>work with a qt
>close one night together
>we're having fun
>suddenly she says I remind her of her brother
>we keep joking around and having fun
How fucked am I?
there's no hope, just give up now.
>>18580974
At least there is another girl I run into in the hall all the time that works in a different department that is cute. But still this girl was perfect, am I really fucked? She said personality wise I reminded her of her brother
My fiance would probably fuck her older brother if she could .
Hey /adv/ I really need some input on my situation, I'm 26 m and have been in an amazing relationship for 5 years, but the person I'm with was my first sexually, and every now and again I think about fucking another woman. I almost feel like I'm missing out, but I love my gf and she's great. Am I missing out /adv/? Plz help
yeah, kill yourself you dumb fuck
or go cheat and then after a week come back and tell us if you can think of any bigger mistake to make in your life, i'll be genuinely interested
>>18580962
in the same boat m8, its terrible. we both need to think about the future and if well resent them for it. i wont cheat on her but im worried about future me at 35 with 2 kids and a house getting restless
Why do you worry that you're missing out? Do you think there's better sex to be had? Is your current sex life lackluster in any way, even during brief moments?
Hi guys. So i have this problem with my girlfriend where she cant manage to get me to have an orgasm, she tried hj and bj but to no effect. Also whenever we want to have sex there is this problem that my dick wont go all the way in or she somehow pushes it out
Wat do?
>inb4 the kys meme
You must be 18 to post on this website.
Reported.
>>18580937
she isn't wet. You need to get her going. Also not everyone is good at bjs and handjobs are useless
>>18580941
Bruh
Gf just broke up with me how do i not be sad/mad and what do i do next where do i go from here
>>18580932
You need to give yourself time to grieve the relationship. Even though it was probably for the better, you experienced a loss, and you need to let yourself process that. Yes, bad feelings suck, but they have to be dealt with so that they don't poison your next relationship.
distract yourself with other activities that you like, spend time with friends.
Delete her contacts/phone number, there is nothing worse than a whiney ex.
>>18580935
thanks anon i dont get why though she was fine one min and the next thing i know "i dont love you the way you love me but i want us to be friends"
I'm 17, and I recently realized I was gay.My family is incredibly homophobic, but the community around here is incredibly accepting.
I feel like I should just come out for the sake of it, to maybe open the doors to having a relationship, but I'm also terrified of what my family would do.
I don't have a lot of money, and there's basically no way I could move out without being massively in debt.
>>18580928
Wait until you have the means to leave or a friend to move in with before breaking the news in case they boot you out. That's really all you can do, hope they see it as the way you were born and not a conscious decision you've made.
>>18580928
>I'm 17
Mind telling the moderation team your birthday? You don't want to get banned for a year now do you?
I'm not a rulefag, but might as well say it before someone comes by
>>18580928
stop, why would u do that are u retarded?
>attempt to carry out rape fantasy
>turns out my girlfriend was actually raped at some point
>RIP my relationship
Im past sadness, i just can't believe my fucking luck. Well, sucks to be me. How are you guys doing?
you are supposed to tie her up so she cannot leave or utter words to break up with you.
The fact that you couldn't communicate to the point where you didn't even think to ask her if it was okay with her means that your relationship was inevitably doomed to begin with.
>>18580929
its not rape if it is agreed upon.
rape fantasy implies penetrating a girl with force WITHOUT consent...
How do you make the longing to fit in and be normal go away when you are an incurable autistic sperg freak?
Time.
Time heals all wounds.
>>18580894
I'm 23 and it feels like it's just getting worse.
Every time it hits me everyone else is "there" already and that I'm never going to just naturally "grow up" and start liking normie adult things I feel worse.
>>18580901
Well if it makes you feel any better, I'm 25, single, pretty socially retarded and generally not attractive, and I know exactly what you mean about wanting to fit in and be normal.
I don't have an answer your looking for but I am confident that time heals, because when I was 23 I cared MUCH more than I do now. I still care, but eventually you just come to terms with things and realize if you really wanted to change things you would, so instead I've just accepted things are the way they are because I want them to be, and unless I don't, I just have to make some changes.
I've made a few big changes that I have stuck too which has been nice, so really its just slow and steady. You're not gonna become the person you want to be over night.
I'm 18
Still a loser
Need to find job
Can't
Afraid of the outside
Palms are sweaty when I'm out
Wanted to be a fire man
Takes to long
I want job now
Decides fast food is good
Can't
I hate people
What am I to do?
>>18580795
Money can be exchanged for goods and services.
What goods can you produce/what services can you provide?
>>18580795
Grow up. Your options are work, try for tardbux, or starve. There is no getting around this.
>>18580804
Skill's
Plots> story's
Crafts> wood work
Planning> budgets and inventory usage
im not into it at all but my mom has said some real weird shit over the years
Fug her
>My mom has said some real weird shit over the years
What do you mean by this
>>18580770
super strange shit like "I love you" and "You're handsome" and "You look nice today!" really weird shit man.
