What's up?
I have a question about background checks for actual full time careers (I just got my undergrad)
They say everything you've ever searched for on the internet is accessible and can't be truly erased. Well I've seen a lot of fucked up illegal shit on 4chan alone, and the fact that I've seen it means it's been on the ip at my house. I've never done anything seriously illegal (i mean I've stolen some gum or whatever, downloaded some songs) and would never hurt a fly, but I have been pretty seriously depressed before, and I ended up seeing a shrink for a while and while everything's ok now, I remember having some very dark conversations on facebook and random other places online, with random people over that time. All of that content was deleted on my end and the computer I used back then is broken now anyway. But..
Basically, can your internet history ever come up in a background check? Can it hurt you?
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>>16758138
>Basically, can your internet history ever come up in a background check?
No. Background check is primarily criminal. No one cares about your google searches.
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>>16758174
This, unless you're applying for a position with the NSA or something.
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>>16758184
No I hate the federal government. I'm looking to probably become a public accountant. My degree was accounting.
I mean, I don't know this shit. It feels good to be laughed at
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>spending time with bf in his room
>we decide to have sex for the first time
>I'm a virgin
>he tries giving me a blowjob
>can't stay hard
>can tell he has amazing technique, but I just can't...get into it, for some reason
>we try a bunch of other things
>love him to pieces
>think he's hot
>but sex doesn't work
I was devastated. I'd been looking forward to this for such a long time, and now...now I feel like I hurt him. Like I made him feel inadequate. I don't know why I couldn't get off. Some things people have suggested may be that I had masturbated the night before, and so reduced sensitivity and made it hard to get aroused. I also heard that I might have been too nervous, so I couldn't get into it. What do you think /adv/?
And before anyone asks, I tried /lgbt/, they weren't much help.
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>I also heard that I might have been too nervous, so I couldn't get into it
Psychological factor is huge. A lot of people struggle with maintaining erections when they're so goddamn anxious you can't even see straight.
The more you worry about it sometimes the worse it can get. The key is to really try to relax and enjoy yourself. I'm assuming you're pretty young, and I'm no doctor but if you don't have any heart or circulatory issues your ED is most definitely psychologically based.
Be honest with him about it, talk about it, let him know where you stand in the situation. If he really is understanding and loves you back he will work with you. Keep trying, relax, the more comfortable you get with him the easier it'll get. Rock on gayboi.
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More foreplay. Lots of touching and licking. Tell each other what you like and why you like it, try saying what you'll do next. Don't always do what you say, pixie trickster stuff makes it even more fun. This works 90% of the time.
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>>16758151
Given that I was quite nervous the entire time, it's certainly possible. When I masturbate, I have no trouble getting hard and ejaculating.
>>16758157
Pretty much all we did was cuddling and foreplay. So I don't think that was it. We did plenty of kinky shit, and I was hard a rock when we were laying on the bed. As soon as he started sucking my dick though, I just...couldn''t stay hard.
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Where can I get an online job? I don't want to live off that money but some extra money would be nice, I'm a 18 year old student.
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>>16758123
are you female?
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>>16758128
No, but I look somewhat femenine... can I earn enough money as a camwhore trap?
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Over and over again, I am getting low marks on written exams due to my shitty handwriting. When I write quickly, even I have trouble reading it. How can I improve my handwriting anons?
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Deliberately practice writing neatly until you can do it faster
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>>16758115
Same senpai. I try slowing it down a bit but during exams you automatically speed up. I've seen some people turn the pages 20 to 45 degrees to make up for it.
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>>16758115
By writing a lot.
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I have small white bumps along the glans of my penis that have popped up recently. Previous to that I had a slight "itch" around my glans that wasn't painful but slightly arousing. I'm scared its an STD. I'm sexually active with my girlfriend but last year I had two encounters with one-time hookups without protection. They were kinda slutty. I know I'm stupid and potentially suffering from those bad decisions. They aren't painful and are slightly numerous. Will dump this hot bitch for every response.
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bamp
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>>16758110
>not seeing a doctor
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>>16758110
go to a doctor/clinic you std-ridden faggot
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Post some motivational stuff. Or why you think it's all bullshit, whatever.
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>>16758102
And then he went insane. No one? Nothing?
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After i've gotten some money i wanna dissappear. Norway isn't something for me. I feel unwanted, not really fitting here. all honesty i just wanna start a new life. Shit jobb, school is shit havent been there for weeks. Parents think i am suicidal. I just wanna start a new life.
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>>16758092
Make the decision, do your preparation and go face the world.
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What advice would you give to someone who is really paranoid and always over thinking everything?
