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oh my fucking good that typo

>>16665730
yes
does she happen to be asian?

>>16665743

No she's not, why?

A prostate stimulator will be a better investment for you. That's basically leaving "let's have some fun" territory to "holy shit fuck ah oh no I'm such a buttslut I'm coming just from having my ass violated" territory.

Maybe a little bit fast from 'could you please give me a blow job' to 'put this up my arse' or do you think it's better just to go all the way crazy?

I've used a few pocket pussy's between relationships and honestly they're all the same the inside feel totally depends on you. Though I've got to say if it vibrates you should get that

I'm also in IT. everyone has stressed that you need an internship while in college, did you look for one while you were still in school?

>>16665754

I worked as a junior sysadmin for four years.

>>16665784
What happened to that job?

If you don't have the maternal instinct then you don't. What do you expect us to say?

>>16665612
Pretty much. If you don't have it, you don't. You're likely to not change.

that's a red flag for me. If I was your BF I would have saw you as short-term dating potential and nothing more.

It also possibly means you're a liberal/Marxist which would also tip off my radar.

>>16665551

to stop catching feelings fast, you gotta burn a lot, to a point where you become insensitive to what once stimulated you a lot

at least for me, that was the only way

and it's often not the best thing to lose t b h. closing yourself off to pain and disappointment will only set you up for a life of loneliness.

>>16665551
You literally sound exactly the same as me at 19. I fucked up dating opportunities with about 6 or 7 girls before I finally got one that stuck. We're still together 7 years on. Don't stress about it and enjoy the ride, you will only improve your chances with age

>>16665560

I sorta already know this but dont want it to be true. First girl I ever liked shot me down and it hurt. Now I only go for girls I know like me back, but still man

I dont want all that flingy bullshit. So not interested. I just want a partner

>>16665562

I know. Just sucks. I just want someone to be close with. I got love to give and nobody to give it to

Male or female?

>>16665506
Seek professional help, you cannot handle this situation on your own. Talk to a school councillor or teacher who you trust and get into some therapy immediately.

Also, as someone who had to live with an uncle that did the sane shit, never sleep without a knife under your pillows, or some kind of weapon. If you can lock your bedroom door, good. If you have a dog that will sleep in your room or in bed with you, even better.

The minute you turn 18, get the fuck out of there. Stay with friends before that if you have too, and don't be afraid to get a blanket and get out of your house and away from him at night if it gets particularly bad. If that happens and you live in town, go to the police station and just tell them you couldn't be at home. You don't -have- to tell them why, but it will help.

Lastly, these things don't get better, only worse, and you need to cut as much interaction with him out as possible for your own safety.

>>16665554
this

Woops

>/adv/

Fuck man, did you tell them about the ringing?

>>16665498
Stay positive

Maybe look into airline controller jobs... Apparently they're amongst the highest paid jobs that you don't need a degree for

You are kidding right? Girls don't give a shit because they like you enough to date you. I mean you are dating college girls right, so having a car at that age isn't a big deal.

Just be confident and let her know you will pay for a taxi with your own money.

>>16665449
It's a big deal unless you both live in a city where public transport is actually more desirable (eg. London)

But even then, a car is great for just escaping the city and heading to the countryside, for example

>talking from experience

>>16665460
I figured they gave a shit to a degree since it always came up in a discussion, or blatantly asked.

>>16665466
Yeah I'm an Amerifag by the way, with yuros I know you guys can get by without a car.

Sounds like your boyfriend has bigger issues desu

Your boyfriend is stupid and jealous, and you are stupid and desperate for this guy's attention now that it's forbidden.

The guy is annoyed with all this shit. So am I.

>>16665326

he wanted to fuck you, you chose boyfriend over him, he lashed out from anger

Maybe your friend is depressed. Struggling to reach out to you, then getting angry/disheartened.
Might not be that.
Maybe your friend has thoughts/opinions/feelings about you that are new, and is trying to figure them out.

Maybe it would be worth meet your friend in person somewhere low-pressure and quiet, and have a relaxed chat about anything and nothing for a couple of hours. Give your friend the chance to open up and clear the air, but don't pile on the expectation or start an interrogation.

>>16665251
We can't meet irl for now, I'm in a different state and won't be back till Easter. Is there any way I can ask him abou this via a message?

Eh, bump

just move on and stop giving them huge amounts of time

I think your friend means be friendly, not that you have to pal around with all of them regularly. blocking numbers and things like that communicate bitterness imo

You don't have to be friends with them, but blocking them seems childish. That's a lot of blocked numbers to have.

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Agree with the above opinions. I was once similar to you OP, but the above poster is right. Blocking comes across as immature and shows that you care. A better way to do it would be to just cut contact naturally, stop texting them first and respond only as you need to. Show that their answer didn't affect you whatsoever and that you have your own life to live, it comes across as much more secure.

Nice b8 m8

You would go to prison if she brought it to the police effectively ending your life.

WTF is wrong with you? Do you honestly think a 6 year old can understand the actions her older brother is doing? You sick pedo piece of shit.

Don't care if it is bait, fuck this clown.

>>16665194
Man, im not really sure of a 16 yr old boy can even be a pedo

There is no God. Life isn't fair. Some people die without ever having loved or fucked anyone.

When you come terms with brutality that is life, flower being trampled by elephants foot day after day, then perhaps you'll find some spiritual peace. But you'll probably never get rid of the innate resentment.

>>16665033
sounds like your outside matches your insides

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>>16665062
not to say you aren't partially right but honestly stop and imagine if everyday for the rest of your adult life, you looked like this.

This man is 25 years old, 5'1", balding and works in a grocery store.

Some people have legitimately been shat upon by the genetic lottery. My suggestion is to find a similarly deformed person of the opposite sex, god willing you can both settle for each other without too much disgust by one another.

Doesn't matter.

The one thing girls truly love, it's complaining about men.

If you choose chivalry, you're sexist.
If you don't, you're not a gentlemen and where are all the good men gone...

Stop worryin' about the consequences, because they're always the same and there aint a damned thing that can change that (every damned man has tried).
Simply put, if she likes you, she'll let it slide and hide her hatred, if she doesn't, you'll fuckin' find out.

My point is, do whatever the fuck you want because it won't change anything.

Personally, I'd rather not waste my time doing things for someone else, just to be called out on it and labelled sexist - so I don't. I figure if a girl likes me, she'd understand, and I might end up doing things for her once I've gotten to know her better.

But, each to their own.

>>16664408
Just like most "do girls like x" questions, it depends on the girl. Some do and some don't. It also matters how you do it. If you're suave about doing the chair pull outs and shit then it's not as cringey embarrassing.

hold the door, open the passanger door, walk on the "outside" (closest to the street, etc)

don't take the jacket off or pull out the chair. takes a lot to pull that off, and I just don't know how hot you are

Maybe the problem is with you and not all of them.

There are two approaches to negative stimuli. The first is habituation. You expose yourself to the stimulus often enough that it becomes background noise. The other is avoidance. You just get the fuck away from it.

Pick one.

i have that too sometimes. Even tough I once was like that. I just always think "omg, grow up..."