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I think I'm depressed.
I'm 25 years old doctor, virgin, lives in Iraq.
My salary isn't that well, shifts are long, exhausting and tiresome and have to deal with "patients" that are faking illness and more than likely to assault me if I don't do what they want if not straight out kill me.
Recently I've lost interest in my old hobbies, On my days off I just hang in my room, just lying on my bed.
And even when I sleep, I get waken up in the middle of the night thinking someone is calling me.
I even started to get irritated by the silly stuff, And this upset me even more, Today I cried because my watch battery need to be replaced.
Every time I look into the mirror I no longer see myself in the reflection.
And in the next few months I have to apply for my permanency, Which has it's own issue to solve.
I guess at some point of my life I've passed the sign "Point of no return" and now I've been left with no option but to go on.

>TL;DR
Just rambling of a depressed doctor.
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Are you getting enough sunlight?
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>>16664082
I didn't know it was possible to be a loner, virgin doctor. I'd thought you'd have to pass certain social hurdles you can avoid in other careers.
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>>16664194
daily reminder that:
-all it takes to be a virgin regardless of age is to not have put a penis into a vagina
-losers get laid every second
-4chan is retarded and you're retarded for being on it

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How do I stop feeling bad about religion and other hateful shit? Islam, Judaism, Christianity are the 3 major ones and all of them talk of hell: eternal, endless, conscious physical & mental torture. Because a crime against an eternal being warrants an eternal punishment.

In this case, I just wish I had never existed. I know a lot of people on 4chan feel the same, we're in a secular world and most of us feel no need for religion. Why does this have to ruin my life so much, when I die I have to expect eternal torture and I can't change? Buddhism is legit, It's the religion of disappearing and being at peace without suffering, all other religions are about worshiping God for bliss and narrowly escaping eternal hell - God wants to save us from what God wants to do to us.

Pic related is Winnie The Pooh, a kids show I used to watch. I feel better vibes and more love warmth and kindness from Winnie the Pooh than any religion...
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Christianity = cruelty

I tried going hardcore Christian once and quit in 5 days. Idk how people can handle it, believing that 99% of people are going to an eternal place of torture for not being saved by a God who could prevent this.
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Zen. It's the only way and isn't
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Judaism doesn't even have a "Hell" as you describe it. I'm not a Jew, but it sounds like you know nothing about theology or scripture except for what you see on TV or read on the Internet. Not every Protestant is a member of Westboro, not every Jew is ultra-Orthodox, not every Muslim is a terrorist, and not every Buddhist is a calm, peaceful monk.

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If a chick is interested in whether I'm touching another girl, could it mean that chick is slightly interested?
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>>16663429
In somebody
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>>16663433
In specifically?
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Is she interested in the guy or the girl? Not enough data.

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Is it socially acceptable to become sexually forward with a girl you've been talking with for a year? I know she likes me but I still feel like it's too early. The internet has taught me that one of the worst mistakes a man can make is to be a prematurely lewd creep towards a woman. That's why I feel uncomfortable even striking up a casual conversation with a girl I find attractive because I'm afraid they'll find my forwardness intrusive and disgusting. However, I'd like to have sex at least once before I die. I know that's a bit primitive but I can't help having a curious personality. And for all I know, I could die at any moment so better sooner than later? It's a fair thought, no?
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Guess not.
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>>16663403

Look anon.

A woman knows if she will ever fuck you within the first 2 seconds of meeting you- she looks at your clothes, looks at your shoes, looks at your watch, looks at your physique, and makes her mind up.

The BEST chance to fuck her is in those 2 minutes you just met her-

After that its downhill.

Who cares if she thinks youre a creep? Creep is a man that isn't attractive that tried to be sexual with a woman- so one girl could think 'what a creep' and another girl will just fuck you
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No, it's not really acceptable to be like "hey, do you want to fuck?" when you barely know someone or have even established some kind of romantic interests. That pretty much only works drunkenly at a bar, but even then you just don't come right out with it.

If a woman senses you're desperate for sex, that usually kills any desire she might have had to sleep with you. You have to go through all the stages of mutual physical attraction, light touching, kissing and then sex. You don't just go ask someone who is just a friend if they want to fuck without seeming like a psychopath.

