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How many girls we talking

Regret. Self confidence. Cold feet. Generally that area.
Even though guys mainly do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating, girls are usually even more anxious than guys, and will change their mind last minute because they're afraid. They might say they want to see you, but then they get sudden doubts that make them change plans at the last second.

>>18441455

Potential reasons include
>nervous
>busy
>regrets agreeing to a date
>found someone else interesting
>has doubts about dating in general
>insecure about herself (especially if it's the first meet up)
etc. etc. It's impossible to say why for sure.
Also, if they cancel two times in a row, you don't have to say anything. Just stop trying and find someone else.

>>18441371
>>father always pressured me to study medicine.
>> Interested in physics, astronomy and engineering.


You should study whatever will best prepare you for your future job of designing medical bays for space crafts of course.

>>18441371
If you truly want to do something, fight for it. Let him know what you want and just do it. You can't let someone else make all of your life decisions and that includes your parents.

>>18441371
Get a full time job in something that isn't a restaurant or construction while trying to find what you want to do. Watch some lectures, check out some classes on opencourseware, explore your options like programming, drawing, 3d modeling, advanced math, music creation, fucking everything! There is nothing wrong with waiting a year or two before starting college as long as you don't just stagnate.

You want people to judge your attractiveness without any means of judging your attractiveness? Sure thing, first you need to figure out how to post on 4chan with no electronics.

Describe yourself.

>>18441362
No, even if you describe yourself, it won't be objective.

I can only judge that your mental attractiveness is 0/10.

Huh. So you put yourself into a situation where a seemingly shallow person is going to judge you based on your sexual performance, and you are afraid you are not going to be able to perform?

Have you considered not putting yourself in situations like this? If you're worried about being judged by shallow people, don't associate with shallow people.

Pull out of this situation.

>>18441330
>I also suffer from Phimosis and I'm very self-conscious about it during sex. Also makes me feel almost nothing from sex. I can't ejaculate.
Hey man you should go talk to a doctor and get a circumcision.

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>>18441328
>If she says she's "fine with any choice ;)"
ABORT ABORT ABORT
When a woman says something like that what she actually means is "I'm fine as long as you pick the thing I want, first time, without me so much as giving you a hint as to what it is". You're in a real risky spot right there mate. Proceed with extreme caution.

>>18441328

>"I'm fine with any choice"

"I have no standards"

>>18441328
How about you ask directly then, so you know for sure?

Bumpan

Just grab her by the pussy and deal with the consequences later

>>18441350
In jail you can be the girl instead!

>>18441261
lmao
what does B look like?

I only use /soc/ to post dick pics
getting to know someone there is mental lol also my gf wouldn't approve

>>18441277
Average. He sent me a pic but nothing timestamped or from kik camera.

I talked on webcam with A, I know how he sounds/looks like.

>>18441278
you think A is catfishing you as B? why would he do that?

>>18441259
Why do people get dogs when they're not around to look after them? Dogs arent like cats, they're not suited to being alone all damn day.

>>18441260
We dont leave her alone all day everyday. These are just rare occasions when we go out to the beach or what have you.

>>18441272
Oh okay. Well tbqh if it's not that often why not get a sitter for those days?
We always do for our dog, she knows she won't be left alone for long bc of that and so she never gets anxious.

Benzo withdrawal IS bad but the people who go through it don't take the meds as prescribed. Same with opiates, if you take more than you need to get high, you'll get hooked, but if you take just enough to relieve the symptoms they're meant to, you should be fine. Take as little as you possibly need, and only when you are having an episode. I don't know how this stuff is different from xanax but you may not need to take it regularly if you feel ok without it.

>>18441229

Go make a checkup with another doctor and tell him what your previous doctor has prescribed you. Talk about your worries, inform yourself about the side-effects and ask about if it worth the trouble compared to what might happen if you don't take them.

>>18441238
Apparently I need to take it regularly (that's what's written in the box at least).
>only when you are having an episode
I don't get panic attacks. I get spikes of stress when I go outside where there's people though.
>>18441239
Should I see a psychiatrist for that or a regular doctor?
I've read up on the side effects but I don't know if they occur every time even if I take the pills reasonably, or only if I abuse them, as the other anon said.

I would just stop talking to be honest.

>>18441346
but ice only known her for 6 months and she's become one of my best friends. even if we don't continue the fwb thing, i'd want to keep the friends part.

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>>18441226
Just keep texting her. Don't let your insecurities mess this up.

>>18441191
are you serious lmao

did you break your nose in the part or had surgery? If you've been seeing a doctor and he hadn't said much about it I highly suggest that you make another checkup with different specialist.

>>18441202

Nobody knows, but the most probable theory is that my bone marrow had fractured while I was a kid and it started to fully bone in the wrong direction for all these years

>headaches (daily for the last 5 years)
>lots of sleep, no rest

that was my life for over 10 years

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>>18441190
>using tinder
KYS famalam.

>>18441190
1. lolnope. 90% of male Tinder users are only looking to get their dick wet

2. Had me on kik instead babe ;)

3. High number of matches simply means you have a vagina. Even fatties get a lot of matches because some guys are that desperate

4. Not really. You might get their hopes up though.

>>18441190
I met and started dating my fiancé a year before tinder existed. I don't know if i like the idea of using an app to meet a potential romantic partner because it seems so insincere. I met my future wife in a grocery store by random chance, just decided that I wanted to talk to her because she was cute.
Hopefully some guy who's decent could find you the organic way, I'd suggest against using an app.

>>18441151
seek medical help, also, add him back

>>18441299
been on antidepressants for about two years, i'm certain that they do nothing for me but everyone else says that i've "gotten better"

>>18441337
Hey me too! I've just decided to go with the flow and act like they're helping me. Eventually it became normal and happens without me having to force it.
Have you talked to your doctor about anxiety medication? Maybe increasing your anti depressants dose?

For the time being, I am only cooling when not walking.
Any advice?

>>18441150
I must've sprained my ankles some 10 or 12 times throughout my life to varying degrees of severity. Sounds like yours was pretty severe if you still have symptoms like that after nearly 3 weeks. It really should be healed by now.

I can only tell you what helped for me, but I started doing that asap after a sprain. Keep the foot high when possible to help the fluids drain out and swelling go down. A splint can work wonders, it'll put on some compression and keep you from twisting your foot in ways that'll hurt. Also, DO NOT KEEP IT COMPLETELY STILL. You need to keep doing light exercises with it, walking is good, and when you're sitting or lying, keep moving the foot. Just pull your toes up towards your knee and then move the foot so they point away again. That won't put stress on the ligaments, but will keep your muscles in working condition and ankle from becoming stiff.
Once, when the swelling just wouldn't go down at all even after a week, I got manual lymphatic drainage which removed the swelling in pretty short order.

I don't know about climbing, but generally you'll be able to do sport again at such a time as it doesn't hurt and you can make good use of your strength in the foot.

>>18442111
Thanks for sharing your experiences.

This is my first time. And I did not put up my foot when the sprain initially happened. My mistake.

I am mainly notice it swelling up when I tax it too much (ie walked to much on any given day).
As I said, all I currently do is cool it whenever possible. For the first couple of days I wore a supporting bandage which I later removed.

Tbh. I am a bit surprised you mention that my case may be more severe than I thought.
Now I am wondering whether I should go and see the doctor again.

>>18441133
be gay

>>18441133
Same way you make male friends

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>>18441133
Just talk, try introduce ur self and ask her what she do for fun. That will get the ball rolling and that's it.