So basically a guy that I went on a date with and met off of tinder sent me that. I'm not to sure how to interprite that but it sounds like he's not that into me. I.e "I'm trying to be a friend" but then he asked me on a second date.
I'm not to sure why I was twitching.. I didn't notice it but I was a little nervous. Do you think it's going to bother him if I do? Also in real life he was super nice and didn't seem like he'd be a jerk but in these text I felt like he was being a little mean. Do you think he's just trying to give me actual advice or why did he even say that?
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>>16602112
Just..just guide the conversation.
Don't think about what he says when he points out little things like that. If you don't give it any attention, he won't either.
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A gentleman wouldn't mention something like that. So what if you're twitchy the first few dates.
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>>16602117
Ya but why would he do that? Kind like
I can't tell if he's turned off by It or just curious or what
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Who the fuck would date me? 2015-12-25 07:28:22 Post No.16602043
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Who the fuck would date me?
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Would i be able to find a bf?
Im male
180 cm tall
Slim body
Hairy legs and chest
Look 20 but am younger, (people dont realise my age unless i tell them, they usually asume im 20)
Concidered handsome
Big brown eyes
Big red lips
Dark broun to black hair
Kind hearted
Very touchy feely
Living
Senzitive and perceptive
Understand quantum physics better than my profesor
Extreemely perverted
Very submissive, wiuld live to get used by my partner
Do i have any chance of finding a good partner anywere like a gay bar? Or will they just want to fuck me?
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>>16602043
Depends. I like effeminate men, so maybe. But personality really makes or breaks the whole shebang. Do you have something for messaging?
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>>16602043
>Would i be able to find a bf?
Sure I'd date u
>Im male
Nevermind
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Sorry not very efeminate :/ pretty manly dude
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What's Your Christmas Looking Like? 2015-12-25 07:19:32 Post No.16602032
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Are you alone for Christmas? Are you happy, sad, indifferent, hungry or busy, etc?
What's been on your mind today? How are you?
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>>16602032
well i was a little sad at first.
bf of 7 months didn't get me anything, not even a card, it would be our first x-mas together.
but i later found out he's been doing volunteer work to feed the homeless for x-mas, and it made me pretty proud of him and i kinda felt like a spoiled shit afterwards. i'm glad i was able to lie convincingly and tell him it was ok he didn't get me anything; that would've been really embarrassing and selfish.
so right now i feel like an embarrassed, spoiled, selfish shit. i'm lucky to have what's left of my family and i'm just hoping my mom and bf likes their gifts and that i can grow up and mature myself a bit better.
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Curled in a ball in my bed because of emotional pain and scars that torture me every day because i was never loved as a child and never got those hugs or kisses, afterwerds i pretended to be happy so my relatives could have a merry christmass
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I ate four hotdogs today. I feel like shit.
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Anyone care to share their experiences with long commutes everyday for work?
I'm starting work after new year's and it's going to be a 1.5 hour bus commute each trip until I can get a car (or move) halfway into the year.
I think the commute will eventually take a toil on me, and I wonder how I can prepare myself mentally beforehand to avoid feeling down about it.
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i was driving 30 minutes to work and 30 minutes back. enjoyed it for 2 months and then literally began to go crazy.
couldn't do it anymore. had to quit the job because i hated it so much.
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>>16601979
>driving 30 minutes to work and 30 minutes back
but that's what I'm supposed to be looking forward to after I get a car
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used to drive 35 minutes on the highway to get to a job.
account for that commute time: get some audiobooks or read when you take the bus.
my job was on a road with a lot of truck traffic, so there was a lot of stress involved because I drove a small car and there were a lot of accidents on that route.
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So there's this girl. She wants to have sex with me. I have a girlfriend that I intend on marrying. My girlfriend currently lives out of the country and would be coming here on a fiance visa mid next year. This other girl just wants to fuck me. She has been very clear that this will be a one time thing and that it stays between us, its just something she has to do. This girl is also a client of mine. Me and my girlfriend's relationship has been trying lately, but we're stable. Just stressed from not seeing each other.
I know the answer is obvious. I just feel either bad or awful depending on my choice.
