I want a bf who is 20 years older than me
Is it normal?
>>6918334
My boyfriend is 12 years older then me. It's normal. Their more secure and established. Plus they give you that dad vibe that most of us never had cause out dad's hated us for being gay.
>>6918350
Lol, my dad doesn't hate me since he live in another country and doesn't know about my sexuality
Sauce on that pic?!
i am sure I've seen a few pics of these guys before
how can u not vomit and feel bad when thinking about transitioning? jesus christ
im trying to find the pros vs cons of transitioning, but i know that i have to transition no matter what
i identify as a translesbian, i had this idea that i could make it without transitioning because im still into girls and i have a nice male body, lots of girls want me
but now i have this fear if i transition no one will ever want me the same way as before, cause ill be a transwoman, not a man.
i think i need help and motivation for transitioning. positive thinking and such.
ive been really negative about the whole thing, i think i might be transphobic too (i think most people are)
i saw 2 different/seperate transgirls yesterday at a big big outdoor party. I REALLY WANTED to go and tell them my name and have a talk with them, i circled around her, but i just couldnt, i just couldnt..
ive discovered alot of things like, how afraid i am of cisgender people now, its really crazy, because i can see that they can see, that im different, im acting different, i walk and talk different, than the other normal guys.
but its funny, or actually its not, but my bestfriend says, that there is NOTHING trans about me, and that nobody is able to see if im trans. I doubt him.. He hasnt experienced and seen what ive seen. Anybody been thru this kind of thing with a friend not really believing in your fears and thoughts?
How do i start transitioning? Safely, wisely..
I study at college, but i fear i have to quit because my life is not in balance (because im trans basicly and ive known for 1 year and i havent done anything about it yet)
But now im actually wanna do this thing. I wanna transition. I wanna live authenticly. I dont wanna be beaten up big dudes tho.. Or mocked by girls.. Or whatever, u get the point. Its not easy to be trans.. its not..
But im a fighter :) I wanna do this, i wanna show the world how cool i am, and how nice my dick is, if its still gonna be around.
Please help /lgbt/
>>6918038
I long learned to swallow this vomit and love it's sweet taste, even if sometimes it's salty and bitter
>>6918038
You always got me bae
>>6918038
Just gonna add this. Still OP.
I dont think im very passable. Im very tall.
But girls say im REALLY cut/hot, so maybe some of my features will be good for me.
But i dont really know.. i kinda have a big nose. And im really hairy....
Soon im getting help from a therapist or an expert in psychology.
My parents arent really supportive of the trans idea, but they are supportive though, like, they want the best for me, they really do. They are just transphobic i guess, and very traditional.
Im 23 years old, soon 24 :(
Thanks for being here /lgbt/
How many people here are in love with their straight best friend and are in crippling depression because you can never have them?
I feel like it's a lot of us.
>>6917848
I used to be in love with my best friend but after 5 years it's finally gone. I noticed that he started to annoy me more now desu
>>6917848
I am, OP. Such a frustrating feeling, especially when we hang out alone together a lot
>>6917848
If he's really you're best friend, are you sure he won't agree to let you blow him or something?
How do I come out to my parents as non-binary?
>>6916828
You don't. It's a meme, they won't get it.
>>6916846
Very helpful thanks.
>>6916828
Lol tumblr shit, wait until you're out of middle school to decide you're retarded.
Femgen FAQ:
▶What is a femguy/femboy?
An androgynous male with feminine and soft features. Mostly gay, but not all.
▶Are fem guys trans?
Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties.
▶Can I be a femguy?
Often with enough effort, yes. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard.
▶Should I go on HRT?
If you can deal with the tits and infertility, you'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man.
▶Is liking femguys considered gay or straight?
Gay. If you're on the fence, you're bi, like a lot of people.
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▶Hair care resources: https://www.reddit.com/r/haircarescience/wiki/index and /r/FancyFollicles
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Previous >>6895121
>>6910957
replace femgen.us with
discord.gg/3bGZwy4
assuming the site owner still wants that to happen. that's the permanent discord join link.
>still using andreja as the OP
>>6910965
>andreja
>andrej + a
>you
>ywn have a butch bff
old one abotu to ded
I'm dyin
>>6910861
obamas/10 top pass as president of the united states and first lady
>>6913851
front on view? face looks decent but cant tell about body
reposting my same pic from last thread (yes i know the clothes suck), any constructive advice on shit i can do to improve in the short term?
>>6913936
hey u... what's ur phone number ?
How do I get a cute chub bf to marry?
>>6908416
Cloning.
>>6908457
Ok well im here on 4chan the neckbear hive
Ill take 1 neckbeard pls
>>6908533
I'm a rotund fellow, but I find two problems with seeking love on 4chan: location and mutual attraction. Never had both, but if you're in NYC, I'm willing to talk.
gonna come out tomorrow post your stories thx
>be closeted ftm
>have mental breakdown after being sexually assaulted by gross homeless man
>go on Facebook
>"I AM A BOY NOW GUYS"
>200 likes on status, suddenly more people want to be my friend
>still cringe years later at how retarded I sounded
>>6898241
>mtf
>figure out at 16
>think about all the horrors of coming out/transitioning
>go deep into closet/try to ignore my desires for 5 years
>finally accept, fearing that if I wait too long, I'll either kill myself or become a hon
>tell my girlfriend, closest friends
>"I'm not surprised."
>"Good for you."
