So one of my three friends just got engaged. It was an utter shock to the system about how I've wasted my life.
27 year old, closeted virgin, who does about 5 social things per year max. With the path I'm on I'm never going to have sex or even come out.
I feel like I'm left with three options but I only know how to do 1-2.
1) Keep doing the same thing, accept my future
2) Suicide
3) Change and become a well rounded person who enjoys life.
No idea how to achieve number 3, I'm not actually sure if I can develop the skills to achieve this, particularly due to my age.
Given my age I'm tempted to say its over.
Any thoughts? Anyone on here manage to recover and enjoy life, surviving the regrets?
>>6918511
Bump...
>>6918665
Final, depressing bump.
>>6918511
I want to say you'll find someone but I don't know that.
It's not easy to be alone but you're not alone in being alone. Finding a partner would be much easier if you come out and let word get around.
Best I can offer to you is to come out and pursue your interests or find interests
How do I separate porn from reality? In porn trannies are sexy and comfortable in their bodies. I realize its not the same in real life and trans people are severely dysphoric and hate their anatomy, but that leaves me lusting after something that doesnt exist in real life. An attractive transwoman who likes her own dick.
>>6918243
>An attractive transwoman who likes her own dick.
Even if I did like my dick, I'd have to pop Viagra, apply ointments and take questionable ancient Chinese medicine just to get it to work.
realize that if you feel like this is a big enough problem in your life that you feel the need to whine about it publicly on an anonymous imageboard, you should probably kill yourself. or just muster up one tiny ounce of self control and over it.
If you could take a pill that would magically turn you into a heterosexual person who is comfortable with their own gender (in other words, it would make you "normal" as far as everyone else is concerned), would you take it?
Please explain your answer as well.
Of course.
That way i dont have to endure depression, suicidal tendencies , dysphoria or worrying if i wil pass.
that way i can forget about this whole shitshow and be normal.
>>6918240
NEVER
because I didn't kill myself, it means I didn't really give up. I will put all my power to getting close to what I want to look like and be, and if some things are technologically impossible, I'll wait for technology to improve
Duh, one less thing to worry so much about when it comes to schooling and employment, social relationships and familial relationships. No more telling grandma I'm just not ready for a bf, etc. no more men asking for threesomes constantly! That would be neat. I wouldn't be the lesbian friend anymore, and I'd have less issues with the wedding. Bunch of stuff would sort itself out.
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how long will this last
Nim likes boys
I fucking guarantee it
Someone be my mommy pls
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let me preface this post by saying that I am not in the best of mental states right now nor have I ever really been. I just graduated highschool and am currently a NEET with the excuse of "taking a semester off". I'm also extremely depressed and probably have some underlying personality disorder.
For the past 8 months I have been lifting weights in attempt to get /fit/. Seeing my body progress from a flabby piece of shit to less flabby piece of shit with some muscle was pretty interesting. I liked the progress I was making not only in terms of my physique, but also with my lifting numbers. As of now, my numbers for a 1 rep max are 145lbs for a overhead press, 185 for my benchpress, and a 315 squat. Before I decided to get /fit/ I was questioning my gender identity A LOT and dealing with what I assumed was "Gender Dysphoria". Certain features like my broad shoulders and my big feet were making me pretty disappointed with my life which in turn led me to just repressing my feelings and embracing my masculinity to where I am now.
Those feelings that I've repressed have started to resurface and I'm just really confused as to what I'm supposed to do. I just feel really uncomfortable living the life I'm living and the path I'm headed towards. I don't want to grow up into adulthood as a man. If you asked me 8 months ago if I could push a button and be a girl I would push that button. If you asked me that same question now, I would still push that button. My problem is that imagining myself as a female, out in public, scares me, but going out as a male right now sucks too. None of this makes any sense to me. I would rather be a female, but doing traditional "feminine" things makes me feel uncomfortable. I don't like my male body, but doing traditional "masculine" things feels fine.
can somebody help me figure out my feelings? because instead of being a male or even a female, I'd rather just kill myself and not exist at all.
>>6917191
i mean, it's impossible for anyone else to say for sure, but it sounds to me like you could be trans and just worried about social repercussions of transitioning. when you imagine yourself as female, do you think about how you'd look after taking hrt? does it make you nervous even if you'd hypothetically pass 100%? bear in mind that even if the answer is "yes," it doesn't answer anything for sure.
also, your hobbies and interests have no bearing on whether you feel dysphoria or your gender identity. it's understandable that you might like lifting or cars or computer science or whatever you consider "masculine" interests, since you probably grew up doing those things or wanting to do them. girls can have masculine interests and boys can have girly ones, it doesn't make them a different gender.
but if you honestly don't like the idea of having breasts or a vagina or broad shoulders or facial hair or any gendered traits, then that's a whole different story. you can still do certain things to alleviate that dysphoria while making yourself as androgynous looking as possible (and it doesn't make you a special snowflake tumblr whatever.)
