So whats the best way to determine your sexuality?
How do you find out?
Is there anything special we should be looking after?
Im a guy, but im pretty sure im trans (mtf). So sooner or later i might transition into a woman. Or maybe try something androgynously. But my sexuality remains uncertain for me.
I have been walking around the globe for 2 years now, trying to find out what my sexuality is.
I have directly stared at both males and females in public, i sense stuff, but its too hard to tell what im really feeling.
I have also tried masturbating while looking at different types or porn. Maybe i havent tried all options yet im not sure. But i have looked at gay porn, normal straight porn and lesbian stuff. I will try looking at some more soon.
So yeah, i have no idea really. When i was a child i had experimental sex with both male and female in kindergarden.
I have no idea what these things mean, maybe they mean nothing, i could just be experimenting you know.
I have been with a lot of women in my life, ive been told from some of them, that i am very good in bed. But im not always enjoying it if i may be honest with you, i do like it, but, i want more, more fetish.. i hate boring sex :P hehe
I have never been with a guy, only that 1 time in when i was 3 years old in kindergarden.
So whats going on? How do i find out? How do i be honest with myself? I think there are alot of feelings invovled in this too. But please, speak, help me out guys
Many trans people only realize their sexuality after transitioning or at least starting hormones
Don't worry about putting yourself into a neat category. It doesn't really matter. Just do whatever you feel like.
>>6931795
Both sexually and genderwise?
Why are bisexuals universally hated?
>>6931420
>tfw fell for bi friend & used
>tfw you just wanted love
>tfw you're bi(ish) too
>>6931518
this
bisexuals are scum because they will always cheat on you with a roastie or thot. there exists no exception to this
do not fall for the bi meme
>>6931649
do you not know how to read?
Did I fuck up edition.
Seriously though
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before: >>6930153
im sad help
>>6931204
don't be sad :(
naraba yuruginaki kakugo shita tame
Will I be forever alone?
>Somewhere between demi and ace
>Biromantic
>Old fashioned
>Want to have kids
>More than anything, just want a loving, romantic relationship with sex only if the other person needs it
Every relationship I ever had ended because the guy got mad about not having sex. Girls aren't even interested in me. I rarely ever refuse to, and I try to not complain about it. I just personally don't initiate or really want sex other than once every couple years. If someone wanted to have kids, I would want to do it for that reason.
Just wanting to know how fucked I am, or if there is someone else out there like this
You're looking for a friend who's willing to be your surrogate, not a partner.
>>6931148
just online date mentioning in your profile that you have an extremely low sex drive, spell out exactly how low it is
you can find someone i believe in you
>>6931148
>Somewhere between demi and ace
>Biromantic
>Old fashioned
>made up new age tumblr words
>old fashioned
I haven't gone fulltime as a girl yet. How do I get a girly haircut while presenting as a guy?
Is this the worst kind of hell?
yo, I'm in the same boat as you
I'm just gonna level with my stylist the next time I go to the salon, he's a nice guy and probably really gay so I don't think he'll give me a hard time. I think the only way to go about this is to come out and say what you want, unless you're cutting your own hair.
>>6930892
>stylist
I actually haven't had a haircut in 3 years, and I've moved three times since the last time I had a haircut. I don't know what to do
>>6930878
Fugg I'm not even in your boat but I sympathize.
I haven't had hair cut in like 3 years myself. I'm not trans but just a really effeminate fag, and i want it cut but i don't want the length reduced all too much, and i'd like to have it be faggy and cute while not being a total girls cut, but also not a total guys cut. Hard to explain.
Either way it pains me and gives me heatenings to think of going into a hair salon and ask for a faggy hair cut, basically.
>tfw your bf's a selfish cunt
He doesn't care about my needs, all he cares about is what I can do for him. During sex he refuses to reciprocate. He dismisses my feelings and opinions like they don't matter, then gets angry at me for challenging him on it. I'm poor and he's not and he seems to think this entitles him to demand anything he likes of me, despite the fact we don't live together. He wants me to make all these sacrifices and he sacrifices nothing himself.
>>6930721
break up?
