Hey guys, I have a girl who I like and I think may like me back, but I'm not sure. She tried to buy me cookies the other day, when I said I was hungry, and seems happy when I talk to her, but I'm not sure because she is also a nice person and happy a lot. I kind of want to ask her out but being the kissless, hand holdless virgin I am I have no idea how to go about it. Also, I am afraid she would say no and I have two classes with her, one being a club in which we are actively involved in work for the school and the entire group there is pretty close, and it would be so awkward to have her say no and then go to that group everyday. What do, /adv/? BTW, I am not that ugly, and I am good at speaking and in good shape, but I can't ever talk to girls in a romantic way. Help with that too?
Just ask if she wants to hangout sometime at the movies, zoo, mall, muesums etc.
>>16758547
But I don't think we are even that good of friends yet. I also don't want her to think I'm asking her out and then say no and have that awkwardness for the rest of the year.
Its like this dude. Two possibilities exist. In one path you continue down your kissless virgin faggotry where you're king of chess club, in the other you get some.
You basically have nothing to lose. The sheer potential for awesome completely eclipses any awkwardness you experience in geometry after she politely declines.
>have group of friends at uni
>one of which is my best friend at uni
>also have another friend, we're fairly close
>last week, best friend and 2 other friends (male and female) did MDMA and had a deep group chat about life, they really opened up to each other and bonded (it wasn't planned, it just happened and they rolled with it)
>I was miles away when this happened, at my actual home
>all of them know that I wished I was there at the time to join them, but I physically couldn't
>just got wind that they're planning on doing it again
>they didn't tell me that they're going to do it again
>I asked my best friend about it
>ghosts me on Facebook for the whole day (he was online but just ignored my message, didn't reply)
>message him again, this time calling him out on ignoring me
>he said the male friend wouldn't want me there, even though I like to think I get along with him very well, and was on the verge of calling him my second best friend
>I have done literally nothing to give myself a reputation of being un-trustworthy or gossipy
What do I do now, /adv/? I'm extremely upset that male friend would think that of me, even though I like to think I have been nice to him, and not done anything to upset him.
Now here I am, sitting in my room, horribly upset about possibly losing the close bond of me and my best friend & male friend, and being condemned to shitty generic friendships with the rest of the normies at this uni. Please help.
Bump, please help /adv/
Maybe they think you aren't down to do any drugs and it would be awkward? Tell them you want to join. Ask him if the other guy doesn't want you there because he doesn't like you or if he just thinks you're too straight-edge.
If you aren't down to do MDMA, then maybe start distancing yourself. If they like you but just don't want to do drugs around you, then you'll stay friends. If they don't want to hang out with you just because you don't get high then they aren't your friends.
hey /adv/ i need some help. I had a really good friend commit suicide pretty recently (last friday) and im having trouble coping. he seemed generally happy and enjoyed making others laugh and smile. So idk why he did it. Can you guys suggest some good ways to help cope with the loss of cared ones?
pic related is him. I miss my friend.
“I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.”
>>16758521
that quote is really gay desu.
>>16758521
made me baww. cause its probably true.
>>16758526
that quote is from robin williams, and fuck you
How long should you refuse to talk to a recent ex that's been trying to talk with you?
It's not she'll listen or knows what I already know. But hey, I don't know. As long as you need. Amazing crappost. Going to sage forever.
The rest of your life. Trust me, that ex is making a mistake. He or she will come to realize it in time and be thankful to have gotten off so easily. Whatever s/he has to say to you is actually irrelevant and unnecessary. It simply hasn't dawned on them yet.
why is everyone so angry tonight? She's got stuff at my apartment (nothing important) but I don't want to deal with her yet because I think she's going to try and get back together with me.
I'm 29 years old, have a job. I just moved to NYC. I speak Japanese, I'm inter-racial.
how do I pick up Asian women, where should I go, what should I do?
I don't really drink, and I'm ideally looking for a quiet nerdy GF.
>>16758491
Just hang out in a Pho noodle soup place that has bar seating and slurp noodles really loudly. I hear asian women are really attracted to that.
>>16758491
go to the park and play country songs on a guitar.
idk why but nips are in love with wild west stereotypes even though everything 100 miles away from an ocean is literal trash.
>>16758491
interacial as in white/japanese?
Im in the process of giving space and time to my ex so we can talk about us. Does the no contact rule really work? We had a long and pretty meaningful relationship so wont she be offended if cut her off completely? Also the time I have seen that it takes for the rule is absurd. One month of not even asking how she is seems excessive. A new album from a vand that she loves is coming out next week and i wanted to surprise her. Not give it to her in person just leave her at her house as a surprise.
she dumped you, or you dumped her?
>>16758495
She dumped me, but the way we talked after that and the way she held me kind of tell me she still loves me
>>16758496
it doesn't really matter if she loves you or not. She dumped you. Move on. You'll never get over her if you do stupid shit like text her or buy her shit.
Is there any sure/good way to establish with someone on Tinder that all I really want is to at least get and give head and possibly fuck?
I'm not interested in a relationship right now.
If there was a Tinder ONLY for sex (I think people who use it for dating are kinda silly anyway) I would jump on that like nobody's business
>a mobile app is going to suddenly make women only want sex from me
It's not going to change your chances, but just say "I'm only looking for something casual" or the like, that's pretty clear.
>>16758465
in your initial convo just make sure to casually mention that you're too good for her, and that your honestly a little embarassed to be doing this with her
Meet, fuck, dick pic. She'll get over you within seconds of step three
Say you were in publci at a playground or something, and you notice a guy in his late 20s staring at your kid what would you do? Or would you guys even notice it in the first place? If you noticed it would you probably just ignore said guy?
