Im 21 and ever since I could remember I've had consistent migraines. As in couple times a week, or at best once every other week.
And I mean migraines as in my head is pounding and it hurts to move around and walk. The only solution most times is to sleep, half the time I take pain relievers but usually the sleep just kills it.
I noticed its usually because sometimes I skip lunch/dinner or I eat an incomplete meal.
How can I lessen or resolve this issue? I've heard a lot of solutions such as drinking more water or going on the computer less but its not the case because neither had any effect on how frequent I get the headaches.
I work a lot and this always affects my free time because when its bad I have no choice but to knockout.
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>>18440377
you need to visit a doctor because this is a pretty serious medical condition...
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Find out what causes your headaches, I am in a similar situation, I can get them from weather (hot and windy), dehydration, muscular aches in my back (especially after sports or doing an activity Im not used to), depending on the cause, I treat it.
Often times, computers are not a solution for me, but a relaxing thing that I can use to forget about my headache.
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your brain stem might be fucked, I have a friend with a similar condition. my advice is go check with a doctor and see if you can get an MRI or something
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So my girlfriend's dad just died and now she is getting depressed and I don't know how to connect with her on an emotional level and make her fell better how do I do this over text
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Just don't make things about you, and cuddle her if she likes it, be something of comfort for her. You don't have to forever but for the next couple months at least.
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>>18440353
pat her on the back as you say "there there" make sure you tell her you know how she feels, and tell her everyone dies at some stage so it's best to get on with the job. also remind her about the time your pet hamster died and how you got over that after like a day or two.
she'll come round, eventually.
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Just comfort her, it's not an easy thing to get over.
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So I have a very close friend who I'm tempted to stop being friends with because of certain things she says/does. She is very fun to hang out with, comes over and comforts me if I'm going through something bad and checks on me with phone calls a lot too. If someone does bad to me she will automatically dislike them and she offers to lend me money when I'm in need.
Now the things I don't like:
She doesn't have boundaries with the things she says. I went through a pregnancy some time ago and my body went from being amazing to significantly different, eg my boobs became saggy. She knows I'm sensitive but still comments spitefully about it each time we meet, disguising it as a joke when it's because she's jealous I'm better looking than her (this sounds terribly cocky but it's actually true).
She's super flaky with meeting up and everything is on her schedule, my time doesn't matter. She makes me wait an entire night with no word then gives a bullshit excuse like the train is too slow when I finally ask her if it's still on, then instead of apologizing tells me to "accept her personality."
She has a big mouth and tells my private matters to other people, such as telling people my boyfriend uses me for sex only when she doesn't know shit and making me look pathetic in the process. She also likes to lecture me and say "you need to know something" a lot when she's literally fucking dumb and is wrong most of the time.
She's spoken badly about my mother before, because they used to work together.
Lastly she asks a LOT of favours. She offers to lend me money and all but I have never taken her up on a favour. But she thinks nothing of constantly asking me to do inconvenient shit, and comes to my workplace and asks for free things.
Would this warrant enough to not be friends with her anymore or is it something I should just deal with because of her positive factors?
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Cut her out. The negatives far out weigh the positives. You don't need a friend who treats you like an enemy.
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Sounds like the cons outway the pros, personally doesn't sound worth it.
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Do you actually want to cut her off, or was this just a situation where you needed to let this off your chest?
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I know this topic has probably been brought up a million and one times, but I recently broke up with my significant other because she developed feelings for someone else.
I feel shitty even though I know she was not even close to being a wonderful member of my life. I want to know /adv/, have any of you gone through something similar?, and if so how'd you get over it?
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After a breakup, I always go through a period of extreme self improvement. I volunteer, I get in shape, I take classes I'd normally be too socially anxious to do so. I have my breakdowns still, but I find that doing those things got my confidence up and my mind off of my exes.
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Delete everything to do with him/her. Just forget about it, and eventually you'll have moved on.
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>>18440347
So it's a matter of self improvement? I think that'll be great for me actually. How long did it usually take for you to get over them?
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I have hung out with this girl for a long time and I want to go out with her, should i do it? If so any good ways to ask her out.
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"Would you like to go on a date with me?"
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Well thanks captain fuckin obvious
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Just ask her out you pleb.
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Is there a way for me to not want a wife and kids but not be labeled for it (like as an MGTOW), or lectured about it?
I'm not bitter about women or anything, but people keep bringing up kids and shit at this point in my life and yesterday, I even got called an MGTOW. I try to never bring this shit up.
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The thing about kids & a wife is that for 65% of the population they suck. Now maybe you find the right wife who doesn't divorce you and have well behaved that don't hate you, or say Fuck it mgtow
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>>18440287
I'm 38 and I just heard that term for the first time in this thread. I'm also never married, no kids, and no desire for either at this point. Let me tell you how your future will be.
