How do I stop obsessing and depressed about being a virgin? I

>>18578083
How old are you?

>>18578083
Stop caring so much about it. It doesnt matter. Even if you werent a virgin rn youd probably still be super insecure about something else. Try to conquer your mind and spirit dog. Try meditation, nofap, eating healthy, and going to the gym for 1 month. Becoming more confident and established as yourself is the fastest way to overcome insecurities and get laid. Although that shouldnt the only reason you do all that.

>>18578083
Realize that no one other than you cares. Seriously, life is not fucking high school, and no one gives two shits if you've had sex before or not.

>>18578110
I am 20.

>>18578118
I tried meditation, I am eating healthy already, and I've been going to gym since 17, with occasional breaks. But, I think, you might be right about having insecurity. I just don't know how to fix it. I don't think low self-esteem is something that can be fixed. I still consider therapy, though.

im 23 and kind of virgin. haven't had any contacts with girls since i was 17 and at this point I will probably see an escort. I just want my dick sucked. and fucked. hard.

if you think sex itself is such a big deal why not just go see an escort and get it over with?

>>18578352

heck see several escorts. go rampage. that's what im thinking to do anyway.

>>18578358
Lost my virginity to an escort last month. If I could afford it I'd be calling her every weekend. She was that good. Totally worth it in my opinion. Fuck these faggots who will shit talk you. Life's not always so black-and-white. Sometimes you need to make decisions that people won't agree with. That's the beauty of being an adult.

>>18578377

i dont understand the shit talk because to me its the same if I go fuck an escort or some random girl.

My intentions would be the same. sex.

>>18578561
Quit trying to rationalize that shit. You will never grow that way. Man up. Escorts are nasty why not just say prostitute if you have no problem with it?

>>18578795
t.virgin

>>18578795
You obviously live in a fantasy world of Disney movies.

>>18578811
>>18578806
>t. beta males

>>18578819
I'l sure your pure virgin waifu will appear in your basement any day now.

>>18578795

sure prostitutes. put whatever name you want on it, doesnt matter. I dont know what shit country you live in the but the escorts here seem pretty nice.

The most beautiful girl that I wanted to be with and have dreamt of so many times has probably sucked equal amounts of dick to many escorts available in my country. Think i give shit if they are nasty, i am nasty myself.

And truth is, its not like I dont have problems with it. But I also have huge problems with going to see girls with the intent of only fucking them. Now you might say I might meet a potential partner during my search for pussy but I am nowhere near ready for a relationship atm, so thatll just fuck it up.

I'm not virgin, butcompared to my friends I'm like nun... I would go for that virgin dude, its even better because i wouldnt have to worry in which nasty sluts his d was... jus sayin not all girls want those expierenced d...

>>18578795

my bad for assuming your country is shit btw.

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>>18579587
*tips fedora*

>>18579690
I dont know, I have big boobs, so get attention, but because I am kind of afraid of good looking guys, I communicate with nerds more... or not very attractive guys. I could fuck 3 virgins, but when it came to going to kissing stage I backed out. 1 one because he was overly confident showing off his knowledge (won some legit competitions, future of lawyers, but dickead mindset), 2nd - because he was a show off too, we had fun together drinking coffee talking shit about stuff, but he hated people and had grudges against them and always acted as a dickhead with staff in coffee shop or restaurant (and considerably ugly, though IT specialist with promising future); 3rd - because he was "classmate" in university, if I banged him everyone would know and he was so fake when drunk, like normally all cheerful and caring, but when drunk macho mode goes on... I was wtf all the time... so I didnt suceed with anyone :( *just so you know I'm good at studying, so when I see people that show off their knowledge I get turned off and most girls also (those who not sluts)

Dont pretend to be not who you are
first ask safe quesions and give safe info, later you can be honest
use a pussy magnet perfume (it gets pussy wet even if guy ugly) ask sister or whatever you can that is around your age
have teeth brushed
simple haircut would be nice, doesnt need to be trendy
use good deodorant - very important
simple clothing

for talking to girls: frequently ask for help or to explain something - safest method
i need more details to tell more and it is basically for what I would fuck

>>18578083
>How do I stop obsessing and depressed about being a virgin

These feelings are like drug withdrawal. Just ignore them. The brains bells and whistles, neurotransmitters, are playing tricks on you. Animals cannot control these impulses, but humans can, and so they cause mental torment. Clearly, we evolved to be tormented by lack of sex, because, obviously, reproduction is important, from an evolutionary perspective.

I always wanted to do dirty things to asian nerds, or just generally asian guy. There was an anime with that plot where agressive girl tries to hook up with nerd, so seeing him getting excited and worked up... I thought I would want to do the same if there ever was possibility in real life