Female friend told me that I look like Adam Driver /Kylo Ren from Star Wars/, how fucked up I am?
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>>16601081
>Female friend told meI look like pretty fuccboi
How is this bad?
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>>16601097
He's considered to be ugly af though. I think he is, atleast he's not handsome anyway.
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>>16601097
>pretty
what? he's some droopy faced lookin moron. i still don't know why they picked him of all people.
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18 year old senior here. If I don't go to prom, will that make me a total fucking loser? I've never gone to a dance or party, had a gf, or even held a girl's hand. I only tried asking a girl out once and it was a couple months ago. I'm not fat or a loser with no friends, I just don't like that new-age bull shit music and these stupid vine memes or whatever.
In essence, am I fucked or not? I do want to have a gf, just without all this normie bs. My prom is in about 5 months and I don't really talk to any girls, only when they talk to me.
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are you seriously asking if paying $50 to go to a dance that is pretty much pointless is going to wreck your social life or your future in general?
protip, high school doesn't matter and eventually you're going to grow up and realize it's all bullshit and life really starts after high school.
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I'm a girl and my friends and I all went together, without a guy. It was great.
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>>16600986
I suppose so, people are cruel for stupid reasons.
I already realize that high school is bs, I just want it to at least lead to something in the end.
>>16600994
So, should I go alone or...? If nobody cares that I didn't go, I'd really rather not attend. I hate most of the people at my school.
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A close friend of mine was sexually abused at age twelve by someone who has gone on to live a relatively normal life and be financially successful in a way both of us could only dream of. She made me promise not to ever tell anyone because she doesn't want to ruin his life or her own. It's been seven years now, and I'm trying to convince her that this has to be dealt with because he could've hurt more people during this time and could hurt even more in the future. She doesn't see it that way, though. Am I wrong to try to convince her? Is this none of my business?
For reference, she has proof. Decade-old IM logs, for one thing. And I don't mean "copy-paste," I mean in the actual program. I haven't asked if she has photographic evidence because I feel like doing so would be overstepping my boundaries.
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Find him. And beat the shit out of him. Then post pics of the aftermath
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>>16600806
>she doesn't want to ruin his life or her own
leave it alone OP she gets to make the decision not you
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>>16600819
I'm not going to jail over this.
>>16600831
I know, that's the issue. She should get to make the decision. I want to honor her agency, but at the same time, I'm worried he's hurt more children in the time since.
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I posted this before but had no replies.
Hey advice, I'm sorta stumped.
So I have this guy, we'll call him A. He is my boyfriends (whom will be named R) best friend, and I've fallen in love with him. Already a messed up situation, but its about to get worse, so bear with me.
(We are all guys)
>R has been on house arrest for over a year and a half now and he has been temperamental and he is a massive horn dog. It was a minor annoyance up until A came into the picture.
>A is special to me, because the first time I met him I wanted to ask him out, and i dont develop crushes easily let alone fall in love. He is such a sweetheart, but he has his flaws too. He's overly blunt. The first thing he said to me was that I had terrible posture.
>Anyways I told R I had a crush on A, and R winded up blowing him (R and I are gay, A is bi) without me knowing, then we later had an awkward three way with A. I was crushed cuz I never thought A would be interested in me, let alone after the threeway but we started talking for hours alone every night, from 8 pm to 3am whether it would be on Rs backporch or over the phone. We a had a brief love affair but he ended it because it turns out he had a girlfriend. For weeks I've been devastated, crying almost everyday, until yesterday when he came back.
>I don't want to get rid of A, so here is my problem: now that he is back I don't know how to talk to him. It was a problem before but now it feels more crucial.
> Also I talk a bit too much and I know I can get annoying, and I'm afraid to talk to him because I'm afraid he will get annoyed with me and leave.
How can I feel comfortable with A?
How could I get rid of the awkwardness of how we met?
How do I talk to him?
I love him and he loves me back, I just need to get over this, and I need help.
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>>16600667
>boyfriends
>we are all guys
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Op here
I don't lgbt cuz all they will tell me is faggot crap
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Gonna suicide. I realize this is an inopportune time of yer, but I don't want the feeling to go away. Should I do it on Chrismas Eve, or after/on Christmas day? Wait til New Year's? Just feel a bit bad for my senpai t-b-h.
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>>16600586
So basically you want to off yourself during Christmas/New Years to ruin these days for your family and possibly friends forever? Talk about being egocentric attention whore
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This is actually the time of year with the highest suicide rate. Meaning that it could be the unusual season affecting you and you SHOULD just let the feeling pass.
See if you feel the same in a month, and then consider it seriously if so.
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>>16600586
Why? If you know the feeling is going to go away, then surely living without it is better than killing yourself, is it not?
