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How do you gain "confidence" in yourself when you are a grad student. I mean what am I supposed to be confident about such that I become a more attractive prospective boyfriend?
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>>16604702
What does being a grad student have to do with anything?
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>>16604708
Poor as shit, spend all your time working and your experiments still fail, feel dumb all the time due to the humbling complexity of our world... These are all generally things that chip away at your self-esteem
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Ask a 26 year old law student home for winter break whose putting off real life for another 2 years...anything
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Why the fuck would you put it off for two more years?
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>>16604614
Because I have two more years of school
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>>16604623
Why's it taking you so long?
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Ask a 27 year old guy who's officially divorced his wife anything.
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why did you divorce her?
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How long did your marriage last?
How long did you date before getting married?
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Should a guy marry?
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Calling women art is misogynstic? 2015-12-26 01:58:36 Post No.16604167
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My girlfriend said that if I say she's "art" then I'm misogynstic. Is this true?
Because I'm already getting vibes that she might have issues
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Once I told my girlfriend she was the most beautiful song I'd ever danced to. She promptly rode my dick.
Gf sounds like a spaz, homie.
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>>16604167
I can see what she's getting at, that you're implying she's an object....but I know you're not. She's just being a crazy feminist. Anyone who uses the term "misogyonistic" should be avoided.
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She is not an object. She could be the inspiration of an artist that would have her sitting naked on a chair so she could paint her on a canvas, but she is not the canvas.
However, if the painting is pretty, everyone would be glad that she was the inspiration for the art, but the artist would be the one who is praised most.
If she inspires you to write poems, or make drawings of her, or if you feel sometimes that she is the prettiest girl you've ever seen, it's fine too, but keep in mind she is a person.
So does this mean I'm dying like he fuck why is my poo this green ?
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>>16603113
Had some badly baked space cake recently?
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Something you ate. Probably something healthy.
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>>16603123
I fucking wish would make me feel a bit better ha ha it's soooo fucking green
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TLDR advice for first time (possible) dog owner 2015-12-25 16:04:04 Post No.16602831
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TLDR advice for first time (possible) dog owner
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My family is poor. Were moving into an apartment kind of thing with full ownership of the backyard of the house, thanks to the charity of a family friend.
While I learn programming and skills for job, family stays there, parents will be dependent on me.
My godfather and godmother want to get me a dog, I'm 19, been pretty depressed, going through a lot and had a nervous break down. I think a dog would be nice, force me to be responsible for a life in a way. Not sure if I should get a pup or anything, going to have to read up on all this stuff. Also used to have bad allergies as a kid but I figured zyrtec and a hypo-allergenic dog would do the trick, right? Don't worry about food costs, my parents can afford since we don't have to worry about rent.
Advice on where to start? If this is even a wise decision? Should I try to explain to my (emotional Brazilian Christian) family this might not be too good for me? In the end I know whats best for myself, but perhaps input from others can sway my opinion.
Also we live in NY now, can get cold, and my parents probably wont let me keep the dog inside. Will have to build warm house for it out back, and I'm not sure if its possible to train dogs to shit in a specific place?
Pic related, a Samoyed.
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Get a dog that's easy to train and that can endure a bit of cold. After that it's all about how you treat the fella.
You might have second thoughts, but having a pet to take care of and it to take care of you (in a way) is a great thing. Plus it opens up a ton of options for socializing and meeting new people.
My advice would be to go for it.
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Anons pls I dont know how to into an dog.
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Not liking what I'm hearing, frankly. Dogs are not cats -- they're a lot of work. It's not just enough to keep them alive, you have to exercise them, and not just physically. If you're a responsible dog owner you need to provide them with plenty of mental stimulation too. A lot of people don't realize that. You have to play with them and challenge them and if your breed isn't particularly playful (some aren't) you have to come up with other clever ways as well.
Also, frankly, I don't believe it's appropriate to keep a dog outside all the time especially given the temperature extremes in your area. If you do, obviously you HAVE to get a heater. But I still don't agree with the practice at all. I'm sure some anon will yell at me "oh I've had five dogs and all of them stayed outside and they were fine you softie hippie"; sorry, but the general opinion of the veterinary community is also on my side.