>"yeah, I can see it"
>still too scared to tell parents
guess I made good friends and was pretty bad at being a dude
>>6898241
>be tranny
>live at home with mom
>go to gp
>get referral to tranny clinic
>they send letter confirming referral arrived and estimated time until i can get an appointment
>letter is from endocrinology branch of hospital
>mom sees this and freaks out
>reads letter and sees im a tranny
>didnt even have to tell her myself
all in all pretty good, i planned to hide it for a while but it went better than expected, she just freaked out about self medding
Most gay guys just want to hook up or fuck.
It pisses me off since the only thing I want is to be in a relationship with a nice guy.
What are good places to look for guys willing to try long term relationships?
Gay bars are big no-no. Everyone wants to fuck obvioualy?
What else is there? Where and how can I even meet other gay guys? I live in a large city so it shouldnt be a problem, right!? Well it is..
Pls anons i just need avice
I want a boyfriend too... random sex is just depressing, I want the real experience, dates, movies, eating out, eating in, cuddling, all of that.
Plus sex.
Where are you from?
Not OP but i live in NYC and it's stressing me out. I'm in my prime years and they're wasting away. I wanna be degenerate, but a monogamous one.
Last thread hit image limit
>>6897345
>>6897345
Guess me
> tfw no idbbbz bf
he just gets cuter ;___;
>inb4 'what are you?! Fucking gay?!'
Franku is cuter desu
i love him so much
and he lives an hour away from me according to his former PO box
Dating chart thread.
>ITT /soc/.
Hate/ignore away.
>>6895247
Bretty good taste in music.
>>6895247
You seem pretty cool, nice music
>>6895425
That pizza shirt is amazing + that cat looks just like mine
I'm a complete noob on this. I know almost nothing about HRT and makeup. I want to know some little tips from /lgbt/.
>How do you get a curvy figure?
>How do you makeup without looking like a trans?
>What type of HRT should I take if I want to look androgynous or femboy?
>>6888880
Basically your options are going to be similar to that of MTF (assuming you are cisgender male femboy, and not a FTM femboy). Estrogen without antiandrogen will get you no where fast. Bicalutamide does pass through the blood-brain barrier in humans (although darolutamide does not, but is still in testing), but the reduced reported loss of libido indicates that it likely does not penetrate as much. Those two drugs, bicalutamide and darolutamide, are antiandrogens. Antiandrogens without estrogen is possible, but will likely still result in you being fairly close to male, although it will prevent further masculinization, and you can add in estrogen later. The potential issues would be osteoporosis and maybe dopamine dysregulation. AAs that do not penetrate the blood-brain barrier (as much) would prevent dopamine dysregulation. Osteoporosis can be prevented with SERMs or SARMs. Non-hormonal methods also exist. SERMs selectively bind to alpha and beta estrogen nuclear receptors, acting as an agonist at one and antagonist at the other. The specific ones have been identified for (some?) tissue types, but what effect they would on female secondary sex characteristics is not something that I know. The most common ones are antagonist at alpha and agonist at beta. This should prevent breast growth and osteoporosis, but what else is not something that I know. It would be useless to take at the same time as a normal estrogen agonist, as it will either be blocked at alpha, or overcome it and therefore induce breast growth, going against the entire purpose of the SERM, and it would only add to the effects at the beta.
> continued
>>6889142
> continued
SARMs, are like SERMs, but vary in binding instead of activity (typically), and also involve androgens instead of estrogen. They can also be used to stop osteoporosis, but can also be used to prevent muscle lost while on an AA. The issue is that you have normal androgens from your body, the AA, and the SARM competing for the bone and muscle androgen receptor, so you need to preform simple calculations on likely non-existant data to see if this will work, then very complex modeling to find the dosages needed. Enobosarm is an example of a SARM, it is still in testing. Estrodiol is an example of normal, full estrogen agonist. Also, using darolutamide with normal estrogen agonist will be useless if you wish to prevent neuropsychiatric effects, as the result will not be both androgens and estrogen binding to the brain, but the estrogen binding and then the brain having production of androgens reduced due to too much sex hotmonesbin the blood. Estrogens that do not pass through the blood-brain barrier do not currently exist except for one that is not very effective and is highly toxic at the needed dosages.
Take this information and look up the specific drugs and/or surgeries you need to look as how you wish to appear, and weight the risks and benefits of the options I have presented and what you want to choose the HRT regime on your own. Also, /hrtg/ and /femgen/ are useful threads for this, although some users of /femgen/ have been complaining about all the HRT talk lately.
> t. biochem student and hopefully eventually doctor and femboy
I think I should go for Bicalutamide, should I do something else for fat deposits?
>tfw you're a twink top and love bottom musccle hunks
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Previous thread: >>6805996
Anyone know how easy/difficult it is to self med while in the process of joining the armed forces? specifically the UK royal air force and royal navy. I need to know if you can discreetly buy and take the meds while staying in the barracks during the basic training and whatever comes afterwards, like do I have to worry about room inspections, is there any privacy? Also if i go through the informed consent route and have my meds prescribed do I have to worry about hiding my meds and having to explain what they're for to superiors and others?
>>6874087
I remember an American solider saying they couldn't self med because if anyone found or saw their hrt it would be considered non-prescribed drug use and they would be discharged. I have no idea how it would differ in the UK forces though.
>>6871893
if you're on the fence of passing and you have a clearly feminine name, it's more likely people will gender you correctly. this could work against you too if your voice is terrible for example and you will be clocked as a tranny.
probably doesn't matter at all if you clearly pass