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Being unable to hate and feeling weak for it 2016-02-01 20:06:20 Post No.16757283
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Being unable to hate and feeling weak for it
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2016-02-01 20:06:20
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I am not a vengeful person, never been. However, someone i've lived my whole life with (not romanticly) fucked me over big time. I lost three figures money because of this person, lost friends, opportunities, bonds. I've also been humliated, all because i believed this person once, and wasted one and a half whole year because of it. Today i gave up on an opportunity to fuck this person over, like many times before, because i'm not sadistic, because i've never felt like having revenge in long term. I even thought, weeks before when i had similar oportunities, about fucking this person over for once. But i didn't. I jst didn't feel like doing it. Not out of pity, but because i purely didn't feel like getting revenge. Some, like my lawyer, call it ''Maturity'' and ''Getting over''.
However, as mentioned, today i passed on an opportunity to get a small bit of revenge compared to everything this person has ever done to me. I didn't, and that person knew about that, some people congratulated me, including my lawyer, and even he said the person felt gratitude and all. Then i got home, literally the same 30 minutes i had arrived, i received a phone call from someone i know about this person spreading lies about me, ridiculous, humiliating lies. We live in a small city, so it's a sure shot that this will be spread. And i'm feeling like having this feeling of revenge again, this burning feeling that i think might be hatred by i think it isn't since it won't last 2 days. I'm not able to hate anyone big time, even though i get disgusted by a few people, like this one and others. But maybe this time you folks, if you see fit, may talk me out of forgetting this, and going through doing something to fuck this person over, just out of justice. Just to punish every major thing such childish, coward person has ever done. I don't know what to do, i don't even know if being non-vengeful can be considered a weakness, which it seems it's being.
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>>16757283
three figures is a lot. this person intentionally fucked you over? or did you make a bad investment in something they honestly (Though retardedly) thought might work? if the former, its not revenge you're dolling out. its justice. if the latter, than you made a bad choice and becuase it went down wrong their being a dick. just vengance.
imo you don't sound weak. you sound like someone who is comfortable with who they are. you're having second thoughts about that comfort itself. but if you still have the money to support yourself well and CANT get the money back from this guy, its your call, its your life.
its too late with the rumors and no one important will entertain them for very long
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I have money. It's more of the latter, they fucked me financially out of retardness and childishness. The rest, the humiliations and moral attacks were fully intentional. I'm just mad, but not so much, since i don't really feel strong emotions for long. But i don't know what to do, can't shake off this feeling i'm being a weak person for not punishing them. Not even the rumors itself i'm worried, it's their fucking behavior. Why the fuck do it? I've never done anything to hurt them, quite the contrary, i could, literally and figuratively, hurt them through a lot of means, yet not only i didn't, i've also helped them.
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>>16757327
you have lots of money, so get some instant revenge. pay some assholes to go beat him up. if ur not into it, dont.
but dont think your weak for having self control. an eye for an eye for an eye for an eye. whole world goes blind. just learn from the lesson and protect yourself in the future.
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Basically, I got blocked by a user for trying to reason with her. Any advice? Should I explain myself, or should I leave her?
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Take a step back from the argument, read that shit back to yourself, and ask yourself if this is really worth your time and energy
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>>16757288
I agree that it is a waste of time. However, my intentions were to enhance understanding. The merit of my argument was very clear, I shared my idea, exposed myself to new potential viewpoints and provided counterparts. She thinks I'm trying to win the argument, or maybe troll I assume.
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>>16757316
Well sounds like you know it's a waste of time, then.
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I have been letting a fat ugly girl suck me off for the past month... we hang out, and whenever I whip my dick out she either jacks me off or sucks me off. All I have to do is act like her boyfriend except when her friends or family are around... so I have to let her hold my hand / arm, I have to be affectionate toward her, I have to cuddle her when we watch movies together.
She also buys me a lot of shit... like a lot... my friends say I am taking advantage of her, one friend went as far as saying hes going to actually ask her out and treat her right... Am I taking advantage of her? should I continue this weird friendship with her?
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Hey - it's a living! The oldest profession.
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Initials?
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sounds like an equal trade to me as long as she knows your intentions
I'm a 29y/o male. I've had 14 sexual partners, most friends with benefits NSA type deals. I've never paid for sex but once got a happy ending at a massage parlor.
On a Tindr like app a local chick hit me up and we both showed mutual "likes" whatever but I told her I'm just looking for friends not trying to date or be a part of any kids lives, ya know, cause I'm an asshole. So she's like she just wants someone to get drunk with and fuck and have some money thrown her way. I mean I've heard of old guys buying girls drinks and then just dropping cash for a blowjob and it's a go. I never experienced it and I'm kinda conflicted. Also I think I'm the settler and she's the reacher so as a settler the idea of paying seems bogus
Thoughts?