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>>16758082
Youre gonna die anyway
just chill
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The power of now by Eckhart tolle is a great book to help you separate over thinking from necessary thinking
It helps you clear your head and rationalise and helps you understand why you read so much into everything.
I thought it sounded lame and useless cause stuff like that never worked for me but this book really did, a year later and I've let go of so many things I'd thought myself into a corner with and haven't created any more problems due to overthinking and over analysing things/people.
Maybe give it a try. If you ever want the thinking to shut up a good question to ask yourself is "what will my next thought be?" you may feel stumped for some moments but at least you'll get a break from your head.
Also, next time you feel you are overthinking something you should allow the thoughts, try to separate your emotions from the situation and simply don't let the original thoughts escalate, don't feed anything negative etc
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D R U G S.
Pharmaceutical or otherwise.
Help me out, /adv/:
So I'm a postgrad and today I got a new seminar tutor for one module I'm taking. She's this super cute, mid/late 20-ish blonde prof, with a sunny disposition and a good sense of humour. During my first class, she asked me a question and I blushed like a fucking tomato, so I guessed she's kinda aware I've got a thing for her. The thing is, I saw that she's wearing an engagement ring. Anyways, last couple of seminars, the ring is gone. Also, during one of the classes, my phone started vibrating and she chuckled and smiled at me as I struggled to turn it off. Today, the seminar broke off and everyone parted ways, I was the first to leave the room as I had to give back a chair I'd taken from downstairs. She followed me down the stairs to go off to her office. I looked back, and she stared at me with a kind of inquisitive gaze, like as if she was waiting for me to do something. Like the beta faggot that I was, I didn't, so that's that. Normally she hangs about class talking to my colleagues.
tldr; I've got a thing for my seminar tutor and I want to know if these tell-tale signs I mentioned are worth considering, or just the product of my imagination.
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Imagination. Tread lightly before you're booted from your program for harassment.
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>>16758061
Yeah, I figured that, even if I were right, the whole teacher-student thing is a no-go
Hey retailfags
Who's better to work for, Costco or Nordstrom?
I don't care about benefits so much as take home pay.
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>>16758051
I'm not sure about Nordstrom, but Costco is famous among retail circles for both its pay and its benefits.
Is it stupid to throw all my chips on producing music? I mean I've been doing it since I was 9 years old and I don't really want to be a mega star like diplo or skrillex my only goal is to just make enough money off it to own a 1 story house in long beach or ft lauderdale with a cool car and maybe a motorcycle or something. In a field where people make millions I should be able to make the lower echelon of 5 figures. Right?
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>>16758025
What genre?
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>>16758034
Trap beats like lex Luger 808 mafia sonny digital
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>>16758025
Bet big on yourself!!!
The only person who will at this stage is you. Throw all your chips in, you know why? Because if you don't go all in, the second shit gets tough, you will just retreat. You need to make it so you CAN'T retreat.
Fuck all these weak ass goals you have. You need to be the example. You need to be the next skrillex, you need to be a success. Who wants maybe a motorcycle? How about you want 5 motorcycles and a jet, how about 3 jets?
Make your goals definite. Make your goals motivate you to want to wake up and put in the work. Make your goals so outrageous you have to constantly think about "HOW THE FUCK AM I going to possibly do this" When you have that mindset, ideas and creativity come easier to you. Goodluck
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Hey guys I need some help
I need to make a little bit of money, just enough to buy a laptop. Problem is I don't really have many skills beyond really amateurish 3d modeling pic related
I kind of need a laptop so j can practice modeling on the go and not be restricted to only doing it at home
How are some ways I can make that money. Keep in mind I'm not really employable, I don't have any starting money and the only thing I own is my apartment.
I have been asking around and I didn't get any help, keep in mind I'm not asking how to make internet dollars, I'm OK with moving my ass
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Wow is this place read or what? What happened?
But really I could use the help
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Looking like gives me nothing but I know there are to s of people who make some extra cash someway
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I just have a job that gives me money. That mixed with saving smartly, I can generally budget for random wants I have. I'd always suggest this first.
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Are pickup advice books worth it or will they prevent from being myself and get laid?
If there's any good one I wouldn't mind to hear the name, and a download link
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97% girl.
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>>16758003
But I'm a man?
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>>16758005
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9HSj-2shbqY
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How do I absolutely make sure that tomorrow is the day I give up coffee, junk food, and start working hard?
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>>16757982
>tomorrow
Not by saying you'll start tomorrow. Why aren't you starting right now?
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>>16757982
by doing it.
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Hi. I need advice when it comes to my husband & our sex life? I have a strange topic to ask about so please reply if you're very experienced & open minded.
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>>16757949
What the deal is?
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>>16757949
Are you going to ask, or what?
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>>16757949
e-mail me. [email protected]