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>>18578095
Yes but not if put on the spot, let it flow. You can't force it out through a methodical formulaic effort of will and expect anything above trash.

Would you be willing to help me with it?

>>18578095
Just write something down, don't worry about whether it is good or bad.
A gift given honestly and from the heart will always be appreciated (unless they're stupid and/or shallow in which case meh).

Become a farmer or ranger, idk. Considering you live in the US I'd say college won't be worth it.

have you ever tried groving vegetables and shit? Its hard and annoying, if land is bad, then they grow shitty as well, there are bugs that eat leafs and then pretty much whole plant is good for nothing... if you havent tried it it will be hard, why dnt you go learn about forest or major in agriculture and stuff? There are always need for people who preserve like forests, national parks and other similar stuff...

>>18578084

I think this sounds rustic and romantic to you as a teenager, and is going to be a much bigger hassle than you realize. A lot of this takes grueling physical work, and requires a ton of knowledge of the area you're going to.

You should strongly reconsider this.

>>18578083
How old are you?

>>18578083
Stop caring so much about it. It doesnt matter. Even if you werent a virgin rn youd probably still be super insecure about something else. Try to conquer your mind and spirit dog. Try meditation, nofap, eating healthy, and going to the gym for 1 month. Becoming more confident and established as yourself is the fastest way to overcome insecurities and get laid. Although that shouldnt the only reason you do all that.

>>18578083
Realize that no one other than you cares. Seriously, life is not fucking high school, and no one gives two shits if you've had sex before or not.

He doesn't want you as much as you want him. Seek other options.

>>18578066

This, you could try to up the ante by asking him out on a date but if he's texting back half the time, you're probably more interested than he is.

He might also be on some garbage PUA shit, though, so like I said. Push your interest, show that you're invested, if you are.

>>18578069
I know for a fact he doesn't check his phone often.
And of course, I'm more interested right now because he wants to take things slow.

I'm interested to see the replies here. I'm 30 and did literally nothing with my 20's. I'm doing things to change that now, but I am really just starting my adult life.

>>18578056
I think the obvious answer is it's never fucking too late to make friends. 30 is still quite young, and luckily you aren't 60+ just trying to make a life for yourself because then it would be incredibly difficult.

It will still be very difficult, it will take time and you will have to feel rejection but start with hobbies/self improvement. Get a job because that's the easiest way to stay socializing, start to feel good about yourself, get good at socializing, make some friends and become confident.
School and career will be a little harder but again not impossible. Believe in yourself and don't tear yourself down because it feels impossibly daunting. There are a lot more people in your situation who have made it, and everyone just wants to be able to. Anyone can do it if they are willing to put in hard fucking work.

I'm 30 as well. I will not necessarily deign to know exactly when any of mile markers for these things are or their expiry dates, nor would I say that something is forever out of reach.

In my experience, all of these things are still available to you, but it becomes more difficult to attain them.

>friends
Everyone is so busy at this point with their marriages, mortgages, children, careers, etc. But you can still meet people around a planned activity like volunteering or spelunking or whatever it is people do in their 30s for entertainment.

>parties
If you mean office parties, family affairs, and veranda tea gatherings, sure. If you mean keggers replete with questionable consent at a fraternity house, dare I say, the ship has sailed.

>careers
Hopefully you've been doing something for the other 15 or so years with education or volunteering or research or working somewhere. BUT it's never too late to get started somewhere doing something. This may be the least forgiving.

>education
It's never too late. I would say other than happiness, as a category education may be the most forgiving.

>recreational activities
Unfortunately, try-outs for the varsity football high school football team have long since vanished and Chad Thundecock took the team to state anyway. But, it's never too late to learn a martial art, or take up archery or marksmanship or horseback riding or swimming or other lifetime activities. Think of them as lifetime activities. You're old, fat, and your joints have gone to shit.

[I'm fairly certain someone will chime in with all the candor and honesty of a small child and chide me for this last comment not realizing I'm attempting to be humorous 'but anon I'm 30, and I'm [insert fad diet here] and [insert fad activity here] and I have NEVER felt better.' Well, good the fuck for you.]

>happiness
Never too late. Easily the most forgiving. Prepare to go on an epic quest of self-discovery, self-love, self-esteem, self-care, etc.

Do it. Worst case you get diagnosed with something and can then become a neet living off gibs

Show them your rare pepes anon

>>18578703
What this poster said. Do this OP. Likely will get diagnosed with a class 4 tism

you did nothing wrong, your girlfriend is seriously overreacting

has she been cheated on in the past or something? because she's being really paranoid

>>18578024

She has been cheated on in the past. Both times when her ex was drunk at a party. So I understand.


It makes me feel really fucking bad that she would think I would cheat on her because her ex cheated on her though because it feels like she's putting me down at his level.


Plus she got cheated on like 3 years ago so its not recent.


