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>>18441769
depends if you live in a third world country or not

It's okay. Even if that does happen, who cares? She's catholic and they are just bait for the weak.

>>18441776
What about college parties?

I usually just go out and get revenge on whoever damaged me.

>>18441770
That ship has sailed, came back and left again, I don't feel any better. I just can't afford to become more cynical.

Protip: morality doesnt exist anywhere but in the minds of mankind. The people who invented morality are the ones who have none. They made rules for society to follow so they can not follow them.

You might enjoy reading about something called the Law of One. Its some extreme /x/ tier shit but its fairly well developed and has some interesting ideas on spirtuality, morals, reality, and the human condition. You dont have to believe it all to be able to take some lessons from it.

The reason i mention it is because a big theme in it is "service to self" versus "service to others". If 51% or more of your deeds and actions are to help others rather than yourself - you are considered a person who is at service to others, a good thing. If you are 85% or more committing deeds and actions solely for your benefit without regard to others, you are considered at service to self, *ALSO* a good thing. Its similar to the concept of yin/yang, both are acceptable choices. Morality teaches us that only service to others is acceptable, where this is simply not true - its a theme invented by those who are service to self to further their own goals.

The caveat here is that if you fall somewhere in the middle, you are considered "indifferent". You arent picking a side. You are just floating along doing what is easiest at the moment. This us considered unacceptable. In the end the whole thing is about spiritual enlightenment and karma foofoo, whether you choose to follow it hat deeply is up to you. But to me that concept on self vs others rings true.

You might also enjoy reading the unibomber's manifesto. Dude was a fcking scary genius; he touches upon morality and explains why its all bullshit in the end among other interesting concepts. The scariest fucking part is that everything he predicted is coming true, and he is locked away for life - spared the death penalty - for being insane, because the Self people ruling society find his ideas dangerous.

Milk has a lot of calories in it. But it CAN be part of a healthy diet if you don't drink too much of it, because it has vitamin D and it's unprocessed and has no added sugar. Cheese is not great if you want to be healthy because it has a lot of fat and calories, but it's ok once in a while. Don't eat it every day.

Gas problems are most likely related to milk. You may be lactose intolerant. But you should not drink so much milk. Try switching to soy or almond milk, you will lose weight faster.

Don't drop all milk derivatives--yogurt is great(but only if it doesnt have added sugar) but yes you need to cut out a lot of dairy.

milk is designed to get calves to the size of cows. what do you think?

Why don't you just fucking exercise.

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Approaching women is the easiest thing in the world. You just have to swallow your anxiety.

The way I approach random girls, I literally just accept straight away that I'll get rejected, and I tell myself in my head to go over and just make the rejection as lighthearted and graceful as possible. I get comfortable with that idea, and then l most of my anxiety literally disappears.

Most of the time they'll say no, but because its lighthearted we both just smile and laugh. I did have a few pleasant surprises aswell where the woman just goes "yeah, why not? ;)" and we end up going out.

And if youre generally too shy, then tinder is the way to go.

>>18442030
My point is, just do it.

Nobody is going to bully you, youre an adult.

>>18442034
do you start of with any sort of ice-breaking conversation? or do you just get straight to the point?

>>18441726
Laser surgery (expensive but very effective for most things) or a topical exfoliant i.e. an AHA or retinoid should do the trick

>>18441726
Also
>I don't have the money to get it removed.
you're better off living with it until you have the means to have it properly taken care of. It really doesn't look that bad. If it bothers you a little coverup on that one spot wouldn't be noticeable.

>>18441827
>or a topical exfoliant i.e. an AHA or retinoid should do the trick
Can you recommend me any that aren't scams?

there are plenty of non trans people with this problem, idc if you identify as male/female or whatever but just know it rarely *increases* your chances of finding intimacy, especially when you are into yaoifag shit

>>18441730
I don't know what constitutes as "yaoifag shit", really. Not really into weeb culture, to be honest.

I'm male-identified, female at birth, with a body covered in (and filled with) a mess of scars where organs/tissues were removed. So, yeah, I'm aware that being a mangled monster does nothing to help my chances.

>>18441746
Being a cheating selfish trap is what ruins your chances. Get a divorce and stop being a garbage person, or go to marriage counseling and try to fix your issues.