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If you fuck that girl. Then it'll be on you mind and there will be no way to hide it. It'll drive you insane and your girl will eventually find out. And if you don't fuck that girl and you be loyal as you should. Then you'll just hurt since client's feelings and you shouldn't care about her anyways. So don't be a cunt. Don't fuck said client. Unless you're a prostitute.
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You can't trust these Thots man
Stay loyal and humble bro trust a brother! !!!
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I did it, she found out 6 years later and broke up with me when we were newly married. Don't do it man.
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and everything great! I love him, he is the frist boyfriend I ever had, he had a girlfriend before me, it was he's first girlfriend, he was looking into a future with her, marriage wise, he was 16 at the time he was with her, was with her about two years. And she cheated on him. He loved her, what they call young love, and he kept giving her chances, anyway, here, now. At times I find him crying at moments just at random, they are rare. But how do I deal with that, how do I make him feel better? How do I make him move forward, and make him happy? He tells me at times, he has dreams of her, crying, when he has a full nights rest. He avoids it, sleeping, from just two to three hours at a time. He has two jobs, one he works all night and the other he works in the day. He is busy, but I thank he does it too, just avoid thinking about her, to run away from depression, to just keep on going nonstop.What should I do?
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Cuck him.
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Just hold him. And tell him you love him. And tell him you'll never leave him.
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>>16601963
what the fuck
how old is he now? he shouldn't be dwelling on his gf for this long, unless he got with you right after they broke up. but that would make you the rebound, and i wouldn't be calling him my bf....
i would dump him. there's no way i would stick around with a guy who still has feelings for a gf that fucking cucked him. that just shows how little of a spine he has and how he doesn't appreciate what he has in the present.
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ask me what you need to and i will answer you.
this is your chance to get your answer /adv/
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Why?
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should i try to finish out a degree that is worthless (according to my professors) or change to a degree that is nearly useless and requires grad school?
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My gf might be pregnant but we both don't want to be parents.
how the fuck do I break that to my parents? I'm 20 she's 19. Probably thinking abortion is the way tto go.
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Why do most people just give up on life when they're in their late 20's? I seriously don't get it, man.
I'm 31 and am REALLY intense. I exercise like a maniac 6 days a week, work extremely hard and make $190k a year, have a doctorate, study unrelated subjects for hours on end (by poring over graduate-level texts), love vaporizing weed and psychedelics, still go to metal and noisecore shows, and am a big fan of slasher and gore movies. I'm married, but told my wife I never wants kids. Honestly, I'm just like I was at age 18, but I'm more fit, make more money, smarter, and get more sex.
Unfortunately, all my friends are losing their fire. God, it's pathetic. They hit 30, get married, and get fat. The ones with kids are the worst. Sorry, bro, but I don't want to get a beer and hear you complain about how baby is sooo fucking cute but keeping you up.
Shit, man. I feel like I'm just getting started, and everyone is checking out. Why the fuck is everyone losing their fire?
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that's how it always worked as far as I know
when people get older they usually get fatter and change their habits
it's no different from a girl who used to play with dolls but now gave up on it because she got older and is not interested in it anymore
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>>16601807
Well, that's bullshit. Why is giving up an option?
I mean, fuck. Even my old jock friends have just gotten fat and lazy. They just drink a bunch of beer, eat like shit, and raise their shitty kids.
How am I supposed to find people to socialize with who share my interests? I'm starting to feel kind of lonely.
The only people I know who still share my fire are, I suspect, somewhat mentally ill. Like, I still have a couple good friends from college who are intense, but they're obviously a little off the rail.
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>>16601831
the average 30 year old guy is just like your friends are
>How am I supposed to find people to socialize with who share my interests? I'm starting to feel kind of lonely.
You won't be able to rely on your old friends, you will have to meet new people. They will be at the places you go, the gym, noisecore shows, etc.
Most people will be below your age, but you will still be able to find some around yours.
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21 year old, getting married 1 semester before graduation from college, in 2016, and working 2 jobs right now and preparing for a nice salary job when I graduate.
Mother won't acknowledge that I'm engaged, won't acknowledge the wedding, says she loves the girl but doesn't think I'm "acting like a man enough" to be married and says I "would be an embarrassment to her friends and family" to say that I got married.