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This Bitch pretending like she loves me, but i know im just like a trophy to her, so if i fuck her next week she won't care bout me anymore so how do i keep her her like a month or so.

Pic related (she looks exactly like this)
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>so how do i keep her her like a month or so
... why?
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>>16663300
Why would you want to get with a slag like that anyway?
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>>16663331
because i need something to play, and what is better to play a bitch like this

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How many Ativan do I need to take to kill myself?

I'm a PhD student and everyone in my department thinks I'm a piece of shit because of my mental issues. Thete ate no accomodations for mental health issues; ive even heard some profs say PTSD isnt real. All the other phd students mock me and I feel like an enormous burden on the department because of my agoraphobia and panic attacks.

I have a large amount of ativan. I want to take enough to kill myself but not vomit up. I can also combine it with liquor or cough medicine.
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yeah, that will show them
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Don't do it. There is still a lot more left you could do. What's the sense in ending it? There's some good movies coming out later this year.
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>>16662968
There are*
Fuck mobile.

Tell me about your crush(es) anons. I love to hear about them, it's cute.
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>>16655484
I've been out with her twice. She's a dancer, and one of the most beautiful girls to ever give me some attention. It really hurts me when I see her at school with other guys, getting close to them when she talks and touches their legs. She did that to me when we went out, and I thought it meant something. Now I realize it didn't. I'm also always awkward as fuck around her, and can't keep a conversation going in texting. It's better in person, but there are a few awkward silences. I wish she would just tell me already whether or not she wants to be more than just my friend though. I'm tired of playing around like this.
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I fucking hate the girl I'm crushing over, I hate her fucking face, her god damn sense of humor, and her fucking stupid smile. She cancelled our first date a few days before Christmas and neither of us have tried to reschedule, but I feel like this bitch is testing me, and I hate it. She flirts with other guys at work when I'm around, and I feel like she really wants my attention, but I'm not giving it to her because last time I went through something similar the girl got all the attention she wanted from me and I didn't get shit in return. I don't want to play games, but I don't know what to do and I just wanna smash already.
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>>16655534
I don't understand. You hate her and have a crush on her?

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Hi /adv/
Last year I was "force" to have sex (while sleeping) I went to the police 9 months after (my uni told me to do so) I put a complaint, and now (around 7 months later) are calling witnesses and telling that they don't believe me, the uni doesnt' believe me either (it happened in a uni residence)
What should I do? I'm really tired, can I cancel the complaint so they don't keep going?
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Tell us exactly what happened.
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>9 months later

And you don't think this is a problem?
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>>16680960
I was knew to the country and I didn't want to get into trouble, plus I have anxiety and it's really difficult to me to talk to people, don't say talk about every detail of that with a police I don't know.
I know that that's the reason why they don't believe (even when you can wait up to 9 years), I actually went because he started to make my life impossible and the uni stuff told me I should go to the police

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Where do you find men you can trust?
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How much?
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>>16680306
Enough to pass out in your clothes and with your wallet at hand right next to them and expect to wake up that way.
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>>16680304
Please stop making these threads. If you were interested in doing something about your situation you'd go out and do it, stop wasting people's time.

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Well, /adv/, I'm just gonna get straight to the story

I'm a senior in HS and I've been dating this girl since the end of sophomore year. She is basically perfect; long golden blond hair, vivid bright blue eyes, 5'3, long legs. Her smile is so perfect, seeing it makes me smile. She acts so cute, especially around me, and it drives me nuts. We do everything together, she taught me to love whatever I was doing, regardless of what it was. I actually got excited for math class at 7:00 AM because I sat next to her. We even go on family vacations together, because we can't stand to be apart for very long.
So, long story short, this girl means everything to me, she's my whole world. However, there's a big problem. This last week she was acting really weird around me, yesterday she broke down and told me why. Two weekends ago, she was at her friends house. I was helping my buddy move, so I didn't go. I guess it was kind of a party because people were drinking and guys showed up. She got drunk on a dare and then got crazy with her friends, and college guys kept trying to get them alone, and at the end of the night, one offered to bring her home. She doesn't remember much but she lost her virginity to him that night and woke up in his bed. I love her but she just killed the way I saw her, all of my trust and our relationship. She gave some random frat kid her flower, for nothing.

