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If you think you're ugly, work on your appearance. Give up the bandannas and army jackets. Wear better clothes. Work out. You can do it bro. You're not ugly for sure, but many of us lack style.

>>16758739
I don't dress that way regularly, I just slapped together a bunch of shitty clothes because I was bored and I thought it'd be funny.

>>16758725
Lose the bandana and military jacket, shave, and dress fucking normally.

I cringe just looking at your pic.

No. There are surgeries you can get to correct it. I'm getting physical therapy for my carpal tunnel, actually. (They couldn't figure out my MRI results so they did a differential diagnosis for carpal tunnel.).

You didn't talk to your orthopedist about treatment options?

>>16758723
No, you can still do pretty much everything you want. And if you can't, just get surgery.

>>16758734
No, I asked for a referral from my doc WEEKS ago and I haven't gotten a message even tho they said they went through with it. They've just been letting my hands degenerate for months and months on end, actually.

>>16758705
Not sure about dating sites but yeah, you can find cool girls online. It's really dependent on where you look.

I met someone who became my best friend through a fucking MMO game of all places awhile back. We ended up meeting up since she only lived a few hours away and after high school, she moved here and we dated for 4 years. She was cool and I thought she was pretty hot.

>>16758705

I got a girl from OkCupid that was a really sweet, great girl. We were in a relationship for a while, but I dumped her for outside reasons.

Still, that's a good site to get a general idea of the kinds of things a person is into, and try to start from there.

okcupid seems to be a more or less representative slice of the population

OTOH keep in mind if you're having trouble getting dates IRL you're gonna have trouble online too.

>>16758702
>or try and see if she's willing to have something short term
If you're thinking like that, you clearly don't care about her romantically. You should let it go.

Also, a word of advice, many people here are hyped up on the STEM-train so much you might be metaphorically lynched for being a theatre major. You should include that info only when it's relevant to the situation.

>>16758672

>t;dr: After I hang out with a girl I like my throat closes and I cannot sleep.

You're obviously allergic to something kid. Are you seriously such a beta you can't talk to this girl about her perfume so you can fucking breath?

Jesus, dude. What a pansy.

>>16758672
You're having an allergic reaction. You should get tested for allergies and talk to her. You could get really sick and even fucking die.

Buy antihistamines. Offer to buy her something to sleep in (that never leaves your house) and ask her to shower before bed.

tell her to stop wearing so much perfume/deodorant
also benadryl

>>16758651
> I don't feel like there's much I can do

there's really nothing you can do

I used to have a fat mom, and nothing worked until we took some candid photos and had to send some to relatives. My mom saw how fat she was and immediately changed her lifestyle and now she eats healthier

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>>16758637

>What do i do?

Continue your life of mediocrity and stupidity. Your life is an episode of Jerry Springer and its a miracle you haven't wandered into traffic chasing a feather or gone blind staring at the sun for too long at this point.

>>16758637
Why would you settle as a side-chick? You have a one year old who does not need to see his mother getting bested by his own dad. Furthermore you don't need to be with this guy just because he wants you. He sounds like a piece of shit if he thinks he deserves to be with you after cheated while you were pregnant. Stay single til your kids in preK and let that man be with his original family.

>>16758637
Stay away from him.

He's already knocked you and another girl up. He blew you off and went to fuck her again. Now he wants to come back to you? That's hilarious.

In another year, he'd want her back. Hell, he might knock up a third girl if he hasn't already. The sooner you move on from him the fucking better off you'll be. People like that rarely change, enough to the point where you'd be a fool to waste your time, effort, and feelings and praying that it will work out.

I feel bad for you OP, but if you really take this guy back, you're just going to be hurting yourself all over again and you'll only have yourself to blame.

>>16758629
Realize you aren't her caretaker, arrange for professional help, end it, and then bring said help in.

doesn't anybody else know this feel?

>>16758641
If ending it is not an option, get ready for pain, and it ending tragically.

Get her help, and a lot of it.

He probably thinks that the respect for his position derives entirely from the authority to disrespect yours. The only way he'd ever act differently is if he worked only with others who are at his exact same pay grade. Think of it working like a frat. He's happy if everyone is a bro, but it's a shitfest if he has to deal with a pledge.

>>16758593
He treats the other two assistants better, and the other bosses too (for a total of 5 people). Maybe it's because I'm new, I don't know.

>>16758585

You're the new kid and probably are asking dumb questions and taking up too much of his attention. EVERYONE does when they begin a job, and everyone is a pain in the ass while they learn.

There is nothing personal in his treatment of you. He's just barking at the new kid. Once you get settled in and fully know what you're doing he'll treat you like everyone else, and once they hire another new kid he'll start barking at that one.

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Invest in one of those webcams and skype each other

>>16758567
If you both truly love each other, make a pact. Just decide to be friends for now BUT, when you see each other, or when you are able to live together, you are 100% dedicated to that person.

I'm in a LDR right now where I see him for one weekend around every three weeks/a month (not counting summers/holidays like spring break, christmas, thanksgiving break) and its really hard sometimes, especially in the middle when you see no end in sight and miss him so much, but if you have a mature relationship and genuinely care about him and love him, it can definitely work, just make sure you at least communicate a little everyday whether its a phone call or by text or whatever. Before beginning though, make sure you and your significant other truly love eachother and are serious and not just doing it to drag things on.

I have no qualifications but my parents are both lawyers so I know a little bit. Ask away, just don't take it as gospel.

>>16758825
As scripture you meme

>>16758909
both are perfectly acceptable

shameless bump

>>16758553
I'd hate anniversary + birthday on the same day.
I want to spend my birthday with my friends and family, and my anniversary with just my boyfriend.
Bad, bad idea anon.

>>16758801
I actually didnt think about that, so do you think it would be better after valentines day to tell her ?

Be naked all the time. Hate that it's considered public indecency desu

Sa>>16758562
Same

Ask my crush for a hug.

Kill his hamster. All faggot sophomores have hamsters.

>>16758544
Kek

Make his life a living hell, OP. Go to sadism and animal abuse forums on Tor, they'll known better than any of us here how to fuck with someone.

If you're insistent on staying on the surface net, try /b/ or some milder sadism forum.

Or just get one of your other buddies to sell him sulfuric acid tabs instead of LSD tabs and tell him it's LSD. Do some research, depending on how far you're willing to fuck with him you can go anywhere from a light dosage that will cause him to need a doctor and thus inform his parents of his life choices (also scare the shit out of him), to brain damage, to paralysis, to death. Your call, OP.

>>16758540
Depression is a lot easier to get through if you understand why you feel it in the first place.

What has you depressed? And if it's nothing specific, what was going on leading up to you becoming depressed?

Delete this thread and make it again without breaking Global Rule 15, then we'll help you.

Are we talking depression as in clinical depression? http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depression/basics/definition/con-20032977

If you think you have it, you should see a psychiatrist; you might need a referral from your general practitioner, depending on your insurance.

How to find a mental health provider: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/mental-illness/in-depth/mental-health-providers/art-20045530
How to find a therapist (if you get diagnosed with with something by the psychiatrist): http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/how-to-find-therapist