>>18580789
Has she always talked like this? In what situations does she say it? Those examples seem like a stretch and can be taken as her just being a mom
Do I have ptsd? I'm 21 right now
2014 I moved to a shitty neighborhood with my mom and brother for a year and I was going to highschool to redue some courses and for grade 12 also fell for the antidepressant Jew around that time. I was a city away from my friends I also smoked alot and I was 17 at the time. One day I was having depersonalization and needed to smoke but couldn't buy cigarettes. I was stupid and got one off some guy, long story short it was laced with something and I started to panic going back home. My mom was on the phone and I cried to her asking if she could take me to the hospital. She screamed at me for bothering her while she was on the phone but the person on the phone heard me and asked what I was talking about so my mom gave in and walked me to the hospital. She lied and told me it was closed, I couldn't think clearly so I didn't realize at the time she was lying. After this I have been on and off jobs and scared of people. Talking or thinking about this sometimes give me panic attacks, I rarely talk and spend everyday shut in my house only ever leaving to smoke. Ive been to a psychiatrist and therapist that diagnosed me with anxiety and depression but I never told them about this
>>18580716
Pic unrelated
>>18580716
>the antidepressant Jew
Sounds like a new superhero
I don't think getting a smoke from a stranger or your mom lying to you qualifies as PTSD if that's what you're implying, sorry
I have degenerative myopia and I need some advice. I have had it since I was young but as I grew up I've become more conscious about it. I am forced to wear these awful glasses that are almost an inch thick. I went to my get a checkup last year and unsurprisingly I had to get even thicker glasses. Its time for a new checkup and I am worried I'll just get thicker glasses. I asked about surgery and they told me there was little I could do and if there was something I could do, it'd barely help me. I can't get surgery anyways since I am poor as fuck with no insurance. I fucking hate it because all through out school I've gotten weird looks and its so awful just meeting people for the first time and their reaction being "oh wow you're glasses are so thick". I hate it so fucking much, I've just become an outcast because I just don't look normal. I don't know what to do with myself, what can I do?
>>18580709
excuse me if this is obvious but have you tried using contact lenses?
>>18580724
yeah but the prescription is too high for contact lenses alone. I tried getting them when I was younger but I have fear of putting anything near me eyes. I haven't asked about it but I think I could wear them with glasses but that probably won't work. How could I get over getting things close to my eyes? I can't keep them open if I have anything near them no matter how much I try.
>>18580709
I have been at least 6 inch shorter than everybody else since 6th grade, so don't feel bad. You are not the only one. Here is a good meme to cheer you up.
So I was/still am crazy in love with my first and only love of my life. We met 5 years ago and all went very good so i proposed to marry her.
Fast forward 3 years in the relationship (2 years ago) I found she had changed. While we were out on a lovely trip I caught her flirting on chat with another man, she broke in tears and said it ment nothing... A few weeks later she suddenly wants to go on a vacation. Of course I could not tolerate this behaviour, so even though i love(d) her sooooooooo much I had to tell her that she has to choose between me or that bullshit. Told her if she goes through with the vacation I would not be able to see her the same again ever.
She chose to fcking go on the vacation anyway. I was heartbroke. I did not understand why she chose that while i gave her all my love, took her to 5 vacations to explore the world together and bond, and even proposed and we talked about how to raise the kids etc... she chose the fcking vacation...
I've been heartbroken for the last 2 years and checking her social media from time to time. She seemed to be heartbroken also and focussing on work the last 2 years. Just now I found a picture on social media from her being with some random fcking refugee.
I am so furious I do not know what to do. It is 4 am and i cant stop thinking how the girl I gave everything, chooses a fcking vacation over me and now this pic with this other dude. I am ready to go and kill him. I am a trained fighter so I am somewhat afraid I might actually kill the dude in my rage.
Pic related left girl is said girl, and left guy is the fckn other man
It's been two years.
I know you two were through a lot, but it's been a long time. There's a solid chance that she's trying to move on, move past what you two had. Wallowing in that past won't change the fact that it's over. I'm going to go out on a limb and say maybe try starting to move on too. It doesn't have to be overnight, but make a change for yourself that starts the process of finding the next person who makes you feel happy.
>>18580701
She's beautiful, bro, but:
1) She chose a random vacation over you
2) She is race-mixing with one of the "religion of peace"
She's not the woman you need, OP. She's degenerate, not a homemaker. Find a more wholesome woman focused on family. Let her go...
>>18580701
Can I hit it after you kill her man?
I have about $3,000 and I'm about to get a commission check for $10,000 what should I do with the money before my next one?
>inb4 save it.
I want to save most of it just not sure how much to allocate to get better work clothes etc.
>>18580663
instead of trying to some big purchase, why don't you satiate your self with a whole bunch of little things.
tired of how you can't sleep in cuz the light in your room? buy some nice curtains. not a fan of your bed? buy a memory foam topper. wan't an a/c in your room? buy that. invest in a video game system, new or old, and a few games. new rug?
go to etsy and type in some of your favorite things (for instance, I went and typed in 'majoras mask') and see what pops up. i found some great paintings and ended up buying out the guys entire shop, his original works are even better than his majoras.
F>>18580696
Thank you for your reply
replace all worn socks and underwear, that is what I did with my first big paycheck, felt amazing
I just turned 18 and where I live it's legal for me to smoke, so should I start smoking I know it's addicting but I smoked before (4 years ago) and I didn't really get addicted to it.
Just vape, Its healthier, and can be a lot less expensive if you make your own liquid.
>>18580606
Do you actually have any reasons for wanting to smoke?
>>18580606
I smoked the first time when I was 17
Second when I was 19
Next three packs age 21
Last fifteen packs age 22
Don't do it brother, it takes a while for you to get hooked but it's fucking difficult to kick. Anyone here will tell you that.
How do I turn this into me getting laid?
Get her phone # and address?
>tfw you will never ever pick up women this easily
looks like you already got it in the bag, just netflix and chill or some shit
How desperate are you?