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girlfriend's past troubling me :( 2015-12-24 19:51:56 Post No.16600321
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girlfriend's past troubling me :(
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okay /adv/, i'm feeling rather troubled - surely not the only one to feel something like this.
important backstory: girlfriend used to date this abusive insane guy who was best friends with a big coke dealer and his girlfriend. she tells me she was isolated and taken away from all her friends in this very bad relationship.
there was a point in time my girlfriend was doing cocaine 3 times a week, it was just given to her.
my girlfriend and i have had a beautiful relationship the past 5 months..
i've known about this for a while and everything else, but now i feel like it's making me feel off. she was a very sad and depressed person at the time of using and said she wanted to feel anything but her pain.
she says i make her want to be better, she has stopped all use of that junk and became a WAY healthier person since with me.
why does her past drug use / problems make me feel weird? i'm not jealous of it, but the fact that she once actually lived this way makes me hurt, it makes me sad. i partly feel like she changed when she met me just because of me?
we say only now matters and the past is the past.
but it's hard for me to think of her doing all of the bad choices she's told me about - though i know she was troubled and in a bad position....it still makes me upset!
what's going on guys?
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Without fail, whenever someone has a crazy gf/bf, they are also crazy or broken in some crucial way that makes them unappealing to and repulsed by normative partners.
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>>16600321
you're a betacuck
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if it matters:
-this period of time was less than 8 months
-when i brought this up yesterday she said she doesn't even want to do cocaine anymore
-she gets upset thinking i'll never get over this and that dwelling on it will ruin us both
how do i get over/accept this?
i'm down with lsd/mushrooms/mdma/general psychedelics, with intent of improving myself..not cocaine which helps nothing..
we do psys but the fact that she stooped to the bad side of drugs make me sad, maybe worries me, makes me feel like she's gone so deep at one period of time...
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Do girls think that a guy being a virgin is romanitic, thus in a attractive way
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The only thing attractive about a Virgin is that its basically a 95% confirmation that he wont have an STD or STI
He could however have already picked up oral herpes via kissing, or worse if he has performed Oral on somebody.
Giving or getting Oral does not mean you lose your virginity.
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>>16600195
Literally only this. Outside of super religious girls that are saving themselves till marriage and want a partner who is the same, it's more of a turnoff. They'll assume you don't really know what you're doing and it's a shitty experience for everyone.
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>>16600195
>He could however have already picked up oral herpes via kissing
Nigger are you fucking stupid.
Genital herpes isn't the same strand of virus as cold sores.
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Is being into bestiality a dealbreaker in a partner?
If you found out I'd been with a dog in the past, would that be a dealbreaker?
If you found out I'd been with a dog while we were dating, would you consider it cheating in addition to any other distaste for me?
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>>16599890
you better hide it well cause it's a dealbreaker especially if you are still seeing the dog
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>>16599890
>If you found out I'd been with a dog in the past, would that be a dealbreaker?
>If you found out I'd been with a dog while we were dating, would you consider it cheating in addition to any other distaste for me?
In other words do normal people not like people who have fucked an animal in the past or is fucking an animal now of course nobody who is normal would like that
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Yup, that's pretty fucked.
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Taking up a new faith 2015-12-24 16:58:56 Post No.16599878
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Anyone here change their religion?
I was raised Southern Baptist, but I simply do not believe in the core aspects of the faith. I do believe in God, but I don't believe Jesus was the son of man.
I think my own personal beliefs closely align with Quakerism, but I do not know any Quakers. I live in a very small town, with no other Quakers (I have tried to find them). I would like to learn more about the religion, but somehow I feel like a tourist; like a pretender. When I do find a church group, how do I not feel like an outsider?
Any thoughts?
Experiences?
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>I'm not a Christian
>I think I'm a Quaker
Quakers are Christian. Quakerism isn't for you.
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>>16599878
Stop being a child. The quakers are a dead religion. You want to join them though you have no idea how the bible works or what each denomination's take on it is. You might as well join the amish.
Don't pick a faith based on how it makes you feel. Do your own digging, understand what they all mean, the interpretations, etc etc. Take a class at LEAST. Then pick based on what you think is most reliable to what actually happened based on the history.
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>>16599888
The fuck are you on about? He didn't even mention the word "Christian" and in no way implied that.
That said, a lot of the shittier strains of American Protestantism don't seem to regard anyone who isn't their brand of American Protestantism as pure Christians. I've heard this several times: "Yeah, I was raised Christian, but as I'm getting older I'm thinking about looking into Catholicism." It's ignorance but not malice.
But like I said ... he didn't say that.
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I don't really like this girl but she's easy to get some fucks and she's willing to go no condom and swallows. How do I continue to string her along? And date others without anyone finding out?
