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Are traps gay?
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if you need to ask...
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>>18580001
Traps may not be gay, but if you attracted to them you may be
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>>18580001
does it matter? you either like them or you don't. them being gay wont make you suddenly not like them.
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Help me out senpai
>send girl messages
>responds 2 hours later
>respond within 10 seconds (I fucking did these just to test it)
>doesn't open or respond for 2 hours
Am I being fucking meme'd. She says hey every single time and I message back and then hours and hours later, sometimes more than 2, she fucking messages me again with hey
What the fuck kind of games is this
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>>18579971
She is probably just being polite. Go out and find a drunk skank to fuck opie
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>>18580209
She said she liked me and wants to go on a date, so I'm just fucking confused.
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>>18580241
Some people are just busy.
I've been with a couple girls from tinder and one worked 10am-11pm at subway, she'd reply on her lunchbreaks and usually quite short.
I assumed she wasn't interested but persisted whenever I didn't respond or follow up.
If she doesn't want a date try someone else.
Important thing is to just not let it bother you. Do what you can, don't double message outside of rare situations.
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Intense emotions from online relationship 2017-08-01 10:09:01 Post No.18579966
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Intense emotions from online relationship
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Im 21 and feel that my online boyfriend of 3 years is the best thing in my life right now and it's a problem.
I care way too much about what he thinks and take everything he says to heart.
I think I might be borderline because when he compliments me I feel overly excited but if I'm jealous I feel intense agony to the point of suicide.
Im trying to get a job. I can't commit to any hobbies as it makes me anxious. I need to stop this behaviour because he's probably a liar because relationships are a meme.
I have a hard time ignoring him and that's my goal. How do I care less?
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First of all you're taking this relationship business too seriously it's relationship online, your feelings as they are based upon someone you haven't even met IRL. I feel you should take a step back and focus on real life pursuits. Also go see a psychologist.
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I've become delusional. That's all I know. I've suggested being casual for his sake but he insists that were serious etc. Even though we don't talk everyday which is why I'm always feeling on the edge.
The question is how do I take a step back? I lost most aspirations I had and just want to settle down.
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Try to maintain the online relationship clearly its working you don't want to jeopardize that.
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Help me learn Algebra, anons.
I don't get it at all.
What helped you guys? I missed out on a lot of pre-algebra and algebra I things because of how much I moved during middle school. then I failed all of algebra throughout HS. I don't know what to do. I try to read the textbook but I either get distracted or frustrated out of my mind. I don't understand whatever the fuck I'm reading.
Khan Academy doesn't help, either. Sometimes it feels like the guy just hops to another operation for seemingly no reason at all. It's an issue with algebra as a whole.
I legitimately don't need any of this shit. It's never going to help me in life. I understand basic functions and that can be pretty helpful, but parabolas and complex shit like that? They're totally useless. I don't get it. I can't get it. And yet I'm forced to learn this bs to actually get somewhere in life. It's terrible, but I've accepted that I just have to learn it. How, though? How can such a fucking idiot like me get through the hell that is algebra? How in the fuck am I ever going to make it through precalc?
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>>18579895
Do you have any halfway decent teachers? Ask for the curriculum and then ask them what you should be able to do before starting the curriculum.
Work you way up from the bottom. You don't need to understand why or how something works jsut that it does.
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literally in the same boat and im starting my first semester of college in18 days from now...
try this https://openstax.org/subjects/math , they seem good but iv only reviewed 140 page of the prealgebra stuff, have no idea what im gonna do, im genuinely bad at math, rip.
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>>18579909
I have "teachers" but they are completely useless, in all honesty. I do online school and they're only there to call and ask you questions as a prerequisite to the unit tests.
They aren't on-call and even so, a phone explanation just does nothing for me. It doesn't help. People get frustrated when they try to explain algebra to me because I get lost on nearly every step.
>>18579914
I'll try to look at that, thanks. 140 pages is a lot of math, good job.
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Am I autistic sexually 2017-08-01 09:31:07 Post No.18579860
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I suck at greentexts but here goes nothing
>19 y o female
>Virgin
>Only get horny when bladder is half full but just grind for a few secs
>Notice I can get really wet/breathy if a cute guy in public is in my personal space but I don't do anything about it
>Porn does nothing for me
>never stuck a finger in
>Hard time even fantasizing because I can't trust anyone
Am I asexual? I don't see the point in masturbation, I just fantasize. What is going to happen when I lose my virginity?
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Only way to know is to try.
Go in public, get all flustered by having a cute guy in your space, then go right home and finger yourself
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>>18579860
Some girls like clit stimulation (masturbation) more than they like sex.
