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Use that shy-girl-thing to your favor. I mean, have u never heard that men love girls like that?

figure out if your thoughts are truly your own or if they're intrusive. if this is what you really want, embrace it if possible. there's no such thing as being "slutty" or "whorish". you shouldnt feel guilty for being sexually available. just make sure you practice safe sex.

>>16604969
I think they call it "safer sex" now to not be misleading.

>>16604932
>a great family, great friends and great boyfriend
>tried to kill myself

Yea, no.

>>16604932
>I really don't want to take medication because of side effects.
If you don't like the side effects, you go right back to normal a couple weeks after you stop.
I love my various mental health medications. They work great for me. Worst side effects are thirstiness and appetite suppressing.

Try it. You can always go back. I experimented with lots of different ones before I got a combination/dosage that worked for me. Don't give up.

Here's what always gets me back in: if I'm bad enough that my psyche is trying to convince me not to go to the doctor, that's exactly why I should go.

>>16604982
>I love my various mental health medications. They work great for me. Worst side effects are thirstiness and appetite suppressing.

I genuinely think 90% of you are full of shit. I have this friend that used to be a Buddhist. Then he got bored of it, and now he is on Lithium. Tells me how it's the best shit ever and how he looks forward to going to his psychiatrist to see what kind of new shit they are going to put him on.

Dude is smart as fuck, but doesn't want to deal with reality.

Move out then

>>16604861
You're a shitty bratty son who deserved this

OP you cannot change them. You gotta get out and you gotta get help. These are the violent genes you've been handed and you're gonna have to fight against it.
>>16604922
I disagree

girls who workout almost by default look better.

please do. your future depends on it.

how about you not do things just because they would appeal to men

to answer your question you could have googled because this has been aksed 8,000 times, men are not an individual hivemind

they have different tastes

some men will be into your body at the weight you are now, some won't

some people will be into your body when you lose weight, some won't

do what you want for yourself, not for a percentage of men on the internet

>this obvious compliment fishing
I suggest you work on your self esteem, since you seem to need the validation of internet strangers

>>16604820
What caused you to attempt to take your life in the first place?

>>16604825
I'm just not happy. I feel like I never will be. life is shit desu and I just want to end it

>>16604842
ah fuck. to. be. honest.***

All because of a joke? Cmom dude, if this is gonna be the reason for you not marrying her you'll regret not trying to make it better, so go apologize. That's what I would do, but it's up to you what you do.

>>16604776
>>16604773
It's that I don't want to marry her anymore, it's that I'm afraid she's not gonna want to marry me now. I may have just ended our relationship.

>>16604785
Dude over a joke?

>>16604739
Sounds like you've got it all figured out.

>>16604739
>What's the worst that could happen? I die?
You break her heart.

OP, if you were in love with her, what would be different?

If it doesn't weigh on your conscience and you want to do this, play off as white when necessary (jobs, school, etc) because while it's fucked up, passing as white can confer advantages or at least prevent you from having to deal with bullshit such as profiling on an every day basis.

Then learn about your culture and get in touch with your roots when you're free. Learn to understand your heritage, and also learn how to understand yourself.

>>16604516

Stop hating yourself and calling yourself "mexi-trash".

I'm white-passing Latin as well. At least you can see both cultures objectively, and understand the difficulties they have in interacting.

Tfw nigger, every bitch that's into me is trash.

I'm not into ghetto trash culture at all. Even though I have an accent I am not a thug. Disgusting white girls with daddy issues/ trailer trash women please fuck off.

I have a son and wife I plan on taking care of until I die, please traverse the ghettos for dope boys to inseminate you filthy whores.

(This isn't directed at white girls only but Asian and Latina thots this goes to you all as well)

>>16604438
do you live close to the area? if you've pretty much completely disassociated yourself from the gang and these are paranoid borderline hallucinations you might have other illnesses besides ptsd.

Good therapists and psychologists are hard to come by, if moving away and associating yourself with a more positive group of people isn't helping than you might want to look into them.

>>16604450
I live in northern LA now, far from south central, but the feelings tend to hit me when I'm alone, thank you for responding by the way, I didn't think anyone would even care to reply.

>>16604457
I'm pretty sure threads that don't get responses often don't because they slide off the first page too quickly for any one to see and then just die, so if it's happened to you don't take it personally.

How badly is it effecting your life? How far do these thoughts take you? Any real signs of threat? like some one cutting your dogs head and leaving it in your bed with a note and you called your girlfriend and filed a police report?

>>16603838
Expand your interests.

>>16603838

Pretend you're your favorite vidya character

This thread is pertinent to my interests. I need to learn how to interest people, I seem to only make friends with the odd people that come and talk to me.

Go and get a blowjob dumbass.

>>16603666
>666
You know what to do

It's a christmas family tradition now, embrace it.

>>16603570
Holy shit you're a faggot. I would have broken up with you too if I was a woman. Maybe your friend isn't a sniveling clingy bitch like you are

>>16603570
>she needs to linger in my similar pathetic sad sack of shit circumstances for the amount of time I determine is appropriate even though we broke up and I have no bearing on her life or vice versa!

You're a faggot.

>>16603570
Well, I'd say distancing yourself is a good thing. Just don't overdo it. Try to talk to the people you are with and tell yourself life just goes on ; people are still good or bad or whatever. The world doesn't care so why should you ?

wow.

How do you do it?

Sounds pretty awesome desu

I'm not happy.

>>16600592
Neither am I.

What I would do to hear her voice, hold her close... I want her back, or even just one more night.

I want her to be happy.

does anyone else's 4chan say it's getting cold isn't it?

I wonder if you still think about me at all. After all the times I pulled you in and pushed you away. If I were to contact you once more, would it be a good or a bad thing? I'm embarrassed to try, I feel it would be again awfully selfish of me.

>>16592105
It might be mutually beneficial

dear dad

i'm sorry i'll never live up to your expectations. You want me to be some sort of living beacon of cleanliness and purity, and well, I'm just me.

but FUCK you for not caring. FUCK you for only seeing my achievements and failures, and never bothering to know me, the person, not the resume.

i'm getting tired of your bullshit and the only thing keeping me going is the thought that in only a few years, I can give you a call from somewhere far far away and tell you to go fuck yourself, because those words have been backed up in my throat for decades.