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>>16599771
You're scum
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>>16599771
>without anyone finding out
Why don't you want anyone to know you're a slut?
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test
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I betrayed my best friend. Yup its real. I talked his gf into breaking up with him. Then told her all his secret and tried to kiss her. Then we told him everything. Basicslly this is the worst day of my life. I appologized and even cried infront of him when he said we arent friends anymore.
>tfw no best friend
>didnt even get anything out of it
>he is my fucking roomate
>all friends now hate me
>no friends for the first time in my life
Just end it all
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>>16599723
You do realize how much harder it is to find a friend than a hoe?
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>>16599731
Kek.
>>16599723
Why did you convince her to break up with him?
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>tl;dr - Few dates with girl, says she has doubts but still wants to meet. Looking for insight.
So I went on a few dates with this girl, and although we both had good times, things haven't escalated. When I suggested another meetup, she said "Okay, but I don't want to keep you hanging. I'm having doubts, but I do want to get to know you better"
That's totally fine, I really appreciated the honesty, and I told her as much. The fact remains the same, though, the chances of this going anywhere are pretty slim by now. If she's not into me that way, cool, nothing I can do about that.
I'm considering blowing it off myself at this point. It just seems like the right thing to do, but I'm afraid I might regret it later, and I'm not even sure how I'd go about it without looking obnoxious or offended over it. What does 'having doubts' mean, anyway? I'm not entirely sure how to interpret that.
I've been thinking about it, and I keep coming to the same conclusion: I've been myself on all of the dates. Even if that isn't enough, there's nothing else I can do, and another date seems pointless, not to mention the pressure and tension is gonna be way higher.
So I either go on this "last chance" date, be myself, and hope for the best, OR I break it off now, thank her for time and her honesty, and leave it at that. I don't know what to do here, please help me.
And merry Christmas, /adv/.
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Ehh, I personally think it sounds like you're wasting your time on this girl. It looks like she wants to kind of reject you but feels awkward about it, so maybe she'd reject you fully after the next date or something. Also it sounds like she's kind of keeping you there as an "option" in case she doesn't find anyone better.
Look, for me, when I go on dates with a guy I know after the first couple of dates whether I like him or not. It shouldn't take her that long to suss whether the two of you have potential or not.
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>>16599693
Yeah, I guessed as much. I don't really feel like attending my own funeral, so to speak, that's why I made the topic.
Thing is she'd be wasting her own time, too. Why be honest about having doubts and not go all the way and tell me it isn't gonna work out? I could handle that, too. Now I'm just confused.
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There's something just sliiightly off about your mentality here... and I can't quite pinpoint what it is...
I'll just say that you can't make a relationship sprout out, and there's nothing ever that you can specifically /do/ to make one happen (or at least a healthy, long lasting one. You can definitely force terrible, short ones).
It's all just chemistry, attraction, and compatibility.
The way I interpret what she said is pretty much "I actually really like you/think you're cool/etc. as a person and wish I felt more, but I just don't feel any spark between us".
Who knows, maybe taht spark will catch, maybe there's no chance. But with that out of the way, maybe you can become good /platonic/ friends.
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Ask the opposite sex thread 2015-12-24 14:54:41 Post No.16599649
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for the women: how do i stop caring about getting girls? i've been trying for years to no avail with even one. i just don't want to die a kissless virgin desu senpai...
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>>16599671
That's probably a better question for guys to anwser. They will have more experience in not focusing on finding a girl and what helped them. As far as not having got one yet there are a lot of factors that could contribute: are you social enough or in social situations enough to allow opportunities to meet women? Are you hygienic? Do you dress well? Do you take care of yourself? Do you have a job? Are you comfortable talking to girls?
Can't really give advice without knowing where your problems lie. Are you on dating sites? You could post a pic of your dating profile for tips/constructive criticism.
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What is dry humping?
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Okay, black guy here. I see more interracial relationships every day now. Even when driving past elementary and middle schools I see little black boys and white girls or white boys and mullato girls. So how do I get a girlfriend who is white if these little kids can find love then surely I can.
Whats the best way to attract girls of a race other than your own?
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>>16599087
>SociaIIy retarded nigger trying to take advantage of pure white women
IiteraIIy destroying cuIture. Good thing there's been a decIine in this IateIy due to hip hoppers fucking themseIves over. Won't be Iong untiI white purity is cIeaned up and spread further in coming years.
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Only liberal girls will persue a relationship with you.
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>>16599095
>muh pure white Aryan female race
This is a dying meme buddy get with the times
Just found out my girlfriend of the last 2 years has been cheating on me.
She doesn't know that I know. How the fuck do I deal with this.
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>>16595905
cheat on her.
or just break up with her and move on.
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>>16595905
break up
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>>16595905
Break up with her