It just feels that good.
You won't get the hype until you cum.
Get yourself a vibrator and have fun.
Even if you don't have the urge you might as well try it just to understand it
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>>18579860
get a guy off tinder to eat you out but then don't let him fuck you, gets me off every time seeing them so frustrated, I always make them stop right before I cum and then literally have explosive orgasms at the dudes face when I tell him to fuck off
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Someone please tell me exactly what to do to fix my green pool. It's 15' diameter 48 inches deep, 5000 gallons. About 3 weeks ago I woke up and it was blue-green (not extreme green) I triple shocked it (added enough shock to treat 15,000 gallons), let it sit for a while. After a while it not opaque or cloudy but blue but with all this shit on the bottom/sides
That part is easy, the hard part is getting this shit out of my pool. It's a shitty intex pool so I can't attatch a vaccuum to it. I have this expensive robotic vaccum that was donated to me but it gets some stuff but kicks a lot of shit up and just makes it cloudy again! Ive scrubbed every square inch of it before bed let the pump run over night and cleaned the filter but most of the shit passes right through. Someone help!!!!!
ph and alkality are on point btw
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>>18579855
Kek, it's like rio Olympics all over again
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ask on /diy/ and be patient we're slow as balls over there
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Do you have to be rich in the US to have your own pool? Or isit just middle class and you can get a house with a pool?
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what to do when therapy doesnt work?
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what sort of therapy was it?
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>>18579856
psychotherapy
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>>18579873
but what for? need moar info. otherwise answer is just "try something else".
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Sup anons. Recently a good friend of mine got himself blackmailed pursuing a too-good-to-be-true offer of sex from a supposed seventeen year old, almost eighteen year old girl in your local area. More than likely some fucking 30 year old moralfag hacker thinking he's doing the world a favor by blackmailing desperate, thirsty anons on Kik. *She* is giving him until Friday to cough up his savings + paycheck for a grand total of $300 or else she's going to expose his nudes. It became apparent she wasn't fucking around when she pulled up his Facebook account, now deleted, with no ties to his Kik (different names). He thinks she might be a hacker also, and he could very well be right.
No, he didn't take any precautions.Yes, he's a dumbass, but no doubt you know lovable dumbasses, too. And no, his face isn't attached to the nudes, only his room and clothes. Already he's paid the blackmailer a $25 gift card to buy him time til friday (took a picture of the card info & sent).
Is he safe? Thoughts on how to get back at the hacker/blackmailer/moralfag/catfish? What do, /adv/?
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Go to the police? Depending on your state, blackmail is more serious than fucking a 17 year old.
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>>18579799
Pretty much this. And there was no fucking.
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>>18579789
Christ, get that guy some pussy, what kind of friend are you, poor guy, sending nudes on kik, that's just sad.
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I asked a girl out and she said yes. How do I act in a way that shows my feelings to her; how do I prevent it from being merely a friendly outing. We've known each other for a few weeks and have gone drinking and hung out a few times but always mostly as friends though I tried to kiss her while drunk (she turned away but I don't think she cared). Anyway how do I act so that I'm not just a friend and/or I want to show that I want to be more than friends?
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>>18579762
High five her a lot and use cutting tone of voice
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>>18579762
Flirt. Complement what she's wearing at the beginning of the date, tease her gently during the date, make a point by being tactile (hand on her lower back, touch her shoulder, hands, where ever appropriate and non-intrusive), etc. Treat her like someone you want to bang, even if you don't intend to on the first date, and not like someone you want to befriend.
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women really hate going out on dates one on one. if you want to really impress her, bring along more people. make it appear that you are popular. women are attracted to popularity.
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Been with the same woman for 8 years, married for 6. Have 1 kid together, 6 years old. Me: engineer, pays all the bills. Her: sits on the couch, does nothing. Sex: maybe 2 times a month, when I initiate, its boring. We only talk about things when absolutely necessary, mainly to coordinate taking care of our kid's needs.
She lies all the time about stupid things, e.g., "I paid the doctor bill with your HSA money (bill was never paid).
I've never cheated and I have no proof she has either.
She seems completely checked out of the relationship. and is not responsive to me telling her how shit things are.
What do?
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Did you marry her because of the kid or did you love her? If you did love her and your relationship was good, then if you're both willing to work for it, it can work again. Sit her down and tell her how you feel, and let her tell her side and listen to it. Say that you want to work on your relationship and fix what you can. Go on dates, try to find that feeling of being in love again. Do things you did in the beginning of your relationship. If you want to stay together for your kid, then do all of that too and try to make it tolerable again. However, if you never loved her and married her out of conveniece, then look hard at your relationship and whether it's worth it. If your relationship is shit, it could cause more problems down the life for both of you and your child.
