seriously though, there's some nasty shit out there, and the politicos are all up to their eyeballs in it.

Why does this bother you?

From what it sounds like, this girl is not your girlfriend. Plus you don't speak her native tongue, so I assume conversation is slow and dumbed down to her. All you do is play video games together and talk.

She isn't lying to you, she was busy, not playing with you. She has a life of her own and other friends, buddy. Grow the fuck up and realize girls don't want to and certainly don't have to spend 100% of their time with you.

>>18440505
Well when she says shes busy she tells me shes doing homework. So it is a lie.

Yeah shes not my girlfriend, but I wanted to talk with her because I dont have anyone else to talk with..

>>18440510
>but I wanted to talk with her because I dont have anyone else to talk with..

Then find other people. That's the root of your problem here, you're relying too much on this girl for all source of social interaction. You're becoming incredibly jealous and showing some real stalkerish tendencies even though you still admittedly talk on a constant basis. Yes, YOU want to talk to her. Conversations are not a one way street though.

What language are you learning by the way?

sounds like she may have BPD. she probably needs professional help.

really it's your choice to stay there with her, and it's her choice to kill herself - they're not a real cause and effect thing.

your relationship sounds a lot like one i had - far away, toxic, jealous, tons of arguments. relationship honestly fucked me up emotionally, and i still feel the waves of it 6 years later.

to address the 'give up hanging out with friends' bit, this happened to me too. various avenues of doing that; lie about my friends to make me 'want' to stop, outright demand it, and others.

one of my good friends ended up dying a few days after she told me to stop talking to her. to give an example of that You'll actually miss out on shit if you keep that path up.

It was difficult to break up with her, but I eventually had. She had cheated on me several times, and I had enough of it. I have never regretted it, and I felt an actual huge relief after I cut the ties of communication.

It may take you some time to get to that point where you're able to do that and feel relief... but you are on that path.

The only person's happiness you're responsible for is ultimately you. And her, hers.

BPD yeah, what that anon said. been done, ruined my fucking life. get out as fast as your legs can carry you and never look back. no contact.

no j/k

>>18440504
>>18440545
OP here.
Not quite sure about the BPD part but she has been in therapy with a psychologist for a while. She was only diagnosed with depression (only been told that of course, but I believe there's nothing more to it).
Then again when we are together everything is actually pretty good, but sometimes we argue of course.

She hasn't cheated on me once and neither have I. Sometimes I lie to her to hang out with friends just so I don't completely lose contact, and when she knows I'm hanging out with them she can't stand me not texting for 30 minutes tops.
I'm not emotionally ready to let go of this relationship and I still don't know if I should.

>>18440457

Eventually it can get really bad/infected and cause more problems which will be more expensive to fix. You are better off going to get a referral to an oral surgeon (regular dentists don't remove wisdom teeth as far as I know) and often you can do financing where you make the payment monthly I believe but you need to look into it more. If you are a student, you might have dental coverage up to a certain amount, like for me I am a full time student and my dental coverage is like $700 or something.

It will rot and hurt so bad u end up in thel er:^)

>>18440474

This is true too OP. Eventually it will deteriorate to a point where you will probably end up in the ER. But the doctors in the ER won't actually pull the tooth. They will give you a referral to an oral surgeon and probably just give you anti biotics and/or pain killers

ribbons, scratch, pinning, deepthroat, cumplay, denial, dom

>>18440469
>ribbons

what

>>18440430
nipple clips
cat-o-nine-tails whips
semi-public domination - don't let her wear underwear in public
Make her formally ask for everything you do "Please fuck my mouth" and thank you afterward

>>18440410
>How do I get her out of this lifestyle before some shit happens to her?
Give her some money. She's told you why she does it, if you can provide her with what she needs, then she doesn't have that need any longer. Not sure what you were expecting if your parents threw her out at 16 though.

you find her a man, that provides for her financially, is her dream come true and dislikes her contiuing with it.

So in essance, you have a snowballs chance in hell

>>18440428
She makes a fuckton of money prostituting she's bragged about it. And plenty of ppl work fulltime jobs and live off it. Idk how giving her money fixes shit. She's 18 now.

>in your league

What did he mean by this?

>>18440403
Work out and learn to flirt.

>>18440409
He isn't attracted to women on the same "attractiveness level" as him, which I assume means he's attracted to women "higher up the chain".
>>18440403
Well, looks aren't everything to all women by any means, sure there are some who would base the world off of it, but there's always one, or a lot more than one, out there for you. If you put yourself out there and really look for that 9/10 you've been searching for forever and keep an open mind you're capable of anything. Basically, it's going to take you longer to find the girl of your dreams but you'll make it some day anon