Once you get into your 30's, most of your friends will be married and having kids. You'll rarely see them, and if you do, you'll probably be the third wheel. Most people won't label you an MGTOW or what the fuck ever, but you'll always wonder if they think you're asexual or gay or something. You'll eventually feel awkward about being the only single guy your age. Any girl you date will secretly try to figure out what hidden thing is wrong with you because you're older and you've never been married and society is bullshit.
If you're lucky, you'll find a girl in her 20s to date, stay in shape, and make decent money. That way, at least you have your awesome life to keep you somewhat happy, while your friends have gotten fat and are dealing with whiny kids and bills.
The sad thing is, even if you don't want marriage or kids or any of that, you'll occasionally feel like you're missing out. Life's a cruel joke.
Source: me
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This gives me hope, in a weird way. I turn 31 in August. I make great money and still have my health for the most part, although I suppose maybe I should focus on it a little more if what you say is right. But yeah, dating a chick casually seems like the best thing, and knowing that no one is going to take 50% of my income one day is great.
Yeah, I am worried about regret. I just went on a trip with my dad this weekend for Father's Day, and he was proud of me, and it was a fun experience, the kind that made me think "maybe one day I'd want a kid," but then I thought about my friend's dad who spent Father's Day bailing his 28 year old out of jail.
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I want to learn to rape, I heard that there was a guide on the internet years ago but it is no longer available
>Have u raped women? I clarify women because many here are faggots
> What advice do you have 4 a first time rapist?
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>Abdul
Well that's not a surprise.
Carry on, pedo worshipper. I recommend a goat for training.
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>>18440279
Just have sex normally and the way society is currently going, whatever you did will be redefined as rape eventually.
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>>18440285
Kek, my real name is John, i was triyin 2 be sarcastic, but my thread is serious, Any REAL advice
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My dad has been really abuse for the past 5 years. The last 3 years have been particularly rough for me, I've been diagnosed with anxiety and depression and everyday he uses my diagnosis as a pretext to bring me down, call me a weak piece of shit, and make fun of me. I can't take it anymore, before vidya and music used to be an escape for me but now he doesn't even let me play vidya anymore. I can literally use my own computer an hour a day and that's including schoolwork (I'm in an IB school so a shitton of computer written assignments). And he doesn't let me play the guitar anymore because "it's too loud" and "it's a bad influence just like your friends" (me and my friends play in a little band together). There is literally nothing left for me to do. My room is my own hell. I never come on /adv/ but well I'm tired of talking to myself and trying to push myself to kill myself. So I just came here, to get some tips on how to die painlessly or maybe to convince me otherwise you never know, on things I may miss out in life, but most importantly just someone to talk to.
Any tips?
Do I just an hero now?
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Op here. Forgot to mention that I'm 16 so moving out isn't an option sadly
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But you are too young to want to die
Wait until at least 27
Always remember that he will be dead while you still can get your dick hard.
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Ask some of your teachers for help, also try and call an agency for helping children.
Your father isn't fit for having a kid so you need help to get away from him.
Do you have other family to contact?
Let it be known how you're treated, you can't deal with this alone.
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Would you sacrifice your beliefs/morals for love?
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What do you mean beliefs/morals?
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>>18440201
>Would I give up my only discerning and truly identifying features for some else's attention
Mate if you wanna go literal, we humans are nothing but our thoughts. I'd be happy so see argument and maybe change my mind there off. But outright give up on my morals. Lol no
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Is it really love if you have to sacrifice your fundamental values? Isn't that just lust?
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>Find the perfect girl for me, have cutesy late teenage romance over a summer and remain best friends even though there was a falling out
>Fall in love with everything about her after seeing her multiple times over the next few years, but she lives a medium drive away and time gets in the way for both of us as school and jobs start to form
>Now in my early twenties and start seeing her again here and there and texting
>Try my best to talk to her but she's more distant than she was in the past
>Texting one night and convo gets deep, admit how I always felt
>She says she always liked me but it would be hard to get back into the mindset we were in as teens but the door isn't closed, we should stay in eachothers lives
>Not as distant texting anymore but bounces between chatting me up and initiating and straight up ignoring me sometimes. In person exchange looks and cutesy banter at parties
>I know deep down she'll probably never see me the way I see her even though we'll be in eachothers lives again, but all I want to do is just turn back the clock and recapture those moments
>Time is a fucking bitch
Has /adv/ ever felt a similar feel? How did you deal with it
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Gonna bump one time. Would really like to get some feedback,
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Bumping one last time.
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Don't dwell on it, keep moving forward. Don't stall.
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Hi /adv/ this is my first time posting on thid board, but I really need another persons advice.
So Im a 21 year old guy, I live with my parents still. Recently Ive reconnected with an old friend I grew up with (we were basically brothers) we had a falling out, but were definitly cool now.