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It is not healthy for a kid to grow up in a household where the parents do not love each other.
It seems like your relationship crumbling apart and you have to force her to talk about it.
If she refuses to try and fix things you need to divorce asap before she sucks away more of your money and mental health, you better hope you signed a prenup.
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>>18579761
>Did you marry her because of the kid or did you love her?
We had been together two years, loved each-other. The kid wasn't planned and the marriage was mostly her parents idea. I went along with it because, like I said, I love her and it was the right choice in that situation.
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Girl rejected me 7 years ago and I still am not over her. Story was pretty typical:
>we were good friends
>she seemed to like me/always flirted with me
>apparently had no interest in me
>dates Chads exclusively
I literally don't know what to do; I have had some success in my professional life since then, but I have a hard time trusting women in a romantic setting. What should I do?
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>7 years ago
You have to realize that you're not the same that you were seven years ago (for better or worse) and most of all that she's not the same that she was 7 years ago. You're obsessed with some past ideal image of her you've created in your mind and no real woman can compete with that, which will only ever hurt you.
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>>18579736
how did she reject you? did she laugh at you or had a serious talk?
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Shit OP that's pretty scary. I'm worried I might end up going down the same route.
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I don't know what to do about my best friend. She keeps getting rejected, fucked and dumped or just plain ignored by guys she's interested in. Then I have to handle the anxious, self-loathing fall out from it. She's a nice, friendly girl, but she's also fat and in all honesty I think that's the main problem why she can't keep a guy or get a decent guy interested in her. At the same time, she's my best friend with awful self-esteem issues and I don't want to contribute to her issues by telling her to lose some weight.
Should I be honest with her or should I just keep doing the whole "you'll find someone" speech? I don't know what's the right thing to do here and what's not.
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Yeah, it's the fat.
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>>18579706
I would bring it up later when she isn't as distraught.
Best way is to offer to do stuff with her, like being her gym buddy
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Got to be honest.
>24 M
>all my friends have hook ups, one night stands, etc. frequently
>I never do so as I'm scared of catching an STD
I've passed up on a lot of chances to have sex with random girls. How do I have safe sex without being in a committed relationship with a woman whom I know is clean? Am I weird for seemingly being the only person in my clique who's afraid of getting an STD?
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>>18579688
Jesus, this is bad bait
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>>18579693
I'm not trying to b8 at all.
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>>18579688
proceed to beat your meat with ur hand n fuk off
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I rejected a guy that I like and I want him to come back 2017-08-01 07:51:01 Post No.18579646
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I rejected a guy that I like and I want him to come back
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A while ago I had a guy confess to me his feelings towards me and told me he wanted us to be together and live our lives together. I automatically said "no" despite me waiting forever for that day when a guy would confess to me, specially since he's quite the looker. And ever since that day he never spoke to me again. :(
And I pretended like I didn't care even though I'm getting myself crushed inside.
I told my girl friends and they said that it's good that I rejected him and that he would respect me more like this, and he'll get back to me eventually and that I should never say a word to him until then if I really want him.
Is it true that a girl has to hide her feelings towards the guy she loves so he could respect her?
Help me, what should I do?
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b8
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>>18579646
if you said hes good looking and that he asked so suddenly, he definitely doesn't have patience for you and realizes he doesnt need you
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wtf does your friends have chicken brain? sounds like those bithces are dumb as fuck. no dude is like a fortune teller or whatever, If ou rejected him and he is not a dumb fuck he will move on. Did those bitches still watch twilight??? its not like he will read your mind, you have to tell him how you feel about him... btw how much time has passed since you rejected him?
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Ok Anons, here's the deal. Went on a date with a girl. Everything went smooth, I know that she likes me an is into me (I can read signs). After 2-3 weeks of trying to meet up I finally was able to set a meeting. Hour before meeting she texted me that she can't make it to the meeting. I read it just before I was leaving my house. Tried to call her 4 times but she didn't pick up the phone. What should I do /adv/? Try to make another meeting? Sage her and don't text her anymore? Or should I set the meeting and don't show up? I'm really fucking angry rn.
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what exactly did she wrote?
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>>18579624
Did she set up an alternative time to meet?
Was there an explanation?
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>>18579624
>After 2-3 weeks of trying to meet up
She is not into you that way. You had a hard time setting up the date and she cancelled.
It sucks to hear, but sometimes it happens. Let it go.