>anyone looking in the direction of my child is probably a rapist and/or kidnapper
If you have thoughts about other people raping and kidnapping your children, that's just a projection of your OWN subconscious desires to do so. Please check yourself into therapy and stay away from your kids until you get better.
>>16758452
Look but don't touch.
>>16758459
I don't have any kids anon . I'm just asking parents what seems suspicious to them .
I have jury duty tomorrow, I have no Idea what to expect.
You go, sit in a room, maybe get asked some questions to decide who they send home (if you don't care how you look, just be offensive and open about it and you'll get tossed) then you just listen to the case. Most cases are very straightforward and nobody wants to be there either, so you'll usually agree. This may take a couple days but usually not.
It's pretty much just a free ticket to a low-budget TV Law show
>>16758428
They are gonna turn off the lights and make you grab someone's dick. Then they will turn on the lights and make you guess whose dick you grabbed. I had a lot of fun, maybe you will too.
Wait and see.
Just act like a decent human being that loves everyone and they'll send you home brahh
Make this quick please. I took 216 ritilan At 11:50 am. After the high, my fingers on my right had are sorta numb. My lower left stomach hurts a bit and I feel so fucking weird, my senses are multiplied. I hear everything. It's currently 5:57 and my tomach still hurts. Still hyper and lil less numbness. Hospital is a last case scenario since I have pot in my system and my parents would kick me out. I'm 18 5"10 and weighmaybe 155. My heart rate is normal from my perspective. My stomach hurts a good 2-3/10 pain.
>>16758426
hospital isn't gonna ask you about pot in your system. You are the 1% of ritalin users who suffer those side effects. Bring it up with your doctor next time, for now just ride it out. ritalin goes through your system rather fast iirc.
>>16758426
drink orange juice and acidic foods to de alkalize your system to pee out the stimmys faster, get some magnesium in you to help ease the shakes and relieve stress hormones, take an eccedrin (asprin and caffine), and get some B12 complex supplements to get some nutrients (get one with vitamin C, need them nutrients brah), and drink a powerade with some rum to get your electrolytes up.
Maybe take some L-Tyrosine too if you feel shitty tommorow to help with regenerating your neurochemicals. Dont take any MAOIs though or you might die from too much oxidase in your brain.
210 isnt that much, even for a lightwieght. Youre just tweaking. Smoke some weed too and pop a TINY bit of a downer if you feel really shitty. Also go read or do some homework and get adderall because ritalin sucks.
hope u feel better bb.
>>16758517
also youll crash by 12 AM and pass out. Its going to be a wild ride but you wont need to go to the hospital. Just sleep it off and stay in a place with good vibes to ward off the psychosis.
I have collected a bunch of stories like a university lecturer for almost 20 years, and I would like to make a book telling those stories. What do you suggest me to make my book more interesting? Should I aim to put each individual story in a chapter? considering that some of them are not related to each other. What to do?
>>16758418
You first sentence doesn't make any sense. And I'm really not trying to be a dick, but is English your first language?
I don't really understand wtf you're asking.
My brother just a day or 2 ago got dumped by his girlfriend, no idea why but he's been acting a lot more antisocial and disconnect from us, now i admit he's not fond of talking but he's clearly affected by his break-up and i want to keep him positive but i can't talk to him without him wanting me to get away
Anything i can do?
>>16758411
Do something social / fun. Even if he mopes around. A movie, whatev; something you guys would do normally. Wouldn't recommend booze.
So this is pretty damn random but, I have had a heavy few nights of drinking recently, I mean not exceeding twice a week but I am talking a lot of alcohol consumed.
After the last big night 2 nights ago, I had a numb big toe on my left foot that I noticed throughout the following day. This has now consisted and not died down for two days.
I consumed more alcohol tonight and can't decide if the numbness is worse or If I am just paranoid. Anyway, I have googled it obviously and found there are a lot of different causes but wanted to know if anyone here could shed more case specific light on the situation?
Obviously if it continues a day or two more I shall seek actual medical advice but I thought it would be worth asking nonetheless!
Random Wallpaper because don't have anything better
I'll just add, I don't remember sustaining any injuries on the night, nor do I have any pain now
plus another wallpaper
>>16758408
Did you recently get a new pair of shoes?
That happens to me when I wear boots or shoes that are way too tight.
>>16758413
This is going to sound like the obvious cause now but, At Christmas I got new Trainers, Early January I got new casual shoes and for the night it started I borrowed smart shoes off a friend.
My only problem with that solution is that I don't remember them being obviously too tight, they all felt like a nice fit and as for the smart shoes I was sober when first putting them on so I would of noticed if they were too tight
plus another wallpaper
I dont like the generic yo-yo music. anyone else have this music problem all my friends tries to be this pimp gangsta bullshit. I just want some relaxed music like this for example. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYXhpW9b37M
If i share this music will I just be known for a pussy? or is this kinda good to listen too?
>>16758373
>caring what people think
I blast gangster music for mood tbqh right before going to club
>>16758373
nah dude.
Just be passionate about what you're into. Any emotionally mature individual will respect that, even if your tastes differ.
Seriously, once you become an adult people really quickly stop caring about what you do.
Why would you care what anybody else thinks about your tastes in anything?
Hey was thinking of doing some video reviews on some indie games, was hoping I could get a little advice, like what to call the clusterfuck that will be my videos, and what to focus on, i'm trying to do some shitty/good games, kind of sort through the pile.
>>16758355
You have a good voice? I find that to be one of the most important factors in being able to watch/listen to a youtube channel.
>>16758355
wow dude no one has ever thought of that before
>>16758375
This is 100% true
I absolutely hate hearing some 3 year Olds voice squeezing curse words on minecraft, some gay teenagers, or even worse braces.
If you sound like a bitch. Just dont. Learn to improve your voice before doing anything as stupid as this anyway.