She keeps begging me to forgive her. What do I do?
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>>16679054

Move on. In two years, you'll never think of her again. You'll literally meet like 5000 new girls in the next five years.

They are all sluts, manipulative, clingy, and crazy. Get used to it.

Source: 30 year old anon
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>>16679054
Fucking dump that bitch lad, she is a whore and if you continue to be with her and forgive her this easily she knows that she has a free pass to fuck other guys
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Stop shaming the poor girl for having sex would probably be a good start. She obviously feels like shit about it and you thinking her virginity is so fucking special isn't helping.

You just break up with her and move on. These are things that happen in the real world. You either end it now and it sucks, or you end it later and feel like a gigantic beta for putting up with it for so long.
I'm an alcoholic and black out at least a couple of times a week. I've never once woken up in a random bed while I was in a relationship. Even drunk me has some moral compass. He occasionally even does dishes. The moral of the story is, unless the girl was roofied, she probably wasn't doing much to stay faithful.

Side note, why didn't you have sex with her after dating for more than a year? It's all becoming clear now....

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Literally every time I see my little sister she makes a comment about how her boobs/butt are bigger than mine. We're talking like 1-2 comments PER DAY.
Her comments piss me off because 1) I am jealous and 2) she mentions it so often that it's like she's trying to compensate for some other area of insecurity.

How can I shut her up? She literally talks about it to her friends. I'll like meet a friend of hers and the first thing out of their mouth is "oh yeah, her boobs ARE smaller!"

It's not even like I have abnormally small boobs- I have a D cup! My sister's are just like HUGE.
I don't know why my sister's boobs are like the cornerstone of her personality but it's pissing me off that she's insulting me.
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Take your breast-envy fetish roleplay elsewhere
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>>16678926
This is literally happening to me

What shoul I say to her next time she says "haha my boobs are bigger"?? Is there anything I can say that will shut her up without seeming really bitter
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>>16678941
>I have a D cup!

I refuse to believe you're a girl. Any girl would know that's not how bra sizes work, especially if she's taken the trouble to make a whole post about breast size.

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What could Elliot Rodger have done to improve his situation and not end up like he did?
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Kill himself.
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>>16678399
Not even op but did you read?
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Taken responsibility for himself, even the smallest thing in his life was someone elses fault.

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.

>Who is Brandon/Female Brandon?
A shitposter who's convinced he's ugly. He keeps posting his picture to ask if he's ugly and to ask for dating advice, only to rebut or ignore any responses he gets. Female Brandon is a girl who pulls the same shit.

>Frog
Also piss off.

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How do you casually touch a girl you're into?
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>>16678144
Casually.
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How do you know a girl is shy?

Don't worry she'll tell you.

But really though mfw this bitch unironically said she was shy, then admitted to loving clubbing and having "a lot" of male friends.

How the fuck do females rationalize this much?
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>>16677723
why care
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guy here. im shy, love clubbing and all my friends are girls mostly.

come at me autismo
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Shy grill here. I love clubbing without the sex and drugs and for the music and I have no male friends. Shy doesn't mean you're socially retarded or super anxious all the time. I'm completely fine unless I have to speak with strangers or publicly.

long story short...
>At the gym. Married couple there, wife 10/10 in my book amazing body/face.
>know them for a while, just at gym
>husband constantly teases, publically makes un of wife. "you're valley girl voice."
>I jump in, joking "You want her to sound like a ghetto black girl do my best ghetto black girl voice "ummm hummm Dass Right!"
>both laugh
>next day get a call from wife, she thanks me, says it was sweet, wants to get together for drinks JUST ME AND HER.
>she mentions hotel bar and says "the rooms there are so nice too"
Appreciate any and all advice. not even trolling
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>>16677143
As a single person I'd fuck any woman who isn't in a relationship with any of my friends.
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OK I'm not reading your story

But yes you should fuck another man's wife. If you want, tell him about it.

You aren't ruining the relationship, she is. And if she's fucking outside of her marriage, there's probably a part of it that's already lost.

Giddy up, cowboy. Have fun balls deep
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I don't think you should be fucking her because even if she'd ultimately fuck another guy anyway (which she likely has been given how she's coming off), doesn't mean you should lower yourself to those standards just because you're not properly at fault.

I would actually say that you should tell the husband and be a bro.

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