Help me understand this /adv/, it's just disappointing and angering me. I asked a girl out to dinner, she said she would love to but she was busy, and she would tell me a different time. She also mentioned she broke up with her bf. Since I'm no beta fag anymore, I let it go and moved on. However, she was still flirtatious and actively walking up to talk and texting me. It was about a month later, so I asked if she wanted to see a movie. She says maybe. Fed up, I wait a week and pull her aside to tell her how I feel. She says she doesn't really know me too well, and that she is too busy and just wants to be friends. I simply walk away, thinking that it is finished.
Now, it would be safe to assume she is done with me. However, she keeps coming up to my friend and I to talk and looks at me non-stop. I don't even look her direction, and if I happen to do so, she looks completely the other way. She then gies back to staring at me, and sits next to me for whatever damned reason. I've made obvious I never want to see her again for lying to me, why the fuck is she doing this?
>Since I'm no beta fag anymore
>I wait a week and pull her aside to tell her how I feel
>tell her how I feel
you're probably overthinking it, and doesn't seem like you've 'let it go and moved on' if her rejection previously wasn't closure enough for you to ignore these 'signs' you believe you are witnessing
>>16604581
Okay, well tried to. Part of me still likes her for some reason, since it was fun being her friend and we had a lot in common. However, it's kind of hard to ignore someone who is constantly making their presence known to you. It's kind of disturbing to have a set of eyes on you every 5-10 minutes to see of you are looking back. She just used me for attention and lied, has she no guilt?
>>16604630
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.
how do i lose a lot of weight fast?
>>16604378
Use a knife.
>>16604378
Watch what you eat. I mean this in only the simplest terms too, it doesn'tb matter a ton what you eat so long as you eat less. My heavier friends always eat larger portions and snack between meals, and it's not always unhealthy food. Try replacing a meal with a protein shake or just a salad. Something to just hold you over.
>>16604378
>fast
What does this means? By the way those ads that say lose 30 lbs in 3 weeks are all scum, but it is possible to lose over 100+ lbs in 6 months if you put the work in.
I want to become a living legend.
I want to become a god.
What do?
Usually, those who become legendary rarely set out to do so
bump for potential
>>16603868
Be a political assassin
I got a whole lot of internal and external problems in my life and I'm trying to tackle them one at a time
Even though I assume all of you are weirdos and losers, (based on pics such as "these are the kind of people giving you fitness advice on fit" where some ugly dude posts his face and you realise that there are unironically weird and ugly af people on here)
I'm hoping some of you at least have some wisdom
I'm 19 and trying to get out of social retardville I feel like I'm making some progress
Mainly I only talk to guys and even then its only about sports
This kind of changed when one day I came in to work crying for various reasons and this girl I work with noticed when we were both entering the building at the same time, she wiped the tears from my face while I persisted on walking past and ignoring her. She kept on the gas and wanted me to tell her what was wrong, and she eventually got me to talk when she admitted she was crying at work a week earlier for a deeper personal reason. I told her what had me down and her reason for crying made me look like an over emotional faggot
We hugged and at 19 years old that is what I would call my first hug from a female ever that mattered and the first real conversation I had with a female about any topic
Kissless virgin btw
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I skirted through hs and middle school being semi popular or at least enough to hang around popular cliques and parties because playing sports, was able to get a prom date but I would equate that all to a form of cheerleader effect and alcohol
I barely speak to anyone I know from hs anymore
And that was like 3 months ago, we never mentioned it ever and im the only one she's ever told that to.
Just around a couple of days ago at work (despite in my head making a conscious effort the whole time) I found myself small talking with her more and now yesterday other women as well
But I find myself in the same pitfall of running out of shit to talk about, and no girl I know can endlessly talk about football
Just sports work and some news type shit and that's where my conversations end.
Also I need to get better at cracking jokes
Lately at work I've been getting roasted and I'm not quick enough off the tounge to get a good rebuttal and the second someone makes a joke that I'm ugly its game over because most people I work with are objectively better lookin than me, I would only consider myself a 7 at my highest with a haircut lighting clothes angle etc. And an honest grade of a 4 on any given occasionAlso back to the original girl who consoled me, I am trying to just make her into a 'guy' friend as best as I can and I guess what would be called friend zone and I'm hoping as I get better to talking with her, it can transfer to talking with other women. But I feel kind of jealous when she isn't taking to me, I don't really find her hot, just cute in a weird kind of way and I work with about 60 total women evenly distributed in attractiveness that she isn't really top tier. I definitely don't need any jealously in my life .
>Tldr
>Any wisdom on losing social aspie
>Is it possible I'm getting jealous?
Other wise I don't care what you guys reply about, I also just kind of wanted to share a little bit even if no one will read or reply
If any girls opinion please specify
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what were the reasons for her crying and you crying? and where do you guys work? and also how old is she?