Same but idk if even
>>6930721
So how about instead of whining about it on the internet, you leave him? Or are you enjoying the abuse? Fucking dumbass.
I am a guy who is exclusively attracted to lesbians and bisexual women. Its hard to describe, but they have this particular "look" that just drives me wild, ordinary women do nothing for me.
I mean, I suppose they could be just going for that particular look, but its almost universal that dressing and acting a certain way means you are available for approach other women.
I look like a big cro magnan motherfucker, I feel like like I am competing with a bunch of skinny bitches for their affection.
>>6930708
As a bisexual woman I have literally no clue what look you mean, give an example?
>>6930983
Same, what the hell are you talking about OP? Blatant dykes or androgynous people? Just date a straight girl with a pixie cut.
I think what he's saying that he's probably attracted to the "soft butch" or "tomboy" look in women.
Be honest FtMs, how many of you loved and/or religiously watched She's the Man as a kid?
[spoiler]also stealth trans movies thread[/spoiler]
I watched it a couple times when it came on TV but wasn't obsessed with it.
It made me anxious when I watched it on TV like 5 years ago.
It just pissed me off, I was mad jelly. Plus the entire nature of the plot revolves around her being a girl, feeling completely out of place, and scared of being found out, which isn't exactly the dream.
This time it's personal
>>6930670
If it's a personal issue, what the fuck does this board have to do with it?
Go back to /pol/ you cisgender homophobic Nazi
>>6930670
Come back, Adolf! We need you now more than ever!
Is it possible to pass if you're chubby / skinnyfat
not generally, no
>>6930736
but fat people are amorphous genderless blobs
Yes. I am skinnyfat and people say I pass flawlessly (mtf).
Do Trans people need to worry about Muslims?
Is water wet?
>>6930454
Hard to tell the gender of anything in a burka.
Muslims should worry about us desu
>tfw he calls you cute
:3
>>6930055
didn't actually happen
>>6930063
Except it did :DDD
To preface I sent him pics and he responded with that.
>>6930194
>I sent him pictures
I'm a hideous troll, and even I've had guys say I'm cute. Guys way out of my league and junk.
Such as "here's a picture of me, sorry if I'm super gross, you don't have to respond back if you're not into it."
"No, you're super cute!"
This is meaningless. People don't know what you really look like unless you see them in person. At least that's how it is for me, seeing as I know how to take really flattering pictures.
Does HRT Change sexual orientation
I (MTF) have found while I used to be attracted exclusively to women, I now mainly find myself attracted to men.
Is this just internalized homophobia, or could HRT actually have an effect on this.
>>6929881
Maybe? I was bi but leaning towards women before transitioning, but after hrt I'm still bi, but I want the D more
>>6929881
If you're trutrans, you should be initiated into liking guys once you begin transitioning. If you continue liking women, you aren't trans, simple as that.
>>6929909
yes, the group blanchard referred to as 'hsts' (self-fulfilling prophecy if i've ever seen one), candice brown elliott calls 'transkids', and this forum calls 'trutrans' are far more likely to be heterosexual than other sex discordant groups
but even this is only about as likely as the general population, and if nothing else people like calling themselves bisexual
>have a sprinter's build
>strong arms, thick thighs
>5'10'' 150lbs
i'm in good shape physically but I feel more buff than i need to be. how do i shave off a bit of mass from my arms and legs without looking like a skeleton in my already angular face? any vitamins or supplements for a (t)girl to stay healthy? please advice (for real).
p.s. i don't care to hear that spot training is a myth. i just want sensible advice about what to eat, etc.
>>6929711
spot training for fat loss/gain is a myth.
You can work only certain parts of your body for muscle mass, though.
>Libra
>strong third and fifth chakras
>head aura is somewhat weak
just wondering what chakra I should open on the next equinox
p.s. i don't care to hear that astrology is a myth. i just want sensible advice on what chakra to focus on, etc.
Can't you just mass build on your legs and stop working out to let it get some jiggle?
wat do?
Do a barrel roll.
Forgot to add dis
shes not a Hon, actualy kind of pretty,
but you know, typical super androgynous tranny voice gave her out at first sentence
pound that boipussy