What is a thumbnail and how does it work /adv/?
Found two thumbnails of animal porn on my girlfriends phone after she gave it to me, I asked her about them and she said it must be from the previous owner of the phone, I checked the details and apparently the image was created whilst she owned the phone.
She claims she watched some bondage porn on her phone from time to time but never Animal porn, how could have this got on there? or is she just bullshitting?
>>16667257
You're good. She's telling the truth.
>>16667257
Okay, when you say animal porn, are these real animals?
>>16667262
How?
>>16667263
Yeah, like a girl sucking a horses dick
and two guys fucking a fish.
I love this girl, we have so much in common, but she is afraid to fall in love with me. She has trust issues due to past relationships, one physically abused her and the other just left without giving a reason why. What do i do, I love her so darn much, and would try anything to convince her i am not like those guys, i wish to marry her one day, pls help me...
>>16667210
How old are you?
>>16667210
the problem is if she cant trust you shes not mature enough to be in a relationship. i tried to overlook and help my partner mature, but because it wasnt primarily self inspired they didnt, left me 5 years later, and only after realized it was stupid of them.
Make her feel safe and take it slow. But really think twice before you try any of that because if you aren't 100% in and end up leaving once the initial attraction wears off, you'll fuck her up even more.
Ok so my girlfriend is a semi famous porn actress. I'm a 25 year old virgin who's dated her for 3 months we met at a meet up group. She told me who she was and I told her I wouldn't judge her. We talk regularly and quickly became best friends. My problem is that even though she introduced me to her family I feel like she isn't as serious about our relationship as I am. She regularly takes trips to so cal and vegas for her "job" and doesn't call me. When she's here she texts me back immediately. When she's there it takes several hours. What do I do?
No good m8. You won't get a satisfying relationship here
>>16667123
Youre suck a cuck its disgusting. Do you fap to her as well.
>>16667125
Why not? She introduced me to her dad why would she do that if she didn't want me to marry her?
My girlfriend of a year always gets butthurt when other people get married. Today her younger cousin get engaged and my gf was so jealous and mad she was nearly crying and said shes a piece of shit and her cousin is better than her. It really pissed me off because i thought it sounded like she was trying to say something about me not getting engaged. . I got mad and told her her family is just a bunch of useless niggers. She has gotten jealous of so many other girls getting married or having kids her age. I'm in college and would like to be graduated before getting married plus you know wait longer before that happened. Is it right that I get really pissed off when she says something like this
ye she a crazy bitch
How old are you both? Also, if you do plan to marry her in the future, why not get engaged now and get married once you've graduated?
>>16667073
im 20 shes 20, I just feel like im still a kid going to college and i want to have a career before i get engaged.
I have a friend who magically seems to bring out the super bitchy sorority girl in me when he doesnt deserve it. I apologize when i catch myself and he appreciates it but it seems to be happening more often .
and i think he's tired and i'm tired of him getting on my nerves( because he's young/immature, not his fault i know).. Should i let the friendship go, how do i fix it?
(Cont):
Today i think was pretty bad even for me.
should i text him and tell him that 'you're my friend and i care about you but i think we piss each other off when we hang out too long, so we should take a bit of a breather'?
Just sleep with him and everything will be fine! :-)
>>16667046
I dont want to sleep with him. I am not attracted to him and he knows this. Also he has a problem with relationships he's had 11 exes and he's 19, which is sorta a thing that pisses me off, because its stupid
How should I play out my life from here on out:
>20, live in Indy (Moved from a Rural Area), Graduate in November for Information Systems/Network Security
> Been trying for over a year for Internships, researching into companies, tailoring Resumes/cover leaders, getting constant rejections for even Entry Level Java to get my foot in the door
>Been miserable, made one friend I found online and she's cool as hell but Bf/Job/School gives us little interaction.
>Father/8 year family doctor, in my Hometown knows the owner of a Hospital well and my degree is in high demand there, might be guaranteed a job, lower cost of living, my Best friend. primary family and a few family friends are there, Only mother in Indy
Here is what I'm thinking:
If I stay up here, I could live with my mother for a little longer, and look for a job to advance a more successful long term career. But I'm miserable. Completely Miserable. I'll end up living in a studio alone here.
If I move back home, there is NO other opportunities there if I get an apartment with my best friend there. I could always just play GTAV with my friend in Indy and have about the same interaction we get now but nothing more. I think I'd be happier down there but I don't think. Both are a big deal generally.
I know it looks like it seems the better option to live my life back home but I'd like some other perspectives. Any help is appreciated.
>>16667028
>there is NO other opportunities there
The job is pretty much guaranteed though, right? In high demand and your father knows the owner? If you're a shoe-in I'd say move back home, get the job, try to be comfortable and save up money while getting that job experience and then just look for other opportunities elsewhere if you really want to leave again.
And if you're making some cash you can always use it to help mom out, right?
>>16667035
>>16667035
I'm hesitant to say guarantee cause of the way jobs are. I told father to hold off on asking until later in the year when I'm fully convinced this is the better choice. Combine this income and my friend working in a distribution center. I'd have far less money troubles there.
>>16667040
>until later in the year
I'm not familiar with the situation, so I don't know how long you really have, but I'd assume that the position will be filled sooner rather than later.
Anyway, from what you said, I don't see what's really holding you back aside from the lack of other job opportunities. I mean, from what you're telling me, living where you are now hasn't turned up anything either, right?
If it looks like a girl lost interest after several successful dates, is it appropriate to ask her to just say so at least?
I'm not 100% sure, but I know that something's up and I'd like to know what.
Describe why you think she's lost interest so we can tell you if you're a retard or not
>>16667016
> is it appropriate to ask her to just say so at least?