You sound unsure and that worries me. I love dogs but a dog is a huge, huge commitment, not something you get to "teach yourself responsibility." Perhaps a cat would be a better choice right now, as they're far less work but provide some of the same benefits.
On my phone right now but I'll post more actual care advice when I can if you maintain committed.
Best friend just had a skiing accident last week. Had to be suited in a full body cast.
What are some funny things we can write on her cast?
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cripple
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Rape proof suit. Protection for the modern day feminist.
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That sounds really terrifying, I never really figured this happened to people, you usually just see it in cartoons.
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i'm a 23 years old female, turning 24 in january, and i feel like i should probably decide this soon.
i don't know if i want kids in the future. are they worth it?
and is there anyone who regrets having kids? we're on 4chan here, so it's ok to admit if you do... please, i just want the truth.
all i ever hear are people saying how amazing having kids are, but i kind of feel like it's some sort of trick with how hostile these people get if they find out someone decided not to have kids. they pressure others, and push their beliefs, and shame them if they don't comply... something doesn't feel right about that to me. it's almost as if they're forcing themselves to believe having kids was worth it, and they're trying to force others to believe them too. it's like christians and how buttmad they get if someone doesn't believe in god and/or don't follow their rigid lifestyle.
i mean i can see how raising kids might be fun and cute, but they're not like cats or dogs...
can i have some insight from anons with this kind of experience?
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Happy birthday!
You are still young, you don't have to make rush decisions about this. The most important thing about kids is that they learn what they see as a whole and they can't be lied to. They will learn to lie and be two-faced if you do. So, if you are decent with them, they see a good example and you raise them well, they will make you happier than any person alive. If you are someone who can't be respeced and not honest, they will be trouble.
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i guess i'm asking because my boyfriend has been hinting at "the long term" with me... i know he wants to get married some day, but i also know that we're better off without kids. i'd like to think we're both very honest and decent people. my boyfriend in particular, has a huge heart and he is very smart... however, i know he stresses out easily.
so in other words, i love my boyfriend so much; i think i can probably live the rest of my life with him. but i don't think having kids with him is a good idea. i would never want my kids to grow up without a dad or to witness a miserable marriage.
but if i end up wanting kids, i think i should break up with him and probably find someone who i am compatible with and can handle stress better.
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>>16602297
If you think you can live the rest of your life with him, why do you think your marriage will be miserable and that you are incompatible?
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Why would someone change careers when it doesn't make sense moneywise? 2015-12-24 11:08:10 Post No.16599347
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Why would someone change careers when it doesn't make sense moneywise?
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For example, why the fuck would a laywer quit his law job to become a teacher? He is wasting all of his time and effort at law school. Also, being a teacher is shit with low pay, low social status, etc. These people are probably romanticising their jobs too much. Teaching has its own shitty aspects where you have to deal with kids who don't give a fuck about education and mark exams at home. The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence.
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I was going into a Chemical Engineering degree. Realized I absolutely hated the class, hated the teacher, and the ideas of the degree itself. Currently going into a social work, and while it makes far less pay, I have the satisfaction of doing what I love.
Seriously. I need to love my job and degree, and would take a hit on money. Not like I need a lot anyway.
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>>16599355
I've heard you can earn six figures with a Chemical Engineering degree. Is that true? Don't you think it is a waste to do social work? I mean, most people hate their jobs over time. How can you know this will not happen to you?
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>>16599347
because they love their new jobs?
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Yesterday evening I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob. Now I'll be quite honest, I had a long day at work and wasn't all that into it, but I was still trying to take care of him and try not to let that sort of thing get into the way.
A few minutes into it he tells me "That's really Fucking sloppy", and I wasn't sure if that was supposed to be a compliment or a criticism, so I tried to concentrate and refocus. But then a minute later he tells me"this isn't working for me", and he pulled himself out of my mouth very audibly. I felt really embarrassed, so I was looking down at the floor. He then lifted my chin up to look in his eyes, and I thought he was going to say something like it was ok, but no instead its like I see no patience at all in his eyes, and he tells me "I'm taking the cock away from you".
I was so stunned that I just stayed there on my knees for a couple of more minutes before I realized I was still there. When I got up I heard him watching porn and masturbating.