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>>16757252
dont go for it then. in my experience (as a hooker) when i say 'a little cash thrown my way' i mean at least 100 dollars.
if you're settling dont pay, but keep in mind as you get older casual sex gets harder.
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>>16757278
>but keep in mind as you get older casual sex gets harder.
Really? I didn't start really having sex until I turned 27.
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>>16757278
Yes. I do appreciate your 1st hand knowledge. it has been a few years for me and she asked that aswell. I didn't think about her trying to hustle me because I e never been confronted by money before. Dinner, dates etc sure.
I think I'll take your advice and not go through with it. As much as I want to slap her big titties around with my cock I think after it's over I'd just feel as unsatisfied and out whatever untold bill is looming over the bed. I mean I've had a chick better looking then her hop in her car, drive a couple hours, bring me weed, get me high for free, suck a mean dick and leave. multiple times. So any amount of money exchange seems like a poor power position.
Hey, really need your help. I almost never go on 4chan but yesterday I had a couple of friends over and im not sure which one of them to blame for the following but I am disgusted and sick to the point where I feel like puking ever since it happened.
So my friends decided to pull a "prank" on me and posted a ridiculous story about some seriously illegal shit on /b/ in a secrets thread posing as me (Using "I"). They decided to tell me a little later on when I went completely bezerk on them for doing this and kicked them out of the house aswell as now completely blocking these idiots from my life.
There was a reply to "my" post, anonymous posted this picture and said they have reported it to the fbi and theyre not kidding.
Please tell me if this is for real or just fake because I am sick to my stomach ever since I saw this post. Its a URL that can be easily found on google and you dont have to even submit anything to find this page. The IP affiliated with the post is obviously my PC's. My "friends" just called me a pussy and laughed at me for believing it and said its a stupid joke but I literaly will not sleep until I find out what is going on here.
I have never done a single illegal thing in my life and I feel as if it is about to get ruined.
Thank you
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>>16757247
> Implying they werent shitposting
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>>16757296
Idk what that means. As I said I dont go on 4chan at all. None of what they said is true it was all to piss me off.
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>>16757306
M8 nothing will happen to you that whole "the hacker group called anonymous" is such a minority on this vietnamese recipe exchange board that you have exactly nothing to worry about, trust me half this site is 12 years old now and as long as youre not posting Cheese Pizza you are all good
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>Seen 20.14
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may god have mercy upon your soul
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My dream job since I was 12 (I'm now 24) has always been commercial airline pilot.
My only worry is that, now I'm with my dream girl and we're going to be married soon. How long will I be away from my family on a regular basis? Is it hard to make a life like that work?
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>>16757197
If all goes well you'll never be seeing her again
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You'll basically be losing half of every week. That definitely can be tough. Also bear in mind that it's incredibly difficult to climb the ranks these days. Young pilots end up taking jobs in like Indonesia and shit just to get experience and log hours. That's 100% away time for years.
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Anyone have a parent in prison? 2016-02-01 19:38:18 Post No.16757175
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Anyone have a parent in prison?
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My dad has been in federal prison for 3 years now and is facing a maximum of 20 years for money laundering. From his arrest to now I havent really shown any emotion really because I was too busy taking care of my mom since she was and still is a total mess from the incident. So i never looked upset or cried because i tried to be strong for her. Today however it finally hit that I might never see him free again, go fishing, camp out in the woods like we used to. So my question to those of you who have parents locked away for a long time, how did you initially deal with the situation?
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I don't have any experience with this, but your dad isn't "gone", he's just stuck in a shitty place. You can still go visit him, have a relationship, it's just going to be inconvenient and weird. Life is what it is, you know?
Honestly he probably needs you to be an adult about it and visit him/talk with him/keep him updated on outside life. It won't be fishing and camping but it'll be something.
Dunno man but good luck.
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>>16757192
thanks for replying! I talk to him on the phone everyday, but hes locked up on the opposite side of the country because thats where the warrant came out of so i maybe see him one or twice a year.
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First, my girlfriend is really adamant and set on us moving in together soon. We've been in an LDR (see each other on weekends) for about a year and a half. I would like to hear any advice on moving in with a girlfriend.
Second, I've never moved out before, always lived at home and parents did most of the work. Most of my friends have lived on their own, with other friends, roomates, partners, etc. Is moving out for the first time with a girlfriend a bad idea?
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There's no way we can tell you how it's going to work. We can generalise all we want, but there are always exceptions which basically render those generalisations useless. We don't know what'll happen any more than you will
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>>16757166
>parents did most of the work.
don't become lazy. you have to work the house together.
all I can think of...