Why? Is she not texting back or something?
>>16667019
I am a retard, but okay.
>4-5 dates.
>kiss, have sex, "we're something".
>ffwd couple of days of happy texting.
>meet up again, seems a little distant and stressed (possibly work-related), kissing but no sex.
>now takes >18 hours to reply to the most mundane of texts ("How was your day?" and stuff like that).
I did post here before, in case anyone feels like calling me out on it. Yesterday people were advising me that she's probably just stressed or whatever, but the last couple of hours of radio silence aren't making things better.
Legal advice bros.
>fiances mom took out credit cards in her name
>racked up $6,000 in debt
>find out one card is frozen
>both cards are maxed out
>fiances credit that was in the 700's is now in the 400's
Guess I wanna know what our options are. She isn't going to send her mom to prison. Is there any other way to get the debt erased some or taken off altogether?
I don't get it, how could she take out credit cards in her name?
>>16666990
This is serious. Unless there's any lawyers or financial experts here, you should seek a local firm for a free consultation on this.
So far, the only logical answer as a non-professional is to return the things she bought to at least pay back some of debt and pay the rest out of pocket. I think the only way you can get debt cleared is if the person who used your name is obviously not related to you in any way. The creditors want their money, and they'd expect family to help pay too.
>>16667002
It's her mom. She knows all the info she needs about her daughter to take them out in her name. She applied online and I assume impersonated her on the phone if it came to that
>first relationship
>2 years in I start to question if this is the girl for me
>like an idiot i tell my gf this
>dumps me
>shortly after we get back together for reasons i don't remember
>goes like shit for a while
>start to abuse her emotionally while im depressed
>telling her our relationship is shit and we should just be friends etc.
>find out she's talking to other guy while this is going on
>dump her
yea it gets messier from here
>a few days later we meet up to clear the air
>still have feelings for each other
>decide to work on things, but not put a title on us
>am very indecisive during this time
>tell her we should just be friends
>we continue to still talk
>eventually i realize this is the girl I love despite everything
>ask her out again
>things are going great
>find out she went on a date before we got back together, while we were still talking
>decide to work through things regardless
We're still dating till this day. It's been a real shit show, but I still love this woman, and she still loves me despite how shitty I've been to her. My question do we even still have a chance? My mind is a lot clearer, and I've realized I just want to settle down with her.
bamp
>>16666965
How old are you?
>>16667006
20 believe it or not
I went out for coffee with a girl and she was breathing heavily and avoiding eye contact the whole time. I think her cheeks turned a little red as well. What does that mean? Is she allergic to coffee?
It means you should break up with her.
>logic
>durr durr
she could have been high as fuck
>>16666937
>breathing heavily
You mean like she couldn't quite catch her breath the whole time?
>become friends with girl at work
>shes 10/10 amazing personality, beautiful in every way
>be me, 7/10 at very best, low self esteem
>trying to be her bf for 3 months, falling in love with her more and more because she makes me happy when I'm around her
>She tells she just wants to be friends with everyone and isnt really looking for that, being so stressed lately.
Help me, my heart is crushed. I put myself out there again only to get shot down.
24/M/Virgin for reference.
I want to continue to pursue her because I genuinely like her and would make an amazing bf to her.
I feel we're a match but no matter how hard I try she just doesn't seem to like me. I'm nice, considerate, I'm not too shitty looking, she loves the way i smell, how I make her laugh, but fuck it's just not working.
Am I just fucked? Should I give up? Should I continue to flirt/pursue? What do I do? I feel like my heart has been ripped out.
Also, no, I'm not autistic.
>>16666853
You can't make her want to date you. If she doesn't want to date you, stop trying to get her to date you
Don't throw your dick around at work. It's unprofessional.
>>16666864
what?
A family member is suspicious of me cause I have a couple picture of our little sister in the bathtub. How do I get her off my back?
Killing yourself ought to do the trick
>>16666758
Pedophiles should be burned at the stake.
>>16666768
this
Hey guys I'm just trying to get some advice I saw a really cute cashier at a food store and I just thought she was really gorgeous but idk how to approach her and not come on to strong to get her number and see where it goes from there any advise will be greatly appreciated thanks in advance :)
Bumping for interest
Don't think about it tooo much. The next time you see her, give her a compliment and gauge her response
If its bad, you best move the fuck on.
If its average, keep on talking but keep your options with other girls in life. Don't be an orbiter to a girl who isn't super excited interacting with you.
If its good, obviously fuck her right on the counter. No, but say "mind if we continue talking? What's your number?"
Ask her name. If she's wearing a name tag "so your name is..." tell her it's a very pretty name. Ask her what shes doing after her shift. Depending on what she says invite her somewhere casual and very public.
Should I break up with my girlfriend
>>16666654
Yes.
The answer is always yes, once you have asked the question.
If I were in your situation OP, I would break off even my marriage. Seriously. You should definitely do this.
Hi /adv/,
I'll make a long story short, I am a straight male, my best friend since freshman year is gay, and some of his friends are as well. That's fine, whatever, but they keep attempting to make me do gay shit like go back with them alone, its making me uncomfortable and I've stopped hanging out with them. Unfortunately its gotten to the point where both his friends and their friends are messaging me with the goal of "converting me".
Its legitimately creeping me out and they are starting to spread rumors that I'm closeted, I really don't want this shit to spread especially since its false. Just in general, what should I do, being open-minded in today's society is literally ruining any sense of peace I want since I feel like I'm being harassed, please help.
>>16666634
You're fucked m8.
Tell your friend it makes you uncomfortable and if he could ask his friends to stop. They probably just see it as a fun little game or a running joke.
They're probably just fucking with you