I ended up going home because I didn't know what to say. I was so upset and humiliated about what happened that I couldn't even really sleep last night I'm not sure why it is affecting me so badly, but I'm still incredibly upset. I want to give him a piece of my mind, but I don't know what to say and I don't want to sound stupid and emotional. I've have never had anything remotely like this happen to me before.
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You sound really sweet for trying
I know personally half the fun of sexual interaction is having the other person really desiring you
so having something half assed isn't really that satisfying, on the other hand your boyfriend defiantly handled that inappropriately without care for how you felt
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He sounds like an asshole, I'd dump him.
There is no reason to waste time on people like him
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That's a quality neg. I'll have to remember that one.
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Where am I supposed to look when I'm standing in a public place, like a bus or McDonalds, or walking on a busy street?
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At your cellphone at McDs or the bus, and where you're going on a busy street
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Look at all the things you think are interesting. And stare at them ;-;
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>>16605322
look at a girls ass as she walks by
Adv please help.
There is this guy who is fucking awesome and I can't stop thinking about him. We met this year and became kind of buddies where he would help me with homework sometimes.
He is very social and has many other friends whereas I am shy and don't really have friends, I keep to myself. So I never thought he would be interested in me because socially he is out of my league (looks wise I think we are the same... I am like 7/10?)
Anyway, I was scared to fall in love with him so I started being distant and I noticed that he would come by me on purpose and say hi to me. After a few days he stopped and now we're not talking at all. He seems a little upset at me.
I don't know what to do now. I think he doesn't understand wtf is my problem. I now think he might like me because why would he go out of his way to say hi to me (he would go to the place where I say which is far from him)?
I want to apologize to him and show him I like him but I'm not sure how. Please help?
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Ask facebook
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>>16605178
What do you mean?
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>>16605188
I mean you're clueless and don't belong here and most likely underage
Girlfriend is beautiful. Wears makeup including lipstick. Wears fashionable clothes. Doesn't paint fingernails. Toenails always have remnants of some week old nail polish.
What do.
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>>16605121
Tie her up and forcibly paint her nails until the dumb bitch understands that she's your personal fashion accessory.
Or just grow up, be grateful she at least dresses nice, and accept that even someone you love is going to grate on your pet peeves every once in a while.
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>>16605126
this. shut your mouth and grow up.
or you can bring it up and watch her stare incredulously at you.
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>>16605121
>what do
Tell her on a day where she decides to do her nails that they look pretty and she's beautiful.
A little compliment goes a long way, but I'm kind of a faggot in that i think most girls look prettier without makeup, so what the fuck do i know?
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I'm considering just dropping her because it's hard to think somones this busy your thoughts?
Here's the dealeo. So I'm talking to a girl and have found it the right time to ask her out over coffee. I've asked 2 or 3 times and she has told me she was busy (first with her b day and second with a dentist appointment) now I don't believe in bullshit cause I don't have enough time to waste living. So I was forward and told her that if she didn't want to she doesn't have to make excuses and save my and her time by saying no. She, on the contrary, said she'd love to she's just busy. Now I'm in a bit of a pickle. I don't want to ask too often and give her the idea I'm needy nor do I find it wise to wait too long and have her lose all interest. Does anyone have a different solution that I could present?
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>>16605112
How dare people be busy on their birthday or around the holidays? I bet that selfish bitch made plans for Christmas too, when she could have been hanging out with you if she really wanted to.
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just tell her to tell you when shes free. calm down, live your own life.
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She probably doesn't want to deal with your faggorty. She doesn't like you.
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So I'm having trouble at christmas, basically everyone is being really cruel to me because I'm "weird". I'm down on my luck in life and trying to turn it around at 24 and the last time I was around this family I was acting weird because I was on drugs. Basically it's a really fucked up situation and they aren't letting me make it. I just wanna know what I should do, they obviously don't want to be any family of mine so fuck it, why should I even show up tomorrow? The only thing is that it could make the situation worse, what do you guys think?
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That'll just make it worse. Show up and ACT NORMAL.
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>>16604988
You really need to post more details. It's normal for them to treat you like you are weird if you were high as fuck the last time you were around them.
>Basically it's a really fucked up situation and they aren't letting me make it.
Wut.
Anyway, it might be best to be alone until you get your shit together.
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>>16604992
I can't just act normal when everyone is basically shit talking me to my face