He asked me if I wanted to share a house with him and his girlfriend for 1/3 rent for a 3 bedroom 1 story house. Id be paying $200. Where I live just an apartment costs $800-$900 (I make about $3000 a month, but dont want to pay that much really)
I love my parents despite a very toubling past between us. They are in their 60s and I know id miss them. They werent the best parents, they emotionally amd physically abused me when I was in my early teens and mid teens. But Ive forgiven them and were ok now.
I relate to my friend a lot. His girlfriend is cool too. I dont really have many friends anymore and dont hangout with anyone really. If I moved their I know wed have a lot of fun. And his girlfriend could definitly hook me up with her friends. Its not a huge house, but all I do currently is sit in my small room whem I dont work and play xbox. Amd even if I got an apartment in my state, Id still be alone and bored.
I feel like life is just passing me by amd im stuck wasting my best years working at a place I dislike and have no real career in, My parents can be very difficult and controlling. My mom is an emotional wreck who channels her anger out on me and my dad. And my dad likes to control everything in my life.small example: If I go outside to enjoys tge weather, hell go outside to check on me. When I leave to go to work, Hell enter my room and search it.
Sorry if this was hard to read, but my question basically is, Should I stay in my current situation and hope for the stuff to change? Or, do I go and live with mt friend in another state for a few years working for a dollar or two less, but having complete freedom to do what I want and finally live my life?
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>>18440149
Get out man, it's a great offer with a perfect timing and if it dosen't work out just get your own place, seems like you could afford it.
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>>18440149
Your parents will still be there if it all turns to shit, take a risk on something for once.
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>>18440149
How long would you be signing a lease for? How far away from your parents would you be?
So I've been dating this girl for over two years now. She's beautiful, amazing, and I love her like crazy. She loves me too, and she wants to move out of state in a couple months, so we've been talking about moving together.
Unfortunately, every discussion ends in an argument. Tonight, it ended up with her saying she hasn't been happy in the relationship in a while and listing all of these things bothering her. Some of it's trivial shit, like the fact that we don't go out as much as we used to, or that I'm not in as good of shape as when we met (which I've been working on).
So, she says nothing will change and now we shouldn't move together or even continue to date. I tried talking her out of it, but she's incredibly stubborn and refuses to see reason. Also, she has depression.
How the fuck did I go from "loving, happy relationship" to "let's break up" in less than a fucking week? What the fuck do I do now? I don't want to lose her.
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>>18440145
Break it off while you still can. Thank me later.
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>>18440172
She's essentially doing that for me, but still love her too much to just let her go. She says she still loves me too, but "sometimes love isn't enough", which is bullshit.
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>>18440145
instead of telling her things are gonna change, do it. really and truly try extra hard. surprise her with a cute well thought out date, bring her her fav food for lunch when she's on her break at work
idk man, this is really beta but if you love her fight for her. chances are if she's willing to drop you that quickly she's already talking to some other dickhead
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Hello. I am an 18 year old decently attractive male who is in love with a girl who has a bf. Said bf lives an hour away from girl and they hardly see eachother they just FaceTime and text. I live about 10 mins from girl. I am more attractive than her bf. Me and the girl hangout alot and text sometimes and I think she's into me. Basically what I'm asking is should I wait until she breaks up to make a move? Or should I make move asap?
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Wait until she breaks up piece of shit
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>>18440136
I'm losing faith
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Minor detail But they have been together about 5 months
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I'm 28 years old and I came to a conclusion that I can't fix my life at all, I'm not smart enough to do things like invest in stocks, I have no money, no marketable skills at all and no friends, by all logic it seems like it's best to just end it all now instead of prolonging a life that is clearly not going to go anywhere.
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man please don't commit suicide by cop, man up and just get mental help or find a way that isn't going to harm someone else.
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try joining the military if you can't find a job
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>>18440127
Here in Texas we don't have any mental facilities here. I honestly have very few options which is why I'm considering the cop thing.
>>18440131
I did try, I was deemed unfit to serve because I have four kidneys and a hearing problem
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I'm struggling to pay for college and have no job. I've applied to numerous places but nothing really happens. I also have school loans to pay off. So I was wondering if getting a sugar daddy would be a good idea. Last semester I found out one of my friends had one and was making about $2k a month. She seemed to be happy and had her life together.
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It's no one's business what you do to earn money. Whether it's stripping, being a sugar baby, whatever. As long as it's legal, you have only yourself to answer to. Can you live with yourself? Does it bother you in the slightest to become a sugar baby? What matters is how you feel about it and about yourself. Doesn't matter in the least what others think. You're the one who has to live your life, deal with your finances, your debt, your sanity, your self-esteem, etc. So figure out if it's going to work for you, emotionally, and make a choice based on that.
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depends how attractive you are... the hotter, the more money you make
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as long as you're okay with being a personal sex toy for some old loser then by all means go for it