... how did you play sports, go to parties, get drunk, go to prom with a date, and never hug a girl? kissless virgin I get, (I'm a year younger than you and am in that same situation, don't fucking sweat it dude it's not a race and as long as you're making progress everything is fine)
back on topic, you're a virgin, with oneitis, pedestalizing a girl, very very common problems, thankfully very curable if you get to work. I'm not going to act like I'm the pussy destroyer 2000 but I am not a social retard, talk to and flirt with genuinely attractive women all the time, (my kissless virginity is caused by stuff genuine skin problems that embarrass me too much to be able to progress with women, and logistics issues, as well as some anxiety) so I may be able to give you some advice
1) that tear wipe shit? that's bad. you don't want that. makes you look way too submissive and friendly. someone who browses 4chan should already be familiar with all the talk of alphas, betas, cucks, etc. and it's all true albeit exaggerated
2) you need more interests. i have the characteristic of being interested in way too much shit so I can hold a conversation on literally anything you throw at me if you want. but conversations are an art man you just gotta practice and cringe after cringe conversation you'll get better. i used to be real autistic and it felt like literally not knowing what was the good thing to say so i messed up bad so many fucking times until i got the hang of what is socially acceptable what isnt.
3) talking to women like friends doesnt help, unless you are utterly unable to control yourself at the thought of talking to a vagina bearer. if so then yeah get used to talking to women but you have to transition into learning how to flirt.
Around a week ago me and my girl, both virgins tried to go all the way. I had a condom on and we tried but never got through the hymen. I didn't really ejaculate either but there was definitely some that accumulated in the condom. I checked the condom and there wasn't a leak, at least as far as I could tell.
Now she says her period is late, what are the odds?
PRIVACY+BOUNDARIES PLEASE. TAKE MORNING AFTER 2BSURE. TAKE PILL FROM NOW ON. STOP ZHITPOSTING
stop being stupid. some white goo on the outside of the condom might as well be hers. yes, it happens. if it was inside and it didn't like, well... stop being stupid. just chill.
>hymen
lmao
My mom just touched me in a way that made me uncomfortable, not because she did anything inappropriate, but I think I just have a hard time being physically affectionate to most people...I pissed her off because I grabbed her hand when she did it, I wasn't really rough or anything. I told her I did it because I didn't like getting touched and she just said I wasn't affectionate.
Fuck my life, man. I'm gay, and when girls do weird stuff like that it makes me uncomfortable...and when my mom does those things I just get extra uncomfortable :<
I honestly don't know how she would react if I was honest with her, maybe she'd just have another shit fit...I've told her I'm gay but we just don't talk about it a lot, and at the same time I'm not sure that is a valid reason to despise very light physical affection with my mom. I think I have some issues surrounding this shit honestly :/
...I just want to talk to people :< I'm an overly emotional guy honestly. Just need company.
Was her action something motherly? Like a hug? Or something inappropriate, out of line?
>>16604486
Sorry. I didn't read the first part correctly.
But yah, I think all mothers want to comfort their children.
So you're not like that at all when guys touch you?
>>16604486
I think it was more on the motherly side honestly. She just kinda scratched/tickled my chest a little...it made me incredibly uncomfortable though :( I don't think it was her intention or her fault. Things like this don't happen often, so when they do it freaks me out a bit.
I am lonely, and all my mental thoughts look like
>pic related.
On /adv/ when you should be getting laid on Christmas Day. I know have and didn't have a girlfriend kek.
You ask a girl out. She will decline. Then you look elsewhere. HEY! U THERE?
>>16604352
I have no one to be with, and no where to go. Either way I'm not asking to get laid, I'm asking to acquire the girl friend. Brock you rice eyed bastard go eat ash's smelly boy cooter.
Meeting a female childhood friend for coffee tomorrow. We haven't seen nor talked to each other for 10 years. She is super cute according to her Facebook. Am I already doomed because I'm an old friend? Or can I turn this around and make it into a date?
We're not her, and we're not mind-readers.
Most likely you're out of luck. Besides, why are you automatically going for an old friend just because she's attractive?
Learn not to think of all attractive women as potential girlfriends. (There's a more crude way of putting that, but I'll refrain.)
>>16604295
I'm meeting her because I'm genuinely interested in how she's been.
Just be up front and ask her on a date.
positive motivation thread
>>16604191
I want to taste your cheese. Please leave.
Hi, /b/, I just wanted to tell you some things that are happening to me right now and maybe you could give me your opinion.
>I'm studying medicine and I don't like STUDYING it, but I love being a doctor. At practices we end up meeting patients and that's the best thing.
Should I continue with the degree? (I'm in 3/6 year).
>I live with my mom (spanish yuropoor here) AND my gf (we are 21 y/o) and my sister, and my mother lives to make tons of drama for stupid things not done around the house (even though she sleeps like a motherfucker all day).