MAybe you are taking too many probiotics and enzymes? I think you should not take those so frequently, or if you do try to make them natural ones , like yogurt. Maybe one of the brands you take has some ingrediant your body doesn't like.

What are you eating exactly?

Try drinking 1-2 tbl of apple cider vinegar in a glass of water every day for a few werks. Sometimes you just gotta clean out your guts naturally like this.

If that's not helping it could be your diet. Most people with celiac disease have those symptoms so I'd start keeping a food diary on hand and see what specifically is making those loose stools.

Thank guys. I plan to get as stool sample and see just what in the fuck is going on.

I'll try the apple cider. Though the probiotics and enzymes did make things better a little bit.

You are awake for what, 15 hours a day?

If you can't manage to drink 266 ml of water an hour then you should seek medical attention.

>>18441681
NO, you need to drink half your body weight in oz of water

>>18441681
Drinking more water than you feel like drinking is meme. Use simple approach
Are you thirsty? Drink. Are you not thirsty? Dont drink.

>>18441679
I wouldn't enter a relationship with someone who slept with hookers, it's just against my moral code and I find it disgusting.

>>18441679

I don't judge

Just do an STD test

>>18441679
How many escorts did you fucked?

>>18441637
>only men's replies wanted
Don't even bother trying m80

>>18441637
hobbies
online dating
[spoiler]getting friends[/spoiler]

>>18441648
>online dating
no

>>18441636
Just be glad to be alive dude.

>>18441680
That's not any consolidation when the very existing is a fucking pain in the ass every day. Unless you look similar to me, there's no way you can know how I feel.

>I can't fix this shit

But you can. Are you saying you have some genetic anomaly that prevents you from building muscle?

Either start lifting and get muscular or start eating and get fat or do both and get strongfat. Either way you will stop being skinnyfat.

>She tells me she has aspergers and doesnt want to train with me anymore
>Awkward goodbye and don't talk over the weekend
>Last week before her job starts monday see her say ''hey''
>Walks right passed as if i dont even excist
>She keeps doing this throughout the week
>Next week dont see her gym bud that works there ask what happened to me and her
>Tell him she sperged out on me
>He starts yelling i fucking warned you and laughing at me
>Tell him i hope we can make up i just dont really understand what i did
>Ask her if shes been working out later or at the other location which is 10 kms from here but really close to her work so i can try to confront her on this problem we have
>He says shes been working out at the other location and more frequent
>2 weeks later to that a good friend who knows her aswell starts telling me one of these ''buddies'' been snitching on me

Now we are a half a week later and i get constant reminded by people about her and asked what happened and im getting sick and tired of beeing reminded that someone possibly talked shit around my back to her and that i we havent solved this situation so what is your advice.

Should a go to the other location try to make up and if not possible atleast ask her who snitched on me and show him what happens to people who cant ruine other peoples relationships or?

>>18441662

Also not just aspergers but also bipolar and i think she was in a manic state at the time, which explains a shit ton on how she was acting.

God this is annoying to read.

Good job you avoided a bullet - what else do you want us to say, it is clear you will not be going back to her. Unless you clearly did something wrong I don't really understand the whole premise of the freakout? What are some of the things she said to you / the reasonings she gave?
I personally say move on and forget about all of this - even if you did date her down the road it would be even worse and you really do not want to wait for that to happen.

>>18441601
>24

This ship has sailed sweetheart.

>>18441601
you can be creepy or overly aggressive with me ;)

>>18441601
LITERALLY all you have to do is say hi.
Do anything more and the guy will think you're just a slut looking for easy D.

Depends whether you believe in the Word or the Spirit.

Do you want to bend all the rules so you can carry on without breaking one of them, or do you just want to actually learn discipline?

>>18441521
I just wanna stay hard so I can have sex with my girlfriend before my 19th birthday in july

>>18441499

No. Cut the fucking porn and sexual stimulation outside of actual sex time, unless it's with her. You don't go actively looking for it outside her.

Have you tried dunking your head in a tub of water for like 10minutes straight?

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>>18441465
That hawkings crap made me want to gill rape a megalodon. With your "problem", stop being a sheep and grow a pair.

>>18441465

Guys, I think it's trying to communicate