So what you're saying is... you wish you were a tomboy.
Because girls don't have to do stereotypical girly things.
>>6917225
>>6917235
I understand that your hobbies whether they be feminine or masculine don't define your gender, but I imagine it would be extremely difficult to pass as a "transgendered tomboy"
>>6917225
and yea its really just a lot of the social repercussions
if i lived on an island by myself with access to hrt I'd be on it
I sexually identify as a Canadian
I accept and applaud your identity. It's a good choice OP. Inb4 Canadianphobic bigots roll this board
>>6917159
we got a hoser over here eh
>>6917159
>photographing a computer screen
Anyway, anyone else get annoyed when dropdowns list male, female and trans?
How do I get rid of the browness around the walls of my butt cheeks close to my asshole?
It's completely shaven and I spent a good 15 min rubbing just using soap, cloth and water but it's still there
bleachin
>>6917080
Turn on you computer
Wait for the OS to load
Open Firefox
Search "how to properly wash your ass before anal"
Commit Sudoku.
That happens with age and/or genetics. You won't be able to scrub it away, and harsh soaps are bad for the soft skin back there. Look into bleaching if it worries you that much.
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Previous thread >>6915961
fg
first for never going to have a bf and dying alone
hehe
birdeo is rly cute
Is it odd that I want to be a bodyguard but for intimate reasons?
I often fantasies In my work of finally getting to bodyguard some rich guy/their partner/bratty teenager and being mutually attracted to one another, finally having a love affair.
I know that would be unprofessional but It must be ok somewhere right? like houseguarding a gay client and its just you and him in his villa...
I keep myself fit if only for the day ill get a client who would want me.
I like being peoples guard dog but sometimes us dogs need affection too, you know? Hell ill be more likely to take a bullet for you if theres a relationship angle lol
Any rich gays here into this idea/have experience in this or is it just me?
>>6916938
I never thought about that holy shit. Thank you anon.
>>6916938
Like the gay bodyguard from The Punisher?
Actually pretty hot DESU. I'd love to have someone who can protect me and love me roughly
Age/gender me? Do I pass?
You look like an androgynous eminem
>>6916826
You look like a manly dyke so if that's what you're going for then congrats.
YOU ALL HAVE MENTAL ILLNESSES
THAT IS ALL
THANK YOU
>>6916491
I have depression and PTSD what do you guys got
>>6916498
Its called faggitus
>>6916491
So what? It's not our fault.
How do I get a deep enema cleaning of my inside /lgbt/?
Yesterday I tried it and I had an endless flow of shit, is there something I can do to prevent this?
I want to do butt things with bf but don't want to give him the good ole shitdick
>>6916470
this is literally what enema does mate, no helping it
>>6916470
Dudes love shit dick, they just shy about it.
>>6916470
You need to hold it longer. Your first enema should get rid of like 95% of the stuff and if you do it a second time it should be nearly clear.
I usually just do it once then a quick little douche to get rid of small traces around the immediate area. It's not good to do multiple enemas since it kills bacteria. Although that's horribly exaggerated. One healthy meal is enough to entirely replenish your whole colon with bacteria.
I've been on the fence about 'mones and surgery because I've been raised and born in an environment with an absolute minimum of synthetic medicine and have never undergone any kind of surgery.
I am viscerally afraid of anything potentially causing physical damage down the line. I don't think I could ever get surgery unless my life depended on it.
Hormones scared me as well because I thought fucking with your hormone balance would fuck up the way you organs work at least partially, but I've read /lgbt/ and /fit/ talking about male hormones hastening aging and age-related diseases.
I think if I could confirm that female hormones would potentially be good for longevity (out least that the positives outweight the negatives) it could make me surmount my fear of taking pills.
>>6916467
Postmenopausal women who take estrogen supplements end up living longer
Estradiol does increase your longevity.
I am not even a tranny but I am on HRT anyway because of its benefits.
>>6916481
How does one obtain hormone treatments without trying to transition?
I'm not against being more feminine but my shrink probably won't agree with me on this unless I try his happy pills first and there's no way I'm taking that shit.
I love all you beautiful queer folks. I know 4chan is all angst and ennui and trolls trolling trolls, but don't ever forget that there are people in your life who care about you, okay? Being queer or trans is tough and it can be scary and confusing, but we're all in this together. We can overcome all the bullshit and be who we are and love each other and our selves, and I think that's awesome even if 4chan culture doesn't let us say that very often. I'm here, and I see you reading this, and you matter. Don't forget that either.
>>6916210
>>6916212
It's okay Anon, thanks for letting me know you're here. I love you too.
I'm a cis girl and there's a kinda tall trans girl here who doesnt pass but is cute and slender. It's painful to be unable to seduce her because I'm not single ;-;