How do I leave my house without making my abusive mother think that I don't want to see her anymore so she can't play victim on me?
>I've been living for 3 years with my gf and we've been together for 5 years. I'd love to experience new stuff with other chicks, but I think I really love my gf. I will go on Erasmus next year (Poland, to be exact) and that'd be a pretty good time to fuck some other chicks.
Should I fuck other chicks (I can't do it in my town since it's a very little one, so my gf would know sooner or later) when in Polan? If so, how to deal with remorse? If not, how the fuck can I get my gf to fuck her in the ass? She won't accept it and I'm fucking desperate when I hear my friends (girls) saying that they do it like it was nothing.
Thanks, anons
How can a medical student be so fucking stupid. For one dipshit this is /adv/, notice the big letters saying that.
On another you say you love your girlfriend but want to fuck other girls? Huh? Listen up if you want to bang more chicks, do your girl a solid and dump her then have at it but don't ask /adv/ cheating tips and how to get over the face that you are a scumbag.
You hate studying to be a doctor but love being a doctor? Trudge through, become a licensed physician, make a ton of money and then after in the future when you are sick of it go for another degree/career change.
>>16604070
I'm not asking for cheating tips, but advice on how will my conscience be after that.
Also, why do you think I'm stupid?
>>16604077
Also, sorry, I put this thread in /b/ first just for lolz, then I copypasted it. My apologies.
What haircut do you recommend. I now nouthing about hair.pic related
Op here sorry for fucking up photo
>>16603961
You don't like it?
>>16604017
I dont
I wish to be padawan I do. Want to help the world and be a voice for people who don't have one I do. What do I do fellow anons? I sit here in disgust reading articles of corruption all day long, I'm willing to give my life to the greater good of that is the cost. I can't sit here with idle hands wondering if I could have made a difference. I seek advice. And to become very active in the community. I'm reaching out and hoping someone reaches back.
>>16603939
>Jedi
work for a NGO like amnesty international.
I am OP ... Not that kind of change. The real change. And a real movement. If you do not know what I speak of you are not who I am seeking.
>sexting girl
>haven't had sex yet
>I playfully ask "hopefully I'm packing enough to get the job done"
>she asks how big I am
>tell her over six inches (lie, I'm 6 on the dot and I know this)
>she says "oh thats not bad"
>ask her if she's disappointed
>tells me shed hoped I'd have been bigger because I'm a taller guy
>sexting pretty much ends
>feel like shit
Welp. My Christmas is officially ruined /adv/ (not really but still) I've never had this issue before. Usually 6 is the "perfect size" or so I've been told (not too big to hurt, not too small)
I don't really know how to describe how I'm feeling. Back in middle school when I got called fat, I got fit and lost weight. When I got called pizza face, I stopped drinking soda, starting cleaning my face, and cleared up my skin.
I guess this is what its like being a short guy, being upset over something you cant change. I'm 6'4", which has definitely worked in my favor, I can't lie. But I'm barely average in terms of penis size. How can I get over this?
Pic unrelated but funny af
>>16603855
She's a whore if a little over 6 isn't good enough for her. My boyfriend is 5 and gets the job done.
>>16603855
Even bringing that up makes you sound insecure as fuck.
Never talk about size. Just get in there and be the squirrel and find your nut. If it's not good enough for her then whatever, that's her problem.
>>16603866
I was just being playful. I didn't really think shed ask, but I was prepared (or at least I thought) to give her an answer, because most girls like 6inches
Hi gang,
I feel like I should talk to a psychiatrist. I don't think I have anything extremely wrong with me, no disorders or whatever, but I am quite listless and have a lack of oofmp in my life. I feel like a dead flag. I don't think I'm particularly depressed but I'm just not excited for the future, I don't fear or dread it, I just don't really care
So basically I just want to talk to someone, but I'm wondering if a psychiatrist is the right person for this or if its overkill and I'll be wasting my money, but in the same breath I don't want to piss about
>>16603852
You're suffering from white privilege
>>16603906
Sincere replies only please
Still looking for some advice
Hey /adv/, i need u asap.
Long story short, a girl just offered me a threesome with her and a good friend of mine(m). Thing is, I AM A FUCKING VIRGIN. So, how the fuck do i react? Won't this be awkward as hell? Should i actually consider it, being that i have never done the sex?
>>16603776
Be like "that sounds fucking awesome... But I'm a virgin. Maybe you and I could mess around a little beforehand so I'm confident during the threesome?"
>>16603776
holy fucking shit who the fuck cares bro
take it faggot. if you can't get your dick up no regrets who gives a shit it happens to everyone. go for it or you'll regret it dude.
DO IT FAGGOT. wish I was in your position.
>tfw no gf
But wont it end up being all weird between the good friend and me afterwArds?
Also the vcard still makes me nervous