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theres no real advice for this situation but i just seriously need to rant
i manage a small business and its generally the best job ever, but the owner has one really big quirk thats killing me.
its my job to find a maid to clean his house, but unfortunately he cant stick with any maid. he hates them all for doing something wrong. the recent maid is really good but goes out of her way to do things like re organize his desk and clean under the sink (almost ruining a pipe or something). so im asking him if we can just type up a list of exactly what needs to be cleaned so she knwos her boundaries since he clearly wants to set them.
but he REFUSES To do this. at most he'll list like 3 chores, and then say 'and just clean the house' and then when they DONT do something he gets mad, or when they go do something EXTRA he gets mad, and now he just wnats to fire the lady and find another one.
UGH. im thinking my best option is to let the maid clean again and next time im at his house walk through it with a pen and a paper and insist on a list of all the chores.
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get him a maid who is really sexy.
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>>16757176
i would but he has me schedule the maids for when he is out of town so its a moot point
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Never had insomnia in my life, my oneitis rejected me and now I occasionally cry lying in bed and can't sleep. What do?
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>>16757139
I just decided to try and turn my heartache into hate and self loathing and focus on studying and fitness. Don't think it will help but fuck me if I'm gonna give up and do nothing.
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>>16757139
have the ocassional glass of red whine before bed. make sure you got good exercise during the day (etiher lifting or cardio not 'well i went for a walk'). listen to an audio play, audio book, creepy pasta narration, or sleep hypnosis video before bed. maybe a TV show like a sitcom if its calm enough (i find that 70s show is good to fall asleep to but not scrubs).
once a week feel free to take a melatonin. dont use prescription sleep aids or anything like nyquil
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>>16757258
Muslim so no alcohol
Already am training, nearly everyday. It's emotional pain that keeps me awake, can't get her out of my head.
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I've been depressed for the past 3 years. I'm 18 now and I don't think my depression will ever go away. I have friends. A lot of them. I'm fit. I do well in school. I have everything I need. I should be happy. I'm just not. I can't even remember a time when I was. I feel like my depression is going worse and worse. I can't find motivation to study anymore. I can't find motivation to go out with my friends anymore. I can't find a single reason to get out of the bed in the morning. It's been more than a week since I've even smiled. I've never been this low before. Will things ever get better?
Should I just an hero?
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go and get some depression medication.
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>>16757138
>i literally just became an adult
>but im pretty sure this will last until im 98 years old and croack
no. go talk to parents,. go talk to friends. go talk to therapists. workout your issues.
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Should I quit my job?
>dread going to work
>no heat during the winter, no ac during the summer
>only 3 employees total
>left to work all day by myself on saturdays
>manager always says he'll be in but never shows up
>complains when i make a mistake while helping 12 PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME WHEN HE WASNT EVEN AT WORK
>complains when I make a mistake over something i didnt know
>doesnt pick up the phone when i try to call him and ask how do i not make this mistake
>keep piling on things for me to do that i normally shouldnt
>manager constantly lies to co worker/ other people about how much he works
>leaves early and has me stay in the store by myself
>gives me smart ass remarks when i fuck up instead of directly telling me what happened and how to fix it
Plus i have keys to the store. I have access to everything but the safe. I work more hours than him during a week yet im getting shit pay. (10.50)
Should I quit? Im trying to study for IT certifications so I can eventually get a better job but im physicially exhausted everytime i wake up and arrive home, so my schedule is pretty much eat shit work go home eat shit sleep everyday.
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As of this moment you're free from there
Don't even call in
Feels good man
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>>16757120
>should i quit
>i dont like it
do you have other options? do you have money? do you need the job? these are all more important questions than 'do you like it'?
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Do you work at a corner store or something?
If so, quit.
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Westboro Baptist Church Picketing 2016-02-01 19:22:18 Post No.16757112
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Westboro Baptist Church Picketing
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The Westboro Baptist Church is going to be picketting a bunch of churches in the San Jose, CA area including the church I go to. Any suggestions on how to mess with them and give them a hard time?
Image related (the church that will be picketed)
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>>16757112
they are real life trolls. far more sophisiticated than you internet trolls. how do you deal with a troll? you ignore them. maybe giggle a little bit. but you dont engage. you just laugh, and go to church.
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Matthew 6:5
>When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full.
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My dad is in prison, having a hard time dealing with it. 2016-02-01 19:15:31 Post No.16757093
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My dad is in prison, having a hard time dealing with it.
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My dad is in for money laundering and has been in for 3 years already. However he took his case to trial and they found him guilty and now he is facing up to 20 years. Those that have parents in prison, how do you deal with the situation?
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>>16757093
I'd honestly be proud if it was my father. Of course, it sucks, but I know that he wasn't the slave of the system and that he actually even tried to achieve something out of the system (illegal).
Yeah, he might be in jail, but he had the fucking balls to take the risk.
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>>16757123
Yeah, there were 2 different federal agencies that raided my house, he was into some pretty serious stuff.
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My deadbeat father went to jail for not paying his car insurance for 3 years, I kicked that idiot out of my house.