MY ex used to be disloyal to me. She never cheated. But you know what? My current gf doesn't get the brunt of it because my EX was disloyal. I respect my girlfriend and I know she's not like my EX.

>>18578032

i understand that you feel bad but you need to understand that it's her problem and not your fault

have a good talk with her that you understand why she is feeling the way she is but you feel like you're not being trusted

if she's still acting crazy then it might be time to reconsider the relationship

>believes in a specific good without realizing anyone that share the same faith won't see god the same way and it's ultimately on the person how they perceive a just god.
>thinks you can describe a being beyond comprehension with a old book
>thinks God is outside of this world rather then apart of it
>Sees themselves separate from God rather then apart of it
>thinks God shares the same morals as he does
>go to church to appease their own ego to assure themselves that God is pleased with them while shunning others that don't do the same
>>>/next/

>shitposts on /adv/
>>>/r/next

>>18578034
>doesn't understand how cringy it is to state outright 'there is no god' knowing full well there's no way anyone can know

>>18577981
I'm sure that's one way. Another way is to just go and apply to that other restaurant, and, if hired, quit your old job.

>>18577981
Call the corporate office and notify HR of the situation. It sounds like your manager is trying to force you to quit instead of making more work for themselves

>>18577981
Just go ahead and call his bluff. Seriously, even if this was real, you think it's worth them spending the money on a lawyer to keep a fry cook from working at a different McDonalds?

>>18577964
Did you not set a price when you wished to sale? If so, honor the price you requested. First person who offered what you asked gets first crack at meeting and paying.

>>18577966
Thanks for the response, you're probably right.

I did set a price on the sale posting, and it seems he's pretty set on buying. Guess I should have put OBO in the price.
I'm interested in $$$ but I also dont wanna be an underhanded douchebag.

>>18577964
Ask the buyer what is he gonna do with the item.

>>18577920
Three ways are something I don't mind fantasizing about, but something I would never be comfortable doing, especially a Devil's Three Way.

If you aren't comfortable with it, don't do it. Totally understandable, dude. Your friend will understand and be cool with it, if the chick isn't, too bad.

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>>18577920
I've had several threesomes with the GF and a few female friends. Each time it was awesome, but being nervous is to be expected. Don't be automatically against it, just go with the flow. A bit of alcohol and maybe a pool to swim in will loosen things up a bit and get you all more comfortable with eachother.

If the vibes feel good and the body language is good, pursue the one that's more DTF and then ask the shy one if she'd like to join you, or let the girls play with eachother and kiss until they get horny and then go in. Make sure they're both on birth control, you have condoms or the cash to pony up for a plan b or two. Pace yourself and have fun pleasing two women at once.

If it just doesn't feel right, don't force it

>>18577930
>>18577949
It's a devil's threesome. I'm nervous about not being up to his level. I have no emotional attachment to the girl, and vice versa. She's pretty cool as a friend.

>>18577903
More childish. You're putting in more effort to play lower quality games.

>>18577903
Who cares? Let people do what makes them happy, so long as you aren't hurting others or their property.

I swear, most people are just looking to reinforce their biases when they come here.

Also, there is no real request for advice here.

>>18577959
Yes, there is. I'm asking if retro games are less childish, because I'm trying to quit playing video games but I still like the idea of playing old-school Nintendo with people who come over.

Trying to quit as well. It doesn't help working with it either.
I found daily exercise helps for sure. It's all about finding a new hobby or distraction. I would love to hear other opinions though, since I struggle with it

>>18577899
Keeping busy is the key. If you're at work, and have a boring job, think of ways to make things more efficient. If you're at home, I recommend literally anything you find interesting: fantasy books, a tough-as-nails video game, a movie or show that you haven't seen but are really interested in.

The key is to never stop DOING. That's how I quit smoking cigarettes, shy of 2 puffs before bed (I stayed up 6 days in a row, even with melatonin and valarian root, before having 2 puffs, and went right to sleep).

>>18577899
I know you're being serious and everyone is different, but come on man. Cannabis is the most tame drug there is, these "withdrawals" are childs play. I hope you never get hooked onto painkillers, you would kill yourself if you went through those withdrawals.

>>18577893
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+kill+yourself

On /adv/? Not likely.

Be aware you can get completely fucked for this.

>>18577893

Obligatory but probably ignored un-asked advice:

This is a gigantic red flag.
Your relationship has MAJOR issues.
This is unhealthy and it is probably better for the best for everyone involved that you call it quits now, because whether you are proven right or wrong, you will lose. Save yourselves some personal sanity.

>>18577855
She's arching her back so hard

>>18577855
The easiest way is to engage in an activity you enjoy in a social setting. That's literally the idea behind bars. Try going to an arcade, maybe?

If you like tabletop/card gaming as well then try a comic/game shop.

>>18577855
Tinder. Jesus.