I said that if she didn't acknowledge it, I couldn't invite her. She said that's fine.
I feel broken.
What do I do?
The marriage is all set to happen and I can pay for it because it is very small and my fiancee and I are both very happy about it.
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Your fiancee seems very happy about cutting dat little throat of his, yes.
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She is right, you are too young to get married, especially while working two jobs to even afford a ceremony.
It is embarassing when you set yourself up for failure. How long have you known your gf?
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ATTENTION?
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Here's my problem.
1. Girl A
>23 year old Chinese
>Masters of Engineering student
>Only child of a rich family
>Virgin
>Likes me a lot and wants a serious relationship.
>She is cute and sweet
>Downside is she barely speaks English, hangs out with Chinese people exclusively, which makes it almost impossible for her to fully integrate. A future with her is cloudy.
2. Girl B
>28 year old Filipina,
>Nurse with a Masters degree
>1 of 5 children of a middle-class family
>In love with me
>She is average looking but extremely sweet and wife-material.
>Downside is she's not as young, pretty or rich as Girl A.
What do I do? Follow brain and logic by going with Girl A, or follow heart and emotions by going with Girl B?
I'm 28, by the way.
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>>16601631
>extremely sweet and wife-material.
Isn't that always the answer?
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>>16601631
Definitely b. Wife material is way better than any amount of money.
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>>16601631
fake and gay
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So for my grades this semester, I'm a sophomore at University of Massachusetts, Lowell. I got a B, B+, B-, A-, and a D+ :/. So the D+ is in Terrorism which is a history based class. I don't do so well with these classes. So the midterm and the final I didn't do so well on but my project was phenomenal. The project itself was supposed to count towards 35% of the grade but the professor used it as a scale of my grade which it wasn't supposed to do that at all. I emailed the professor explaining that I did so much work for the project that I deserved a C-. I have you know that I only missed 3 classes. 2 were from sickness and 1 was from a personal reason. That's not enough to bring my grade that low. I also chimed in every so often just asking questions and all which is participation. I think I'm deserving of a C-. The professor emailed his higher ups asking to change my grade from a D+ to a C-. This was like a week ago on Wednesday. I'm really scared cause I don't want to show my parents a D+. My parents help me with college so of course I have to show them the grade. What should I do? Should I email the higher ups telling them my situation and that I deserve the C- or should I be patient. What should I do? Am I overreacting? Maybe they are just busy with family right now for Christmas.
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>>16601620
>not getting an A in terrorism
did you escape your tard wrangler
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I just had trouble with the class. I just don't do well with history related classes.
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>>16601627
Maybe this isn't the career for you then
I'm losing my virginity tomorrow, any tips or advice? Thanks in advance, kind souls
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>>16601537
Cum inside her
Thats how you become soulbound and she can't drop you
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>>16601545
Pls, she's not on birth control
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>>16601652
Control her birth with the force
If you don't cum inside her she'll find someone who will
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Anyone else experience anhedonia (lack of interest in everything)? How do you deal with this?
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I force myself to do something creative for at least ten minutes.
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>>16601457
what do you do with the rest of your time?
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yeah. i used to take nyquil all day and sleep 18 hours a day.
life was shitty back then. fuck that.
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I really need someone to talk to.
Does someone want to talk? I'm so lonely and desperate right now.
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>>16601300
Merry Christmas, anon
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sure. steam ID = holypickle
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>>16601308
It hasn't felt like Christmas in years.
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I have shaggy hair and a beard. I feel like this is the best look for me. Someone told me that girls find me intimidating and that I look vaguely angry all the time.
Should I bother trying to come off as friendlier and less threatening? I've never had a girlfriend but I feel like it's just as much my attitude as my presentation.
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>>16601107
dude, you need to cut that shit off or trim it.
you look like a jobless hobo/no self-worth having serial killer.
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If you like then go for it, but you look like shit desu senpai.
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You don't look intimidating, but I think the hair that you have flowing to the side is a bit too much. Try smiling more when you're out and with friends. What about you attitude comes off as intimidating though?