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Using PUA shit doesn't work? Who knew!?

One does not simply leave the friendzone

The fact you're wasting this much time on it yes. Get over it and pursue other women, she's not interested.

i'm seriously asking myself this question every day

kill me

>>16669398
Well 4chan is probably worst place to ask this question

eat, sleep, shit, fuck

those are the four things a life well lived has plenty of.

Exchange messages.

Trips or not you don't want to hang out with her and be her friend. You are interested in her because of her camwhoring, you want to fuck her

>>16669350
I think she's pretty but I'd love hanging out with her and going shopping and having a best friend.

Do I need to run the car or something?
A few times in the last week when I've tried to start it back up after driving somewhere it just turns over indefinitely but after waiting a minute I try again and it starts

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Drive around for awhile, keeping close to a service station. If a lot of blue smoke comes out of your tailpipe, you put in too much oil.

The starting problem seems to me to be unrelated.

You generally need to warm the engine up a bit before checking the oil to get an accurate read on the level. Plus it was probably a bogus thing to check for trouble starting anyway. I'd sooner be looking at battery voltage.

The drowning, because the impact will debilitate you.

Feet first, legs extended together, arms against body, chin tucked. You want to slice in as cleanly as possible.

Pray that you are conscious and able to swim. Then follow bubbles if you can see them. Or die.

>>16669137
The impact.

Best way to land is on your feet, if you're looking to survive.

If you're suicidal I'm guessing you do nothing.

I don't know about landing or taking the impact other than legs together, but I'm a lifeguard in training and I have always been told to never panic when deep underwater. You're more likely to remain conscious if your lungs are full of air than the latter.

Depends? Do you love him? Does he love you? What are your actual problems..

If hes cheated on you desu i dont think be loves you so.....

>>16669135
yes he has cheated on me, he eventually came back crawling to me on his knees. i thought i forgave him for it but after i forced him to tell me the whole story i felt really hurt again. this is the main reason i have doubts now.
>>16669133
he adores the hell outta me, i'm like a godess to him. scary t b h

Your friend was talking about it in more complex terms than it has to be. It's simple. Being around someone optimistic and happy is better than around someone who is constantly dragging you down with their negativity. No need for these energies.

Yeah, your friend has delved into "spirituality".
However, it means that if somebody just uses you to rant and whine about all the (minor) shit they go trough they will leave you in a rather bad mood. As compared to somebody that's likes to pick out the awesome stuff and tell you about it. It will make you feel upliftet and you might start to focus on the good thing too when talking to them. Ofc, if a friend has a serious problem and needs to have somebody to go trough possible solutions that isn't a bad thing. But that friend that always whines about the government but does nothing but being angry? Yep.

>>16669054
OP here i'll give a little more context about it because I still don't get it that much. Apparently I am neutral, one of our friends is positive and everyone else is negative, what I don't get is isn't neutral a useless term here. And this whole thing makes me feel kinda shitty because unless the positive one is there then my friend doesn't want to hangout so to me it just seems like everyone else except this one positive person is nothing and its not fun or a comfortable environment unless that positive person is there.

what

>>16669051
haha go fap dude nothing wrong with it she's a nice girl.

semen stains the mountain tops

I think that if someone is willing to gather up that much time, courage and commitment, it would be better spent becoming some kind of walking demigod. Sure, you won't be able to tug the strings of any girl you run across but you'll have enough flocking to you to sate your ego and libido. But I guess some people really do prioritize fucking EVERY girl EVERY year. That's fine. They can take whatever approach they want, be it PUA or not.

To me PUA has always seemed like a shitty game of telephone. Generations ago there was a set of core lessons about how people work, but every time it got passed down it was a little oversimplified and scrambled. "Friendly teasing" became "kick a person's ego to keep them from thinking themselves too good for you." And that's not just for men either. I think the women who like pickup artists have experienced the same thing. Basic lessons about getting along with guys got fucked up over the years.

>>16669045

PUA shit works great for nerdy dudes with low self-esteem, with a propensity for analytical behavior. It's very qualitative, and easy to apply if you have no ability to improvise.

If you're just inexperienced with women, but pretty decent otherwise, then what you have to do is just change your perspective on women and being social in general. You have to get out of your comfort zone in order to naturally develop skills that will help you achieve your goals.

I mean, just look at that nigga Mystery. He has to rely on his magical personality, goofy ass clothes, and television persona, makeup and extra shit to compensate for what he is- a dork. He gets pussy and that's great, but the dude is a dork.

>>16669045

PUA is a stupid culture

Getting girls isnt something you have to analyze and think about. It comes naturally.

You can learn it, but PUA is not the right way. Cofidence and self love is the right way

Its about attracting a girl to you by displaying how awesome you are. Not playing games in her head to trick her into liking you

>>16668970
Have you gone through the recruitment process yet and been accepted?

I'm American getting my visa and pass port taken care of , leaving in about 3 months . Only way to join is show up at one of their recruiting places in Europe

https://www.vice.com/print/i-tried-joining-the-french-foreign-legion

For whatever it's worth.

>>16668953

Stop jacking off during the week, only cum during sex
Eat pineapple
Cut out spicy foods

>>16668956
Does spicy food really make my cum taste bad?
>I fucking love my 'racha

You should kill yourself. Slice your jugular deeply, cut that artery

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>>16668948

Shit tier bai,t try again.

>>16668971
I have attempted suicide about 4 times in my life all by pills and alcohol. Maybe you're right..

hey, i stopped masturbation a week ago and i'm planning to completely stop it. Heard a lot of good things about stopping masturbation and finally decided to try it. So far it's pretty good.
The first days were hard (duh) but now i already don't feel muchthat need to masturbate.
Also i already feel like i have more energy, i'm less lazy, and less introvert, i'm more talkative, more sociable, and more positive. And it's just been a week.
Some people say after a few weeks it makes you more attractive, i don't expect to become a girl magnet but it's probably true in a hormonal sense.

So you should give it a try !

>>16668939
I feel like no-fap is mostly a placebo that'll just make you horny overtime. Isn't it convenient no one tells people having sex to stop doing so for "benefits"?

>>16669162
masturbation doesn't have the same effect on your body and on your mind than sex though.

Guys need to be stimulated to keep the erection, whether it's by touching them or good visuals (you naked) or sounds (moaning, etc.). They don't just get hard and stay hard until they ejaculate. I don't blame him, that's pretty hilarious. I'd probably lose my horniness too.

>>16668879
>telling him we were already naked he should still be erect
Haha no, it doesn't always quite work like that. As you found out

>>16668879
No man but the horniest motherfucker to ever live would be able to maintain an erection after something like that.

find a passion

>>16668871
And what is a passion, exactly?

How about joining a club. Martial arts, Go, chess, w/e interests you the most. And once you have that you can socialize a bit..